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James Craig Means October 3, 1952 - September 8, 2008 SALEM - James Craig Means "Big Jim" died on Monday, September 8, 2008. He was 55. Jimmy was born October 3, 1952 in San Diego, California to James W. and Carol Marie Means. Jimmy lived in Salem for many years where he raised his three children, Nicole Scharer, Jimmy Means, Jr., and Hollie Means. He recently moved back to Salem to be with his children after spending the past 10 years in the Hawaiian Islands. In addition to his children, he is survived by his sisters, Carolyn Thiebes, Kathleen Wulfers, and Maryann Taylor all of Salem; his brother, Danny Means of Livermore, California; father, James Means of Texarkana, Arkansas. His mother, Carol preceded him in death. He also leaves behind many nieces and nephews and friends who dearly loved him. Jimmy was a Vietnam veteran and was in the 101st Airborne. He always felt blessed to have come home from Vietnam and because of that he lived life to the fullest. He spent most of his life working as a flooring contractor. Jimmy enjoyed the beach, fishing, music and concerts. He loved playing his drums, his fingers were always tapping to the beat of any music. He loved to travel, everything that was sweet, writing notes to his family and friends and just having fun! Even as a young man, Jimmy was very adventurous and was always the life of the party. He loved to take things apart to see how they worked. His family will greatly miss his sense of humor and his sparkling blue eyes. A memorial service with full military honors will be held at 2:30 p.m. on Wednesday, September 24 at Willamette National Cemetery, Portland. A celebration of life will follow at the Copper Hill Events Center at 3170 Commercial St., S., Salem. Arrangements entrusted to Weddle Funeral Service in Stayton. Aloha sweet father, brother and son.

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Published by The Statesman Journal on Sep. 20, 2008.

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Kathy Holst

October 10, 2008

Dear Carolyn, Kathy, Maryann and your families, Danny and your son, Shelly, Nicole, Jimmy and Holly,
I had tried to call Jimmy on Oct.3 to wish him a happy birthday. He and I kept in touch throughout the yrs. When I didn't reach him I just was hoping that he had just changed his cell phone service but, I called Danny last night and I am so very sad of the news of his passing. Jim and I remained friends since 1975. He, always, made me laugh and he, always, cared about how I and my family were doing. Jim was like family to me and I love him dearly. I will hold him close to my heart forever and I can just see his sparkling blue eyes and hear his voice and his laughter. I am blessed to have known him. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Holly, thank you for helping your dad e-mail me the pictures when you were with him last summer in Maui. I treasure them and your dad was so proud to have you and Jimmy there with him. He, always, talked to me about how very proud he was of his kids (Nicole, Jimmy and Holly). You are his treasures. Bless you all, Kathy Holst

Walter White

September 26, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Lancers, B Co 158th Aviation Bn, 101st Airborne, http://thelancers.org

Carolyn Thiebes

September 23, 2008

My sweet little brother....it's so hard for us to believe that you're not here with us. Everytime I look at this picture I see how much you loved life. I keep thinking how glad I am that we took the trip to Seattle the weekend before you left us. You were so happy. You said it was the best you've felt in a long time. Being there with you is something I'll always treasure.

Don't worry about your kids. I'll be there for them. You're with mom now. I know you'll take good care of each other. You were a wonderful brother to Danny and Kathy and Maryann and I. What will we ever do without you?

Ellen Ward Lansing

September 23, 2008

Jimmy had a way of noticing everything. He was wise in his way. He reminded me of how life could be when it was good. The world seems emptier without him. I once heard the phrase "there is no life without love and in love there is no death". In Jimmy's case I feel this is so true.
For all of us who had the privilege of knowing him and to those whom he loved - remember whenever you hear music and see the waves on the beach - the surf is alway's up for Jimmy.

Helen Hume

September 22, 2008

Nicole, Jimmy and Hollie
My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.

Helen Hume (Summer's Mom)

Nick Zivolich

September 20, 2008

Miss all of you guys. Sorry for your loss.

Mary Spinnato

September 20, 2008

My dearest Hollie Bear, Nicole and Jimmy, you are in my deepest prayers. Good thoughts forever! Thanks to your dad and mom,for sharing you guys for awhile.
Love Always,Your first babysitter.And one of your Dad's best friend's

Mary Spinnato

September 20, 2008

May I express my deepest sympathy to all of James Craig Familia. I have always treasured, Jim,Nicole,Little Jimmy, and Shelly. This Family gave me a time to see what it was like to enjoy being a part of their childrens life for a period of time. I will never forget.
To my BEST male friend ever, I told him till thee end Jim, we will always be friends. 22 years later we stuck to our word. To a man who showed me that men have heart, respect, feelings, knows how to bring to bring out the sunshine and work hard. May I add honorable! Truly a man well respected in my life. Love always forever and a day.

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