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WALLINGFORD - Captain Robert Hart Weeks, 78, U.S. Navy (Retired) of Wallingford, passed away on Sunday morning, October 5, 2008, at the Rutland Regional Medical Center.

Bob was born April 1, 1930, in the village of Bay Shore, Long Island, New York, the son of Walter W. Weeks and Laura Alberta (Hart) Weeks. As a 1951 graduate of Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York, with a degree in mechanical engineering, he was commissioned an ensign in the United States Navy. His 23 years in the Navy saw wide-ranging service on submarines and destroyers.

As a Naval officer, he initially served on the Sixth Fleet destroyer USS R H McCard (DD-822) in the Mediterranean Theater. After two years in destroyers, he reported to the Navy's Submarine School in New London, Conn., graduating in 1954. He then served on two diesel submarines and became director of the engineering department at the Submarine School. Following that tour, he was selected by Admiral Rickover to attend the Navy's Nuclear Power School. After graduation from this course, he served on two nuclear attack submarines, USS Skipjack (SSN-585) and USS Seadragon (SSN-584), and a nuclear fleet ballistic missile submarine, USS Thomas Edison (SSBN-610).

In 1966, Bob commissioned and took command of the USS Henry L. Stimson (SSBN 655), a nuclear fleet ballistic missile submarine. At the time, he was the youngest officer ever to command a ballistic missile submarine. He spent five years commanding the Stimson, conducting Cold War strategic deterrent patrols in the Atlantic Ocean and Mediterranean Sea. These patrols operated out of Rota, Spain, and the Holy Loch in Scotland. During his sea-going naval career, Bob was typically on a three-month patrol cycle followed by three months of shore-based training.

In 1971, Bob was selected to be the strategic warfare officer on the staff of the commander-in-chief of U.S. Navy forces in Europe under NATO. He was the principal officer responsible for all strategic nuclear forces in the European Theater. During these years, Bob and his wife, Geraldine "Gerry," who wed on June 8, 1952, moved their growing family through various duty stations including Newport, R.I., Portsmouth, N.H., Honolulu, Hawaii, New London, Conn., Virginia Beach, Va., Windsor, Conn., Little Creek, Va., and Stuttgart, Germany. While stationed in Europe, he earned his MBA from the University of Utah.

Ultimately attaining the rank of captain, Bob's Navy commendations include the Meritorious Service Medal, Meritorious Unit Commendation Medal, Navy Expeditionary Medal (awarded twice), Navy Service Medal, National Defense Service Medal (awarded twice), the At-Sea Command insignia and the Fleet Ballistic Missile Deterrent Patrol insignia.

After retiring from the Navy in 1975, Bob moved his family to Vermont. Here he served as the executive assistant to the president of Vermont Yankee. Before retiring from business, he was president of The Delta Group, a firm that he established to furnish management consulting and executive recruiting services to the nation's electric utilities.

Bob served in the Vermont legislature from 1995 to 1997 where he was a member and clerk of the House Transportation Committee. He served a second term in the House from 2000 to 2002 as a member of the Institutions Committee. Most recently, Bob had served as a justice of the peace for the town of Wallingford. He was a director of the Wallingford Civic Association, chairman of the Rutland Regional Chamber of Commerce's Transportation Committee, a member of the Rutland Regional Transportation Council and a member of the Route 4 Bypass Advisory Committee. Bob was a founding director of the New England Dollars for Scholars program, establishing a chapter at Mill River Union High School. He also served on Vermont Governor Richard Snelling's Cost Control Council in 1977.

Bob is survived by his wife, Gerry, who resides in Wallingford, Vt. They have five children: Mark and his wife Martine Lambert currently of Brussels, Belgium; Richard and his wife Laura currently of Brewster, Massachusetts; Carol and her husband Dan Murphy currently of Pawcatuck, Connecticut; Dean and his wife Patricia currently of Montgomery, New Jersey; and David and his wife Sandra currently of Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates; as well as seven grandchildren, Daniel, Ryan, Emmett, Jake, Sarah, Catherine and Nicolas.

Friends may call on Friday evening from 6-8 p.m. at the Wallingford-Aldous Funeral Home.

Funeral services will be held 2 p.m. Saturday, October 11, 2008, at the Wallingford Congregational Church. Burial with military honors will follow in the Green Hill Cemetery.

Send private condolences through www.aldousfuneralhome.com.

Memorial contributions may be made on Bob's behalf to Scholarship America (Dollars for Scholars), 51 Main St., Stoneham, MA 02180 (www.scholarshipamerica.org); or the Gilbert Hart Library, 14 South Main St., Wallingford, VT 05773-0069.

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Published by Rutland Herald from Oct. 7 to Oct. 8, 2008.

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Linda Schiavone

February 23, 2023

Gerri thinking of you now, both you and Bob were good friends. Didn't realize that Bob had passed 2008. Maybe you knew that George passed August 10 2020. Thinking of you wish we could visit..... Linda Schiavone

Capt. Thomas E. Henry U.S.N.R. (Ret)

November 5, 2008

My brother, Patrick Henry, and I knew Bob as children, as his dad ,Walter, and our dad, Lindsay, worked together in the Suffolk Cty. DA's office. Bob was also in our Boy Scout Troop #20 and Eagle Patrol. We went to BS summer camp together to Baiting Hollow, LI back in the early 40's. When we last saw Bob was at David Dimmick's service at Oak Beach. Bob was a fine gentleman with a great sence of humor. I'm sure he'll be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure of his acquaintance.

Chuck Hladik

November 2, 2008

Gerry,

I'm sorry for you and your family's loss. I was always amazed by the confidence Bob had in the Stimson and the maneuver He would put her through. Stimson reunions will never be the same without him. It was a Honor to serve with him on the Stimson. I have always thought that I would never have wanted to serve with anybody else as my Captain. Fortunately, I never had to.

Bob Fopeano

October 31, 2008

Dear Gerry:
There isn't a day that passes I don't have thoughts of the sadness you and your family must have. As you, I will surely miss Bob, a fraternity brother and more importantly, a true friend.
Love Fope

Herb Clark

October 25, 2008

Dear Gerry, brother Fopeano notified me about Bob. We all have fond memories of our times with both of you at RPI and our big 50th reunion of the fraternity. If we accept life for ourselves, we have to somehow accept it all. Thinking of you and wishing you all the best.---Herb

Robert Booth

October 23, 2008

Dear Gerry,

Capt. Weeks is how I have recalled him all these many years. My first boat & he my first skipper; can't think of one without the other. Over the years we have all lost loved ones and shipmates but some, in our minds, seem indestructable--parents, kids & our skippers. My thoughts are with you all since I learned of your loss.

Sally Rochon

October 22, 2008

Dear Gerry,

We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Bob was a very special person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Sincerely Ivan and Sally Rochon

Debbie and George McLaughlin

October 17, 2008

Gerry,
We were saddened to hear about Bob's passing. He was a great person and sent many, such as myself, on to positive paths and careers. It has been my pleasure to know the family and we will try to communicate soon.

Debbie and George McLaughlin (in Frankfurt, Germany)

Brenda Blake

October 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Ron Fisher

October 16, 2008

Gerry,

Saddened of your loss of a wonderful husband and man and for myself knowing that I will never experience his quick wit. Those were great days on the Seadragon and Stimson. You two were always wonderful to be around. I will bever forget you and Bob or the brook running through your yard in Ledyard.

Dorothy and Jack Nicholas

October 15, 2008

Gerry and Family: Dorothy and I are deeply sorry for your loss and regret we couldn't be with you for the wake and funneral. We were in church both days praying for all of you. Bob was a great CO and friend from the time we first met upon my arrival at SSBN 655 Gold Crew offices in New London in 1967. We enjoyed visits at reunions and at the Weeks' residence and followed the many ups and few downs of his military and political careers closely over the years. Our association with Bob and Gerry brought us many new and lasting friends. We much enjoyed the loan of the submarine diving alarm during the time of the Weeks' European tour and hated to give it back upon their return. It was installed on our roof and hooked to a wall switch by our front door. Three blasts meant the seven kids were to surface immediately for a meal. They well remember and were saddened to hear its owner had passed. The Weeks family will remain in our thoughts and prayers and we'll remain in touch.

Anne Miller

October 13, 2008

Dear Gerry and family,
I am so sorry to learn that you have lost Bob. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Julio Arco

October 13, 2008

Dean, My deepest sympathy to you and your family in your time of sorrrow

Dianne (Smith) Ross

October 13, 2008

Gerry, David and family,

In deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Doug Horton

October 13, 2008

My thoughts go out to the Weeks family and friends. I served with Bob on Stimson Gold for five interesting Polaris patrols in 1968-71. Bob was unique as a commanding officer, operating more as a team coach than as a typical captain. Bob was also a great influence in my life, making the key contact for my move to a civilian job when I left active duty. We maintained contact for the past 37 years, and I'll miss those interesting conversations.

Tom & Bev Eddy

October 12, 2008

Gerry and family,

We were so saddened to hear of Bobs passing. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.

Janet Healy

October 12, 2008

Gerry, My deepest sympathy to you and your family on Bobs passing.

Larry and Nancy Ehrich

October 12, 2008

Dean, Larry and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Larry and Teri Hernandez

October 11, 2008

Patti and Dean, Ryan and Daniel,
We are so sorry for your family's loss. Thank goodness for a family's love and warm embrace at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Barbara Ausherman

October 11, 2008

With sympathy in your time of sorrow. Philips, Salina

Brian Beaver

October 10, 2008

To the Weeks Family,
My heart and prayer's are with you at this time. Bob will be remembered not only as a honest and solid man for his family and friends but also for his country and God. This is very rare to find in one person and he will be missed greatly.

Roy and Sandy Adler

October 10, 2008

Gerry and family--we're so sad for all of you and so glad that we knew Bob. He was an extremely positive influence on Roy as he was initiated into the Submarine Force and our Seadragon memories are very special. We'll miss Bob just as all who knew him will. He was quite a guy! Sandy and Roy

Raymond E Kreul Kreul

October 10, 2008

Gerry and family, It is with a heavy heart I hear my skipper has passed away. It was thru his guidance, leadership and trust that became the foundation of my naval career. Capt Bob was able to always get the best out of his men. He gained respect from us as he gave us respect. I will never forget the help he gave Rita and I in my getting home after my son passed away. We hear on earth will deeply miss his friendship. May the lord calm the seas and accept his arrival. Capt Bob will call his crew together once again and I will be ready to serve once again.

Joan Caldwell

October 10, 2008

To Dean and family,
Tom and myself send you our deepest condolences on the loss of your father.

Fred and Berta Baughman

October 10, 2008

Dean,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of loss. With deepest sympathy.

Joanne Basile

October 10, 2008

Carol, Dan and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

Dick & Debbie Young

October 10, 2008

To the Weeks Family,
The Captain was truly one of a kind. He was as much of a Father as a Captain to the crew. He looked out for all of us when we were young and impressionable and gave us a good foundation that follows us through our lives. We wish him fair weather and following seas. Sailor, Rest Your Oars, Job Well Done.

Michael McBride

October 9, 2008

Gerry - my heart goes out to you. I can understand your grief. Bob was an exceptional man and without doubt, the ultimate submariner. I will always value his friendship.

Joel & Doris Mudge

October 9, 2008

Gerry,
It has been an honor and a pleasure to meet and to Know you and Bob. You both are kind and caring people who have done much to give back to your community local and state wide. We will miss Bob and will keep you and your family in our prayers. God bless you.

Richard Cooke

October 9, 2008

Bob, Gerry and their sons were our good friends at US European Command in Stuttgart GE during the 70-72 time frame. We kept in contact with them since. Bob was one of the top officers on our staff, very professional and highly respected. He will be missed. Our hearts and sympathies go out to Gerry and the family.

Elliot Rada

October 9, 2008

Gerry,

Capt. Bob was a one of a kind. No words can describe how every member of the Stimson crew loved and respected him. He was friendly to the lowest ranked crew member (me) to his XO. He pinned my Dolphins and gave me my first drink. He will always be remembered.

Mike Giambaattista

October 9, 2008

Gerry,

Our thoughts are with you. We'll miss Bob too.

Sherry McMurrian

October 9, 2008

Dean,

On behalf of the Philips-Southeast RDC we wish to express our sincere condolences. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Dmitry Zubkov

October 9, 2008

Dear Gerry and family, needless to say what a great loss all we sense. Bob had been a genuine SSBN Henry L. Stimson Commanding Officer and he gave to his country his life. He simply passed on to you His CO position and duties. From now on you, Gerry, is a Captain for your family. We pray for His soul, for you and family. Dmitry&Valentina, Russia.

Gil McCormack

October 8, 2008

Bob will be missed by all who knew him. He was a real gentleman and a good guy. I don't think he missed many Rutland County Republican gatherings and always had words of encouragement for others. He served the State of Vermont and our country with distinction. Rest in peace Bob.

Phillip Johnston

October 8, 2008

O Captain! my captain! our fearful trip is done; The ship has weather'd every rack, the prize we sought is won; the port is near, the bells I hear, the people all exulting while follow eyes the steady keel, the vessel grim and daring: But O heart! heart! heart! O the bleeding drips of red, where on the deck my captain lies, fallen cold and dead.

O captain! my captain! rise up and hear the bells; rise up-for you the flag is flung-for you the bugle trills; For you bouquets and ribbon'd wreaths-for you the shores a-crowding; For you they call, the swaying mass, their eger faces turning; Here Captain! dear father! This arm beneath your head; It is some dream that on the deck, you've fallen cold and dead.

My captain does not answer, his lips are pale and still; My father does not feel my arm, he has no pluse nor will; The ship is anchor'd safe and sound, its voyage closed and done; From fearful trip, the victor ship, comes in with object won; Exult, O shores, and ring O bells! But I, with mournful tread, walk the deck my captain lies, Fallen cold and dead.

Mark DeCoteau

October 8, 2008

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

655 Stateroom, 1966

October 8, 2008

Captain Bob, CO, SSBN 655 Gold

October 8, 2008

Kevin Mullin

October 8, 2008

My deepest sympathies. Bob will be greatly missed. He was a true public servant who fought tirelessly for the state of Vermont. He was a sincere man of integrity. Bob was never afraid to share his opinions regardless of whether they were popular or not.

Pat Bush

October 8, 2008

Gerry, I'm so sorry to hear about Bob. You may not know that Jim died the end of March. I miss him more than I expected. We were both lucky to have such accomplished and interesting husbands. We had some fun together didn't we?
Love, Pat

Richard Fahy

October 8, 2008

A mountain of a man. What an extraordinary person and such an accomplished life. My sincerest sympathies to the Weeks family.

Robert Rudzonis

October 8, 2008

Dean and family,

My prayers are with you during this time of loss and reflection.

Alan Paulding

October 8, 2008

Captain Bob was my first CO and it's fair to say that I was in awe of him. He commanded respect from each and every one of us on board Stimson. It's easy to see how great a career he managed to have. We will all miss him greatly.
Alan Paulding
Gold 69-71

Edmundo Gonzalez

October 8, 2008

On behalf of the Philips Monterrey Staff we send our sincere and heartfelt condolesces to our friend Dean Weeks and his family.

W.Bruce Rutherford

October 8, 2008

Capt Weeks Was my CO for 6 patrols I served as his COB.I can remember How he devalued the Dollar in the poker games that was on board to 1/100 of it's value. This ended the gambling on his Ship!!

Richard Boyle

October 8, 2008

To Gerry and family,

My sincere condolences to all. Bob was a very special friend and professional guide to me througout decades, starting at RPI in the late 1940s.

Loree Riggs (SSBN 655 Gold)

October 8, 2008

As my first submarine Skipper, the one who pinned my Dolphins, Bob will always be in my memories. His influence has remained with me throughout the years. He will be missed.

Jay and Dale Ransom

October 8, 2008

To Gerry and the Weeks family, the Ransoms extend most sincere sympathy. To Bob -- Calm seas and a prosperous voyage, Shipmate.

Christopher Reed

October 8, 2008

My sympathies

"Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate"

Jane Hum

October 8, 2008

My deep sympathy for your loss of a fine man.

My husband,(d. 1/07) considered him "the most honest politician I
have ever known". He served VT
well.

Bob Roos

October 8, 2008

Geri and family,

During my 20 years in the Navy and five boats I never had a better CO than Capt. Weeks. Virginia and I send our condolences. We will always fondly remember the dinner you hosted at your home for the Stimson chiefs. That spoke volumes about how he and you cared for his men.

Dan Neal

October 7, 2008

Geri and family,
Thoughts of heartfelt sympathy are with you. May the memories we hold deep in our hearts help soothe our spirits. He will be sadly missed by all that knew him. His wisdom and great leadership ways will be with me always. My prayers are with you!
A former shipmate.

Jeff Bricmont

October 7, 2008

Capt. Weeks was my skipper for 5 SSBN patrols, and my admiration, love, and respect for this man could not have been greater. He has always been, and shall continue to be in my heart and mind, remembered as one of the great men I have known.

Maureen Turro

October 7, 2008

To Geri and family,
My thoughts and sincere sympathy are with you during this very difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.

Sandra Tremain

October 7, 2008

Bob was a good friend to Gabe and me. He will be remembered with much fondness.
You are in my thoughts, Gerry.
SandraTremain

Nelson Tift

October 7, 2008

My sympathies

Norman Cohen

October 7, 2008

A heartbreaking, personal loss. I'm so saddened.

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