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March 30, 2016
We used to go up to Springfield mass to the wrestling matches. Mr. Smith had a great impact on me and I always enjoyed the time he and Darrel spent with my dad and me. The late Maxie Atwater and Matt Atwater.
March 3, 2014
Happy Birthday Dad! You would have been 83 today, and we would all be planning to go out to dinner (whate else) to celebrate. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you! All my love, your Jennifer Jogger xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Abby Georgiades
October 12, 2011
Grandpa,
I really miss you with every fiber of my body. I had so many memories to share with you and just knowing your gone, gives me a sick feeling. But are you gone? No i always sense your there every great while but i want to see your face and just give you the biggest hug i can. I love you so much and i am speechless. I have not cried in so long and these random moments i just burst out crying because i can't bear to realize you have passed. I love you so much and i know you are always there for me. :) -Abby (crabby kate)
May 4, 2010
Hi Dad,
I can't believe it has been two years that you have been gone... it seems like forever! I still miss you just as much as I ever did, and every once in a while I have a really good cry to ease the sadness in my heart. It feels so wrong without you here, that something is truly missing each and every day of our lives, but we all know in our hearts that you are in a better place, and that gives us some form of peace. I hope that being with with some of your family and friends has given you happiness and joy up in heaven. Please stay close and watch over us... knowing that you will makes your absence from our lives a little easier to bear. I love you with all my heart and soul!!! xxxxoooo
Your Jennifer Jogger
May 4, 2010
Dada,
Today marks two years since our lives changed forever. To be honest, I miss you more than ever. I'm supposed to be grateful you were here for as long as you were, but I still feel cheated. On the other hand, I still feel your presence so powerfully. Your love wraps itself around me when I need it most, so please always stay close by. Missing you beyond words...I Love You! Your Suzie
Daryl Smith
March 3, 2010
Well, Smitty, today marks your 79th birthday and I hope that it is a happy one for you. I see you every day, as your smiling picture together with mom is right smack in front of my computer. I always wonder what it is like up there where you now reside, looking down upon us and undoubtedly still trying to influence our decisions from above. We all miss you and know that someday, we will be reunited. Wishing you a very happy birthday! Send me a sign sometime soon, as it has been a while since I've heard from you. To your health and your happiness!
Suzanne Smith
June 14, 2009
Hi Papa,
We are all going to be be together again with Daryl, Kels and Cork flying in within the next few days. With three birthdays and Father's Day around the corner, we are all looking forward to celebrating.
Thankfully, our sibling bond remains tight, and much of that is because of you. You were devoted to keeping the visits and communication steady, and well, since our family always finds a reason to celebrate anything...
But Dada, it truly isn't the same. The void is still so shocking, and we are having difficulty absorbing it into our daily lives.
When I hear a plane up in the sky, in my own mind, you are sending me a message or a sign. Please visit soon so we can be assured that you are happy and safe. We all love, adore and cherish you each and every challenging day. This will never change with time.
Love with all my heart,
Your Suzie
May 4, 2009
Smitty,
Sadly, today marks the one-year anniversary of when you finally departed us after a long battle. They say that time heals, and maybe it does, but I still think of you often and wish that there was a way to communicate back-and-forth with you. In your honor, I am cheering on those Celtics and truly hope that we can someday spread a few of your ashes at Fenway Park. Be well, and send me a sign every once in a while. I miss you!
Daryl
Daryl Smith
March 3, 2009
Dearest Smitty,
It has been a long ten months since you left us. I am grateful that I got to spend at least a little bit of time with you before you passed.
I carry you with me almost every day either by wearing your shoes (which fit perfect) or your watch. When I go for a bike ride in the Bosque, I often call for you to give me a sign, and in most cases, a duck or a rabbit or a hawk appears, which I like to think is you making your presence. Superstitious, maybe, but it makes me feel as if you are close by, and that in itself, makes it worth believing.
I miss you, but also know that our paths will cross again, so I'll just carry on until then and try to make you proud in the meantime.
You've left behind a wonderful and close-knit family who will keep your memories alive for generations to come. You done good, Smitty!
Tu hijo
Jennifer Georgiades
March 3, 2009
Hi Daddy!
Happy 78th Birthday... when Mom gets back from Florida, we are all going to go out to dinner (maybe First & Last) and celebrate your birthday in true Smith fashion! Life remains hard and different for all of us without you here, but it does help to know that you are at peace, among your parents, family, and friends, and most importantly, without any pain! Sending so much love and respect to you from all of us! Miss you! xxxxoooo
Suzanne Smith
March 3, 2009
Happy 78th birthday Dad. Your peeps up there had better be planning something spectacular for your special day. Eat all the flipping cake you want! Of course, if you were here, we would be celebrating together, and heaping love and adoration upon you. What I wouldn't give to rub your fuzzy little head again, or witch hazel your face! Your presence is so strongly felt even now, and continues to influence us all. God, how we miss you! It's a heartbreak without end, and frankly, not much easier than it was early on. For me, the rare peace I make with it is when I focus on you utterly free of restrictions and suffering. Dada, you will always be remembered with an enduring love that will never fade with time. All my love, Suzie
Pamela Mount
November 19, 2008
Jen-
I occaionally read the Hartford Courant online and saw this notice of your Dad's passing. I can see by the notes from you, Sue, Mark and your daughter that your dad is very missed and truly loved. I am sorry for your loss. I know that your strong spirit will carry you on well.
God Bless your family.
Pam Mount
Jennifer Georgiades
November 4, 2008
Hi Dad... Jen here... it has been 6 long months since you left us, and it is still so incredibly hard to face each day sometimes. Sundays are the worst, your absence is so real to everyone, Mom especially, and we all miss you so much! We still try to get together for our family dinners, but it will never be the same. It is election day, and maybe there will be some positive change in this crazy world, but, for me, it will never feel right again without you here! Just know that we are thinking about you always and missing you more than words can describe! Mark, Austin, Abby and Amber all send their love to you in heaven... rest in peace, Daddy!
Suzanne Smith
November 4, 2008
Hi Dad,
Well, today is the six month mark since you've been gone, but certainly NOT forgotten. It's also Election Day, and boy, does this country need a fresh start. As I watch our world change drastically around us, I can't help but think "What would Dad have to say about all this mess?" Brutal!
I see Mom hiding her pain (naturally - she's Nance), but I know how deeply she misses you. Life just isn't the same without you here bossing us around, running the show, and holding court. I still hate waking up on Sundays and realizing the dynamics have changed forever.
Can I honestly say that it is more difficult than ever without you here? There are days when we are all just floundering and bewildered. However; when those moments hit us, we remember how happy and pain free you must be now, and that gives us a great sense of peace.
We are still holding it together. The holidays are going to be very challenging, but we know you would want us to hold our heads up high. Our collective memories are such a wonderful gift we give each other every day.
Keep us strong, Dad. We love and miss you with all of our hearts. XOX Suzie
Vince Pavone
June 21, 2008
From all of the Pavones I wish to express our sincerest sympathy to a true friend of our family. All of these many years have passed and he still brings a smile to my face when his name is brought up. His name will continue to be brought up for many years to come .Thank you Mr Smith
Jennifer
June 15, 2008
Hi Dad,
Jen here... I want to wish you a Happy Father's Day and let you know how much I miss you! I wish we could get together for a family dinner like we always did so many times before to celebrate this day, but in my mind, I celebrate you each and every day, so today is truly no different. Just know that I love you with all my heart!
Carl Roberts
June 12, 2008
Dear Nancy, Kim, Daryl, Suzanne, Jennifer, Kelsey, and Courtney -
Even knowing for some time of Smitty’s struggle and prognosis, his loss is hard to grasp, let alone accept. I have delayed writing because it has been so difficult to express my thoughts to you all. I hope this letter will give some sense of the sorrow that Barbara and I feel. We both have been deeply touched by the guest book messages left by so many of Smitty’s friends and family, and we hope their, and our own feelings will provide you comfort in your mourning.
My connection to the Smith family goes back, I am sure, to my infancy, and my actual memories of it go back well over 70 years. Our family made many Sunday visits to the Smith apartment on Woodland St. in Hartford where Bill and I played “Ghost” with Allen and Sis in their bedroom while our parents visited. I still have clear images of “Izzy” and “Jackie” in my mind’s-eye.
I also recall conversations with Smitty before we both received our law degrees. I was doing mine full-time at Michigan and he was at UCONN doing it the “hard way” at night while still a working chemist. Our talk was not about “the majesty of the law”, but on how challenging the time demands were on him and your family. I admired how determined he was to complete the task, and complete it he did! We did not have a lot of contact during the years that he was a prosecutor, but I well remember how pleased all the Roberts were when he was appointed to the bench. Being far from the Hartford area in the years he was building his obvious reputation as a skilled and caring judge, I had little idea of how important Allen was to those who worked with him and to many of those who came before him to be judged. It is clear to me now that he was loved and respected to a degree that is not often achieved -- and always envied.
Nancy, I had known you only as a classmate when you and Allen met, fell in love, and married. I have known you since as a wife, mother, and friend. I admire greatly your steadfastness and devotion to him and your beautiful family through the ups and downs of married life. The Fifty-one years you shared with Smitty is a blessed achievement.
When I think about your family, I remember Smitty and must thank you all for the kindness that you extended to my dad for years by including him (and, of course, Bill) in your annual Thanksgiving gathering. Oh, how he loved that! I always looked forward to his “post-feast” report on the event and the opportunity to hear something about the “Smith Six” and how the “Judge” and his crew were doing. You all contributed mightily to the happiness of Dad’s last years, and we remember them, and him, constantly and joyfully.
We were disappointed not to be able to see Smitty and you when we last came North, but we understood the situation and that he was just not up to it. Barbara and I have you all in our closest thoughts and offer our most heartfelt condolences. We hope that your grief will be softened by the knowledge that so many people loved Smitty and by the fact that he suffers no longer.
Claire Boggs
June 9, 2008
Dear Smith Clan,
I wanted to add this message that I sent to Sue as shortly after we heard about Al...We are all really sad to hear about Al and want you and your family to know how much we care about you all and wish we could help - somehow.
I have some fond memories from my childhood on Woodhaven Road - and many include times spent at the Smith house. It was a Mecca for kids. The Smith kids could have constituted Mecca on their own, but there was magnetism that emanated from Al and Nance who welcomed all into their home - always.
I practically lived there in my grade school and middle school years. At your house and through many great experiences with your family, I was introduced to many things, and recall so many happy memories which include:
- Eagerman's bagels fresh (frozen) from the brown grocery bag and heated in the oven until volcanic, then slathered with cream cheese.
- Summer evening trips to Daily Queen, chauffeured by Al in the back of the white station wagon - rear window cranked down, sans seat belts, gobbling up exhaust en route there, and lapping up chocolate dipped cones on the way home - full of laughter and happiness the whole way. (Remember the yellow lights at Dairy Queen - swarming with lovely summertime bugs?)
- Summer afternoon trips to the plant nursery with Nance, in the same station wagon, listening to Elton John in the back.
- Al and Nance on a night out. They had a social life outside of your family (good for them) and they always looked elegant, dressed for a night out; Al in a suit and Nance smelling great with Chanel and her great rings and jewels.
- Sunbathing on the deck with tan enhancing baby oil as a accelerant...now we are paying with crinkles and age spots, but we were very much hotties then.
- Al's grilling days - yummy steaks marinated with Wishbone Italian dressing...made the hood smell awesome.
- I loved the way Al vetted suitors of his girls (and I was fortunate to be considered one) by challenging their boyfriends to a chili pepper eating test. Those who could brave it by eating one or two were accepted - good luck and good bye to the wimps who failed.
These are just a few memories that came quickly to me - I am sure I will think of more, as will you all. It's all we have and it though it it hard to imagine, they can help bring smiles and ease the pain once the initial shock and awfulness of this loss distances itself over time.
We love you all.
Claire (Heinz) & Dave Boggs & Barbara Heinz
Daughter Jennifer
June 9, 2008
Happy 52nd Anniversary Dad! Kim, Sue and I are taking Mom out for dinner and a toast to celebrate the day... just wanted to let you know we are keeping with tradition! I love you!
Ellen Chevalier
May 30, 2008
To all the Smiths- I was deeply saddened by the passing of Al. I will hold on to all the childhold memories of hanging out at the Smith's house being treated as one of the family. I remember when you all visited in Seattle and I had some time sharing stories with Al while we were hanging out in Pioneer Square. He told me a story about my father and said the most kindest words to me. I will never forget him. He made me feel like he loved me as his own. My life was molded by those years hanging out at the Smiths! May you rest in peace Smitty.
Jeffery McNulty
May 26, 2008
The last thing Allen said to me was simple.
I had made a point of thanking him for his generous hospitality one more time before we left. I hadn't been so welcomed and felt so accepted by another family since was a teenager. He shook my hand and looked me in the eye and said, as every good father should, "Take good care of our Courtney." and I will.
The great loss we all feel is lessened only by how lucky we were to have had him on this planet.
I am ashamed that circumstances put me out of reach to help Courtney in her greatest time of need. I regret that I couldn't be at the services in person but I was there in my heart all through Oklahoma, Kansas and Colorado etc.
All my love and sympathy goes out to the Smith family.
Suzanne Smith
May 24, 2008
Oh Poppy Doodle,
Here it is, almost three weeks later, and I still wake up every morning with the deepest sadness I have ever known.
See, I never really imagined there would come a time when you weren't here with us. Of course, I tried to prepare for years, but I realize now that is a virtual impossibility. You were the anchor of our family, the guiding force, and now everything feels imbalanced and very unnatural. I will never feel as safe again.
Sundays crush me; they will always be the day we would try to congregate as a family. We all looked so forward to it, and felt fortunate to maintain that for so many years. Now, Sundays are the day you had to leave us.
I miss your presence and long so much to hear your voice again. If something funny or disturbing is in the news, I go to pick up the phone to share it with you. I miss how you found humor in so many situations, even when you were feeling crappy and beaten down. I am so grateful you passed that trait down to your children. It has saved us all countless times in this life.
There are so many things I could write and talk about, so many ways to give thanks that you are my father. You are here in my heart forever, and the memories truly sustain me each and every day. I love you in a way that defies words, and look forward to seeing you again in the future. All my love, Your Suzie
Rebecca (Page) Hecker
May 20, 2008
I can't remember the first time I met Mr. Smith because I must have been in Kindergarten! I haven't seen him in years but can still see and hear him as if I had seen him yesterday. He was a fantastic man and I respected him immensely as so many others do. To the entire Smith family, please know the Page Family is thinking of all of you!!
Ivan Podgwaite
May 17, 2008
I'll never forget Al. Quite the guy. I only met him a few times but he left quite an impression. My condolances to you all.
Karen Keithline Diop
May 14, 2008
Dear Kim and family,
Although it has been a long time, I will never forget the fun, laughter and love that your home overflowed with. I wish I had been there in time to express this in person. Kim, you were there when my Dad left us and his pain behind. I wish I could have been there for you. To all the family, I wish you strength in your loss and love and happiness in your memories.
Lucia Castro-Smith
May 14, 2008
Twenty two years ago, when I came to the United States I was pretty nervous about meeting Daryl's parents. Not speaking the language, the communication was going to be difficult. When I first walked in the house Smitty was sitting on his chair watching TV. He got up and gave me the warmest smile I had ever seen. That moment I knew I was going to be OK. All these years I witnessed a generous man, kind to all who came in contact with him. CT will never be the same without him. Like everybody else I will miss him dearly. It would be selfish to wish to have him forever with the suffering he was enduring. The only consolation is to know that he no longer has physical pain. He is at peace and in God's hands.
Heather Carini
May 12, 2008
Courtney first introduced me to her Dad, the Judge, when we were in our early teens. He scared and intimidated me, I was sure he hated me. Thinking back to my first impressions of him, I have to laugh because he was quite the contrary. He was so warm, kind and accepting of me. It made me happy to see him because he made me feel so welcomed. He loved people and their stories. I loved to hear his stories as much as he loved to share. He made me laugh a lot!! I will miss him very much but feel blessed to have known such a great man. $2.50 in the gift shop…love you. Header
Castro Dávila Castro Dávila
May 12, 2008
May the Lord comfort you in your hour of sadness and may you find the blessing of understanding and peace.
In deepest sympathy.
Familia Castro Dávila
Judy Dunn Edgren
May 12, 2008
Dear Mrs. Smith, Kim, Daryl, Suzanne, Jenny, Kelsey, and Courtney,
I was saddened to hear from my parents the news of your Dad's passing. He was a part of my childhood growing up in our Woodhaven Road neighborhood. It was the perfect kids neighborhood and your family was the epicenter! I will always remember Mr. Smith in his favorite reclining chair cheering or yelling at Yaz, Jim Rice, Fred Lynn and all the other 70's Red Sox players. I will remember him rocking out to Bob Seger, playing that album over and over! I will also remember the time he caught Jenny and me playing with matches behind the house. I never did get in trouble for that. I think he knew "the look" was enough to scare me out of ever doing that again! He was right!
Your Dad touched many lives and those memories will live on. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Josh Westbrook
May 11, 2008
He saw the good in all of us and showed us what trust is.
He caught us when we fell and personified justice.
He took us out to lunch and took us out to supper.
But, it's his armchair that I'll miss and our love for one another.
He was Teddy's homerun and Bird's three at the buzzer.
He felt all of our pain, so no longer shall he suffer.
I miss you grampa,
Joe Calano
May 11, 2008
I first met Judge Smith in 1983 at
GA 16. It was lunchtime and he said HEY PINBALL do you have plans for lunch? I said no. He said get in the car and off we went to the Idleweiss restaurant in West Hartford center. Little did I know that was the first of hundreds and hundreds of lunches and dinners to come in the years that followed. There were the Farquahr shows, the F&L dinners at the Casa Loma, the Christmas parties, Lena's, (see you about two-ish) the retirement parties ,weddings, first communions, birthdays and many other special occasions that our families shared thru the years..Grinder day in the jury room at GA 16. Somehow he always found a way to dismiss the panel so his staff could share tomato salads, hot peppers and so much more. More recently there were trips to Arthur Avenue to the Italian section in The Bronx, New York. The Judge liked all types of groceries, but Italian food was his favorite. First & Last Tavern and Popeye's Chicken were also two of his restaurants of choice. This man did so much for so many he simply was THE BEST. To have been a member of his staff for all those wonderful years in West Hartford was my privilege.Judge Smith was my boss, my mentor,and my friend. It was an honor to have him in my life. Rest in peace my friend.
Bernie Sullivan
May 10, 2008
Nancy and Family,I just returned from vacation and was saddened to hear of "Smittys" passing.There are many great memories of times shared going back to GA 14.Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Courtney Smith
May 10, 2008
Hi Papa- I miss you every day since I moved away and will continue to forever! I go on knowing that I was truly blessed to have you as a dad. I know you are happy and free and enjoying a buffet with your friends and loved ones over there- and I hope you meet Benny Hill! I will always have that "not so fresh feeling" now that you aren't here, but I know I can still talk to you any time I want- your legacy will always live on because you were larger than life. I love you daddy!- love, Courtney aka #6 aka "the baby."
Diane (Pitts) Ward
May 9, 2008
To the Smith family- I have so many wonderful memories of Judge Smith at family functions growing up. He was a lot of fun. I am very sorry for your loss.
Sgt. Dan "Zeke" Mathena
May 9, 2008
Judge Smith was an icon in the courts that served the agencies I worked with. He was honest, fair and demanded respect for the court and police officers. We always had a story to share about something Judge Smith said in court....and many of us officers were releived to find that we were appearing before him. He will surely be missed.
Jorge Castro Salazar
May 9, 2008
Nancy e hijos,
Nuestras mas sinceras condolencias por la irreparable perdida de Smitty. Siempre lo recordaremos por su generosidad y su sentido del humor. Que Dios les de fuerza y aceptacion para sobrellevar los dias futuros. ¡Que descanse en paz!
Lisa & Justin Berghauser
May 9, 2008
Kimmy & Family,
Your dad's legacy is very alive through all of his family. I only met Smitty a few times but his infectious presences will remain impressionable. It's been a tough year for both of our families however, our love and love of how precious life truely is, will carry us all through. Your other little sister, Lisa.
Jackie Kelly Gallagher
May 9, 2008
I was listening to the Red Sox game on the radio last night- while driving my kids home from swim team practice- when I heard the tribute to the long-time Red Sox fan- "The Honorable Judge Al Smith of Glastonbury". This brought back a flood of memories of times spent at the Smith house in high school , as I was a close friend of Sue. I especially remember all of the fun and laughter at your house and his delicious homemade ice cream. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Bob Fonfara & Family
May 9, 2008
With sorrow and deepest sympathies from our family to yours.
My memories of Judge Smith are many throughout my years, as a young boy going to Boston with my Dad & Smitty to see the Red Sox play at Fenway Park for the first time, to my first Chinese dinner after the game and wondering where they put all that food. To observing Judge Smith at work and the humor he shared & so many life lessons learned. To the great times at Lena’s on my return visits home after moving away. Even spending some time together with him and Nancy when I lived in Seattle.
We will miss you dearly however will remember forever.
Abby Georgiades
May 8, 2008
Grandpa,
For the past 8 years you have taught me so many things. I love how you always tried to do the rowboata with a giggle in between. I hope you enjoy your iced coffee and bagels at dunkee do dos. I love you so much and I hope you rest in peace! :)
Love, Abby aka Ab
Jodie Lachowitz Sandman
May 8, 2008
Dear Courtney and Family - I was deeply saddened this afternoon when my Mom called and told me of your Dad's passing. I have fond memories of playing at the Smith house as a child. It was always a busy and fun place to be. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Jodie
wade abbott
May 8, 2008
I will truly miss my Honored Uncle Smitty. I'm sure glad he got to witness his beloved Sox, for not 1, but 2 series champs. He is a pure champ as well. What a great time I had w/the Smith clan on a summer vacation, & especially w/Daryl & Uncle Smitty at the 1976 All Star game in New York. He will always be in my heart, & was a true joy to be around, in the limited time I got to spend w/him. I miss Aunt Nancy, & all my cousins, & wish you all the best. xxx worlds tallest batboy! Wade Abbott...Houston, Texas
The justice system will never be the same again!
May 8, 2008
Carmen Garcia
May 8, 2008
Dear Family: My heart was sad and heavy when I heard Judge Smith had passed, but as I think of his kindness,gentleness and of course humor I can't help but smile. I am so glad that I had the honor to know him and the memories I have will remain forever in my heart. He was a true friend to those who knew him. I will miss you dearly Smitty.
Dan Culver
May 8, 2008
For many years, I looked forward to
to seeing Al and Nancy at tax time.
To help them with their tax return
was always a pleasure. He will be
sorely missed.
Win Abbott
May 8, 2008
Aunt Nancy and Cousins;
Our thoughts are with you all. Uncle Smitty was an incredible person and great role model. Compasion, heart, devotion, sense of humor... the list goes on. I will never forget the memories of Cape Cod, the Sox, the Celts, introducing me in the Hartford Court (as the Astro bat boy) and watching how he managed a giant family and the numerous calamities the Smith kids would create. We will miss him and doubt there will be another one like him... May he rest in peace. Win, Julie and the Texas crew.
Here come da judge!
May 8, 2008
Lee Steel
May 8, 2008
You have been a true inspiration to me and so much more than a "father-in-law". Your sense of family values and tradition will be carried on by your loving family and passed on for generations to come. I will miss you but all the same, realize that you are in a much better place. Watch over us and save some hot sauce for me!
Roxanne McCann
May 8, 2008
Kim & Family,
I will pray for moments of strength for you all. Try to focus on the happier days and let those memories be the ones to get you through your times of sadness. Lean on your friends; we are here for you.
Roxanne McCann
Mark Georgiades
May 8, 2008
As I grow up I didn’t have a father to help me through life’s twists and turns, my Grandfather helped me navigate these waters for 20 years. To me, he was larger than life, the greatest man that ever stepped on God’s green earth. Then my mother set up a blind date with Mrs. Nancy Smith to meet her very cute daughter, by the name of Jennifer. The night of our first date, I arrived at the Smith house to a rolling thunder of voices and total confusion. I meet Smitty for the first time as he pulled me aside and ask me of my intention with his daughter. I gave a respond as only a young man would give.
He saw right through that and told me to be good to his daughter. The manner in which Smitty talked to me that first night showed me that I found a man, just as great and wise that could walk beside my Grandfather.
Al was a bigger than life figure to me, he was and will always be a father that I never had. He took me in under his wing from our first meeting and treated like I was his son. He was a mentor, a friend, more over he was my father. I have been blessed by God to have over 22 years of my life having this man in my life. The lessons of life I learned from Al have made me one of the riches persons in the world.
Al, I will forever keep you in my heart, my mind, and in my soul. I will miss you dearly,
Your Son-In-Law
Jennifer Georgiades
May 8, 2008
Daddy -
I want to thank you for being such a wonderful father and for all of the years of love and support. I cannot express how big the hole is in my heart right now and I ache with missing you, but I am so thankful that you are finally free from the pain and suffering. Please don't worry about us... we will all be okay and Mom is in good hands - I promise you that. Rest in peace and eat whatever you want up there... I hope they have a Dunkin Donuts! Love you beyond words...
Your "Jennifer Jogger"
frank ramondetta
May 8, 2008
allen was a good friend to me.We met in Merden court back in 1980.We keep contact for years. He was a grate man and Father, I loved he dearly.May he rest in peace.
Gene & Sylvia Charette
May 7, 2008
Sad to hear of the passing of Judge Allen Smith. Through our friends Kim and Lee Steel we were fortunate to meet Kims parents who we found to be friendly,warm,sincere and very down to earth. He could talk to anyone on their level and make them feel important. He knew how to bring out the smile in anyone and usually did. He will be missed.
Debra Diers
May 7, 2008
To my dearest second family.
My heart is heavy and filled with sadness that Alfie has left us. But at the same time it has also been filled so fully in such a wonderful way because I have had so many years of sharing and being a part of the family. Alfie meant the world to me, as you all do, and it is an honor and a blessing to be called Daughter #6. Much love to you all.
Suzanne Abbott
May 7, 2008
Smitty,
Your father-in-law, Winston Abbott,
once wrote "there can be no rainbow
until the storm has passed". No more
pain, no more suffering......rest in
peace dear Smitty.
mimi beggs
May 7, 2008
What a legacy Smitty leaves..to his family... it must bring you some comfort in knowing how much JOY AND LAUGHTER he brought to the world. Angels be with you. Nancy..Sue and Dale have kept me up to date with all you have had to face these past few years. My prayers and thoughts have been with you. Stay strong sister.
Alexandra Smith
May 7, 2008
Grandpa, I hope you're having a huge glass of orange juice and eating some fancy foods wherever you are. Most of all, i hope you feel better. You are an amazing person and have left me with wonderful memories (mostly of restaurants and sunday/holiday dinners) I love you, and i'm keeping my promise.
Carol Goodyear
May 7, 2008
Most of you know the story from when Judge Smith called my case and the case of my client upon my return from a conferance to San Antonio with Kim...He overrode the prosecutors call for the first case and called me and my client instead...Having seen Judge Smith in action in court...I was concerned! When my client and I approached the bench expecting a stern reprimand for the court related offense, Judge Smith instead said, "Ms. Goodyear! Where are is my hot sauce from San Antonio!?!?" I will never forget it. He was bigger than life and could get your attention!
Kim Steel
May 7, 2008
I'm feeling the void Fuh-Fuh! It's hard to think of a life without your physical presence being in it but, since you were "larger than life", I know you will always be beside me!
Sue Carnell
May 7, 2008
Dearest Susie and family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss as I know how much your Dad meant to all of you. I still laugh at many of the stories you all have shared about "The Judges" antics and those will be memories that will never be forgotten. I have one memory to share of my own and that was when Mr. Smith drove Susie and me to Boston in his Big Red Cadillac. He was so proud of that car and he kept it incredibly clean. In fact, he took a corner as we started our journey and I slid from one side of the back seat to the other and howled with laughter (as did he and Susie). I do recall both or them mentioning something about a friend of his being wedged between the seats when he stopped abruptly. He found humor in everything he did and made the world a better place. He will be missed. My love to all of you.
kelsey smith
May 7, 2008
I miss you already, dad.
xoxo-kelsey
Daryl Smith
May 7, 2008
To My Father,
Dad, you are in a better place, without any more pain, and I know that you are looking down on us (and smiling). You taught all of us how to be kind to others and led by example. I will miss you more than I'm able to express.
Rest in peace!
Your son
Jeanine Whiting
May 7, 2008
Dear Nancy and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of Smitty's passing. May your loving memories bring you comfort at this difficult time. If I can be of any help, please e-mail me.
Cammy Ferreira
May 7, 2008
To all the Smith family:
I was so very upset to hear about Smitty's death. He was one of the most sincere, compassionate, witty, funny, happy people I knew. It was an honor to work for him and to meet all of you because of him. I have many fond memories--little league baseball games, parties, Lena's, phone conversations. May God be with those left behind--I know he will take great care of Smitty.
Cammy Ferreira
Karen & Jamie Goulet
May 7, 2008
Lee, Kim, Josh & Smith family,
He certainly brought a great family into the world. Josh would always talk highly of Judge Smith (Smitty-my uncles nickname too as my mother is a Smith) when heading to a function he would be at. Could of been the "free food"!
Lee & Kim, I remember meeting him at your house party sometime ago.
God Bless!
Ralph "Murph" Murphy
May 7, 2008
As a Superior Court Magistrate I had the privilege of knowing Judge Smith. Our paths crossed many times. I have lasting memories of in chambers debate and after session camaraderie. Sine die.
Joan & Ralph Martin
May 7, 2008
Dear Smith Family:
It saddens Joan & I deeply to hear of the passing of a man who we appreciated over the past 40 years for many reasons.
He married us quite some time ago and got our family out of many difficult situations that only Nancy could understand, what a man!
He will be sorely missed and you will be in our prayers.
We wish you all God's speed.
Sincere love,
Marcy Carlone
May 7, 2008
Kim and Family,
Although I did not have the honor of knowing your dad, I have no doubt that all the stories I have heard about him are minor in comparison to the man he truly was. Kim - if you are anything like your dad, which my guess is you are - he inspired love and the gift of life to you and upon all your family. May you know his life and his love lives within you, not only today, but forever. If I can do anything, please ask.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Marcy
Pat Ripley
May 7, 2008
Kim, and entire Smith clan...
Your Dad married us, and sometimes it was the very thought of Hanging' Al that kept us together over the years. He made us laugh. Now that's a memory to hang onto. Our love and condolences to each and every one of you. Love, Pat & John
Dale Abbott
May 7, 2008
What a guy ! To know Smitty was to
love him. Now that he has been called up to the "big club" I know
he'll be in the starting lineup from
now on. Godspeed, my friend.
Jos. Jackson
May 7, 2008
Smith family;
'
Peace be still...
'
JJax
Alan & Joanne Lachowitz
May 7, 2008
Dear Nancy and family,
It is with deep regret that we read about Smitty's passing. He was a wonderful friend with a great sense of humor. I clearly remember the time at our Glastonbury house when he came out and jokingly kidded Jonathan about getting married overseas and then proceeded to perform a "wedding". Of course we also remember that he did officially marry both Jodie and Kara.
We will miss him terribly as we are sure all of his family and friends will also.
Love,
Joanne and Alan
Riley and Cerise Johnson
May 7, 2008
Dear Family,
Riley and I were sadden to hear of the passing of our beloved friend Judge Allen Smith. May precious memories always linger.
With much love and gratitude for all the wonderful moments he gave to the Johnson Family.
Jen Shea Smith
May 7, 2008
To my dear "extended" family, the Smiths: Smitty and I snickered each and every time protocol required that I address him as "Your Honor"... it was a struggle not refer to him as Judge Smitty at work! He was too much like family to me; you are all so much like family to me. The countless hours and meals and laughs I shared with you growing up are some of my favorite childhood memories. Little did people know that the Chief Prosecutors' Office in Hartford was also operating as a post office with Smitty and Dad religiously exchanging those countless letters Sue and I wrote to one another. They never forgot to bring them home. And I did eventually forgive Al for taking you all away to move to Glastonbury, although I never admitted it to him. I am truly sorry for your loss; I know how deeply you will all miss him. We all will. He and Dad were infamous with their antics; someone actually said the other day that it's an end of an era. But I don't see it so much as an "end" when there are so many memories and legacies left behind. May those same memories and all that love you have, sustain you. Thankfully, Smitty is no longer suffering. He can finally rest, peacefully, and watch down over us all... Snacking on whatever he damned well pleases. Much love to each and every one of you. Brad and Erin send love and their condolences as well.
Elaine Kennedy
May 7, 2008
Kind, generous, funny, fair, big hearted and loyal are just some of the traits that quickly come to mind when you think of "Smitty". Once you met him, you never forgot him.
Michael and Nella D'Onofrio
May 7, 2008
Dear Nancy and Family - Mike and I were deeply saddened to hear and read of Smitty's death. He was a dear friend, going back to Jones Jr. High and throughout the years.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mike and Nella D'Onofrio
frank smith
May 7, 2008
My deepest sympathy for all of Allen's family at such a sad time. I enjoyed every moment at Hartford Chicken Coop with his Honor and remembering all the laughs he generated.
Frank Smith
Larry Frazier
May 7, 2008
My condolences to the Smith for the loss of a good kind man.
Barton Albin
May 7, 2008
Barton and Sue Albin and Family
My family had the privlege of living next to the Smiths in the "West End" during the early years.
I remember dearly, Smitty's love for his growing family, friends and neighbors and who can forget the champion malamutes "Prinny and Magroo".
In more recent years Sue and I would frequent many attorney functions with him and Nancy while he and I would compare and swap the hottest of peppers.
He always had a smile on his face and a great story to tell and was nothing short of a legend.
He will surely be missed and our utmost sympathy and prayers go out to you all at this time.
God Bless and we are very sorry to be out of town at this time
Christine Mansur
May 7, 2008
I have known Mr. Smith for over 25 years, as Jenny is my best friend. I express my deepest sympathy to the entire Smith family. I remember his passion for hot peppers, and the RedSox (I myself am a Sox Fan). One of my most memorable times - is when Mr. Smith made barbecued spare ribs for dinner one night, he asked Jenny and myself how they were, I responded "great" as we chomped thru the very charred (burnt) ribs. I visited him not that long ago, and we got a good laugh over this memory. He was a tremendous man, and I am honored to have known him.
Eddie Jurgelas
May 7, 2008
Nancy and Family
I am so sorry of the passing of Smitty. He was a great man and friend. I will truly miss him. I will always have fond memories of working in his court and the many social events we went to. May he Rest in Peace.
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