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April 29, 2025
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Mandy Pavs
April 29, 2025
I student taught under Hank, when Sectetariat won the derby. Though i never taught he set a great example.
Sandy Fleishman
June 12, 2024
Dear Sara,
We were recently in Chicago and I thought of you and Hank. When I googled him, I was shocked to learn of his passing. My memories of you and Hank in New York have always been wonderful. I am sorry for your loss and for educations loss.
Best, Sandy Fleishman
Brookline, MA
Karen and Andy Edlin
May 14, 2024
Sara and Family,
Andy and I were just devastated to hear about Hank. He was such a great guy! Big smile on his face every time we saw him. We are sending our sincere condolences to you and your entire family. Sending hugs and love. May the wonderful memories be with you forever.
Al Bertani
April 3, 2024
Sara and Family - I´m sending along my deepest sympathies on Hank´s passing. I had the honor and privilege of working with him when I facilitated a two year strategic planning process at New Trier several decades ago. Hank was an extraordinary leader comfortable in his own skin and clear about his mission of service to the students, staff, and community of New Trier. I enjoyed one of the most powerful, collaborative, and impactful partnerships in working with Hank and his team during those years. As noted, he influenced the lives of tens of thousands of students, staff, and community members. One of my prized artifacts from our relationship during those years is a photo that captures me passing the proverbial baton to Hank as we moved from planning to implementation in the process. Hank´s invitation to facilitate the strategic planning process for New Trier remains a high point of my professional career. I will celebrate his life in the fond memories of knowing and working with him. Al
Kathy Pilat
March 27, 2024
Sara, Matt, and family... I´m so deeply sorry to hear this. I was just this week talking to a family member about the enormous respect I have for the way Hank lead New Trier seeking and listening to all staff points of view before making a decision that impacted us all. I saw this repeatedly when I was Art Department Chair. Hank was so personable and warm, knew all staff´s (hundreds of) names, and something about everybody. Although we couldn´t talk sports as many others did, , we had a very nice connection when I taught Matt in Photography. Hank often sought understanding of the discipline and of Matt´s conceptual work. I was very touched. Hank created the best kind of leadership experience have ever known and I´m so fortunate that I knew him. Love and Peace to you all.
Dick Sebek
March 22, 2024
Just learned of Hank's passing and I wanted to extend my thoughts and prayers. We worked together in the Ojai Unified School District (California) where he was the superintendent and I was a teacher and coach at the high school (Nordhoff). He was always so professional, helpful, and supportive towards everyone while at the same time being a loyal and caring friend.
Marcia Russell
March 19, 2024
Sara and Family,
I extend my condolences to you all. I had the pleasure of working with Hank when he served as a lead mentor at Ventura County Office of Education in our new administrator program. Hank became a mentor of mine and ardent supporter most recently writing an eloquent letter of recommendation for me for a position last year. Hank was always supporting others and lifting them up, encouraging leaders to seek higher positions. I am forever indebted to him for his guidance and unwavering support. Hank always grinned from ear to ear when talking about his grandchildren. He is already sorely missed, and his legacy lives on in all of us who have been rewarded by knowing him.
Stephen Hanke
March 18, 2024
Sara and family. I had the opportunity to work with Hank at the Ventura County Office of Education in California as lead mentors in the administration preparation program. Hank was the bedrock leader of the program and an inspiration to all of us and the new leaders he mentored. His dedication to developing strong leaders was remarkable and matched by his kind and friendly manner. My deepest condolences to you and Hank's entire family.
Dave Galainena
March 17, 2024
Sara, Jill, Marc, Matt and Grandchildren: I knew Hank for thirty-six years; a relationship that started on a golf course, grew on a golf course and ended on a golf course(the last time we played and spoke was February 17th in Naples, Florida). He was a man of intention, commitment and integrity; the words defined him on the golf course but more than anywhere else they defined him as a husband, father and grandfather. After finishing our round and before dinner he lovingly laid out pictures of each of you and described where each of you were in your respective lives; his biggest smiles were for his grandchildren and his greatest compliments were for his life partner- Sara. He was in so many ways larger than life; the void cannot be filled but the manner in which he touched us all will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Love Dave and Kathryn Galainena
colleen wilcox
March 15, 2024
Sara, I am so very sorry. I worked with Hank when we were superintendents in the North shore and thought the world of him. When we both became superintendents in California we also kept in touch. He loved talking about you and your children and I even got to meet his wonderful sister when I was in Kenya. He was always kind and encouraging and I so enjoyed his sense of humor. I cherish those memories.
Love from Los Gatos
Colleen Wilcox
Eileen Eisenberg
March 14, 2024
Sara and family: Art and I send our sincerest sympathy. Hank will be remembered as a calm, smiling, confident and loving man. He carried strength in his very being. May your memories of him be a blessing.
Sending love from Palm Springs,
Eileen and Art Eisenberg
John D Puglisi
March 14, 2024
Hank was a good man and a steady and thoughtful leader. It was my pleasure to spend time with him at supt.meetings in Ventura California. I wish his family peace and love.
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