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CHARLES KNOX ALFORD November 30, 1992-February 13, 2009 CHARLES KNOX ALFORD, beloved son and brother, passed away suddenly on February 13, 2009, as a result of a truly tragic car accident. Charles, age 16, was the son of Mary and Gene Alford and the adored little brother of John and Bess. Charles was born at The Methodist Hospital in Houston, Texas on November 30, 1992. He was the third child, the cherished baby of the Alford clan and he grew up encompassed by the love of his family. Charles, known as "Charlie Bear" by his family and "Chico" by his friends, was a kind, loyal and exuberant young man. Charles always had a smile on his face and greeted everyone he met with a happy, positive outlook and warm spirit. He was loved by all who had the honor of knowing him. Charles was a sophomore at Strake Jesuit College Preparatory in Houston, Texas. Prior to attending Strake Jesuit, Charles was a longtime student at Annunciation Orthodox School, which he attended from preschool through eighth grade. At Strake Jesuit, Charles was a proud member of the choir and an enthusiastic team player on the lacrosse team. Charles' favorite sport was lacrosse and he was passionate about the sport. His position was "attack" and Charles was on his way to a lacrosse tournament in College Station, when he succumbed to the car accident. Charles was also a proud member of the engineering club and was on the team that recently won the State Engineering Championship. It was Charles' dream to graduate from Strake Jesuit and attend Texas A&M University with his older brother John and older sister Bess. Charles wanted to grow up and be an engineer. He had just been planning his entire high school course schedule with his mother, Mary, so that he would be prepared for Texas A&M one day. He wanted to follow in the family tradition of going to A&M, where Mary and Gene were also graduates. Outside of school, Charles was an active member of the First Presbyterian Church of Houston, Texas. Charles was a member of the youth group and the Church held an important place in Charles' heart. He participated in two mission trips each summer with the Church, because it was his belief that the work they did was integral to the lives of others. That spirit of giving back to others was a driving force in Charles' life. He was a Life Scout in Boy Scout Troop #55 and scouting was also important to him. In the summers, Charles attended Kanakuk Kamp in Lampe, Missouri. He was a six-year camper and could not wait to go back to camp each summer. Charles also loved to be with his family in the outdoors. He looked forward to family trips at Glacier National Park and he loved to be in the outdoors of Montana. He was an avid outdoorsman and loved to hunt with his father, Gene. However, it was the time spent with his family especially in the past year that defined the noble character of Charles. When Gene became paralyzed a little more than a year ago in a tractor accident, Charles never wavered from his father's side. Charles displayed the integrity of a man much older than himself in the time he would take with his father and the care that he gave him. Charles did everything for Gene, from helping him get dressed to pushing his wheelchair. Charles would spend his evenings doing homework and then share meals and memories with both his mother and father. In the mornings, Mary would take the three family dogs, "Dubya," "Hank" and "Bean" into Charles' room to wake him up. Without fail, all three dogs would jump up on the bed and wake Charles up to a new day. The three Alford siblings were as close as any brothers and sisters could be. Over the years, John, Bess and Charles shared the love of their family, admiration for one another and lots and lots of laughter. Mary, Gene, Bess and John loved Charles with all their hearts. There are no words to describe the loss of Charles. He will be achingly missed by all who knew him and loved him. Also grieving for the loss of Charles Alford are his maternal grandparents, Annette and John Long and paternal grandparents, Phyllis and Landon Alford. Charles will also be greatly missed by Norma Salmon, who has worked with the Alford family since Charles was born. When he was a baby, Norma took Charles to the Zoo every single afternoon to see the animals. The Alford family will take Charles and bury him in the family plot in Henderson, Texas. A memorial service will be held Wednesday, February 18th at 2 pm at First Presbyterian Church, 5300 Main Street, Houston, Texas 77004. There will be a reception in Fellowship Hall following the Memorial Service. Donations in Charles' memory can be directed to First Presbyterian Church in care of Charles Knox Alford, for youth mission trips. On his keychain, Charles had the Bible verse, "Fear not for I am with you," from Isaiah 41:10. The Alford family would like to thank everyone for keeping Charles in their prayers and hearts.

Published by Houston Chronicle from Feb. 15 to Feb. 18, 2009.
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Hi Alford Family, I'm still thinking of you all and losing Charles 13 years ago. I remember what a light he was. I hope you are all doing well.

Christina

School

February 13, 2022

It has been a long long long time since Charle's death but somehow I found myself here. I will never forget walking into the locker room and hearing of the news. More importantly, I will never forget that "Charles smile" that could light us up. Having Charlie on the lacrosse team was a blessing, boy never quit. To say that he was an SJ brother is a greater blessing. God wanted his blue print back for making young men and I slept easier knowing that he was in a better place. 2/13/09 CA.

November 28, 2014

Dear Drs. Alford, Gene and Mary, John and Bess,

You have been on my heart over the years. I was devastated by the news of Charles in 2009. Upon hearing from my mother, my heart fell. I prayed for you and your recovery, Mary. I was unaware of Eugene's injury until I read the paper this morning, and am happy for his experience with the latest technology. I am still saddened by all of this and know you are missing Charles direly. I remember his darling self in 1st grade at Annunciation across the hallway, and those sweet, curious, thoughtful eyes. Hope time and special memories have brought you some comfort. Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.

Lea Melville

Lea Melville

June 14, 2012

Sharon

February 13, 2012

much love charlie, love ya man

August 30, 2011

Dear Gene, Mary, John and Bess. You all have been in my thoughts and prayers. Our family is remembering Charles and that exuberant smile. The first time I met Charles, he was about two years old at Mo Ranch. He sat in my lap and looked up at me with those happy, smiling eyes....it melted my heart. We were blessed to know him. I am holding you in my heart.....Joni

February 15, 2011

Dear Alford family,

Knowing that the 2 year anniversary of Charles' death is coming up, I wanted to let you know that our family has not forgotten him. He was a classmate of my daughter at AOS and we think and talk about him often. He was a wonderful young man who portrayed a wonderful smile. His love for the Lord was unquestioned. We are blessed and honored that we know him. Hope all is well and know that we pray for you often.

February 8, 2011

Hey Charles,

I'm still thinking about you. You were a remarkable person and I'm really, really sorry I was never able to tell this to you in person before it was too late. We're all graduating this year, and I wish you could have been here with us - I know you would've gone on to do great things, I regret not being able to see you do it all and grow up to be a young man anybody would be proud to know. I still hope that one day I will be able to leave behind a mark on my family and friends as lasting and as beautiful as you did - and I hope to spend the rest of my life pursuing that goal, so I guess I just want to say... thanks.

Keep watching over your family and friends for us. I know you're doing well up in heaven, and say a prayer for us once in a while.. we need it.

Miss you still,
AOS 2007 Classmate

Anonymous

February 5, 2011

Still remembering Charles - he was truly an inspiring spirit. I am praying that the Alford family is doing well.

Classmate

November 30, 2010

Charles was such and joy and inspiration to be around and he will forever be in our hearts. FPC is not the same without him.

Morgan Brown

November 29, 2010

Mary, I am saddened to hear of the loss of such a beautiful soul. He will reunite with his beloved family one day soon. Thank you for your faith and love in all things. Your family is an inspiration. I will pray for you all.

Lou Ann (Scoggin) Harwell

May 13, 2010

Dear Dr. Alford,
My wife and I just read your life's story on the Reader's Digest March 2009 issue. Truly, we found inspiration and strength in the trials and the recovery you've gone through. We're scanning the web to try to know more about you, not realizing to discover another tragedy had occurred.
Please accept our late but deepest sympathy and prayers for the internal repose of Charles, and recovery... for you and the family.
We too are hurting over a child's affliction. God knows we know the pain. Our family will be praying for you tonight.

Jonathan Desales

February 20, 2010

No hay palabras para consolar Exactas, Que Dios los bendiga y aunque no se mucho de ustedes, me han Hecho ver que la vida es bella y unida teniedo a gente como ustedes MIL BENDICIONES PARA USTEDES.

VANESSA GIOVANNA BUENDIA JIMENEZ

February 4, 2010

I am truly sorry about Charles. I knew him for just a short time but I was very glad I met him. He was a very sweet kid, and funny too. May god give you peace and guidance.

November 9, 2009

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Charlie. I hope you can find peace with the guidance of our Lord. My children went to school at AOS, and my daughter was in the same grade with John. We pray for you that god gives your family strength in trying times as this.

TOBI TSOKOS

September 25, 2009

I was Charles' counselor one summer at K-West, and I wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I remember Charles as being exceptionally good natured, and how much we all enjoyed him back then. I am thankful for his faith in Christ, and for the resurrection that is promised to all that are found in Him. May God continue to strengthen you.

John Lambuth

September 7, 2009

I have signed this guest book once before, but wanted to let you know that people have not forgotten to pray for you and for your beloved Charles. I know he is watching over you. I pray you find peace and comfort in loving memories in the days ahead.

Kathy LaGrange

August 25, 2009

Alford Family,
You don't know me technically but my name is Sheila Smith Bromley Roberts. I am from Henderson Texas and knew Eugene from school. I just want to encourage you to stand firm on your faith and know that in time you will be able to function in the most normal way you can after a loss of this magnitude. I to have lost a son at 16 and is the most devistating tradgedy imaginable. But the Lord can and will and I am sure has thus far to sustain your very sanity. I pray the Lords blessings and peace over you during this time!
In Christ Service,
Sheila Roberts

Sheila Roberts

June 11, 2009

PS I was writing this and Garth Brooks, The Dance, came on. Isn't it strange how God can talk to us? Mikies love was owls and just recently I was on our deck in the late evening and an owl landed on the rail. He looked right at me and I felt it was God's way of letting me know Mikie was safe and happy.
Sue Wineinger

May 28, 2009

Gene & Mary,
I read of your story Gene, in the Readers Digest and then received my new copy with the note that Charles had passed away. I lost my son on March 26th, 2009, just days away from his 32nd birthday. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Sue Wineinger

Sue Wineinger

May 28, 2009

I do not know you but your story touched my heart and i have tears in my eyes reading of your tragic loss. 2 Thess. 2:16-17 "Now our LORD Jesus Christ Himself, and God, even our Father, which hath loved us, and hath given us Everlasting Consolation and good hope through grace, Comfort your hearts, and stablish you in every good word and work." - Hold on to each other and know that your tragedies were not in vain, there is so much love and character that shows in all of your lives and encourages us all who have lost love ones as well.

Mary McCrady

May 20, 2009

Gene & Mary,

Know that many thoughts and heavy hearts were with you this weekend at TDA. In this fast paced world sometimes news still travels slowly and I am so very sorrowful for your loss. Know Mary that my prayers are especially for you on this Mothers Day. It was on April 18th I learned of your previous struggle and can assure you that our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Darin & Liz Holmes

Darin Holmes

May 9, 2009

I have already signed this guest book but I wanted to tell you how much I am thinking and praying for your family. I feel so blessed to have known your family and to have been a small part of your children's lives. Mary, I remember you coming to church at St. Andrew's with your shoes untied because you were so pregnant with Charles you couldn't bend over. And when I think of Charles, I think of a red headed baby that would scrunch up his nose when he smiled. I pray that God will imprint that memory in my mind and heart forever.
Please know you are all continually lifted up in prayer.

Claudette Harper Brown

May 6, 2009

I was Charles' first homeroom teacher in high school, before a personal illness forced me to stop working. Charles was such a sweet, happy boy. He honestly greeted me every morning with a smile. He was so incredibly well behaved and polite and kind and friendly. I was heart broken to hear about his death. The world is less wonderful without Charles in it. I am so sorry for your loss.

Aubrey Garcia

April 27, 2009

I am very sorry for your loss. I awoke early on a Saturday morning and couldn't return to sleep. As always when this happens I pick up the Reader's Digest, hoping that it will lulle me back to sleep. I noticed the Eugene Alford 'Editor's Note' profile and got online to read the article. I was glad to read that Eugene is recovering. I was very saddened to hear of your families loss. Take heart, God is with you.

Betty M

April 18, 2009

I am so very sorry...I don't know if you remember me but I was Bess's 8th grade Spanish teacher at AOS. I read about this tragedy and wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers for God to bring you in His time His peace.

Kristina Rios de Lumbreras

March 26, 2009

Dear Dr. Alford and Family

I work with a physician who shared your story with me. You see, I also have a 16 year old son and words cannot express my deepest sympathy for you and your family.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and a child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I am praying for God to give you the peace that surpasses all understanding in your time of grief.

Anita Starling

March 24, 2009

Dear Dr. Alford and Family,

You probably do not remember me but I was a nurse at Methodist. I remember the high esteem and warmth all your colleagues there had for you. I live and work in Georgia now. I was circulating a very long OR case when I came across the article about you in Readers Digest. Since then I have learned from my mother and father, Tom and Rosemary Baxter, of your further tragedy.

I am so saddened by your profound loss. I am praying for God to continue to give you the strength in adversity that you have already shown. I am praying for the Lord to send you and your family peace and understanding. I am praying that Jesus, our divine physician, will someday heal your hurts, as you have healed so many.

Sincerely,
Maura Baxter Ascencio, RN
Daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Thomas L. Baxter, Houston, TX

Maura Ascencio

March 18, 2009

Your entire family has been in my prayers since I learned of your loss from my mother. Mary, I am sure Mrs. Knight will watch after your son until you join him.

Diane (McElmurry) Bliven

March 17, 2009

Dr. Alford you have my deepest sympathy for lost of your love one. My prayers are with you, your wife, and your family. May God Bless you and keep you through this difficult time.

Jahana Joseph

March 16, 2009

Dear Gene, Mary, Bess, and John,
Words can not express our sorrow for your loss. Please know you are all in our prayers on a daily basis. Our hopes are that you can find some comfort in the Bible verse on Charles's keychain, "Fear not for I am with you". May GOD bless all of you.
Dennis, Janice, Lauren, and Landon Gerlich

Janice Gerlich

March 10, 2009

To The Alford Family

I do not know anyone in your family. I came across Charles's obituary when I read an article about Dr. Alford in Readers Digest. I was touched and saddened by the loss of this young man who appears to have been a light. I am sad for your family and the pain you must endure. You are in my prayers today, and I will continue to pray that God gives you the strength you need to get through this difficult period. I pray for Charles, and I know he is in a good place. God bless you.

Janice Webster

March 9, 2009

Alford Family,

I have been praying for your family that you are doing better and hopefully understanding the joy Our Lord God, through Jesus Christ Our Savior, is bringing to Charles right now and will be for the rest of his eternal life, and eventually to all of us too. I can not comprehend the loss of a child, but I can comprehend the loss of a loved one, not long ago I too was filling out this very same guest book for my own father and daily being reminded of him when a new post would appear from a family member or friend, but the kind words of love that came out of it will always be in my heart. Therefore, I deeply feel for you, Alford Family, but, in turn, I am happy for Charles for his struggle in this life is over and he is FOREVER PEACEFUL!


To Dr. Mary Alford: I hope to see you again soon, we all miss you!

Eden Hart

March 4, 2009

Dr. Eugene and Mary Alford and Family,

Your article in Reader's Digest was inspirational. My husband was recently on an elevator with you and when you exited, the lady on there asked my husband if he knew about you. We had just read your touching story that morning in the Reader's Digest. She told us what happened after that was printed. We just could not believe it so we searched the Chronicle. That is how we discovered the tragic passing of your son. Our hearts extend our love and prayers to your family. We are so sorry and words cannot express the sympathy others have discussed on your behalf. God Bless You wonderful people.

Respectfully,
Steve and Teresa Jackson
Spring, TX

Teresa Jackson

February 28, 2009

Dear Mary Gene Bess and John, Tremendous sympathies to all of you. We know you miss Charles every moment of every day. Our prayer is for you to constantly find the strength and peace to endure and to prosper as you witness what God plans. It seems your entire family is chosen in a special and crazy way to bless others through joyful laughter and now again through tragic tears. Your exquisite love for Charles is an example to us all and we celebrate his beautiful life in a beautiful family- a legacy for all generations, really. Remembering some hilarious charades in the lobby of the hotel in Honduras, Carol, Bill, Allison, Eric, and Ruth

The Marshalls

February 27, 2009

Mary, Gene, John, Bess, and Grandparents,

We love you and suffer for your loss. All of you are in my family's prayers as well as the prayers of my church family. I know you will always cherish Charlie's 16 years with you. God bless you.

Betty Crowson Fowler

February 27, 2009

Dr.Alford and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Annette Howard,M.D.
Judith F.Jones

February 27, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

liz gaston

February 26, 2009

Dr. Eugene and Mary Alford,

Your article in Reader's Digest was so touching, your courage and committment, moved me to want to send you an email. Ultimately, what I discovered was the tragic passing of your son.......my heart pours out to your family.

Respectfully,
Maria Fornuto
Rochester, New York

Maria Fornuto

February 26, 2009

Dear Mary & Gene,
I am so sorry to hear about Charles.
May God help you and your family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Troy Jones & Family

Troy Jones

February 25, 2009

Our hearts cannot cry enough tears for your pain. Our grandsons go to AOS. I have thought of you all so much lately. Only God can heal. Rita A. Ruffeno

Rita Ruffeno

February 25, 2009

Dear Eugene and Family,
Know that we are thinking of you during this difficult time and praying that the love of our Lord enfolds you and bring you comfort and peace.
With our deepest sympathy,
Dr. and Mrs. Mauricio Ochoa

Mauricio and Martha Ochoa

February 24, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sincerely,
George, Monica, and Nolan McCaa

Monica McCaa

February 24, 2009

Dear Mary, Eugene and family
I am so sorry. I can not even begin to know how you must be feeling. The loss of a child/sibling is more than any family should have to experience. God has a plan and it is our faith in Him that helps all of us through times like these. Please know that you are in my prayers. Love to you all..

Melinda (Morris) Denson

February 24, 2009

Dear Alford family, We are friends of Landon and Phylis here in Henderson and have been greatly touched by your story of tradegies...It seems that God is truly at work in your lives and is using you to inspire many people by your strength and faith. Our hearts go out to you in the loss of your son, and we want you to know we will keep you all in our prayers! Sincerely, Anne and Wendell Pool, Henderson,Tx

anne pool

February 23, 2009

Eugene, Mary & Children,
We are deeply saddened at the loss of Charlie. We ask for God's love, mercy and grace in the days ahead. What a fine example of the pioneer Alford Family spirit he lived and shared with all. We pray for your days ahead and the Grandparents.

The Bob Hancock Family
Richmond & Jasper, Texas

Bob Hancock

February 23, 2009

Dr. and Mrs. Alford,
My husband is an Orthopedic Surgeon here in Denton, TX. He too loves to visit the farm and so I totally identify with you.
I was so saddened by your loss that I just want to send my condolence and pray that the reasons for the loss of your precious baby some day will become apparent. Life will never be the same, but the character that your child exhibited obviously came from all of you and I pray that your family will carry on his legacy by continuing to inspire us with your god given strengths,i.e, generosity,kindness, and courage that your family so obviously has been blessed with.
With Heart Felt Sympathy,
The House Family

Karol House

February 23, 2009

Dear Mary and Landon,
I can't even begin to know what to say. My heart is broken. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Bud and Sarah Luecke

Percy Luecke III

February 22, 2009

Dear Alford Family,
Our hearts ache for your pain and sadness after the loss of your precious Charles. Thank you for generously sharing him with the SJ Family. Our older son was not there when he was, but our younger son, who will hopefully be there in a few years, will be inspired by the life Charles led. We pray you will find a measure of peace someday.
The Smidt Family

Nancy Smidt

February 22, 2009

Mary & Gene,
We have such fond memories of all of you with West U Little League. Carson fondly remembers the day Gene stitched up his chin and then "glued" it down so he could swim at his and Charles' baseball team party that evening!
We will continue to keep you all in our prayers, asking God to give you the peace that passes all understanding, that can only come from Him. Rejoice in the fact that Charles is in the presence of His saviour.
Love,
Rod, Linda, Alex & Carson Gray

Linda Gray

February 21, 2009

Gene, Mary, John and Bess,
We know you will find strength in each other. You're in our prayers.
The Johnstons

Charles Johnston

February 21, 2009

May the love of the Lord provide strength for your entire family from now on. Your pain and loss are shared by many, far and near.

Penny Hollingshead

February 21, 2009

I live in San Angelo,Tx.Just wanted you to know when San Angeloans read of your lost, they felt sympathy for the entire family right away.I also read of this young man's Father,of his own accident.I personally Thank God for Doctors.God Bless them.Thank you and you will be in my prayers.

Juanita Arambula

February 20, 2009

We love you, Alford family!!! You have been in our thoughts and prayers constantly, and the strength of your family never ceases to amaze us.

-the Masson's

Cristina Masson

February 20, 2009

Dr. Alford and family,
My deepest heartfelt condolences to all of you for the tragic and unexpected loss of your beloved son. May God comfort all of you today and always with the many wonderful memories of Charles.

Pattii Montgomery

February 20, 2009

We wanted you to know you have touched the hearts of many old friends in Odessa, Tx. as well as across the country. We are so sorry for your loss and we'll keep you in our prayers. God Bless You! With Love, Jerri (Swann) & Tommy Melton & family

Jerri Melton (Swann)

February 20, 2009

Landon & Phyllis,
Jackie Painter (Nanny) e-mailed the devastating news. It is always more difficult losing one so young with such a promising future. Our deepest
condolences.
Robert & Marianne Nelson (Colorado Springs, CO

Robert (Bobby) Nelson

February 20, 2009

Dr Alford ,Mary ,John and Bess
May God continue to comfort all of you God tell's us in his words that weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning(Psalms 30-5) and God word is true continue to trust in him.

Adeline Manning ORL OR

February 20, 2009

Gene, Mary, John, Bess and extended family, We were so saddened to hear of your loss. We did not know Charles well but had the pleasure of meeting him once at a First Presbyterian event at your home and could tell from that brief meeting that he was a special person. Your family is in our prayers.

Holly and Jerimy Polf

February 19, 2009

Mary and Gene, words fall away from me to tell you how much I feel for you. Cauleen and Andrew were both crushed when they heard the news. I urged them to go back to be with you. Dave and I pray for you both daily.

Trish and Dave Millhouse

February 19, 2009

Dr. Alford and Family
My deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you at this time. Words cannot express the sadness felt for your family. May you find the strength to endure.

Mary LeGrand

February 19, 2009

Dr. Alford and Mary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Betsy & Bob Steger

February 19, 2009

I was reading your story online from Reader's Digest and was just amazed and inspired on you & your Family's will to recover from a tragic accident. I am truly saddened with the death of Charles. I pray that the Lord will fold your family within His arms during this time of terrible grief. Please know that you all are an inspiration to many people. God Bless each one of you.

Theresa Lackey

February 19, 2009

Dear Eugene and Family,
My brother Bob Hancock and I were just talking to other day about going to Aggie Revile Breakfast together. He had mentioned you were looking forward to going with us. Sometimes we need to stick together. There is strenght in numbers. Our Dads enjoyed SMU and you and Bob enjoyed ATM. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God Bless

Ben Hancock

February 19, 2009

Dear Alford Family,

I wish to extend my deepest condolences to you all. I share in your grief, as I lost my 19 year old daughter 20 years ago very unexpectedly, also. I truly do know the extent of your pain and sorrow, but I can also assure you that Jesus will fill the void in you and will ease your pain. I was so happy to read that church was so important to him. If you all truly know Jesus Christ as you personal Lord and Savior, you will be together again forever. My daughter, my family and I will look for you all there!

Agape,

Rev. Karen Murphy

February 19, 2009

Dear Gene, Mary, John & Bess,

Doug called with the sad & shocking news about Charles. We can't begin to tell you how sorry we are. Words seem too hollow to fill such a place of grief and loss. Please know that our thoughts & prayers are with you along with those of our church family. Charles was obviously a very special young man. We remember his big smile and sweet personality and fellowship around a Montana campfire. Just can't believe he is gone - yet what a comfort you must feel to know that he is in the presence of our Lord. Your entire family has been in our prayers this past year knowing the struggle faced after Gene's accident. The Reader's Digest article was wonderful - so personal and uplifting and hopeful. You have touched many lives.

God bless each of you.

The Rogers Family
Joe, Linda, Elizabeth & Jessica
Heartwood, MT

Joe & Linda Rogers

February 19, 2009

Dr. Alford and Mary,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. I pray that peace will surround you and that you look forward to the day when you are joined together again with Charles.

Michele Byrnes

February 19, 2009

Dear Alford Family,
Please accept my sincere sympathy on the death of your son, Charles.
And I hope that the kind thoughts of your friends and good wishers will make your grief a little easier to bear. Tonight my family and I will
pray for you.

Father

February 19, 2009

Know that we are praying for you and your whole family. He sounds like an incredible boy, but that does not surprise us with you guys as his parents. Our thoughts are with you. Love, tim and joan

Tim Wanek

February 19, 2009

Alford Family, You are in our prayers and thoughts during this difficult time. May God provide you with faith and healing.

Carl & Judy Thrasher

February 19, 2009

Gene and Mary I am so sorry for your loss. No family should have to go through what you have endured.I will keep your family and Charles in my prayers.
Ed Hillman,MD

Ed Hillman

February 19, 2009

To the Alfrod family:
I sympathize with you greatly in the loss of your son. I do not know the family personally but I know Mrs. Alfrod who is my dentist and is a very caring and loving person. I feel your grief, I just lost my grandmother a few months ago and it's been a little hard for me but I learned to trust in God and I've realized that when things such as this occur, it is the time when we should really strenghten our faith in God. Be blessed and Mrs. Alfrod, I will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers.If I haven't said it before, I thank you for the love you showed to me everytime I came into your dentist office.

Eugene Edwards

February 19, 2009

Dr. Alford and Family: Words can never express the depth of sadness we feel for your loss and every prayer we have prayed has been for you. Though we never had the pleasure of meeting Charles in person, we know that your angel on earth is now an angel in Heaven. May God Bless and Keep you all. With all our love and prayers -

Karen Klucznik

February 18, 2009

Charles,

You were a bright, shining star while you were among us and you will definitely be missed. It was an honor to be your teacher and your friend. I pray that your life will inspire all of us to live our lives like you did...with great enthusiasm and joy.

Rest in Peace,
Tommy Romano
Strake Jesuit College Prep.

Tommy Romano

February 18, 2009

Dear Mary, Gene, John, and Bess,
My heart goes out to all of you in the loss of Charles. I will always remember the quiet way in which he collected items from the AOS teachers for his mission trips. His dedication to serving others was a tribute to all of you and to his faith. You are in my prayers every day.
Elaine DeAlmeida

Elaine DeAlmeida

February 18, 2009

Cling to each other and rely on each other to help you with the loss of your loved one. My deepest sympathy to the family of this young man.

Houston Mother

February 18, 2009

Gene & Mary,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Greg Overstreet

February 18, 2009

May our Lord give you peace as you deal with the tragic loss of your son and brother. Remember His Word that tells us ... "I will never leave you nor forsake you."

Ronald "Butch" & Kathy Alford

February 18, 2009

Dear Alford Family,
I keep thinking about you and Charles. I am praying for you all the time.
With Love,
Frances Stacy

Frances Stacy

February 18, 2009

I never met Charles but I felt like I knew the whole family having worked with Mary Alford on Tuesday's at the Bering Dental Clinic and she loved her family very much. I pray that God gives this family the strengh they need to keep going forward. God takes his angels for whatever reason and Charles was that. Remember he is always with you; He's now an angel watching over his family. May God Bless this family and give them peace.

Brenda Timmons-Metoyer

February 18, 2009

Dear Dr. Alford and family- I am so sorry for your loss and pain. I did not know Charles but he sounds like an amazing young man. It's the world's loss as well, he could have been a leader. May God hold you in his loving arms.
Karen Kilduff RN

Karen Kilduff RN

February 18, 2009

Dear Alford Family,
The worst feeling ever is losing someone close to you. I didn't know Charles personally, but I can feel his presence missing among us and I truly hope that he is in a better place.

B <3

February 18, 2009

I didn't know your son or your family. I happened to read the obituaries in the Chronicle today and saw your son's story. I am a parent to of 3. I could not imagine ever going through what you are going through now. I only pray that GOD will give your family strength to get through this and to comfort you all. My prayers are with your family.

A Parent

February 18, 2009

Dearest Gene, Mary and family,
Although we do not know each other extremely well, Brad has always spoken so highly of Gene as both a physician and person. We have had you in our thoughts and prayers this past year following Gene's accident, and now will continue to keep you there with the tragic loss of your beautiful son. The obituary was a beautiful tribute to a young man that obviously touched so many people in such a positive way. Our hearts are extremely sad for you...
and we pray that you will find peace in knowing what a wonderful gift you gave him as his parents and family members during his short life.
With our deepest sympathy,
Susan and Brad

Susan and Brad Patt

February 18, 2009

Dear Alford family,

There are not strong enough words to express how wonderful a person Charles was. Last year, as difficult as it was to wake up in the morning for choir, he was one of those people who made the effort worth while. His beaming, yet excessively goofy smile almost perfectly reflected his spirit.

After I graduated, Charles and I continued to keep in touch. He never showed even the slightest falter in his reputation of being an all-around great guy. And in that sense, although I never did get to tell him, I aspire to be more like him.

I will miss Charles, but will not forget him. He was truly a blessing to me in the short time I was privelidged to know him.

As I continue to pray for him, I will also continue to pray for yau all.

In His name,

Michael Johnston, SJ class of '08
AMDG

Michael Johnston

February 18, 2009

Gene & Mary,
I am so sorry for your loss--you are amazing parents who lost a truly amazing son. I pray that God would draw you near, grant you peace and carry you close to Him always.
Romans 8:37-39
Love and prayers,
Lori (former OT at TIRR)

Lori Ficken-Josefy

February 18, 2009

The Alford Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Charles. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Jackie Ortega

February 18, 2009

Of all earthly music that which reaches farthest into heaven is the beating of a truly loving heart! And your love and Charles' love will beat on. God Bless your family through this loss of a great child.

Becca Frierson

February 18, 2009

Dr. Alford, May the peace of God be with you and your family in this time of need. With my sincere and deepest sympathy,

Sylvia Rangel

February 18, 2009

We are so saddened by the loss of Charles. Our prayers for comfort and strength are offered for each of you.
Nicole, Dana, Jono and Brenda Reusser

February 18, 2009

Our hearts break for you. I awaken at night burdened with your loss. There are no words to express our sorrow.

Jane Verm

February 18, 2009

Mary and Family,

No words can express or comfort you at this time. But know that Charles will always live in your heart.

There is a brighter star in the evening sky, and it is Charles shining brightly as he did here on earth.

Keeping you and your faimly close in thought and prayer during this time.

With deepest sympathy.

Michelle (Lang) Hayes

Michelle Hayes

February 18, 2009

Working with you has always been a pleasure. I cannot imagine what your family must be going through. God is with you and your son. You are in my and my husband's prayers.

Neha

Neha Patel Karani

February 18, 2009

Mary and Gene,
As I write to you I am praying for you and your family. What a tragedy but what a wonderful and godly son Charles was and what a gift God blessed you with even if it wasn't for as long as you would have wanted. May God's love fill your heart and spirit at this difficult time. Mary,I haven't seen you in some time but my friend, I love you and my heart and prayers are with you.

Lisa (Jefferson) Murn

February 18, 2009

Dr. Alford,
You probably don't remember me, but I was a patient of yours several years ago when you did "magic" amazing plastic surgery on me after I got skin cancer. You performed a forehead skin flap on me after I got basal cell carcinoma on my nose. My wife. Gail, and I have thought about you often over the years. So sorry to hear about the passing of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Mark Silverman

February 18, 2009

Dear Dr. Alford & Family,
I heard the sad news about the loss of your remarkable, beloved son & brother when I went to work yesterday. Please know that you have my deepest sympathy & all of you are in my prayers.
Diane Onak, RN
The Methodist Hospital

Diane Onak

February 18, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Ingrid Rodriguez

February 18, 2009

I will truly miss Charles.May god bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

SHAR

SHARLENE PRUITT

February 18, 2009

You have our deepest sympathy.We are saddened in the loss of your son.May God Bless you and your family.

Dwayne and Monica Kincade

February 17, 2009

I'm an Eagle Scout from Troop 55. Charles was such a great and spirited boy. He was always willing to try new things and he was always so friendly. Some boys are so much trouble about obeying rules but Charles knew that it was better to listen and gain the knowledge of others. He was a wonderful display of the twelve points of the scout law. I really liked Charles and it breaks my heart to hear this news. You will be in my prayers.

Thomas Stacy

February 17, 2009

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