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Richard Bockelman Obituary

BOCKELMAN, RICHARD J. Sgt. Major December 28,1921 to May17, 2009 Richard J. Bockelman exemplified honor, pride, and goodness. His down home humility would never allow him to acknowledge his great heartedness. Despite being born into extreme poverty along the Gulf Coast, Richard grew into a fine young man. Although life was hard, Richard worked hard to help his widowed mother, two sisters and one brother. With war brewing in Europe, Richard made the ultimate commitment. At 16, Richard joined the Marine Corps. With total devotion and duty, Richard spent 32 years serving his country with pride. He retired as a highly decorated Sergeant Major. Soon after World War II concluded, Richard met Mary McCarron, a fellow marine. She captured his heart the moment he met her. During their 63 years of marriage their family flourished. The pride of his life was his six children. He was a strong marine by day and a doting father by night. The great joy he received from children continued with his five grand-daughters and two great-grand-children. Richard was a loving husband and father. Although deeply missed by family and friends, the family is comforted to know he passed peacefully to join life's love, Mary, in the hereafter. Memorial Luncheon will be held Sunday, May 31st, at Casa de Pico in La Mesa. Burial will be at 1:00 p.m. at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery on Monday, June 1st.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on May 28, 2009.

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Joelle Hussey

May 29, 2009

Uncle Dick~ You are truly a gem. You and Aunty Mary have always been a big part of our Ohana. I remember the first time I ever seen a skunk was when I was staying at your house. So much fun for a hawaii girl to be off her Island. I will never forget your big smile and heart of Aloha. Oh those lottery tickets you guys used to send us would always get us so excited. I miss you both very much. A Hui Hou, Aloha Pumehana!

Donna Reiter

May 29, 2009

My dearest Phedra, it's been a horrible year for you and I can't begin to express my sadness for what you've been though. Now your Mom and Pop - Mary and Dick, are sharing wine and cheese with Ozzie and Harriet and Joe and Clara just like they did when we were neighbors in the little houses on Tamres Drive. I have wonderful memories that make me smile when I remember them walking into your house and watching Rachael and Sarah run up to them for big hugs and wet kisses. Thank you for making them part of my life so many years ago.

Sarah Neidhart

May 28, 2009

I have many wonderful memories of my grandpa. He was fun, loving, and made the best ice cream sundaes. I love him and he will be missed.

John Bockelman

May 28, 2009

All our love and sympathy are with you. Kyle is our man to come to wish you all the best. Uncle Dick was a wonderful man and along with my Dad, my life's hero. Johnny

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