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John Shea

1929 - 2016

John Shea obituary, 1929-2016, Southington, CT

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1929

DIED

2016

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John Shea Obituary



John "Jack" Shea, 87, died on December 15, 2016. He was the loving husband of Marie (Thomas) (Gutowski) Shea. John was born September 27, 1929 to Dennis and Mary Frances (Mulcahy) Shea. A native of West Hartford, John attended St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield, CT. and St. Bernard Seminary in Rochester, NY. John was ordained to the Roman Catholic priesthood on May 19, 1955 by the most Rev. Henry J. O'Brien D.D, Archbishop of Hartford. He was assigned to Holy trinity Parish in Wallingford, St. Rose Parish in Woodmont and St. Jerome Parish in New Britain. He serves the community during his tenure and was known as a gifted speaker. John was instrumental in the formation of the New Britain Clergy Association. John left the priesthood and married Elaine Rashaw, a happy and loving marriage that ended with Elaine's death in 1995. John was employed by the State of Connecticut at Mattatuck Community College in Waterbury, where he was the registrar for many years. In 1996 he married Marie (Thomas) Gutowski, with whom he shared many happy years. He is survived by his wife Marie Shea, his brother, Robert D. Shea and his sister-in-law Mary Ellen Shea. He also leaves several step children, his step grandchildren and many nieces, nephews and grandnieces and grandnephews. Family and friends may gather at Our Lady of Mercy Church 94 Broad Street in Plainville on Tuesday from 10:00 a.m. until 11:00 a.m. with a Mass of Christian Burial in celebration of John's life beginning at 11:00 a.m. Burial will be at 2:00 p.m. in Saint Francis Cemetery in Torrington. The Bailey Funeral Home 48 Broad Street in Plainville has care of arrangements. For additional information or to leave words of condolence please visit www.BAILEY-FUNERALHOME.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 17, 2016.

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James Maxwell

January 17, 2017

John and I shared many wonderful years at Naugatuck Valley Community College. Together we started the college careers of many students. We enjoyed years of listening to Books-on-Tape. We laughed together, shared a few pints together, and worked hard together to share God's kingdom on earth.

Well done, John! Godspeed.

Jim

Alan Martin

December 26, 2016

While I served as Dean Of Student Affairs at Mattatuck Community College for 10 years , I had the privilege to have John serve as my registrar. He will be remembered as a consummate professional as well as a gentleman and a highly regarded colleague and friend .
He WILL be missed by many !!!!

Alan R Martin , Dean Emeritus

Joe Lombardo

December 19, 2016

Growing up on Slater Road living right across the street from St. Jerome church, and serving as a alter boy for many years I knew Fr. Shea real well, he was my idol, i was devastated when he left the Priest hood but it was a blessing for the Rashaw family. Our lives crossed many times latter in life played golf with him few times at Stanley Golf course, he was a gentle kind man, May he rest in peace.

December 19, 2016

Wonderful preist and wonderful man. I will always have fond memories. May you rest in peace.

Donna ( Melescinski ) Smith

Jane and Maryellen Shuckerow

December 18, 2016

Jack was a great man , had a great Irish wit and followed his heart. Our thoughts and prayers, God Speed good man!

Bernie and Elaine Sullivan

December 18, 2016

Please accept our sympathy on Jacks Passing. May he rest in a well earned peace,

December 17, 2016

Sorry for your loss may you draw comfort from Gods word at Hosea 13:14. L Ohio

David Jones

December 17, 2016

I was an altar boy when Fr. Shea was a priest at St Jerome's. He was very down to earth and well liked by all. He will indeed be missed. RIP Fr. Shea

Jean (Higgins) Doyle

December 17, 2016

Knew your loved one as "Father Shea" growing up in New Britain and attending St. Jerome. He was in charge of CYO and did many wonderful things with us like taking a mystery trip to the U.S. Coast Guard Academy to visit. He also spurred me to run for the Archdiocesan Youth Organization as vice president. Wonderful man who left just before I was married and I was heartsick that he wasn't the one who performed our ceremony. However, he had found the love of Mrs. Rashaw and we were happy for them both. Did not know she passed but happy that he found another wonderful person to share his life with. Great man and he will be missed by many! RIP and condolences to all of his family.

Bailey Funeral Home, Inc.

December 17, 2016

Our heartfelt sympathies in this, your time of grief.

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