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Lisa Heyman Obituary

HEYMAN--Lisa, age 47. Oscar Heyman & Brothers mourns the passing of our dear Lisa Heyman on February 25. Lisa will always be remembered as the devoted mother of Roxanne and Ruby, the cherished wife of Larry Gauchman, the beloved daughter of Barbara and Marvin, and the loving sister of Jonathan, Ben, and Ruth. We will always remember Lisa's warmth, humor, charm, and especially her devotion to family. Service at King David Cemetery, 101 Mill Street, Putnam Valley, NY, 11am, Wednesday, February 27. Donations to The Amyloidosis Foundation, 7151 North Main Street, Suite 208, Clarkston, Michigan, 48346. Shiva at the home of her husband, Larry, after the service until 7pm, Thursday 3-8pm, Saturday 6-8 pm, and on Sunday, at the home of her mother, Barbara, 3-8pm.

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Published by New York Times from Feb. 27 to Feb. 28, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Lisa Heyman

21 Entries

Miriam Wagenberg Flatow

March 8, 2008

It seems like yesterday that I sat with Lisa on the steps of bunk 3 at Camp Modin. Her warmth, her quick mind and her contagious smile will remain with me always. I am deeply saddened by her loss. I weep for her family.

Ken Rubman

March 8, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Pam Parker

March 3, 2008

I met Lisa many years ago at La Leche and she was part of a wonderful support system that encouraged me to parent from the heart. I still remember the tasty bean & broccoli burritos she brought for my family when I had my second child (who is now almost 16!). I was fortunate enough to run into Lisa in Mt. Kisco about 6 month ago. After a moment, we recognized one another and started into a lively talk as if no time had passed. I will remember her energy, her smile, and her ability to focus on what is truly important. My heart goes out to her family. - Pam Parker

Stephen Axinn

March 2, 2008

Temple Israel of Putnam Valley mourns the tragic death of our beloved member Lisa Heyman and extends its profound sympathy to her husband Larry, her daughters Roxanne and Ruby and her entire family. She will be missed in so many ways because she embodied the "can do" attitude that inspired all of us to tackle the important but tough challenges that our Temple faced and overcome them. We pray that Lisa's memory will be a blessing to all those who loved her.

Gina Riley-Daly

March 1, 2008

Thank you for sharing your mother, your wife, your friend with us...
Lisa's spirit lives on in all of us...
I will never, ever forget her and the impact she has had on my life...
With deepest condolences...

joanie schwarz

March 1, 2008

I knew Lisa from Camp Modin and had the gift of seeing her last summer at a small reunion at Mindy's home in NJ. I admired Lisa for the way she spoke about her life and the love she had for her family. Lisa's beautiful Neshama will live on with our memories of her-
My heart aches for Larry, his children, Marvin, Barbara, Jon, Ben and Ruthie.
love, joanie schwarz rosenthal

Sue Cohen Butler

February 29, 2008

Lisa and I grew close as teens at Camp Modin and remained friends even after the Modin years. She was at my wedding and I at hers and I have the fondest memories of our times together. In recent years we had not spoken as often but she always has remained in my heart. She was a terrific woman, loving and caring. The last time we spoke she was gushing about her family and you could hear the love!! My deepest condolences go to Larry and her children, Marvin, Barbara, Jon, Ben and Ruthie. I am so saddened by this loss!

Martin Orenstein

February 29, 2008

I knew Lisa from my years at Modin.
I will always remmember her for her
warm smile, humor and love of her family and friends. My deepest sympathy to Larry and all of the Heyman family.

Mark Packer

February 29, 2008

I have had the privilege of knowing the Heyman family since the 1960's through Camp Modin. For a short time in the late 70's I became close to Lisa as a very young woman. Jon has been one of my closest friends since the late 1970's and we still return each fall to Maine and Camp Modin - a place that will always be a significant part of our lives. I recently said to Jon that what I will remember most fondly about Lisa from those days is that she had a big heart and a good heart. From all that I have read and heard from others, this remained true throughout her life- her illness notwithstanding. I remember a woman who loved to laugh, was generous of spirit, kind, impish, and truly loving.

My thoughts and prayers go out to Larry, Roxy, Fire, and the entire Heyman family. May you find solace in the love of so many friends and family in this time of bereavement.

Love, Mark Packer

Carolyn Morganstern

February 29, 2008

Having already signed the guest book, I forgot to offer my very sincere condolences to Larry and family. Carolyn Mogul-Morganstern

Carolyn Mogul-Morganstern

February 29, 2008

As an old, friend of Lisa's from Modin, I am so saddened by her passing. I am grateful that we were together last summer for a small reunion in NJ and had the opportunity to share old memories and magical times together. My condolences to Marvin, Barbara, Jon, Ben and Ruthie. All my love, Carolyn Mogul Morganstern

Joe Raiola

February 29, 2008

I met Larry and Lisa many years ago at Alec Rubin's Center for Feelings and Creativity, which was a big part of our lives. Lisa was naturally warm and exhuberant, the kind of person who it just felt good to be in the presence of. As I came into my own as a workshop leader and performer, she was tremendously supportive. She made special efforts to attend my performances and gave generous donations to help make them a reality. We had a long talk just after New Year's Day and made plans to get together -- but something came up and I had to cancel them at the last minute. What I remember about that talk was how upbeat and hopeful Lisa was in the midst of a very difficult time. Her focus was on healing and spending as much time as possible with her family. It was impossible not to admire her and root for her. I was so sad to hear of her passing and my loving thoughts go out to everyone whose lives she touched so vibrantly, especially Larry and the girls. The depth of the ache we feel is reflective of how deeply Lisa imapcted us and the love she gave -- and inspired. That is her gift to us, and it will endure.

Sol & Flo Lirtzman

February 28, 2008

Just having met Lisa was a privelege. She was a treasured member of our Temple. May Larry, Roxy & Ruby take comfort in knowing that Lisa will be remembered in love.

Laurie Margolis

February 28, 2008

I wish all children in the world could be loved, as Lisa loved her daughters. I can't think of Lisa without hearing her beautiful laugh,she truly had a zest for life.I am so grateful to have known her.

Aimee Vanduyne

February 28, 2008

I met Lisa at the Unschoolers conference in Peabody, MA, in 2004. My daughter met Roxy and our families came together. I was new to homeschooling, and newer to unschooling, and Lisa and her family were the perfect people to meet! We have only had contact a few times since then, but I have used Lisa’s life as a guide to my unschooling. Her light was evident in the beauty of her children, and my heart is breaking for them now.

Marji Zintz

February 27, 2008

One could not exaggerate about Lisa's light. She was all that is good about humanity: inspiring, encouraging, creative, loving, generous, beautiful, ethical, kind, courageous, intelligent, spiritual, open-minded, humorous, honest, honorable. I'm sure I'm missing something, and I'm sure there is no one who knew her who could successfully challenge me about this assessment.

What will we do without her? My husband said today that part of Lisa's legacy was to show us *how* it's done. She left a trail for other folks to follow. When I hear myself say these things, I feel a little silly, as though I've got to be overstating things a little. Surely there couldn't have been someone who was *that* great. Surely I must be mistaken. But, there are other eyewitnesses, aren't there? Lisa simply was as good as they come. Yet, I have an email from her that she signed this way:

"Ever evolving,
Lisa"

Lisa's life is a life worthy of great celebration. We will miss her dearly, and as she moves on she can take comfort in the wonderful community she created for her family and friends, so we can go on, too.

Lisa Freedman

February 27, 2008

It was a lifetime ago and just yesterday that we laughed and loved and played at Camp Modin. I remember Lisa (and Benjy and Ruthie and Jon) as warm, nonjudgemental, upbeat individuals. My heart goes out to you and to your parents and to Lisa's husband and children. Unfortunately, I know what it means to lose a sibling. I am so sorry for your loss. ". . .whether in fair or in dark stormy weather Camp Modin will keep us together. . ."

Stephanie and Jon Reckler

February 27, 2008

What a tremendous loss for Larry to lose his beloved wife, for Roxy and Ruby to lose their adored mother and Marvin and Barbara to lose their beautiful daughter. We send all of you our most sincere condolences and hope that your wonderful memories will comfort you. With love,
Stephanie and Jon

carol kaminsky

February 27, 2008

I am still reeling from the void that she's left for you, Barb, and all the family. She will remain for everyone a stong and sparkling presence. With deepest condolences. All my love, Cary

Patrick Rardin

February 27, 2008

Lisa was a true inspiration. She loved and doted on her family so much. As her neighbors, we witnessed her brilliant spirit daily. Lisa will always be remembered in Lake Peekskill as someone who not only tried to make a difference but succeeded. May her memory shine on as we remember her and her life. Our hearts and love go out to Larry, Roxanne, Ruby and all of Lisa’s dear family and friends.

- Patrick and Lynn

Jeffrey Acker

February 27, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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