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SCOTT SPILLANE FRICKER
Passed away on Friday, December 22, 2017, at his home in Reston, Virginia. He was 48 years old. His life, and that of his loving wife, Buckley, were cut short by an act of inexplicable violence. Scott was the son of John and Sandy Fricker of Burlington, NC; the brother of Jason Fricker of Charleston, SC; and the father of Elliot Auden Fricker. He was the caring step-father to Kelly Sizemore Kuhn and Amelia Sizemore Kuhn Fricker. Scott was born in Heidelburg, Germany while his father was serving in the military. He spent all of his formative years and professional life in the Washington metropolitan area. He earned his bachelors' s degree from the University of Richmond, his master's from UC Santa Barbara and the Ph.D. from the University of Maryland in survey research methodology. He enjoyed his meaningful work for the Bureau of Labor Statistics and made many friends there. Scott's greatest enjoyment, however, was being a loving and involved family member. A memorial service will be held for Scott and Buckley at 10 a.m. on Saturday, December 30 at Trinity Presbyterian Church, 651 Dranesville Road, Herndon, VA. In lieu of flowers, the Fricker family suggests that a prayer be said for all affected by this tragedy and that we all treasure the moments that we have with one another.
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Memories and Condolences
for SCOTT FRICKER
Don Luepke
December 23, 2024
Hello Sandy, I am not certain that you will read this, but I wanted to share my good wishes for a truly grace-filled and joyful Christmas. Guess what, I am heading back to Holden Village next June leading a work crew to do maintenance tasks. Going back to good memories after 60 years. Blessings and love to you, my friend. Don [email protected]
Chris Nidek
December 22, 2023
Thinking of you today and sending love and prayers your way
Chris Nidek
Don Luepke
December 22, 2021
Sandy, I am not sure that this might be the Sandy Holtan who was at Holden Village work camp back in the 60's. If so, please contact me at [email protected]. Blessings to you.
Don Luepke
December 27, 2020
I am inquiring as to whether Scott's mother, Sandy, is Sandy Holtan formerly from Minnesota. I worked with her at Holden Village in Chelan, Washington, back in 1964. I am so sorry for this senseless death and wish God's blessings on all of the family.
Please contact me. Thank you for your kindness.
Jane Price
December 26, 2020
We remember Scott fondly as a wonderful high school friend of our son, Andrew; and send our very sincerest best wishes to his family for the holidays
Stef Baker
January 23, 2018
Dear John and Sandy,
Words are just not enough to describe my sorrow for you and your family. I am so very sorry for your tragic and senseless loss. I think of you and your family daily and my thoughts, heart and prayers are with you.
Dan and Margaret DeLacy
January 17, 2018
John and Sandy: We cannot express how badly we feel about your loss of Scott. We remember him fondly as not only your son but a talented swimmer at Tuckahoe all those years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Jason and the rest of your family. Dan and Margaret DeLacy
Kim Howry
January 8, 2018
John and Sandy, We are so very sorry. Will continue to keep you and the families in our prayers. ! !
Jane Price
January 4, 2018
Dear Sandy, John, and Jason,
Like many, I was deeply saddened to learn of the extremely tragic death of Scott and Buckley.
I remember Scott from his McLean High School days when he and our son, Andrew, were good friends. He will be long remembered from those days as a high-achieving student, wonderful athlete, and very well-liked friend to many. I can tell that his life continued to be one of admirable success which you should always be proud of.
Please know that our sincerest condolences and thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Jane Price
Jessica (Briscoe) Coleman and family
January 1, 2018
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Fricker, Jason, and family, My family and I were devastated to hear the news of Scott and Buckley's passing. The first time I remember meeting Scott and Jason was very early on at Lewinsville elementary. My sister's (Dana & Amanda) and myself have countless memories at Tuckahoe/Solatar on the swim team and throughout our school years in McLean of Scott. He was such a great guy with a wonderful sense of humor. I'm sure his wife Buckley was equally as wonderful and will be dearly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know he is watching over all of you in heaven.
Silvia Koch
December 30, 2017
Dear Jason, John, and Sandy, and family:
It is with a very heavy heart and much love that my husband, David, and I Iift our voices in prayers for your consolation and forebearance at this sad time. As you may remember, our sons, Scott and Walter, were in the same class and were of the same age at McLean, and our sons, Jason and Charly, are also of the same age and were in the same class. Recently, about a month ago, Charly and Jason met for lunch in Charleston.
We were unable to attend the memorial service today, but Charly and his wife, Lisa, were able to go, and joy you in prayer and commemoration. We, too, join you in prayer, heartfelt love, and sincere sympathy. We will continue to keep Scott and his family, and all of you and your family in our warmest regard and prayers. Please do not hesitate to contact us at any time.
May you know the gifts of consolation and endless love.
Silvia and David Koch
6844 McLean, Va.
703-534-0417
Betsy Shea
December 30, 2017
Dear John and Sandy, Chris and I are so sorry for your loss. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Betsy & Chris Shea
Kathi Brown
December 30, 2017
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Fricker and Jason, I have fond memories of your family from the Lewinsville days when, among other things, Jason played soccer with my brothers for a while on the Blue Bombers. Although I didn't really know Scott, he was so friendly and gracious when I recognized his name at a conference a few years ago and introduced myself. I'm glad that I had a chance to briefly experience the fun, warm charisma that everyone here seems to be recalling. My heart goes out to you and your family after this devastating loss.
Laura Hawthorne
December 29, 2017
Where have you gone beautiful spirit of this earth?
The angels rejoiced at your birth,
As a spunky kid in the pool you left a spark,
The sport of swimming was a place you would leave your mark.
We trained together years ago in the pool,
To be the fastest and win- to you was so cool,
Your true grit in competition inspired us all,
Somehow Scott you always did it while having a ball.
You always managed to make people chuckle,
By just being you- in laughter we would all buckle,
You brought such joy to all life's crazy situations,
Your smiling face to see in swimming victory situations.
Always giving your best,
For life you had an amazing zest,
The little red haired kid that was witty and clever,
You will never be gone-you live on in our souls forever.
And one day we will see you once more,
Until that day our hearts in this world are sore,
We will swim in the everlasting waters of eternal life,
The sweetest memories of your spirit until then must suffice.
Scott Fricker, my beloved swimming teammate at Solotar, friend and brother in Christ:
Now you have your angel crown. Your character and substance will live on eternal. Thanks for for your incredible soul and spirit. You were, and forever will be, an amazing Breath of Heaven.
Lisa
December 29, 2017
We are so sorry for your great loss. We will keep all of you close to our hearts and hope someday peace will fill the place where you now feel pain and deep sorrow.
Katie Shafer Rivers
December 29, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. Your whole family stands strong in my childhood memories.
David Kombo
December 28, 2017
Our prayers are with the whole family and closest friends of yours. May the Lord God comfort you in a special way!
Susan Smit
December 28, 2017
Buckley was such a Miracle Worker for the people she represented and cared for. She had the gift of compassion and honesty that made the situation shine even when things were out of control. We lost a true Angel. God Bless you, Buckley and Scott.
Jeff Costantino
December 28, 2017
I knew Scott in high school when we both worked at Erol's in McLean. He was very friendly and kind, plus fun to hang out with when things got a little boring at the store. It sounds like he accomplished a lot in his life, both personally and professionally. I'm glad I had the chance to know him.
Charmaine Pala
December 28, 2017
My heart is broken for your family. I am praying that you find the strength to carry on, and to lift that little boy of Scott's and Buckley's. May Scott's and Buckley's two other children also find peace and comfort in those who love them. I'm so very sorry for the loss of such beautiful and dedicated parents who lost their lives too soon.
Patricia Shifflett
December 28, 2017
In my thoughts and prayers
Jeff and Jennifer Whitten
December 28, 2017
Your light will forever be with us
Lynne & Steve Alterman
December 28, 2017
Sandy and John,
Our hearts go out to you at this time of unimaginable sadness. We miss you here in Duck!
Lynne & Steve Alterman
Angela Bennett-Zoellner
December 28, 2017
So sorry for your unimaginable loss. I met Scott in 6th grade at Lewinsville Elementary. Although I haven't seen him since high school and didn't know him that well, he was always memorable as the cutest, friendliest boy in school. Prayers for you all.
December 28, 2017
To the family, I am sorry to hear the news about your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61:1,2
Carlos Palacios
December 28, 2017
RIP
December 28, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Chris Nidek (Asheville NC)
Chris Hardy
December 28, 2017
Many Prayers being sent for the Family.
Julie Lopez
December 28, 2017
Dearest Jason and Mr/Mrs. Fricker, The Lopez Family as well as the Tuckahoe/Solotar swim community were all devastated to hear about this tragic end to a talented fun loving soul. My children now swim on the Tuckahoe team and know what it means to grow up together. Scott remains an unforgettable part of that swim family for me. Lots of love to you all and his young son in this time of heartwrenching loss.
With love,
Julie
Ann Brown-Collier
December 28, 2017
Sandy, John and Jason, I and my family have wonderful memories of you and Scott from your McLean days-- from the early Lewinsville. school times, Tuckahoe Pool --etc. Now our hearts are broken with you!
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