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VOLCHKO STEVE J. VOLCHKO On March 12, 2009 of Bethesda, MD from complications in heart surgery. Survived by his wife of 40 years, Judith Bruening Volchko. Father of Diane Volchko Munter (Cheasapeake, VA), Karen Volchko Lintz (Potomac, MD), Steven John Volchko (New York,NY) and Edward George Volchko (New York ,NY). Also survived by five grandchildren. Interment at Arlington National Cemetery on Tuesday, March 31, 2009 at 10:30 a.m. A celebration of his life will follow in Potomac, MD. In lieu of flowers the family requests memorial contributions be made to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at the Children's National Medical Center in Washington, D.C.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 17, 2009.

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David Hibey

April 5, 2009

Mrs. Volchko, Steve and Eddie,

I was saddened to learn of the passing of Mr. Volchko while I was out of town. Mr. Volchko possessed a kind and gentle spirit, and he always treated Justin and me with good cheer and respect. My very warm memories of learning to play golf will include thoughts of your dad and his patient and encouraging manner whether scorekeeping or watching us practice. He will be missed.

Lane Ryan

March 31, 2009

Dear Mrs. Volchko, Steve, and Eddie,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. "Mr. Volchko", in my mind, is synonymous with 2 things: a smile on his face and a genuine interest in people. When he asked you a question, even if it were as simple as "how are you doing today" or "how'd you play today?"...he was always keen to hear the answer. I hope we can all live by his example of truly valuing others and what they have to say.

Bryan Kurtz

March 31, 2009

Hello Judy, Steve and Eddie,

What a magnificent and moving ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery this morning honoring Steve, and how fitting the gorgeous weather and radiant sunshine for this celebration of his warm and generous life. I will always remember the quiet pride he took in his family including the golfing prowess of you, his fine sons Steve and Eddie. He loved watching you play in matches for St. Albans but never wanted to risk affecting your play, even in the slightest way, by being an obvious spectator and/or hovering parent. So he selflessly pioneered the art of finding trees along the course which could conceal his presence while giving him a clear line of sight to the young men he loved so much.

In this he pioneered the way for me, as a fellow father with two wonderful sons on the same golf teams, to also observe Martin and Evan do things with the golf ball I could only dream about doing, but without ever feeling responsible for the rare muffed shot.

It may sound corny, but my first thought upon hearing the sad news was a vision of Steve going ahead into the next life to scout out good places from which to keep a discreet eye on the family he loved so much, especially when they are out on the golf course. And I am hoping he will save a place for me as well. What a wonderful man.

Hatice Murphy

March 31, 2009

Dear Judith:

My thoughts and prayers are with you, and, with your family. My sincerest condolences and sympathy for your loss. I know you and Steve were an exremely devoted couple, and, I know you will miss him tremendously. Please know that if I can do anything for you, in any way, I would be happy to.

Heather & Craig Haverback

March 30, 2009

Mrs. Volcko, Steve, and Eddie -

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mr. Volchko was always welcoming and kind to Steve and Eddie's friends, and later as my wife and I became your neighbors, he was still just as kind to our children as I remembered him being to me when I was a boy. He will be greatly missed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

March 30, 2009

He was our awesome older cousin who we looked up to and admired! We have wonderful memories of our trips to Washington where he made us feel so special. We loved listening to his stories of growing up in Masontown with Aunt Kay. He was a wonderful nephew to our mother and we will always be grateful for the joy he brought to her. Cousin Eddie will be missed and not forgotten.

Love,
Cousins Judy Laxar and Kathy Sulzycki and their families

John Mc Kennon

March 30, 2009

Dear Judy and family. I am rarely short of words, but this loss is something that saddens us all deeply. Steve was one of the most talented people in our industry and was admired and love by all of us.
However his greatest joy was always you and his children. Just say Judy and watch out for that big smile. You and your entire family our in our thoughts and prayers. You know he is now organizing Heaven. We love you Judy.
John and Sharon Mc Kennon

Paul Connery

March 30, 2009

Judy,
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We enjoyed our time as neighbors when we lived in Wardman. Steve was a wonderful human being who graced this world with his love for family & friends.
May he rest in peace and may God's blessings and grace bring you peace during this difficult time.
Paul & Keely Connery

Ivy Richards

March 30, 2009

Dear Judith, Eddie and Steve,

I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Steve. Judith, you spoke of Steve so often and so warmly that I almost feel I knew him, and in reading other people's remembrances here of what a kind, loving and vibrant man he was, I'm very sorry I never had the opportunity to meet him. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy, and know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Andrew Battaile

March 29, 2009

Dear Mrs. Volchko, Steve, and Eddie,
Mr. Vochko and you are all in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and hope this tough time will be less difficult through all these great words from so many people about Mr. Volchko. One moment that I'll never forget from years and years ago was when he took Steve and me to see Raiders of the Lost Ark. There was that end scene when they open the Ark. I couldn't watch, so I left the theater pretending I was sick. Mr. Volchko came out to check on me and knew right away I was a 'fraidy cat. But always the gentleman, he never let on. He asked me if I was feeling okay and said when I felt better, I could come back in and enjoy the rest of the movie. Always a kind soul - may he rest in peace! Much love,
Andrew

John Lyberger

March 28, 2009

Dear Mrs. Volchko, Stevie and Eddie,
I am saddened to hear about the passing of Mr. Volchko. He was a wonderful man so full of life and enthusiasm. I am sure he will continue to shine brightly down upon you and guide you all through the journey of life! All my best!!
John

Charles Rockefeller

March 27, 2009

Dear Mrs. Volchko, Eddie and Stevie,
I am so sorry for your loss and wish you strength as you carry onwards. There was always a sense of joy around him whenever I saw him and I was always happier when he greeted me. All of you should know that people have always thought very highly of your entire family.

Bill Gray

March 27, 2009

Judy,I was shocked and saddened to read of Steve`s death. Our memories go back to our times together with the indian guides, car pooling the kids to St.A, father`s club. Steve was one of the nicest people I have ever known. Whether it was with the indian guides or as a patient or as a volunteer at Sibley Hospital or just in passing at CCC, he always had a big smile on his face and was a pleasure to talk with. He loved his kids and especially you,Judy. Nancy and I will keep you and Steve and Eddy in our prayers.

Maxine Harvey

March 27, 2009

Dear Judy and Family, I was so saddened to learn of Steve's passing. He was such a genuinely good man and I was privileged to have known him and worked with him when he was on the Board. I was always so pleased when he kept up with me after he left the Board. He always wanted to hear all the news about my grandkids and that interest in other people was so like him. The world needs more people like Steve and he will be missed. Love, Maxine

Anne Rosenblum

March 27, 2009

Judith,
I did not have the privilege of knowing Steve, but I know you and can just imagine how lucky you are your sons were to have him in your life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Cindy Kougeas Raymond

March 27, 2009

I worked with Steve many years ago at the Sheraton Washington. He was a "true gentleman" and a "fountain of knowledge". He was always kind and pleasant - which is why he is remembered so many years later.
My condolences to his family.

Tom Elwood

March 27, 2009

Apart from the many kindnesses shown to me by Steve since I first met him in 1985, one memory stands out quite clearly. My son Rob and Eddie Volchko were ready to attend the 1992 prom at St. Albans. My mother was visiting us in Washington and the Volchko family invited us to have some refreshments right before the boys left for the prom. Afterwards, my mother said that Ed's parents were the nicest people she had ever met in DC.

Martin Kurtz

March 26, 2009

Volchko Family,

As sad as I was to hear the news of Mr. Volchko's passing, I couldn't help but feel lucky to have known him for the last 20 years. From sporting events at St. Albans (especially his regular appearances behind trees during golf matches) to family visits with the dogs, it was always a great pleasure to spend time with Mr. V. He was truly one of the nicest and most genuine people I've ever known. And while he will be sorely missed, my memories of him will always be positive and will always leave me with a smile on my face.

Anita and Walt Grazer

March 26, 2009

Dear Judith,
I am saddened to hear about Steve and know what a shock it is for you, your sons, and all your family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

John Quayle

March 26, 2009

Steve ( Eddie) He always lighted up a room upon his entrance. A wonderful raconteur at family gatherings, he could also make you feel as if you were the most important person on a one on one conversation. I'll miss his smile and enthusiam for life. My wife is Elaine Frances Volchko.

Justin Ochs

March 26, 2009

Mrs. Volchko, Stevie and Eddie:
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and father. I'll always have many fond memories of "Mr. Volchko" from the days at St. Albans, most of which revolve around sports-related anecdotes (basketball, golf or otherwise). He always seemed to have the right words of encouragement and strategic coaching advice ("how can you score if you don't shoot?")....and it was always accompanied by a smile. I can think of so many other great stories from all of the late nights at Wardman that are too numerous to recount here but that I hope to relive with all of you sometime soon.

The outpouring of memories from everyone on this site is a testament to how many people he touched. May he rest in peace.

Ann Sheffield Roth

March 26, 2009

Dear Judy, Steve, and Eddie,
With sorrow I learned of the death of your husband and Father. He was a truly wonderful man -- a gentleman and more essentially a gentle man, solid, kind, modest, and of the utmost integrity.
I shall never forget the joy Dick and I took in his presence at St. Albans games, and, even earlier, at choir. We always felt good when Jon was spending time with all of you.
With my advancing years sympathy notes become no easier to write. For words seem of little use except to convey my deepest sympathy and to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. With all affection,
Ann Sheffield Roth

Chef Bell

March 25, 2009

Dear Judith:

Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your husband. Steve meant a great deal to me when I first started at Congressional Country Club and I will always remember his kindness to me.

Chef Bell

Iris Austin

March 25, 2009

Mrs. Volchko & Family,

My thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of sorrow at the lost of your loved one. It was my absolute pleasure to have had the opportunity to work with and learn from Mr. Volchko (the King of Hospitality) at the Wardman Park / Sheraton Washington. May you find comfort in all the kind words and expressions of love that are being bestowed upon you and your family by all those that knew Mr. Volchko.

Tandy Kraft

March 25, 2009

I was very saddened to hear of Steve's passing. While I did not have the opportunity to know him well, I could easily see the positive influence he had on all those around him. It is obvious he is remembered with much love and affection.

Sandy & Joe Palumbo

March 25, 2009

Dear Judith,
There are really no words to express our thoughts. Steve was a once-in-a-lifetime sort of person. He seemed to be the "rock", always so solid and stable. I can't begin to know how much he will be missed by you and Stevie and Eddie. You were all blessed to have shared your lives with him.

Please know that Steve will be in our prayers, as well as you and the boys.

Guy d'Amecourt

March 25, 2009

The Guest Book speaks volumes about Steve. I knew him as another father at STA. There was always a good feeling around him and his sons, a feeling that has never left.

Hunter and Therese Clemens

March 25, 2009

Judith,

You and the boys have been in our thoughts and prayers. Steve was a rock upon which many great hospitality careers were built. He taught us all what really mattered - the customer! And he did it with the style and grace of a true gentleman. I know that I am a fortunate person to have learned from Steve. He will be missed greatly but his legacy will continue on from the many people he so wonderfully mentored.

Jan Gilchrist

March 24, 2009

Dear Judy, Eddie and Steve, My memories of Steve are what a wonderful family man and host he was. His graciousness always were an important part of making a visit to D.C. a warm, happy time. I so admired his devotion to his family. My warm thoughts are with you and the boys.

Margie Louney

March 24, 2009

Judith: We are very saddened to learn of Steve's passing and want you and your boys to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May you take comfort from the love that surrounds you and the many wonderful memories you have of Steve.
Margie and Dan

Ross Hosking

March 24, 2009

Judy, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Steve was such a special guy that made a huge impression on all of us. The Sheraton Washington was an incredible place due in large part to Steve's personality and care for everyone who worked there.

Christine Ryan

March 23, 2009

Judy,

My heart goes out to you. It was so wonderful to see Stevie and Eddie the other day. They remind me so much of Steve, each in their own way, and I know they will be a big help to you during this difficult time.

The years we spent on Woodacres Dr. across the street from the Volchko's were among our happiest. Thomas, Missy and I still consider that "home" and love to tell stories about those days. I will always remember Steve's gentle way and willingness to help a neighbor in need. He was there to help us whenever we needed him - no matter what time of the day or night. I don't know what I would have done without him.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

Love, Christine

Chris Edgar

March 23, 2009

Dear Mrs. Volchko, Steve, and Eddie,

I'm so sorry to hear about Mr. Volchko's passing away. I'm lucky to have had the chance to meet him and to spend time with his two fine sons! Please accept my condolences and warmest thoughts.

best, Chris Edgar

Stephen Orlandi

March 23, 2009

Dear Judy,
Very few days go by that I do not hear Steve's voice in the back of my head or see his smiling face. His mix of knowledge and humor are something that I have hoped to attain ever since I first met him. I spent a lot of time on the carpet in front of his desk and they were all memorably good times. I still remember every piece of advice that he gave me and wish to have lived closer so he could see that I really listened to him. Tom Counts and I speak of him often and we are very sorry for your loss.

Terri Regan

March 23, 2009

Judith -
Just reading these guest book notes is an amazing tribute to you, Stevie and Eddie. The genuine feelings these friends expressed about our beloved Steve reflects what an extraordinary person he was to every single person he encountered. You, Steve and I have enjoyed a 45 year loving friendship and those wondrous memories of his gracious, compassionate, engaging and fun loving manner will be with me forever. His eyes smiled and sparkled when he spoke of you and the boys, he was a once in a lifetime friend and he and you will be in my heart forevermore.

Dan Surette

March 23, 2009

Working with Steve was like working with a legend. I was in awe of the respect that he had from customers and peers alike. For someone with the years of experience that he had, he always had time to assist others. I can still hear him telling me when we were, on occasion, both working late in the office..."save some for tomorrow Dan!". We really loved working with Steve and he will be sorely missed. Dan and Michelle Surette

Pat Elwood

March 22, 2009

Dear Judy, Eddie, and Steve,
You are very special to the Elwood family and we all treasured knowing your husband, father, and our friend,"Mr. Volchko". I am very grateful for the time Steve took to help me and my boys and I know that Steve and Eddie have a part of their dad's kindess in their nature as well. We are most grateful that he did not suffer and led a full life right to the end.
Please know that the Elwoods are here for you at any time and will always be happy that we knew a gentle giant known as Mr. Steve Volchko.
We send you our love..."Mrs. Elwood" (Pat)

C.A. Knoll

March 22, 2009

Dear Judy, I am in Florida and just learned of your loss. I am so, so sorry. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. CA Knoll

Jane and Spence Abraham

March 22, 2009

Dear Judy,

Thank you so much for calling us. We are so very sorry about Steve's sudden passing. He was such a wonderful, vibrant man. We have reminisced about the many wonderful memories we have of the four of us getting together. You and your whole family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Nik Apostolides

March 22, 2009

Stevie, Eddie, and Mrs. Volchko,

For nine years as a kid growing up, I saw Mr. Volchko's quiet and loving example of selfless care for his sons and enthusiasm for all their activities. It is an example that I cherish, and will never forget.

Much love to you all.

Barbara Edgerton Edgerton

March 22, 2009

Judy - The Quayle's informed us of your sad loss. We are in Florida at present so we did not
know about Steve. We send you and your family our deepest sympathy Judy. We are so, so
sorry. We will keep you in our thoughts and in our hearts.
Barbara and Jerry Edgerton

Dan and Marilyn Quayle

March 22, 2009

Dear Judy,
Through golf and tennis cheering our children on and all the years of politics, you and Steve have been such a special part of our lives. We hold you in our hearts and pray that the Lord will comfort you and your sons in your sorrow.

Joe Bartges

March 20, 2009

Dear Judith and family: A lifelong friend and buddy. Eddie, of all the times not to be late, this was not the one to be on time. We shared so very many adventures and stories for more than 70 years. Thanks for all the memories. Prayers from a classmate and dear friend.

Ed Davis

March 20, 2009

Judy, I have known Steve for many years, but living in North Carolina, I did not see him very much. He was a great guy, and will be missed. I was glad I saw him at the May 2008 ATO gathering in College Park. Ed Davis, Greensboro, NC

Jeff Eastman

March 20, 2009

Judith, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I think all of us in the industry know one or two people who touched our lives and shaped our outlook on life and our outlook on business. Steve was definetly one of those people. He will be sorely missed.

Jo Ann Hoffman

March 20, 2009

Judith
As you know, I truly love you and Steve. You were my mentor when I first entered the meetings/hospitality industry. I have great memories of working with you and Steve at the Sheraton Park. He was a real treasure and the most genteel man I have ever met. You were blessed to have him as your soulmate for so many years. My love and prayers are extended to you and the boys.

Pat & Tim Sylvia

March 20, 2009

Dear Judy and family,
Your Steve was such a special person. He always made time for everyone and made them feel so welcomed. An incredible hotelier, a great teacher, friend and wonderful story teller. My memories of him will endure. Please take comfort and know that we share your grief in the passing of such a fine human being.
Pat & Tim Sylvia

Bill and Eileen Kyle

March 20, 2009

Over fifty years of friendship with Steve beginning with our collegiate days have been a singular blessing. We enjoyed our silly times, our happy times, our struggles, our careers, our familes, all the while knowing that Steve was 'there for us' whenever we needed him. We will miss him terribly. Judy, Stevie and Eddie, know that Steve and you will always be in our hearts. We love you all and thank you for sharing your dear husband and Dad with us all these years.

Jerry Potter

March 19, 2009

I will miss him at the golf tournaments. He seemed to enjoy every aspect of the tournaments, even talking with sports writers. I am sure that Judy and I will have many more conversations about golf. I will not forget the day at the tournament when she asked, "Are they going to take my Big Bertha away?" They was the USGA, and no they were not going to take her favorite driver. That question led to a story and a friendship that will continue.

Kevin Kelley

March 19, 2009

Steve was truly a legend in our industry. I know his family feels the same. Our prayers and thoughts will be with Steve and his family

Kevin And Michele Kelley

Bob and Lu Harder

March 19, 2009

We were all diminished a little on March 12th. Steve was the kindest most considerate person I have known. One of my great regrets is that I didn't see him as much after we left the Washington area. His stories and tales are legendary.

Mike Lavoie

March 19, 2009

To Judith and the entire Volchko family...The hospitality industry and humanity has lost a true friend and mentor to so many people signing this guest book. Steve always made time for everyone regardless of where you worked or what position you held. He always had great vision to see hotel work as an aggregate of many peoples working in harmony. My memories of him will endure and I ask that the entire family take comfort and know that we share your grief in the passing of such a fine human being.

joe steven

March 19, 2009

Dear Judy, many years ago in a place called the sheraton park/washington a wonderful thing happened, FAMILY. In the same way you and Steve raised two outstanding young men in Stevie and Eddie, Mr. Volchko helped rasie a generation of convention professionals. he was so special to me as a mentor,teacher and loyal friend. I still tell people today that if you look up the word gentleman you can see his photo. it has and always will be my great honor to have worked with steve and call the whole Volchko family friends. God bless, joe

Joe and Jackie Valente

March 19, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Judy and Family. What a great loss to those of us here on Earth and what a great gain for those in Heaven. I can only imagine Steve telling his wonderful and animated stories to all the smiling Angels. Steve was a true inspiration to all of us - a professional who knew what life was about and lived it. God Bless him.

Geoff Dirksen

March 19, 2009

Judy, thank you for sharing Steve with all of us. More than a friend and mentor, he was the soul of the old hotel and kept it alive for all of us all these years. As Steve would say, "Wait a second, you sure you're talkin' about the same person????" Yes, we're sure.

Geoff and Cathy

Ingrid Herrera

March 19, 2009

Mr Volchko you will be missed by all
I will have great memories of our talks and your advise. I remember you picking up your mail in the package room and I would get a great story for the day!
you will always be in my heart a great person and a great friend.
Ingrid Herrera

Lynn Bostain

March 18, 2009

Steve was a warm, giving, generous man who engaged everyone who knew him. My deepest condolences to Judith and his family. I know what he meant to them.

Scott Jernstrom

March 18, 2009

To Judy and the Boys,
So many thoughts and memories come to mind having spent nearly 17 years around "The Hotel" with Steve, you and the boys. All of us had nothing but the greatest respect for Steve and how he managed his life both personally and professionally. He set the bar for integrity and exemplified the consummate husband and father, always balancing the priorities of his family with the demands of the business. He taught us so much.

Ironically, I recall an exercise during a staff retreat many years ago in which we were asked to write our own eulogy. As we listened to Steve recite his, we heard a man that had long figured out what was important in life and was in fact, living that life.

I thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time

Scott and Shari Jernstrom

Gus Duda

March 18, 2009

As one of his long-time clients, I learned a lot about the business of managing a major convention from Steve, as did a great many of us who, after the dust settled, took credit for a successful meeting, when much of the applause should have been for Steve's efforts backstage, always so cheerfully offered. He was, as Frank Rudman described him, "the consummate convention services director". That part of our hospitality industry world will be a poorer place because of his passing; but a brighter world because of the time he spent here with us.

My heartfelt condolences to Judith and the Family.

Noori Janjani

March 18, 2009

Steve was a father to all of us and we all cherish him in our hearts and celeberate his life.
Thank Steve and God bless.

Judy and Pual O'Neil

March 17, 2009

To Judy, all I can say is we had a great time together. Our years at "The Wash" will always be with us. the games we went to with the boys, the dinners, the many nights we played bridge together, the picnics, the softball games, the golf, and the many nights we just hung out having a drink or two, will always be with us. we almost never spoke of Steve when Judy wasnt a part of the conversation. We simply enjoyed our time together. Judy and I are so thankful for our time together. Our kids were friends and still would be best of friends today if it weren't for the distances that are created by time. I just know if we were put into the same room today, that afterall these years, we would be back in time and we would be just like we were: young at heart, full of love,and full of fun. Judy and I love you Judith. We love the boys and we will always cherish the years and the tears, we shared together.
Love, Judy and Paul

Gary Budge

March 17, 2009

The consumate professional who wrote the book on flexibility in the convention industry. It was a pleasure to work with Steve and to know him and his family socially.
Gary and Joanne Budge

Dona & Dick Erkenbeck

March 17, 2009

Ah! What will we do without Steve and his wonderful stories. He meant so much to us all. The world is a little smaller without him. His light will shine on forever.

David Hedrick

March 17, 2009

Steve was a friend as well as a boss and he did a damned good job at both. My thoughts and prayers are with Judith and their family.

Kevin Kelley

March 17, 2009

Steve was a ledgend in our industry

Mike & Vicki Looney

March 17, 2009

Many,many stories to tell...by us now, by him before. A Mentor to me, a "ko" worker and a good friend. Someone who when you first see him, hear his voice or the mention of his name, will bring an instant smile and warmth to all that know him. They don't make'm like him any more. There is large void left in this world and a huge one filled in heaven. The best leave a mark in the world when they depart...his was a deep gouge!

Julian Dugas

March 17, 2009

As a kid who thought he knew everything Steve was one of the best things that ever happened to me. He helped clean up a lot of my mess and as he did in his own gental way to taught me the right way it really needed to be done. I have thought back about some of the things he instilled in me and it has helped me through many a tough time. Steve will be remembered in the hearts of us all.

Susan Sheehan Daley

March 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I will always have the fondest memories of walking into his office with all of his piles to discuss a group- he taught us all so much about the real meaning of hospitality!

David DuBois

March 17, 2009

Dear Judith and Volchko Family:

My thoughts and prayers are with you and please know that Steve touched my heart and mentored me throughout the years. All of us will miss him...God Speed !

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