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Frederick Ray Obituary

Frederick W. Ray, after a long-fought battle with Alzheimer's, passed away peacefully at age 88. As the only child of the late Frederick W. Ray and the late, but long-lived Margaret Ray, Fred went out of his way to make up for any lack of solitude during his married lives. First, he was one of those fortunate souls to find the love of two remarkable women to share his life, the inspiring Ann O'Sullivan Ryan Ray for the past 42 hectic, fast-paced, kid-filled and loving years and the late June Kruse Ray for 16 wonderful years. To make sure there was never a quiet moment in the house, he treasured the comings and goings of all 10 (yes, count 'em 10) of his children, Rick (Mariella) Ray of Italy, Bill (Susan) Ray of Oregon, Jim Ray, John (Cathy) Ryan, Faith (Mark) Konchan, Roger (Debbie) Ryan of Colorado, Christine Ray, Noreen (Richard) Rotramel, Michael (Mary Anne) Ray of Connecticut and Dr. Joey (Ruthie) Ray of Minnesota. A voracious reader and wordsmith, Fred was also proud of his role as a First Lieutenant in WWII fighting to liberate captive towns in Europe, his 35 years as statistician at Illinois Bell (retired 1980) and his ordination and dedication as a Catholic Deacon in 1984. He also held a treasured spot in his heart for each and every one of his 18 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. While we have been deprived of Dad's twinkling eyes, subtle sense of humor and charming company for several years, we invite you to celebrate his memory on Sunday, Aug. 15 from 3 to 9 p.m. at Colonial-Wojciechowski Funeral Home, 8025 W. Golf Rd., Niles. Funeral Monday, Aug. 16 at 10:30 a.m. from the funeral home to St. Isaac Jogues Church. Mass 11 a.m. Interment All Saints. Memorials to Alzheimer's Disease appreciated. Info 847-581-0536 or www.colonialfuneral.com.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Aug. 15, 2004.

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Sharon Pavlik

August 16, 2004

Dear Father Jim Ray and Family,

Please accept my condolences on the death of your father.

Beth & Christopher Collins

August 16, 2004

Dear Father Jim and Family, our deepest regrets upon learning of the death of your father, Frederick. We will remember all of you in our prayers. We both know what it is to lose a loving father. Remember the good times, and let time take its course in healing.

William D'Arcy

August 16, 2004

Condolences to the Ray family from all of us at Catholic Charities Residential Housing. We are sending prayers and good wishes. We regret we could not attend the services to support our friend and long time co-worker, Fr. Jim Ray. God's peace to all of you.

Peggy Mulcahy

August 15, 2004

To the Ray Family, please accept my

deepest sympathy and prayers.



I read the Death Notice this morning and what a beautiful tribute was conveyed for this man and his family.



May the Lord grant your Dad peace

and may eternal light shine upon him.



Love and Prayers,

The Staff of Colonial Wojciechowski Funeral Home

August 15, 2004

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