Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Robert STURMER Obituary
It is with immeasurable sadness, we share the loss of Rob. The gates of Cowboy Heaven opened and took home one of their own on Friday, October 7, 2011, surrounded in the love of his family, 48 years young. Rob faced his illness and life, with a strong faith and an unrelenting and contagious optimism which was reflected in those around him. A generous, towering man of incredible courage and strength which was matched by his heart and his witty sense of humour. A friend recently stated, Rob needed to be big to accommodate his heart. A kind soul, Rob's love was genuine, unconditional and non- judgemental, always looking at the good in whomever he had the chance to meet. Rob's talents extended to the kitchen, whether whipping up a gourmet meal or chocolate chip pancakes for nephews Cooper and Derian. Until recent years, due to illness, Rob was involved in the rodeo community and had always been a strong supporter of up and coming buckeroos. To "The Sturminator", family and friends were everything. To share a meal, a snifter of scotch, a laugh, the occasional cigar or swing a rope with a couple buddies, made Rob's day. Born in Calgary, Rob attended Brebeuf, Strathcona- Tweedsmuir, and St. Francis High School, where he thereafter obtained a football scholarship with the University of Las Vegas Running Rebels. Rob's football career was sidelined by injuries he received in a motor vehicle collision in Montana. Staying on in Vegas, Rob and best buddy Darrin, tried their hand at truckin', among other mischievous endeavors. Rob returned to Calgary where he travelled the rodeo circuit with Copenhagen National Tobacco, then on to steer wrestling and team roping. Rob joined Dad in the family masonry business and together forged a solid and respected presence in the industry. Rob is forever cherished by his wife, Ferida Balic, parents, Manfred and Erika Sturmer, brothers, Oliver (Silvia) and Patrick (Sarah), dearest nephews Cooper and Paxton. He is lovingly remembered by his best friend, Darrin Shatswell (Janna) of Las Vegas, Uncle and Godfather, Gunther Rempe, Aunt Irene Rempe and Rempe cousins, Ron (Janice), Dennis (Marcia) and Nicole (Glenn Stuart) and their families along with Sturmer and Feilhauer Family in Germany; The Balic and Pirija families, Arzija Balic, Jack Balic (Sada), Asim Balic (Darlene), Lejla Pirija (Sam), Emira Pirija (Ben), nieces and nephews, Dean, Brandon, Una, Derian, Aldin, Caylen and Krista and extend family. Our family extends their deepest gratitude particularly to Dr. Walley Temple, also Dr. Lloyd Mack, Dr. Glenn Gould, Deb Powers, the amazing nursing staff at Unit 102 and E/T at The Foothills Hospital, Okotoks Home Care and The Foothills Hospital and Okotoks Palliative Care Teams for the incredible care Rob received over the course of his illness. To our dear family and friends who shared their time to visit and share laughs and meals with Rob at home and in hospital. A special thank-you to Donna and Kelly Moore, Nicole and Glenn Stewart- Rempe and Mitch and Gwen Jacques. A Celebration of Rob's Life will be held at St. James Catholic Church (338040 - 32 Street, Okotoks, Alberta) on Thursday, October 13, 2011 at 11:00 a.m. If you desire, donations may be made in Rob's memory directly to Unit 102 - Surgical Oncology at The Foothills Hospital (1403 - 29 Street N.W., Calgary, Alberta T2N 2T9) for the purchase of much needed equipment. Photos, memories and condolences may be shared with Robert's family through www.evanjstrong.com . Arrangements in care of EVAN J. STRONG FUNERAL SERVICES. Phone: 403-265-1199.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
42 Entries
Paulette St. Jean
March 27, 2018
I have many fond memories of Rob. We worked together back in the early '80s. He was quite a man in the true meaning of the word. We visited him in hospital during his illness. I often think about him and relate stories about him with new friends. He will live on through our memories of him. Rest in peace Rob.
November 10, 2011
I just heard today,,my deepest sympathies from the bottom of are hearts from the Boehm family..Stan, sons John and Mike, ..our deepest condolesnces to the entire family..We grew up together with Rob, cousin Ron
and Dennis..stay safe up there buddy!!From the Boehm Family
Catherine Mitchell
October 19, 2011
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to the Sturmer Family. While we had known that Rob was ill and had prayed for Rob, and for you his family, we were not prepared to learn of his death at this time.
We remember Rob ever so well at St. Francis High School and smiled when we read, in the obituary, that "Rob and best buddy Darrin tried their hand at truckin' while staying in Vegas". We remember Rob helped some of his classmate with the "truckin'" of desks from the school to a teacher's front lawn on April 1, 1981 ! ! !
The name Robert Gunther Sturmer will be engraved on a small plaque which will be placed on the Memorial Board in our school chapel. Rob will be remembered, at the Commemoration of the Dead, in all of the Masses said in our Chapel.
PAX ET CHARITAS
For the Caring Community of St. Francis High School
Milan Marjanovic
October 19, 2011
My deepest and sincerest condolences go out to the Sturmer family, what a shock. I have not seen Rob for years and just heard things through the grapewine. I went to school with Rob and played football with him, all I could remember is that great big smile and happiness. I was blessed to have shared that part of my life with him.
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Linda and Tony Izzo
October 17, 2011
Our sincere condolences go out to you and your families. Sometimes we don’t understand why loved ones are taken from us but take comfort in knowing that Rob is at peace. May the memories of Rob live on forever and may his spirit surround you wherever you go.
October 17, 2011
So sorry to hear about Robs passing although we havent seen him since he lived in las vegas the short time he lived here he did leave a lasting impression on the people that knew him. He was a fun guy, a friendly guy always had a good time and a good word for everyone. I think I can say for all of us that knew him he will be missed and we will think about him often. Joe & Carol
Terry Newell
October 15, 2011
Heaven received a special angel in Rob. My prayers and thoughts go out to his wife Ferida and the Sturmer family. Rob was one of the most sincere and kindest people our family has ever known. He was a wonderful person who will be missed by everyone who ever knew him. We are so sorry for your loss.
Terry, Tyson and Chance Newell
Gwen Nelson
October 13, 2011
I was so sad to learn of Rob's passing. I hadn't seen him in quite a few years but had such great memories of Big Rob. All our swapping of Rodeo stories,and we always would rib each other about our difference in cheering for football teams of course I always cheering for my Dallas Cowboys and the loser that year had to wear the other's team hat, sadly he had to wear that Cowboys hat but down deep I think he down deep he was happy the Cowboys won ! We had him for supper to present the hat and he turned up with a dozen roses losing graciously. I will miss him and sad I will never get to see that big smile and the big hugs. I am so sad for you all that you have lost the love of your life, son & brother but hope you will be comforted in all the time and memories you did have with him and the love and happiness he brought to others in his to short life. Rest in Peace our beloved old friend and prayers and deepest condolences to you all,
Laurie LaPietra
October 13, 2011
I had not seen Rob since our High School days until 2 years ago along with his wife Ferida at our Brebeuf Reunion. Rob was as I remembered him, the guy with the biggest smile and gentle spirit who lit up the room.
My sincere sympathy and thoughts are with you Ferida, Rempe and Sturmer family.
Lina Cervo (Dery)
October 13, 2011
Deepest condolences to entire Sturmer family on the loss of such a treasured member of your family. God be with you all in your time of sorrow.
Jason & Teresa MacDonald
October 13, 2011
We were so sad to hear of your loss, Frieda. Please know that our love and support are with you at this time.
Laurie (Klotz) Hill
October 12, 2011
Deepest condolences to the Sturmer & Rempe families. I will remember him fondly, especially from junior high and high school, and what fun cousin Nicole and I had hanging out with him. May you all find peace In your memories.
Mom T. & Bill Tinke
October 12, 2011
Ferida: Our sincere condolances and sympathy on the loss of Rob. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Stumer family in this difficult time.
John McLenahan
October 12, 2011
Affectionate memories and true feelings of respect are what came to mind when I saw this sad news.I knew Rob quite well as a student,football player at St. Francis and helper on the ranch at branding time and other fun times thereabout,where Rob is still fondly remembered as a truly 'big and gentle' man with a matching sense of humor.
It was my distinct honor to have known Rob during his high school years and shortly thereafter. I so admired how he handled his encounter with his first major adversity. His was a message to all, about living a life positively.
Condolences to those most close who are left behind;Ferida,Manfred&Erika and brothersPat & Oliver and respective families.
(coach)John McLenahan
Trish Yip
October 12, 2011
Ferida: words cannot express my sadness and sympathy on Rob's passing...he truly was one in a million! Although the last years have been very difficult, you both have been a true inspiration through your courage, perseverance and strength of character. Your devotion and love for each other was immeasurable and apparent for all to see. May you find some peace in knowing that he is no longer suffering and is being held in the arms of the angels. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the entire Stumer family.
October 12, 2011
Liebe Familie Stuermer und alle Vermandten. Im Namen all unserer Familie moechte ich hiermit unser herzlichstes Beileid an euch allen ausdruecken. Erika sagte in der Kirche, Ihr wisst ja wie es ist wenn man ein Kind verliert und Du, Manfred sagtest, wir muessen tapfer sei. Ja, das muessen wir. Das verlangt einen tiefen Glauben an Gott, viel Beten und den Rest der Familie immer zu lieben. Nun sind es schon 3 Jahre dass Mark uns fuer immer verlassen hat aber ich kann es immer noch kaum fassen dass wir ihn nie mehr druecke koennen oder sagen wie lieb wir ihn haben. In diesem Sinne, moege der liebe Gott Euch staerken um diese Wunde zu ueberleben und im Glauben zu staerken. Unser innigstes Beileid an euch allen, Mike und Sigrid Loechli und Familie
Nasi & Damir Bejtovic
October 12, 2011
Many can agree that Rob was an angel that graced and blessed the lives of many. A man who's goodness and purity could be easily felt with simply his presence. He left his imprint in the hearts of all of us, with just being himself.
You had a beautiful aura about you cuz, sick or not. You were always positive, a true fighter and throughout all of your own personal agony, you still attempted to help others. In my eyes, that’s the work of a true hero. We only had the opportunity to call eachother family for a short time, but it was time well spent. Thank you for being you, always accepting us as happily as you did the first time as family and especially for blessing our Ferida with a wonderful husband and forever guardian angel. It’s heartbreaking to see you go, but I’m glad you aren't hurting anymore and that you’re in a better place. You will be greatly missed buddy.
To my cousin and the rest of the Sturmer family, our deepest sympathies and condolences. We pray that you are blessed with the strength to overcome these difficult times.
Ricarda Brusegard (nee Windthorst)
October 12, 2011
To Robbie's wife and the whole Stuermer and Rempe family - I am so, so sorry to hear of his passing. He was far too young.
Erika and Manfred, we have not seen one another for many years. I remember babysitting all your three boys and have many fond memories of the times our families and the Rempes spent together.
Again, my sincere condolences,
Kris Mikkelborg
October 12, 2011
Dear Sturmer Family:
It is with a sad heart to hear of Rob's passing. He was a very good friend as we grew up. Everything from our methane generator in Mrs Bents grade 9 science class, to learning how to drive a four speed (Mr. Sturmers' blue 1 ton and the red 3/4 ton). Even though we did not see each other much after grade 12, he truly was a kind man and I shall miss him.
Duane Fleischhacker
October 12, 2011
This is a tough one to take...if I ever thought there was anyone who could beat cancer it would have been Rob. Why does this only happen to the good ones?
I met Rob many many years ago when he did masonry work for us at Shane Homes, Calgary. We were both of German heritage so I instantly became like a cousin to him or something. We lost touch and then met up again one day in a waiting room at the Tom Baker Centre. My wife Brenda was diagnosed with stomach cancer in 2007 and they both happened to have a similar schedule for chemo/radiation treatments. As dreadful as the TBC could be, Rob made those wait times at the chemo corral one hell of a lot of fun as we would BS and laugh and had German lessons. Rob very much touched my wife's heart and we were so grateful to share that difficult time with him. He definately was a giant man with a giant heart. Brenda sadly passed away earlier this year so I hope that the two of them meet up again, I know Rob will look out for her.
To all of Rob's family, I extend my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss...Rob will be sadly missed. I am a better person for having known him.
Mark Trenke
October 12, 2011
Our deepest sympathies and condolences. I have many nice memories about Rob and the Sturmer family.
Mark Trenke and Family
Amir Zukich
October 12, 2011
To the Sturmer family;
My deepest sympathy to you all. Robbie was a great man to myself and many others and he will missed. I'm touched i was able to spend time with the man and get to know how big his heart is. My deepest sypathys to the entire family.
Gord Fornataro
October 11, 2011
To the Sturmer family,
I was saddened to hear of Rob's passing,my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
John Furlan
October 11, 2011
Rob Sturmer, you were the gentle giant friend I always appreciated knowing. I hadn't seen much of Rob since we all went our ways after graduating from high school. I have nothing but fond memories of a person who was kind to everyone and the type of person that appreciated anyone that showed kindness to him in return. I am sure that Rob will be missed by everyone he knew. Rest in peace my friend. May God lend strength to the love ones you leave behind as they mourn your passing.
Paul Cervo
October 11, 2011
My deepest sympathies and sincere condolences to the Sturmer family on the loss of your son/brother/husband, Rob; he was taken too soon from you may he Rest In Peace My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Ty and Tracey Cobb
October 11, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with Frieda and Rob's family. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all.
Nanci Koch
October 11, 2011
Dear Manfred & Oliver,
Rob truly was a kind gentle man and will be missed by all.
My heart and prayers are with you and your family. Please take comfort in knowing that Rob is in a better place and at peace.
October 11, 2011
I enjoyed the visits with you before you left us all.
We had some fun times together over the years!
I will miss you Rob Sturmer!
You gave me great strength to go forward in my life! God Bless you!
Steve Kunz
Tracey Abercrombie & George Ellsworth
October 11, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to Frieda and Rob's families. Our hearts and thoughts are with you.
Charlene Hanson
October 11, 2011
Our deepest sympathies to Ferida. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. May memories of Rob strengthen you in the days to come.
Grant,Carmen&Ava Kneller
October 11, 2011
Our deepest and sincerest condolences to Frieda & Rob's family for your great loss. May your wonderful memories keep you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim Hugo
October 11, 2011
My deepest sympathy and condolences to Ferida and the Sturmer Family. I went to High School and played football with Rob, I also spent a great deal of my high school years with Rob and the Sturmer family, all remembered fondly. Although we fell out of touch over the years I know Rob will be deeply missed as he never failed to touch the people who came into his life.
Paolina Nocera
October 11, 2011
To the Sturmer family: I am very shocked and sad to hear about your brother/son's passing. May god bless you all with tonnes of love and support you that you may need to help you get through this period of healing.
Wayne Ullery
October 11, 2011
The world has lost a great man ! Rob will be sorely missed by all that knew him.Thoughts and prayers to Rob's family in their time of sorrow.
October 11, 2011
Dear Ferida and Sturmer family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Rob touched our lives from the first day we met him. Rob was an amazing person. When ever you think or mention Rob a smile comes to your face. We were blessed to have him in our family.
Our deapest sympathies to the entire family.
Medo and Semira Causevic
Amber Den Hoed
October 11, 2011
Fredia, My deepest sympathy on Robs passing. He was such a strong and resilient man. He had such a great sense of humor even at the toughest of times. I am truly a better person for having crossed paths with him in this life. I will never forget Rob and as I look at the Bernie Brown from you guys I am reminded of that day so long ago. "Beginnings are scary. Endings are usually sad, but its the middle, the living!! that counts the most" Rob certainly was an example of the "middle"--- Rest in Peace Rob, Thank you for having graced my Life..---Amber-- EMT
October 11, 2011
To live in hearts we leave behind
Is not to die.
~Thomas Campbell, Hallowed Ground
May your memories of Rob help ease your pain.
Scott Yip
October 11, 2011
Ferida and Family,
Please accept my sincerest condolences on your loss. Rob was truly a wonderful person. He will be missed by many and forgotten by few. May you find love and peace during this difficult time.
Ed and Jean Storey
October 11, 2011
Dearest Nicole and Glenn and the entire family who loved Rob so: we had not ever met Rob but have heard much about his life and strength - he clearly was a man to be admired! We are deeply saddened by your loss
Louise Mikkelborg Melbye
October 11, 2011
I am heart broken and very sad to hear the news about Rob. I knew Rob growing up, he was one of my brother's best friends, and around our house a lot, when all of the boys would get together. Rob was such a wonderful friend to all of us, and I always loved being in his company, and having him around. He was so sweet and funny, and tender hearted too... Looking back, it was such a blessing to us that he was a friend to my brother, because we got to enjoy him too. He was really wonderful, so many memories. My deepest sympathies to the entire Sturmer family.
Louise Mikkelborg Melbye
laureen greckol
October 11, 2011
dear freida and family, our deepest thoughts of love and compassion go to you all. david, laureen, gerrit and tyler.
Les Pruden
October 11, 2011
Our condolences go out to Ferida and the Sturmer family. Rob was a great person who had an unbeliveable outlook on life. Never have I seen a person that remained so positive, with all that had happened to him. A lot can be learned from the way Rob handled his obstacles. Rob will be at a better place now.
Showing 1 - 42 of 42 results
Make a Donation
in Robert STURMER's name
How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Robert STURMER's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
