Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy
Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy
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Brandon M. Hardy Obituary
Corporal Brandon M. Hardy, Octorara Area High School – Class of 1999.
Corporal Hardy died at approximately 3:10 am E.S.T. on Friday, April 28, 2006. He was killed in action from an IED explosion while conducting combat operations against enemy forces in Al Anbar Province, Iraq. Corporal Hardy was traveling in a convoy when the IED detonated.
Brandon knew what he wanted to do since he was 10 years old. Family remembers his eyes being glued to television news coverage of Desert Storm, and said he decided then to dedicate his life to serving his country. The family's hearts ache but they are also "bursting with pride," because "he died doing what he felt God called him to do." Brandon was a "country boy" who liked hunting and fishing, listened to country music and enjoyed sports, especially Penn State football and baseball, which he played in high school.
Brandon's fiancée, 23-year-old Samantha DiGrazio of Nottingham, says her family already considered him a son. Corporal Hardy was proud of his community, school, family, and country. He represented each with honor and dignity. Everyone that knew Brandon can be proud to have been party to this young patriot's training. The family requests your continued prayers. Their pain is great, but their faith is strong. They know their son grew up to realize his purpose in life – to serve. He died living according to this purpose. Donations can be sent to the "Corporal Brandon M. Hardy Memorial Scholarship Fund," in care of Octorara Area School District, 228 Highland Road, Suite 1, Atglen, PA 19310.
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Robert Bouick
July 16, 2015
I knew Brandon when he was stationed at Fairchild. I am so sorry for your loss. I deployed to Iraq a few months after Brandon passed. I was fortunate to survive. I have never understood why some died & some didn't. I am sure soldiers from ages passed, asked the same question. Brandon was a great man. May God Keep Him Close At All Times, For All Time.
May 27, 2013
Remembering & thinking of Brandon on this Memorial Day 2013. May the pride his family felt when he passed, be sustaining them on this Memorial Day and everyday.
Charlie Gili
April 26, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Hardy Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Peggy Childers
May 13, 2012
April 28, 2012
To the family and friends of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
Always remembering Brandon. "Some gave all."
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James Hardy
September 22, 2011
A terrible tragedy ...my heart goes out to the family
September 20, 2011
I miss you so much!! You are an awesome son and I love you very much. Some days the pain is more than I think I can bare - today is one of those days! I love you son!!!
July 16, 2011
Hey Brandon! I know you don't know my father or I,but we would have loved to have met you! We want you to know we are proud of you, and are honored to get to display your name on the Mid Atlantic Wall of Fallen Heroes! We have met your family, and what a great family it is! We would like you to know that you will never be forgotten and will always be in our hearts. Thank you for your service,your honor, and your brave soul!
-Tim & Samantha Wright
Peggy Childers
April 28, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
Please accept my remembrance of Brandon on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
T Warner
April 27, 2011
To Brandon's family and loved ones. You were a special person who will never be forgotten. Thank you for giving the ultimate sacrifice for our country. God bless you all.
April 27, 2011
I miss you so much. I love you. Can;t wait to see you again Sam
L Neal
April 7, 2011
To the family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
January 30, 2011
I love you!
Mom
michele gouge-groff
September 23, 2010
Thank you Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy for your service and sacrifice. My deepest heart felt sympathy goes out to your family.
Deborah Lewis-Enos
September 23, 2010
Thank you for your service Brandon and for your sacrifice. Upon the right hand of God you are now. Warren and Jill my prayers and thoughts are with you always. God Bless.
nancy marron-asti
September 23, 2010
THank you for your service Brandon, and for your sacrifice Jill and Warren....we wont let his lovely echo fade....
July 15, 2010
I love you Brandon Michael Hardy - I miss you so much! I am so proud of you!
Mom
Peggy Childers
April 28, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
Remembering Brandon on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
April 28, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
Brandon gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
April 20, 2009
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Sincerely,
Kenna
lori raye aanderud-davis
December 3, 2008
hi brandon. my name is lori. im 13. and my dad was in the Mariens. right now hes in the army trying to get back in to Mariens. i was trying to look up my boyfriend brandon hardy and i found this. SEMPER FI!
July 22, 2008
To the family and friends of Cpl. Hardy,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My name is Maggie Selzer, and I am directing ‘Run for the Fallen 5K run/walk’ in Boalsburg, PA (just outside of State College) on August 24th, 2008. The event, held on the PA military Museum grounds, aims to keep alive the memory of all fallen soldiers, but particularly those from PA. All proceeds from the event will go to organizations that support the families of fallen soldiers and supports wounded soldiers.
I encourage you to learn more about the event at www.freewebs.com/runforthefallen5k/
index.htm.
The event is meant to keep alive the memories of brave young men like Cpl. Hardy.
If you have any questions, or would like to send a memory of Cpl. Hardy to be included with the flag memorial that will be set up at this event, please contact me at (814) 571-8755 or [email protected].
Jackie Stees
June 30, 2008
Brandon and my husband Hutch were friends for years before I met Hutch. When Hutch and I met Brandon was away and we were supposed to meet when he returned from Iraq. Sadly we never had the chance to meet. I attended the "Freedom Celebration "this past weekend at Octorara school. The ceremony was so beautiful and emotional I cried the entire time. I was amazed with the courage and strength I felt from Jill, Brandon's mother. Her unwavering faith and dedication to keep her son's memory alive is an inspiration to all. Thank you.
Jackie Stees
June 30, 2008
Brandon and my husband Hutch were friends for years before I met Hutch. When Hutch and I met Brandon was away and we were supposed to meet when he returned from Iraq. Sadly we never had the chance to meet. I attended the memorial service this past weekend at Octorara school. The ceremony was so beautiful and emotional I cried the entire time. I was amazed with the courage and strength I felt from Jill, Brandon's mother. Her unwavering faith and dedication to keep her son's memory alive is an inspiration to all. Thank you.
Kelly Heaton
June 28, 2008
Just came home from "Freedom Celebration" at Octorara High School. It was truly a wonderful and emotional evening. God Bless the Hardy Family. Thank you Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy for giving your life 'So that others may have life and dwell in peace, happiness, and freedom.'
May 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Hardy!
In Memory of Brandon ( Debra Estep )
April 30, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Brandon, but I am remembering his service.
He is my hero.
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
April 29, 2008
Not Quite sure what to say but I figure Garth Brooks had it right... "I'm glad I didn't know how it all would end...our lives are better left to chance, I could have missed the pain, But I'd had to miss the Dance" 2 years later and it still hurts, I'll surely never forget you!!
In Memory of Brandon ~ ( Debra Estep )
April 28, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Brandon, but I am remembering on
this day he gave his all.
He is my hero.
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Krysten Winstead
March 18, 2008
I dont know why its taken me so long to say what I need to say... Maybe because I didnt want to face to inevitable.... maybe because it was never reality to me. Every once and a while I drive through Del Mar and see the barracks we once hung out at. Or I see the spot where we used to smoke cigarettes together at. From the road, I can see the room we more then once sat around watching movies in and joking a wrestling and playing. I never go there anymore but I always think about it. People ask me about the tattoo on my calf (in memoryof him) all the time. And yet somehow I can never find words to explain why I put him on my body. You know what the last thing he told me before he left was? He told me it was going to be an easy seven months of sitting around doing nothing in the desert and they'd be back before I knew it. I remember watching him get on the bus.... giving him one last hug and kiss on the cheek... wishing him good luck... telling him I love him and feeling so helpless knowing that the worst could happen. When I found out what had happened... it was the day I graduated boot camp. I remember trashing my parents hotel room, screaming and crying, punching walls and hating the world. Losing Hardy was like losing my brother. I lost my best friend. I lost someone I had grown so incredibly attached to. He lives through me every day. There's not a day that goes by where I dont think of him. There's not a day that goes by where I dont mis him or feel as though it hasnt stopped hurting. I know he is missed by more people then he could have ever imagined. I know that I have never been so proud of anyone in my whole life as I am proud of him. He made the ultimate sacrifice and thanks doesnt even begin to say what needs to be said. Hardy is a hero to me and to my family. I will never forget him and I know we will meet again someday. As for his family, I've met you before and I've sent my love, cried with you, and no matter what I say I know I'll never make you understand who great your son was or what an impact he had on my life as well as many other peoples lives. I just wanted you all to know that my best friend is still missing in my heart and this world is a lesser place without him. Brandon-I love you. I miss you more then words. You may be gone, but you are not forgotten. You are with me every second of every day. WE WILL MEET AGAIN.... This I promise you.
Becky (Weaver) Wenrich
August 24, 2007
I don't know what made me search Brandon's name tonight, but I did. This guestbook is lovely. I only knew him in high school and lost touch with him when I graduated. But I just remember Brandon as a kind, fun, God-loving young man who always had a smile and a hug for people.
It still makes me sad when I think about his sacrifice, but I am proud to have known him for the short time he was here.
Thinking of you, Hardys.
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 27, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Hardy and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Donald Everett
May 29, 2007
God Bless you Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy
Rest in peace with GOD.
AMERICAN HERO YOU ARE
James Hardy
May 28, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Garnet Jenkins
April 27, 2007
A Multitude of Thanks, to this Brave Young Marine, who gave his life for our Country and for Freedom. Thank you for your Courage, and your unselfish Dedication and Service.
Rest In Peace Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Hardy family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
Treasure this hero Lord, in Your Garden of Rest,
for while here on earth, he was one of our best.
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Greg Maxie
March 28, 2007
Dear Marine family, Our thoughts are with you as the year mark of Brandon's PCS approaches. I have had you all on our mind as our good friend LCpl Austin was KIA the same week in 2004 during the battle of fahlluja. Samantha, I read your post on line at Sgt Gritt. It was uplifting to read your words. May God grant you His peace and comfort. Greg Maxie, Father of Cpl John Maxie, Charlie Company, now PCS with Echo 3/1
Jess Brookes
October 10, 2006
Dear Hardy Family and Samantha,
I went to school with Samantha when we were young and I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I just wanted you all to know that I continuously pray for all of you, and will forever. May God Bless all of you and your Angel watching from Above!
Linda Flannery
June 7, 2006
Remembering a great American Hero.
As the mother of 2 Marines and widow of an Army Ranger, I sincerely hope you are finding comfort in your memories of Brandon.
Shanan Smith
June 1, 2006
Although words can't replace you, my family of 7 is forever grateful to you for your service, and protecting this country that we live in. Thank you for having the "courage" to fight for this country and fight for freedom and to also strive for better things in your life. What an example you were while on this earth! I pray your family will have God's peace one day after the shock of losing you is still not so fresh. You are what makes American's proud! My family does not forget this verse either..." No greater love hath any man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friend " John 15:13
With love from Michigan this Orlando born mother sends her deepest sympathy~
Semper Fi!
Ken Weaver
May 26, 2006
Dear Warren and Jill,
Karen, Erik and I are praying that the peace and comfort that can only come from God will sustain you and all of your family and Samantha during the most difficult times. You know my pride in the Marine Corps and I was equally proud of Brandon and joyful to welcome him as one of "The Few"..and as one of the finest! Whenever I repeat "Semper Fi" now, I will always think of Brandon and thank God for him and for you. As we approach Memorial Day my thoughts and prayers will be especially with all of you. It seems like such a short time ago that we were in each others weddings and then we started our families and Karen and I held Brandon as an infant. I never imagined then, that I would one day see Brandon standing proud in those Dress Blues...nor could I have imagined what that would mean for you now. God gave you the task of raising Brandon without the promise of what his future would be, and I know that God will reward you with a joyous reunion because of the fine job you did! You were faithful to God as was Brandon...Semper Fi! We are always here ready if you need us...God bless you.
Bonnie Crockett
May 16, 2006
Dear Jill, Warren, Kiki, Keri, Chad, & Samantha,
I send my deepest sympathy to all of you on the loss of your beloved Brandon. I felt compelled to tell you how that his service was so moving, and it was comforting to know that we are protected by such outstanding men and women of the United State's Armed Forces. The military presence was all-inspiring, and seeing Brandon's medals and honors he earned through self-sacrifice was a symbol of his allegiance to his beloved country. The music and slide presentation moved me to tears, and I was in awe that Chad was able to speak of his wonderful brother under the circumstances. Pastor Jackson's eulogy was touching, offering us a glimpse of what Brandon was amazingly able to accomplish during his life here on Earth. He touched many lives. He will be remembered as a wonderful son, grandson, fiance, brother, and friend but most importantly, as a soldier for Christ. I pray that the promised reassurance that you will be reunited with Brandon in Heaven someday, along with your abiding faith, offers you all comfort and strength at this time.
Wendy Mauger
May 14, 2006
Dear Family of Brandon,
We met for the first time at Brandon's viewing, which I attended simply to say Thank you. I too am a proud parent of a soldier serving in Iraq. Please know that I will continue to uphold you in prayer asking God to provide your every need as you adjust to this life change. I have been so encouraged and truly blessed by how you are handling this deep loss. It is a testimony to your deep pride of Brandon and also your hope for the future when we will all be reunited in glory. Again- Thank you for allowing your son to follow his dreams and convictions so that we can be free.
Deeply grateful,
Wendy Mauger.
Proud Mom of Sgt Joshua Mauger
172nd Stryker Brigade
Tom Worrell
May 14, 2006
Dear Jill and Warren,
I will always remember Brandon as one of the " Octorara rednecks" We shared a lot of good times at low places line dancing and sharing our different experiences from boot camp. You know Army- vs- Air force. Brandon was a good soldier and an even better friend. I will miss him deerly.
SDI SSgt Robert B. Cross Sr.
May 14, 2006
The Hardy Family,
I wanted to start of by saying my prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
I was one of the Drill Instructors that trained Cpl Hardy from platoon 1044. When Cpl Hardy came to my platoon, I knew hew was a special young man. He always had a sixth sense about him that I could never put my finger on. And as we continued on training I told him one day that I was born and raised in Coatesville, PA. When you meet someone that grew up close to where you grew up it is special also.
I wanted to let you know that even know he sacrificed his life for our country, he will always be remembered for his honerable service and personally I will never forget him. He truley exemplified the phrase "Semper Fidelis" Always Faithful.
SDI SSgt Robert B. Cross Sr.
Claire Zawistowski
May 12, 2006
Dear Hardy Family,
Even though we have never met I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed in Irag on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding you as close to His heart as He has held my family these past months. You will be in our prayers as you walk through these difficult days.
May 12, 2006
May 12, 2006
Fallen Heroes
May 12, 2006
Danielle Davis-Bahrs
May 11, 2006
My heart goes out to the Hardy family. Brandon was killed alongside my brother staff sgt. Edward Davis III on the same night they were patroling al Anbar. My prayers and heart go out to those who knew and loved him, as my family grieves alongside his own.
Cpl Ryan & Janina Beard USMC
May 10, 2006
Dear Hardy family, I just wanted to say thank you for your son. It is men like him that keep our Nation safe. I was one of Brandon's NCO's, up until he left. I was not able to go to Iraq due to a torn tendon and ligements in my ankle. He was one of the better Marines in our Platoon. He was a man of virtue and integrity. I am also a Christian, and it was nice to have another Marine who stood for what he believed in. He was a great Marine and a great man. I know he is now with the Father and I will always remember him, Thank you and Semper Fi.
May 10, 2006
May God Bless Brandon and his family. I pray we never forget the cost of freedom. Octorara will nver forget!
OHS
Lee Sirotnak
May 9, 2006
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss, prayers that the Lord provide you comfort and peace, and our gratitude for the work, and sacrifice, of your hero, Brandon. Semper Fi and God Bless.
Dawn Astheimer-Tracy
May 9, 2006
Hardy Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need. I will always remember Brandon in his boots and cowboy hat. He was a wonder full man and friend who I will miss deeply. I will remember the good times we had at Low Places when he was trying to help me to learn how to dance. All the laughs we had getting in trouble in high school, and driving the teachers crazy. He was a wonderful friend and person you could confide in. I will always remember the good times! Thank you Brandon you are loved and missed dearly!!!
Victoria Cothran
May 9, 2006
Hardy family,
This is Victoria Cothran, LCpl Derrick Cothran's wife. We do remember meeting you guys in Parris Island on Family Day. We are so sorry to hear about what happened. My heart dropped when my mother told me about your son. (She found the guestbook ya'll signed.) Brandon and Derrick were such good friends through out training and its so unfortunate that we meet again through these terms. Brandon, Derrick, and all the troops that are fighting and dying for this country are HEROS and I am so proud of them.
Ya'll are in my prayers. I know this all sounds a mess... but my mind is still everywheres. If you wish to contact us, please email me at [email protected]. Thanks and God Bless you guys.
Sandi Zook
May 8, 2006
Jill, Warren, Kiki, Keri, Chad, and Samantha,
I came across this guest book and was so touched to read the entries from all over the place. I wanted to let you know from our family that there wasn't one more way we could think of that you could have honored Brandon more. You can honestly say that you honored his last wish and were so proud of what he accomplished. You raised a true gentlemen, patriot, and soldier.
From hearing about him from other people, my son included, he was real and didn't hide the kind of person he was. I am so thankful that you have the assurance of where he is and that you will all be with him again someday. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We will be in touch and are only a phone call away.
We love you and the strength that you have shown.
Barbara & Jack Benard
May 8, 2006
To the Family and fiancé of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
I am deeply saddened to see that another soldier has been KIA in Iraq. We want you to know that we grieve with you over the loss of another precious soul such as Brandon. I know from first hand experience what you are feeling and what you must be going through. We lost a son in Ramadi, Iraq on December 1, 2005, SFC Brent A. Adams.
As Brent’s mother I know there is nothing I can say at this point in time that will ease your pain and sorrow over the terrible loss of your brave and courageous son Brandon. We know your hearts are broken and there is now a void and deep sadness in your heart that will never be filled. May it help you to know that there are others who share your pain, agony and sorrow. While the pain will probably never leave but lessen some with time, we pray the Lord gives you comfort, peace and strength to help you cope with this earth shattering loss no parent ever wants to experience. If it would help to talk please don’t hesitate to contact us.
This is an extremely difficult time, but hold on to those wonderful memories of your son….the ones that make you laugh and remember with joy the moments that you shared. The laughter between all those tears is one of the ways that will help you work through your grief. Brandon is a hero (a man admired for his achievements and noble qualities) and even though we were not fortunate enough to know him we pray for you and all your family and for all those men and women serving our country so valiantly. Our children have made the ultimate sacrifice and they will always be honored and never forgotten. Unfortunately these tragic events have bound all of us together and changed our lives forever. God Bless you and all those who mourn the loss of OUR FALLEN HEROES and thank you for the courageous service your soldier preformed for all of us. We wait for the day we can be reunited once again with our loved ones in the Lord’s House. If you feel the need to talk about your son we would be glad to listen.
Barb and Jack Benard (Proud and loving parents of SFC Brent A. Adams KIA 12/1/05)
Nancy Hess
May 8, 2006
At times like these, it can be difficult to realize that life is good, that there are good times and good things to hold on to. May your heart be lightened knowing that there are others who care. With breaking hearts and open hands as you send your visitor from heaven on his way and trust him into the Heavenly Father’s care, we are reminded of a better place and can be so glad he came. May the peace of God rest upon you as you move forward during this difficult time. Grief can’t be hurried, but it can be shared. Be comforted in knowing that others care and are remembering you lovingly and prayerfully.
Sgt. Clay Riggleman, USMC
May 7, 2006
Semper Fi Bro, Rest in Peace
My deepest sympathies to your family, you are America's HERO
Lori Alexander Murray
May 7, 2006
Dear Hardy Family,
I had met Brandon about 9-10 years ago through a mutual friend Danielle and I had visited your church for awhile. I just wanted to let you know that I had never met anyone at his age (than 15)that was so in love with God. Most kids at that age are trying to figure out who they are and trying to fit in with the crowd. He didn't seem that way to me at all. He had made a lasting impression on me and it is good to know that I will see my brother in Christ again someday in Heaven. God Bless You!
May 6, 2006
To the Hardy family-
I can only imagine what pain and triumph you feel today,those past, and those to come. I wish I would've met Brandon but his scarifice has left such an impact on my heart. However, it breaks my heart that you must go through such agony. I know you are all proud of your son, as our community is. I wish you peace and comfort in your deepest time of loss. You are a model family to all, and Brandon, our hometown hero, will NEVER be forgotten. I would like to thank Brandon for all he has done for us as a Nation, but you the Hardy's for your strength to get through this.
And to Brandon's fiance, I wish you happiness in the fond memories you are left with. He sounds like he was a very loving man. Keep the past close to your heart.
With love and prayers to all..
-An Octorara Graduate
Susan Klumpp proud Marinemom
May 6, 2006
God Bless Brandon and his family.
payton reese
May 6, 2006
Hardy Family,
i wish to extend my deepest sympathies to your family.
"Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference. The Marines don't have that problem."
Please let me know if there is anything i am able to do for you, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
'if the army and the navy ever look on heavens scenes, they will find the streets are guarded by United States Marines.'
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Sarah Lawrie
May 5, 2006
I never knew Brandon but My best firend is his cousin and ive hurd soo many wonderful things about him. He truly was an American Hero And Godly man.
Im so sorry for your lose.
Edward Lamar
May 5, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Danielle Irwin
May 5, 2006
Hardy Family,
I wanted to thank you for raising such a brave/selfless young man! I hope you can continue to be strong and feel God's arms wrapped around you. I'm sure Brandon is standing w/ Jesus right now smiling down on all of you with great pride! He loves you. Thanks again for your son. God bless each of you!!
Catherine Elder
May 5, 2006
Dear Jill and Family,
May God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. May all of your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of Brandon. I believe in guardian angels and they are certainly watching over your entire family. I am so happy that I told the school about this book and see that this guest book is available for everyone to be able to honor your son. I would like to express that you and your family are in our prayers. You have a brave and wonderful son that will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Cathy Elder and Family
Parkesburg, Pa.
Erica Laffey
May 5, 2006
Dear Warren,Jill,Kiki,Keri,Chad and Samantha,
I can not imagine the pain you are feeling, I know your faith will help you through this terrible time.I will always have the memories of snow days with Brandon and the whole family, I am so glad I had the opportunity to know Brandon and be part of his life, He will always be greatly missed and we know we will see him again one day. Stay strong and remember what a wonderful man Brandon grew into thanks to his family that he dearly loved. With Love
Dené Bond
May 5, 2006
Dear Hardy Family & Samantha,
I grew up in Cochranville but I now live in Gap just a few miles from Calvary Monument Church. My sister Ashley Caldwell graduated with Brandon. I was at the church yesterday with my two children when Brandon arrived. I have never felt so much honor and respect for someone. I will remember that day for the rest of my life as I am sure my chilren will too. It was an honor for us to be able to pay our respects to Brandon. The procession was beautiful. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all!!!
Randal Kramer
May 5, 2006
"No greater love hath any man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friend" John 15:13
Semper Fi
USMC 83-87
Dot Mattick
May 5, 2006
To the Hardy & extended family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. We are blessed to have men like Brandon to protect us.
Sgt. Griggs- USMC & Dana Young
May 5, 2006
God Bless America and Our Troops!
Semper Fi!
Dylan Reese
May 4, 2006
Dear Hardy Family,
I think I speak for everyone when i say that our hearts go out to you and your son. Your son payed the ultimate price so we can be free. He will definitely not be forgotten for his great service to our country. God bless you in this time of sorrow.
peifer
May 4, 2006
i never knew brandon, but he's very honorable. i'm sorry about this tough time. seeing everyone line the streets was beautiful. may he rest in peace.
Anita Zapata
May 4, 2006
To the family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy
My name is Anita Zapata from Brookshire Tx. I have never met your son/fiance, but I do know the pain of losing a loved one. My nephew, Pfc. Chase Edwards, was killed on April 6, 2006 near Al Anbar. My heart goes out to all of you for the pain of your loss. May God Bless you and lift you up in your time of need.
BJ Mitchell
May 4, 2006
I pray that you find the strenghth you need to get through. My constant thoughts are with Brandon and your family at this most difficult time.
B.J. Mitchell, Another proud Mom of a United States Marine. Semper Fi.
Brittany DeHaven
May 4, 2006
My prayers are with the family of Brandon M. Hardy
For only being 14 I know how much you must be going through. from living in gap and listening to i105 on the radio i heard of this and my heart broke down and so I did go to the gap town clock along with many others to show my pride for our country and thanking for him serving it! I have just had a few recient deaths in the family of young ones, but you do have something really to be proud of. I am thankful for your son serving to our country! It means alot... He shall never be forgot nor what he has done for us all.
With love & prayers,
John F. Lee
May 4, 2006
To Jill, Warren, Keri, Kristin, and Chad:
I am so grateful to have known Brandon for the short time I did. I know you are a proud family and that Brandon will be remembered by many.
May God bless him and all of you.
Linda Persing
May 4, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Maggie Kenny
May 4, 2006
To the family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy, I want to tell you how sorry I am. I recently lost my brother LCpl Patrick B. Kenny (from Pittsburgh, PA) in October 2005 to an IED explosion. I know your pain and shock. Please know your son and fiancee WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! You will get through this, my parents, sisters and I take it one day at a time. Prayer does help, my family and I will pray to help give you the strength to get through this.
-Maggie Kenny
Brown Family
May 4, 2006
Yesterday,while at the OPLC, we had our usual time of the Pledge and singing "My Country Tis of Thee". , When we sang"Land where our fathers died, land of the Pilgrim's pride...let freedom ring." thought my heart would break, as I realized anew just what price we dearly pay for freedom to ring. Our entire family, David, Lynn, Amanda,Joseph want to know, Hardy family,we continue to lift you to the throne of God. Thank you for raising your precious son. We love you.
Tina Nuse
May 4, 2006
God Bless you Brandon. Thank you for your undying devotion and courage for our country. You will never be forgotten. The Octorara community is proud of you.
Rosella Boyle
May 4, 2006
I would like to say thank you for giving the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. My son is serving in the Navy, We are so proud of all the service men and women. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Kenneth, Rosella Boyle
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
May 4, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
1LT Chappell
May 4, 2006
Thin red line of heroes. Class of 99.
Clyde Bowden & family
May 4, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Trevor Shearer
May 3, 2006
To the Hardy family and his fiance:
I am the grandson of Lillian Shoemaker. My grandmother told me a lot about your son when he was in the Air Force and when he joined the Marines after his enlistment. My heart broke when I heard the news. Even though I did not meet him personally it felt like I lost a friend. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers and pray God will comfort you and give you peace. May God Almighty bless you and your family. One verse comes to mind as your son was serving our country, military troops call the verse the "Shield of Strength" It is Joshua 1:9 "I will be strong and courageous. I will not be terrified or discouraged, for the LORD my God will be with me wherever I will go." I heard he had a heart after God's, and believe he is with the Lord now.
Sincerely,
Trevor J. Shearer, TSgt, USAF
Gilda Ekbatani
May 3, 2006
To the family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy. I wish to express my most heartfelt condolenses on the loss of your son. I had the great pleasure of knowing him while he was in Air Force stationed at Fairchild AFB in Spokane, WA. SSgt Hardy and I were in same job in the Air Force and were deployed together to Al Dhaphra Air Base in June of 2003. I fondly remember the times when we would crank up a little of Kenny Chesney while doing inventory on our MRSP Kits while everyone else slept the night away because we were on night shift. I will always remember him as the most honest,loyal, and caring person I have ever met. I have had the honor of working side by side with a great soldier. I can honestly say that I am convinced he died EXACTLY the way that he wanted to. I remember him always looking at the Special OPS assignment availability. I remember when he decided he was going to get out and go to the Marines and I know that being a Marine was one of his proudest accomplishments. Brandon and I had a lot of good times that I will cherish forever. Please know that your family and his fiancee are in my thoughts and prayers.
Connie Hutcherson
May 3, 2006
To the Hardy Family,
I heard someone say, "Our loss here on earth is God's gain in Heaven." Just wanted you to know that my family and I will continue to pray for you during this most difficult time.
Hutcherson and Perry Family
Joshua and April Morales
May 2, 2006
To Brandon's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Dianne Werner
May 2, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy--I am very sorry for your loss. I pray you find peace and comfort in the Lord's everlasting arms.
Semper Fi
A Proud 172 Stryker Mom
Pat Canfall
May 1, 2006
My condolences to the Hardy family.
Brandon may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.
May 1, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Brandon M. Hardy:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort. When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
ROBYN GARSIDE
May 1, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL. GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
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