Nancy Lund-Spencer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 28, 2008.

NANCY H. (HAMMOND) LUND-SPENCER STETSON - Nancy H. (Hammond) Lund-Spencer, 52, died Wednesday, March 26, 2008, at a Bangor health care facility. She was born July 16, 1955, in Jonesport, the daughter of Richard and Jane (Robinson) Hammond. Nancy was a devoted mother and spouse, and will always be remembered for her giving nature and willingness to help others. She enjoyed being a Cub Scout den mother and was a member of Daughters of the Nile. She also enjoyed quilting, gardening and reading, and was a big Red Sox fan. Nancy was also a proud graduate of the University of Maine - Machias in 2005. Nancy was employed by Bank of America, Belfast. She previously worked for many years for Hannaford, as well as Supertech and Whitney's Wreaths, Machias. Nancy is survived by her loving husband, Richard Spencer; parents, R. Francis and Betty (White) Hammond of Harrington; sons, Ricky Lund of Brewer, Joshua Lund of Stetson, Devon Lund of Stetson, Jerome Spencer and his wife, Cathy, of Maryland, and Robert Holt and his fianc?e, Stephanie Craig, of Stetson; daughters, Roxanne Lund of Mississippi, and Rhonda and her husband, Tony Smith, of Bangor; brothers, Richard "Dickey" and his wife, Debra Hammond, of Holden and Charles Hammond and his friend, Linda, of Windham; sisters, Debra and her husband, "Tootie" Dinsmore, of Milbridge, and Rose and her husband, Scott Santerre, of Cherryfield; grandchildren, Hanna, Anthony, Maddylynn, Daphne and Sabrina; plus many nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles. She was predeceased by her mother, Jane H. (Robinson) Hammond; and her grandparents, Carl and Rose Robinson and Herbert and Marjore Hammond. The family wishes to recognize Eastern Maine Medical Center's oncology and intensive care units for their great care and service. A special thanks to Dr. Openshaw, and nurses, Bea and Laura. A memorial service will be held 11 a.m. Saturday, April 5, at Harrington Baptist Church with a remembrance gathering after the service at Harrington VFW Hall. Those wishing to remember Nancy may make a donation to her son, Devon's up-coming school trip to China, via the president's people to people's student ambassador program, care of Richard Spencer, 825 Mount Pleasant Road, Stetson, ME 04488. Arrangements made by Memorial Alternatives, Bangor.

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April 21, 2008

Ricky Lund

Hey Mom,
I just wanted to say hi again and say that things seem to be going alright. I miss you and hope things with you are happy. Everyone has been helping me and I appreciate it very much. It's hard mom not being able to see you or talk to you but I think about our memories all the time. They make me laugh and then smile but sad at the same time. Please take care mom ok, I'll be right here thinking of you. I love you with all my heart and I miss you tons. Love your son, Ricky

April 6, 2008

Rick Bonneau

Rick,
I only met you, Nancy, Josh and Devon a couple of times. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lorelee, now my Fiance as you may recall stayed with you for awhile and your family was so good to her as you helped her through her transition and got her settled in. Lorelee speaks often of how kind and generous all of you were to her in her time of need. Devon will be in good hands and Nancy certainly did find the right man in her life. I'm sure in her passing, though the time for the two of you was cut way too short, she left us knowing that everything was well taken care of and I'm sure made it possible to pass peacefully. Lorelee wanted to be there on Saturday. However, with her recent knee surgery the drive wasn't possible. We will be in touch in a couple of weeks. Take care and God Bless.

April 5, 2008

Audrey Lake

Ricky, Roxanne, Josh, and Devon, I cannot even come close to telling you how sad I am for your loss. What I can say is Nancy was as close as I ever came to having a sister. We shared many times together, happy and sad, and for awhile we were seperated from one another, but I had to a chance to talk with her a day or so before she passed and we once again got to tell one another I love you. I will always regret the time we lost, and I will always cherish the memories I have. My love and prayers are with you all. I love you, Aunt Audrey

April 4, 2008

cathy grant

i dont know nancy well but i know her loving sister debbie and her husband toots..they are in my husband larrys family..im sorry for the lost but you still have and always will have nancys memories.and you all have each other still and thats all one needs..so take care of one another and you will see nancy in the furture..take care...cathy

April 4, 2008

Gary, Janet, Nicole & Corin Dowling

Dear Ricky, Josh, Roxanne & Devon,

We are so sorry for the loss of your Mom. We did not know that she had been ill so was shocked to hear of her passing. You are in our thoughts. Know that the immense hurt you now feel will get better and beautiful memories will always be with you. With deepest sympathy,

April 3, 2008

Rachel Shorey

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

April 1, 2008

Jane Handy

Ricky,Roxanne,Josh,and Devon...

i want the four of you to know that i am thinking of you and know that i love you all very much. Your mother told me to always remember the good times,I will and i hope you all will too. I want you all to live long and happy lives,and i want only good things for all of you. I hope that in time things will be easier for you all.

I love you all
Aunt Jane

April 1, 2008

Jane Handy

To Rick
My thoughts are with you at this time. I want to thankyou for all you did and continue to do for Nancy and for the happiness you gave her. I hope that in the days ahead things will be easier for you.

Jane
Nancy's cousin

April 1, 2008

Jane Handy

Dear Nancy,
It's hard for me to put into words how i feel right now,because i never thought that i would have to say goodbye to you so soon.I want you to know that i am glad we're cousins,but you were more than that to me. I have always felt a bond with you and Dicky because i was named after your mother. Whether or not you felt the same way,i dont know,but it's always been something special to me.i have always lookes up to you and i'm so proud of all the things you accomplished in your life,and of how brave you were until the very end. I want to thankyou for always being thre for me. I wish i had done more for you,but i hope to make it up to you by being there for your kids.I will always keep my promise to you about that. I'm glad that we had the talks we did in the last couple of weeks,and i will remember them always. I know i will miss you for the rest of my life,and when i think that i will never see you again,I remind myself that i will,and when that day comes,I want you to take me to meet your mother. This aunt of mine that I've heard so many good things about. So,even though you told me not to cry for you,I do at times,but then i think of the smile that must have been on your face when you saw your mother again.It makes me happy because in my heart,I know that's where you are right now,with her and the rest of your family and friends watching out for the rest of us. So,good bye for now and until we see each other again Take care and thankyou for everything...

I LOVE YOU
Your Cousin,
Jane

March 31, 2008

carole harmon

to ricky, josh, devon, your mother was a great person, she always put you kids before anything else. nancy & I was in scouts together and was close friends. i hope you know that i will be here for you guys if you need anything.

To rick, i,m so glad nancy met you
she needed someone like you in her life. and you was that person. if there is anything you need please call me. i really im going to miss her. i'm sorry for your lost.

carole harmon
emily grant

March 31, 2008

Natashia Vose

To all who Loved Aunt Nancy,
My heart and prayers are with each and every one of you at this very difficult time. Aunt Nancy was a very kind and loving person. Rick, I want to thank you for all that you have done for aunt Nancy and all you will continue to do as you adopt Devon. I'm sure that gave aunt Nancy alot of comfort, in her final days. Though I haven't met you I can tell from what you have already done for the family that you are a GREAT man. Devon I wish only the best for you, and remember your mom is in heaven watching over you. Ricky, Josh, and Roxanne you are in my thoughts. Remember your mom is also watching over you and she is only a prayer away.
Love,
Tashia and Family

March 31, 2008

Terri Albee

To all of Nancy's children, We are so sadden to hear about your Mom. A wonderful Mother who always put her children and other people 1st. I've met Nancy years ago when she lived in Hadley's Lake. Always had a smile and I can hear her say, "Come again" I feel for you all.. Memories and love will help you through. And Love is what she had plenty off! Love & Prayers to You all.

March 31, 2008

Rose Santerre

To my big sister, You were always there when I need you, in good times and bad. I could count on you. You made me laugh and sometimes cry, but you were my big sister. We share a bond that no one can take away from us, something that will always keep use together no matter what. I love you dearly and will keep you in my prayers every night. You will be sadly missed.

March 31, 2008

Ellen Stokes

Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.

March 30, 2008

Becky Ann (Hammond) Sutcliffe

All of Nancy's Family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers to you all. Nancy was a caring, wonderful woman with such a big heart! She will be sadly missed by so many. Remember, Nancy is not really gone as long as we hold her face, voice and memories in our hearts.
Our pain will ease one day and when it does the memories will make us all smile with our thoughs of her. Once again my heart goes out to all that grieve for her. I will miss you deeply cousin Nancy.

March 30, 2008

Dusty Nadeau

Richard~ I want you to know that I've had you and Nancy in my thoughts every day since. And every day since I have really come to appreciate the perspectives you've both given me, during such a difficult time for you, on life, love, and the example of strength a man needs to set for his family. I hope you know that if you need anything........
I feel so lucky to have known Nancy, and a continued privilege just to be around you sir.

Wish for you and yours
comfort & peace.

March 29, 2008

Janet McLaughlin

to the Lund family I have not known nancy for very long I met her through her son josh when he was spending alot of time at my house as he was best friends Ashley with my daughter but from what I knew she will be greatly missed she seemed to be a very loving and caring person who would do anything for anyone and loved her children and husband more than anything I am so very sorry for your loss and our hearts and thoughts are with you.Love, thoughts,and prayers. Janet,Ashley,and Joshua

March 29, 2008

lisa smith

i worked with nancy at hannaford for many years she was such a nice person and loved you kids alot.she will be watching out for you from above. my thoughts are with you.

March 29, 2008

Glenda Fisher

No words can truly express my sincerest sympathies. Take comfort in your many loving memories.

March 29, 2008

stephen harnish

todick sorry for your loss

March 28, 2008

Jackie Ackley

To Ricky,Josh, Roxanne and Devon,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I had some fun times with all of you and have some awesome memories of Nancy, especially our trip to Washington DC...the fun times we had there at a conference that I will never forget. Your mother loved you guys so much. If I know her, she will be taking care of things for you from heaven as much as possible as you grow older. Take care of yourselves and each other.

March 28, 2008

Doug W. Lund

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

March 28, 2008

Roberta Handy (Robinson)

Rick,Devon,Joshua,Ricky and Roxanne

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you for the loss of Nancy. Rick-Nancy is my niece,and as you may know i had the chance to talk with her within her last few days. She was truly a strong and wonderful woman,who overcame so much in her own life,losing her mother at such a young age. I am so happy to know that Nancy had found someone who truly made her so happy. She will rest in peace knowing that you will be there for her son.We were so happy to learn that you were able to be married,fulfilling one of Nancy's final wishes.
To the kids: Your mother truly loved each and every one of you.I am sure that she is looking over each of you. She will always be with you,take comfort in that. She is truly your guardian angel. I am so confident that today she is at peace,sitting in heaven with her mother,and watching over all of you. We love you all. Rick-dont ever hesitate to call if you need anything. Take Care
Love,
Aunt Roberta and Dexter

March 28, 2008

Karrie Heald

I am very sorry for your loss. Nancy's genuine kind spirit and warm smile will always be remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow. It was my true pleasure to have met and worked with Nancy. Don't hesitate to reach out if you or your family need anything.

March 28, 2008

Ricky Lund

Mom it just seems like yesterday you and I were standing there waiting for our names to be called to walk up and grab our diplomas, a rare feat that not many mothers and sons experience. I remember you reminding me of this the last time we talked, a moment I hadn't and will not forget. I want you to not worry about Devon, you married the most amazing man and the guy who brought the most joys to your life. I want you to know I'll be there for him to, I pulled him to the side and told him I'd always be there for him and that he was with a wonderful man. Mom I miss you every second of everyday, you are the best mom I could have ever asked for and I'm glad you and dad took me in to give me the most love two parents could give a child. And to prove how much love you had you took in Joshy and Roxy and then had Devon and with enough love you shared it all equally between the 4 of us. You never gave up on us through the toughest times we put you through and continued to stand there and point us in the right direction. I also want you to know that on that Saturday before you passed I will cherish those 3 hours that we were completely alone and had a nice mom and son talk and you promised me no matter what that everything would be ok. Also the other thing I'll remember is the last thing you said to me was that you loved me and us kids more than you're words could explain. The words before that, that i will remember is you saying, "Ricky life is too short to be unhappy." So as a promise to you i will do things and make decisions to make sure that my life will be lived to the fullest and happiest. I believe that now you and grammy are looking down on me and will take care of me. I'm also glad dad was there to be with us. He still loved you mom and I could see it that day he came to see you. He was there for Dev, Joshy, and I. He held us in his arms to help comfort us. Mom you will truly missed, but never ever forgotten for your strength, love for you family, and you taking the back burner to put everybody's feelings, wants, needs before yours, especially your kids. I'll be checkin in with you from time to time just to chit chat and tell you how things have been going and what me, rick, and the boys have been up to, just cuz you're not here with us doesn't mean you still don't need someone to talk. Well mom I'll stop talkin you're ear off and I'll say hi soon. I love you mom and remember what I said our hearts are connected in a special way. I also miss you, take care and we'll be talking soon. Love you always and with all my heart xoxoxoxo

March 28, 2008

Betsey Knowles

Rick,Devon,Ricky,Josh,and Roxanne...
We are all so sorry for your loss...Our loss...Even though Nancy was our Cousin...We always thought of her as Aunt Nancy..I know the days ahead will be very hard..but know that your Mother loved you very much,and she will always be with you. Rick,we were all very happy to know that Nancy got her final wish and was able to marry you.She was so happy to know that you wanted to keep Devon,and she will rest in peace knowing that he is in good hands.You will be a wonderful father to him. Devon-we are all thinking of you and know that this is so hard for you. You are welcome anytime to come and visit....Aunt Jane and Dawn also love you very much and we all made a promise to your mother that we would be there for you and that is what we plan to do...We are glad that you have Rick to help you through this difficult time.Remember that we are all just a phone call away.See you soon.

March 28, 2008

Linda Alley

Nancy, I was so shocked when I looked at the paper this morning. I had no idea that you were sick. Even though we have gone our separate ways since high school your friendship meant so much. I will always remember our good times together. You will surely be missed.
Fondly remembered,
Linda (Bailey) Alley

To Nancy's family,
Although I never had the privilege to meet any off you your Mom ,and wife ,was a very special woman, we were very close in high school. May God Bless You All and always know your Mom will still be watching over you.
My prayers are with you all.

March 28, 2008

Michelle Reynolds

I am so sorry for your loss, Nancy was a wonderful woman. I remember her at University ; we graduated in the same class. My prayers and best wishes are with all of you.

March 28, 2008

Albert Wyman

I really enjoyed working with Nancy and will miss her around the office. My heart goes out to Rick and her family members. Your freinds are here for you.

March 28, 2008

Linda Matthews

Nance, I am so shocked and saddened by your passing. I spoke to Ricky at the store and he said you were ill. I can't believe you are gone.
You were a great mother and a true friend. I am proud to have known you. May you now rest in peace dear lady.
Fondly,
Linda

March 28, 2008

Doug & Elouise Look

OUR THOUGHT'S AND PRAYER'S ARE WITH YOU.

March 28, 2008

Dale Robinson

Rick, Devon, Ricky, Josh, and Roxanne,

Nancy was a great cousin. We watched our kids grow up together and were Cub Scout leaders together. We have great memories of trying to get our leaders cars finished for the Pinewood Derby always the night before the derby. Nancy was fun to be around and always cheered you up when you needed it. Nancy would do anything for anybody in their time of need regardless if it was the last shirt on her back or her last dollar in her pocket that’s just the way she was.

We will miss Nancy but know we have a guardian angel looking out for us.

So glad to hear Rick you and Nancy were able to get married and you will be adopting Devon.

See you all next Saturday,

Love, Kenny, Dale and Peter Robinson

March 28, 2008

Patty Schencks

What a wonderful woman! We worked together at Whitney Wreath a few years ago and had the best time. She was always there to give a helping hand or to go that extra mile when needed. I enjoyed Nancy's company always and emailed her on many occasions just to chat and to check in with her after she moved. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and know she is looking down on you all and smiling.
I will miss you Nancy!

March 28, 2008

Tanya Coffin

Nancy,
You were such a great person. I will make sure our boys will stay close. I will always remember your laugh and smile. Take care of all us until we all meet again. We will make sure Devon gets to China. Rest in piece Nancy. You will be sadly missed.

March 28, 2008

Penny Guerra

I am so sorry for your loss. Devon your mom loved you so very much, and she will always be with you. always remember that.

March 28, 2008

Stephanie Craig

Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to Rick, Ricky, Josh, Deven and Roxanne for your loss. We were so blessed to have had the opportunity to be a part of Nancy's life, even if only for a few short years. She was truly a wonderful, strong, loving and caring woman. I personally had the chance to talk with Nancy a few days before her passing and of course, she was worried about getting things taken care of so noone else had to worry about it. I informed her that it was time she laid back and let someone take care of her for once. As you know, this was truly the kind of woman she was. She never put herself first even in her last few days. She wanted so much to write a letter to each one of you children expressing her love for each one of you, but unfortunately did not get that chance. No matter what trials and tribulations she encountered, you kids were first and foremost and she loved each one of you so very much. She had told me how much she loved you Rick. She was so blessed to have had you in her life and loved you unconditionally. I truly believe you completed her in her days with us. She was so heartbroken that she had finally "met a nice man and look what happened," as how she stated it to me. She didn't want you to have to worry about anything, as that was her nature. May God bless each and every one of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time and know that we are here for you. We are surely going to miss her.
Love always,
Stephanie & Rob
May you rest in peace our dear friend and may you know you left a lasting impression in everyone you touched in your short time with us. We love you and will miss you. xoxo

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