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Richard Dever Obituary

Deputy Sheriff Suffolk County House of Corrections, of Dorchester, suddenly March 19th, 2005. Beloved son of William P. and Kathleen T. (Healy) Dever. Loving brother of Timothy P. & his wife Randi, Brendan P. and Sheila M. Dever, all of Dorchester. Dear uncle of Elizabeth. Also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Visiting hours in the John J. O'Connor & Son Funeral Home, 740 Adams St., (near Gallivan Blvd.), DORCHESTER on Monday, 7-9 PM and Tuesday, 2-4 & 7-9 PM. Funeral Mass Wednesday morning in St. Brendan's Church at 10 o'clock. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited. Interment Cedar Grove Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Richard's memory to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute/Jimmy Fund, 10 Brookline Place West, Flr 6, Brookline, MA 02445-9924. Graduate of Don Bosco High School, class of '87, and UMASS Amherst, class of '91. For directions & messages of condolence, www.oconnorandson.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 21 to Mar. 22, 2005.

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Umass Crew

March 17, 2025

Ricky D 20 years this week. I can´t believe all this time has gone by. We talk and share stories about you frequently always honoring your legacy. Happy St Pats From your Umass crew

Mom

March 17, 2025

Ma

March 16, 2025

Rick, going on 20 years now..would you be going gray now? Would you be married? Would you have kids? Would you still be at South Bay? Time does not make your memories fade if anything I think of you more and more . I love you Rick...missing you soo very much! Love, Ma.

Ma

March 16, 2025

Danielle Petrella

March 16, 2025

Never forgotten, Ricky. You were a beautiful person.

Mom

October 17, 2024

Missing you Ricky everyday. Your name still comes up in conversation all the time. You will never ever be forgotten. Love you Rick...watch over us..

rachael lovendale

October 16, 2024

Ricky nevaaaa Dever !!!! miss you always !!

Umass

February 3, 2024

Ricky D miss ya just talked about you. Your memories continue!!!

Ma

March 15, 2023

Ricky, 18 years now...each morning when I wake up I kiss your picture....each night when I go to bed I kiss you goodnight. You will never ever leave my thoughts each and every day. I know everything would´ve been sooo different if you were still here with us. I miss you more than you´ll ever know..love you, Ma

Danielle Petrella

March 15, 2022

Sending healing prayers to the Dever family.

Mom

March 19, 2021

Rick..another year without you..16 years. Elizabeth was one when you passed.. she will be a Senior next year. God.. just to see you one more time..maybe that day will come..we’ll see. Love you and Miss You so very much..Ma

Mom

March 19, 2021

Rick..another year without you..16 years. Elizabeth was one when you passed.. she will be a Senior next year. God.. just to see you one more time..maybe that day will come..we’ll see. Love you and Miss You so very much..Ma

March 19, 2021

Rick..another year without you..16 years. Elizabeth was one when you passed.. she will be a Senior next year. God.. just to see you one more time..maybe that day will come..we’ll see. Love you and Miss You so very much..Ma

March 19, 2020

Ricky, cannot believe it has been 15 years...there has not been one day that I don't think of you. I kiss your picture every night and every morning....We all miss you so very much. Your nieces and nephews are all growing so fast now. They will all be successful in whatever path they choose to take. Went to the cemetery yesterday with Evan then to the Memorial. So many people stop and actually read about you and Mark. Evan read most of it . He's a big 1st grader now. Hope you're still smiling and making more friends everyday...Love you! ❤❤❤ Ma

John

March 18, 2020

Always in our thoughts and always in our prayers.

Nancy Devin

March 15, 2020

Ricky You are all around your family and friends. The stories continue after all these years.. I know you are with Arthur and so many of loved ones who have passed.. Love and miss you so much ❤

March 19, 2019

Another year, Ricky, without you. We all do the best we can...but you will always be in our hearts. Love you and miss you so so much.

John

March 19, 2019

Always in my thoughts and prayers. Miss you brother.

March 17, 2019

Lá fhéile Pádraig sona dhuit!

Kathleen Dever

December 27, 2018

We have missed 14 Christmases without you, Rick...and every one of them I think of what it would be like to have you there with us....and I smile. Miss you more than you know..love you, Ma

July 21, 2018

Ricky, you are on my mind so much these days. To see the family and friends of another fallen officer in so much pain. I wish I could let them know time does heal, life does go on..but with a void nothing can replace. You are in the thoughts of so many of your friends and family..I think it's easy to say your spirit will always go on and on. Love you and miss you more and more. Mom

March 19, 2018

13 years, Ricky...it still seems like yesterday. Do you see what we are all doing? Do you see your nieces and nephews and how they are all growing so fast and becoming beautiful people....and all so smart. You would enjoy them all so much if only......
Love you and miss you so much.
Ma and Dad

John

March 18, 2018

Thinking of you, brother.

UMass

March 17, 2018

Thinking of you Big Rick this weekend.

December 25, 2017

Hi, Rick....just wanted you to know that you were missed this Christmas.....sometimes I think more now than ever. Just wish you're nieces and nephews had a chance to know their Uncle Rick. It would've been so much fun watching you with them. Love you and miss you, Ma & Dad

John A

December 24, 2017

Thinking of you Ricky. Merry Christmas.

Umass

December 24, 2017

Thinking RD this Xmas weekend.

April 16, 2017

Happy Easter, Ricky!

February 21, 2017

Hey Ricky,
Great night at Florian hall for Brendan's wedding. Good to see your Mom and Dad and family.
New chapter for Brendan. He seems at ease and happy. Everybody still thinks of you.
John Lovett

August 19, 2016

Hi Rick.....just want you to know that I still think of you all the time. You will always be in my thoughts and in my heart. Still miss you so much.
Love you, Mom

March 22, 2016

Ricky, I thought your guestbook had come to an end. So happy it hasn't. So, I will be sending you notes here and there. Love you and miss you. Mom

Fletch

March 21, 2016

Missing you Ricky

March 19, 2015

So sorry, Ricky...thought I was putting a message to you on legacy.com....ended up it was the Boston Herald, not the Globe. Just wanted to say it's still not easy day to day without you. Dad and I muss you more and more as time goes by...
Love you and miss you, Ma & Dad

Maureen Ahern kiely

March 19, 2015

Miss you Rick! Guess you have a bigger job now whatching over us

E&D

March 19, 2015

hard to believe you have been gone ten years ,probably because not much time goes by without us thinking of you or someone telling a story about you

Lee

January 1, 2015

Missing your smile and your contagious laugh. Would love to give you a New Year hug Ricky! ?? Grateful for all the fun memories .

sheila

January 1, 2015

Happy New Year, Ricky!!
Love,
Sheila

December 31, 2014

Ricky, Happy New Year! 2015...it will be 10 years in March since we lost you and nothing has been the same.

Love you and miss you,
Ma & Dad

December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas, Rick. Missing you more as time goes by.

Love you, Ma & Dad

December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas, Rick! Miss you and love you.

Ma & Dad

November 27, 2014

Happy Thanksgiving, Rick! This day seems more difficult than others, because there were so many stories told by you and your brothers about your escapades at Ronan Park as we sat around the table.

Miss you and love you so much,
Ma & Dad

September 30, 2014

Wonderful day, Rick, for the golf tournament! 560 golfers and we made $25,000 on raffles. So many kids will benefit by this. I miss you more as time goes by. This year Elizabeth & Olivia helped out. Dad is doing okay...he wanted to make sure I posted this for you. Love you! Ma & Dad

May 16, 2014

Happy birthday Rick

May 14, 2014

Happy 45th Birthday, Rick!! Miss you and love you so much.

Ma and Dad

April 22, 2014

Ricky was the MAN

March 24, 2014

Ricky, your anniversary Mass was well attended by family and friends. Special friend Rosemary O'Brien was lecture at Mass and extra special this year for your new nephew, Evan , was there... Love ya, Nancy, Arthur

Donald

March 20, 2014

Can't believe it's been 9 years, still tell Ricky stories.

Lisa Powers

March 20, 2014

Never forgotten and always remembered with a smile

March 19, 2014

All my memories of u are happy ones I smiled 2 day when I thought of u
Matt C.

Crosby

March 19, 2014

Miss talking to you. Most of all I was so blessed to have your friendship you are loved by so many ..always and forever in my thoughts and prayers .

John A

March 19, 2014

You and your family are always in my thoughts. God bless

March 19, 2014

Rick miss you , you were one of a kind

March 19, 2014

Rick....miss you alot , you were one of a kind

E&D

March 19, 2014

Ricky, cannot believe it is 9 years today. Found out time does not heal our hearts any easier from missing you. There is so much going on in the family that you have missed being part of. I know you are with us in spirit though.
You are forever loved and forever missed.
Love, Ma & Dad

Whit

January 19, 2014

Thought of you today.... they don't have steak egg and chz sandwiches anymore at dunkin donuts? You would be up in arms about that! Miss you xoxo

Tim N

January 2, 2014

Happy new year Rick always in my prayers

January 1, 2014

Happy New Year, Rick!

Love you, Ma & Dad

Nancy & Arthur

December 26, 2013

Ricky, I know you are all around EVERYONE especially at Christmas but your Mom needs a little sign!!! Love ya Rick....

December 25, 2013

Seem to miss you more and more, Ricky, as the years go by.
Merry Christmas from Ma and Dad

November 28, 2013

Another Thanksgiving without you, Rick. We miss you so much...it's just not the same without you. Ronan Bowl coming up Saturday...another day that you were at your best! Love you forever...Ma & Dad

Jay Libby

August 18, 2013

July 4, 2013

Ricky, Sheila & Bryan have a new baby boy, his name is Evan William. He came a little early, but he will be fine, (thank you, Rick!) Wish you were here to hold him.

Sean

May 15, 2013

Happr birthday Ricky! Miss you brother!

May 14, 2013

Happy Birthday Ricky-

Bryan

John

May 14, 2013

Happy birthday Rick. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

May 14, 2013

Happy Birthday, Rick. Wish you were to celebrate it with us.
Love you & Miss you,
Ma & Dad

May 14, 2013

Happy Birthday, Ricky. Wish you were here to celebrate it with us. Love you and Miss you,
Ma & Dad

Dino Donovan

May 13, 2013

a great kid and Son from great good parents

sarah welch

March 19, 2013

Even though you are gone you are never far away. Love, sarah

March 19, 2013

Can't believe another year has gone by and the impact you still have on so many. We miss you very much! Love, Sheila

March 19, 2013

Ricky, Eight years ago today will always be remembered by so many family and friends with trememdous loss, but also with much to be remembered.

Love,
Nancy, Arthur

March 19, 2013

thoughts are with the Dever family today.

Malissa Donahue

March 19, 2013

Miss you everyday Ricky ?

Sean Roberts

March 19, 2013

Miss you Ricky - Never forgotten my friend - you influenced more people than you'll ever know.

RIP Brother

Fletch

March 19, 2013

Miss you and always thinking about you Ricky

John

March 19, 2013

Thinking of you and all of your famy today. Miss you and god bless

March 18, 2013

Ricky, it is close to the19th and we miss you so much every single day. As your nieces & nephews get older, you would be so proud of all their achievements. And now, Sheila & Bryan are expecting a baby boy...I try to believe that you are watching from above!
Miss you so, so much.
Love you, Ma & Dad

Maureen Ahern Kiely

March 17, 2013

St Paddys Day will always have a void without you!

In our thoughts today and everyday!

Lee

March 17, 2013

Was clearing out some things and found some great photos from St. Patty's Day. Grateful for all the fun and laughter you brought to every outing. :) Miss you very much.

Dave Smith

March 17, 2013

Happy St Pats pal.

Smith

Norris Family

March 16, 2013

Thinking of you this weekend. Happy St Pats

January 4, 2013

Ricky, Another year has gone by, but your presence and memories will never go....Love and Miss ya....Nancy, Arthur

Ken Healy

January 1, 2013

Happy New Year Rick.

December 31, 2012

Happy New Year, Rick. Love you & miss you so much.
Love, Ma & Dad

December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas, Ricky. Miss you so much.
Love Ma & Dad

December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas, Ricky. Wish you were here.

UMass RFC party - Spring 1991

Danielle Petrella

November 8, 2012

Dear Dever Family,
I just spent the afternoon reading all the entries in the guest book -- made me want to reach out again and tell you that in having Ricky as a part of my UMass memories, it's easy to remember why so many people's lives were touched by him. Hoping that your family is well and continues to find comfort in his wonderful legacy.
Peace.

Tricia Ciccio

September 2, 2012

Spent the weekend with Timmy, Randy your nieces and nephews and Brendan, wow I can see you in your brothers, in your neices and nephews, you are so much a part of them your laugher, mannerisms, sense of humor, sense of style (Brendan that was for you:)) I know you were with us this weekend Ricky and I loved every minute of it :)

Lee Morin

July 29, 2012

Was in Newport last weekend and could not help but think about how much fun we had there so many summers. The ABC club is still the same and ran into Gary at Dockside. He was mentioning the last time he saw me was when I was down with you. I think I had a permanent smile that summer. :) It was hard to go back... Wishing to give you one more hug.

Think of you often ( esp. when I play the Sundays) ~ miss you very much! XO


Leelee

Smitty

July 2, 2012

Rick, we were telling Ricky D stories today. Miss ya!!!

June 16, 2012

Ricky, I know you are aware of what a great day the Golf tournament was. There are still new Ricky stories being told...What a great gift you have for your Dad on this Father's Day...

May 14, 2012

Ricky, Dad & I were discussing today...what would you be doing now?...Dad said you would be retired and working at the docks like you had planned. I wonder would you be married with children by now????? We still miss you and love you so much, Ricky. Watch over us all....you are our angel. Happy Birthday!

John

May 14, 2012

Happy birthday Ricky. We all miss you.

Tim & Rick at Castle Island - l971

March 22, 2012

Bill Carroll

March 19, 2012

God bless you Ricky, I think of you often, you were a true hero for us all.

March 19, 2012

Hey Ricky, Looking at your pictures and I can hear that infectious goofy laugh that made everybody laugh. God bless you and your family,
- fruity

John

March 19, 2012

Thinking of you and your family today. We all miss you

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