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Laura
October 2, 2020
Played “Won’t Back Down” by Petty today, for you. You are loved, you are missed.
Alysa Swede
August 16, 2008
I recall our first encounter several years back. We spent all evening, on a downtown Portland park bench, singing 60's, 70's & 80's songs from sunset to sunrise, ballads about sacrifice, freedom, love, hope. Not only did we rename that bench, I do believe we left an everlasting impression on the lives of Portland's homeless that evening. Our music carried on, often miles apart. We had promised to never let it die. It remained, for me, as for countless others, a source of strength, no less exhilarating than it did in your long- distance ringing and singing in the early AM hours of your final day. I'm sorry I had so little time to sing with you that morning. I will, however, continue to share your inspiring lyrics with our respective colleagues, friends, families, peers, from office to kitchen table, from hospital to park bench, in venues all around this great big City. My Heart, My Love and Eternal Respect to YOU Always, David.
To Your Family, My Deepest Condolences
LOIS JOHNSON
August 13, 2008
My David, oh My David. We were planning, setting the date for your anticipated trip to Antioch, California to see us. Even though I was born and raised in this SF Bay Area, I had never yet toured Alcatraz, and you told me we would have this special “date” together. The tears are streaming down my cheeks as I type this, Honey. I was just barely getting around to accepting the awful silence of not ever getting to hear “my Frien Glenn’s” voice, see his emails or hug his neck again – when the chaplain from Salem Hospital called me around 7 pm on July 30, 2008 with the now unbelievable news of your death!
You have suffered and gone through so much, dear David. Struggling at the “age” of 30 minutes post birth when your heart stopped beating for 3 full minutes. So much prayer and promises to God went up in the next hours as the doctor came in and out of my recovery room to give his ominous reports (“he won’t live”, then “he will live but will have water on the brain”, and finally, “ruled out first 2 reports – but surely he will have permanent brain damage”.) Meanwhile your sailor Daddy who had never yet disobeyed a direct order, stood glued to the nursery window as medics flew about trying to revive you and he was ordered to leave the scene.
Well, you not only grew to be a healthy, robust little guy, but when we returned from Sweden to enter you into an Englewood Colorado grade school the teacher said, “What is he doing in 1st grade” and they advanced you to 2nd. You were always dubbed “our golden boy” – such a sweet peacemaker! – sandwiched in between rambunctious Glenn (10 ½ months older than you) and petite, utterly adorable Susanna (10 ½ months younger than you).
To my heartbreaking consternation, I was never made fully aware of the awful impact my own unresolved from childhood experiences had upon you, David, until you had become an adult. Much too late! That, coupled with your having to battle the inherited mental illness, seems more than is possible to bear. But David, you were blessed to be surrounded with the love and support of the beautiful people (many if not all who are included in this Guestbook). YOU found the way to work through the past – and the joy of our reconciliation filled each of us with anticipation and excitement for our future.
Your last precious email to me, written on July 30, you chuckled about how “yeah, we’re doing great – let’s avoid those potholes” (Politics was now the only shaky ground topic between us) I will forever miss your calling me MomE. That big “E” was the sign that you and I were doing great!!! And when you wanted me to know how OK we were, you’d call me “MomEEEEEEEEEEE”.
I am so very proud of you. Today I left a phone message at Englewood High School. I will speak with Mrs. Gibson, your Journalism teacher who absolutely adored you and saw you win many awards for your already amazing command of the English language.
We have to go on, David. We will. I’ll see you later, Honey! MomE
Terin McGee
August 9, 2008
Many thanks to David for all the work he did while he was here on earth. He's now in a better place, but will still be working for us. Max I know what it's like losing your Dad while you're so young. Just remember the things he taught you and that this was what God wanted. He was needed up there more than down here. Peace Be With You and Elenore.
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Judith Holliday
August 8, 2008
I 'm sorry to hear of David's passing. I did not know him but i commend him for speaking out about mental illness.I have suffered from mental for many years now. Finally it's out in the open where people can talk about and understand it.
Elisabeth Rodman
August 8, 2008
I knew Dave less than a year but from his very first hello, I knew he was special. He would ask such great questions and listen but be ready to jump in with his comments and words of advice. My daughter and I had coffee with him at his "office" as we were headed to Wed. market, with a hug and who the best vendors were to visit - off we went. "what an amazing man" were my daughter's words. We all echo those words. I am so greatful to have been considered one of his friends. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family and his "spin girls"!!
Liesbeth Gerritsen
August 7, 2008
I worked with David on a project focused on developing systems of mental health and substance abuse support during disasters. We traveled to the Gulf Coast for the SAMHSA conference after Katrina/Rita/Wilma. At the end of the conference David stood up in front of hundreds of administrators, social workers, therapists, doctors and other professionals and gallantly reminded us about the true spirit of recovery that, at its best, includes everyone in the process. David, you will be missed.
Haylin Thornton
August 7, 2008
David and I were at our "brand new ending" (his saying) together. We had a date the night he passed. I am so very sorry for everyone's loss; he was such a caring man. I will miss him greatly. I know we all will.
Robin Henderson
August 7, 2008
David was an amazing force of activism for mental health in Oregon. He challenged everyone to always keep the consumer's perspective in every decision. It didn't matter who you were--David was the conscience that spoke the truth. I will miss him greatly. Our children are around the same age, and we had many wonderful conversations about our kids. They were always first and foremost in his heart and mind. I'll miss you, David.
Marian Drake
August 7, 2008
David was one of the most vivid and alive persons I have ever met. I am stunned by his sudden passing, and send my sympathy to his family and especially to his children.
Bob and Gina Nikkel
August 6, 2008
Gina and I extend our support and condolences to David's family and his extended family of friends and colleagues. David leaves a huge void in our lives but his work will continue.
Kirsten Swanson
August 6, 2008
What can you say about a man who has helped so many. Thank you David, for all your tireless advocacy work. You are missed.
Jessica van Diepen
August 6, 2008
David's friends began an online memorial a few days ago at
http://www.david-romprey.virtual-memorials.com
Dominick Spedale
August 6, 2008
David's death is a terrible loss to this community and the people of Oregon who suffer from mental illness. He was a strong advocate/educator that worked closely with local government officials to improve conditions for people of this state. His vision went far beyond what was happening on the local scene. David knew no georgraphic boundries his vision was all inclusive.
I will miss David's smile,wit, thughtfullness and love. He was a blessing to all who were privilaged to know him. I know I'm a better person for knowing this gentle soul.
Staff of Howell-Edwards-Doerksen with Rigdon-Ransom Funeral Directors
August 5, 2008
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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