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Erik Berglund Obituary
BERGLUND, Erik Philip Ended his life in the afternoon, April 11, 2009, at his Victoria home. Survived and deeply loved by his mother Ann-Charlotte and his sister Jessica with husband Volker and nephew Hugo. Predeceased by his father Urban in 1979. Grieved by family and friends everywhere, mainly in Canada and Sweden. Erik was born in Vancouver, November 15, 1965, raised at the family ranch at Upper Nicola, B.C., and then in Banff and Kaleden, B.C.. He graduated in 1983 from Penticton Secondary School, graduated with a B.Sc. Biology (First Class) from UVic in 1987 and attended two years at the UBC Faculty of Medicine, before discovering he really wanted to study architecture. In 1995 Erik received his M.Arch. from the UBC School of Architecture and then enjoyed work in his beloved Victoria, including opening his own office in late 2007. Erik was kind, faithful, generous, gentle, intelligent, caring and compassionate. He loved nature, hiking, skiing and paddling, and his guitars. He was always there for anyone in need and had so much insight into what troubled him. Until the very end, Erik kept searching for some lightness of being. Why did you leave so soon? Come gather to remember Erik, Saturday, April 25, 2009, 2-5 p.m. at Goward House, 2495 Arbutus Road, Victoria (250-477-4401). A fund in Erik's name has been set up at the Grasslands Conservation Council of B.C. phone 250-374-5787, [email protected] In one of the stars, I shall be living. In one of them, I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night. The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupery 536549
Memories and Condolences
for Erik Berglund
Sponsored by Jessica Berglund.
73 Entries
A Emmons
April 11, 2021
A crush that no one knew
Such substance in plain view
It is all you
Michael Ulrich
July 7, 2016
Dear Erik,
I found some postcards that you sent between 1988 and 1992. These were packed up for 26 years and survived several cross country moves! Of course, with the days of Facebook and email we don't see many postcards now. Very incredible to find these and remind me of how thoughtful you were. You are greatly missed!
Liza Lort-Phillips
April 10, 2012
My love and best wishes to you Jessica, on this sad anniversary..Eric touched us all. Liza x
Mike Burns
April 10, 2012
April 10, 2012
Dear Ann-Charlotte and Jessica,
I want to once again send my condolences.
Erik had such a generous spirit, exuded warmth, was easy to smile, always enjoyed a good joke, he was liked by so many in the communities in which he lived, by colleagues in medical school, architecture, and in paddling. He was a person of community. He took the extra step to contribute out of no other desire than to make a small change for the better in the world.
I met the news of his death with shock, grief, anger, sorrow, and the knowledge that a friend I knew I could always count on wouldn't be there to share stories and laugh with when I was an old man. It's been three years now since his passing, and some of those feelings for me have lessened. The anger is gone. The knowledge that my life, and that of so many others, is diminished, less rich, because of his absence, still makes it difficult.
Erik's illness remains elusive, invisible, and can't be biopsied or imaged with the usual technology, but it is as real as any malignant cancer, and brings with it unimaginable pain. Would we treat it differently, maybe more aggressively, if it could be seen, biopsied, placed on a slide and examined under a microscope?
Erik. Bud. My talented friend. I thank you for so much. You were my best man. You helped prepare me for that big day and brought Akvavik (I'll drink a toast to you one day with that vile stuff!). Your spirit is still with us, your light remains. It lives in the hearts of all and many whose lives you brightened in small and meaningful ways, maybe with a smile or a good laugh, by really listening to people, by being a good son and trusted brother, by being someone uncommonly good. I miss you and will continue to miss you. Go well my friend, sketchbook and guitar in hand, in peace, and love, and in deepest friendship.
Mike
Karin Gale
November 16, 2011
Tanker pa Dig pa din fodelsedag Erik. kramar till dig, Ann-Charlotte, Jessica, Volker och Hugo. din 'sharky' vann Karin
Melissa Davies
June 17, 2010
Dear Jessica,
I was so saddened to read of Erik's passing in the UVic magazine that I received last week. I went to school with Erik and lived on the same floor in residence for one year. Unfortunately I lost touch with him over the years, especially after I moved away from Canada.
I have such fond memories of your brother; he was a very special man. He a lovely spirit about him, endeared people toward him. But his gentle nature was appreciated and enjoyed by all who took the time to get to know him.
I am saddened for your loss and for how his illness and struggle won out in the end. I know that it cannot be easy for those of you who loved him to have sat on the sidelines and watched him battle through it. I pray that your and your mother are able to find some solace in the knowledge that Erik positively touched the lives of so many.
Erik my old friend, may you have the peace that you so dearly longed for and may God watch over you each and every day, now that you share it with Him.
Melissa
June 10, 2010
Dear Erik,
A little over a year has gone since you left - so unnecessarily - and I couldn't help but think of you as Easter came and went. What a loss to all who knew you! That much intelligence and grace should live on. I know other people who struggle as you struggled and I tell them - "This is going to pass - just hang on a bit longer and the sun will shine again". And it does, Erik, it does.
Pat Cavanagh
bruce grierson
November 14, 2009
lad,
happy birthday. this is the first year in probably fifteen we haven't exchanged phone messages. it feels weird. it feels wrong. it is wrong.
i'll be thinking of you this weekend. in the parallel world where you're still alive, where i'm not wearing your green shirt right now because you are, lots of people are benefiting from your ideas, and your attentiveness, and just plainly from your company.
lots of people are still making space for you, and that won't stop. things that would have delighted you, or things you would (we think) have found funny or cool or tasteful, these things register: and in those moments it's as if you are here still.
but you know, if you ever want to call, that would be better. turn back time a year: better still.
condolences to your family on a very tough anniversary.
everest macdonald
October 21, 2009
Dear Erik,
It has been a few months now since your memorial. I just found your business card in a file that says "things to follow up on". I must have put it there after I saw you last - on your bike in Victoria with a big smile on your face. I remember thinking how vibrant you looked and how proud you seemed. I was so looking forward to connecting again (as the time I saw you before was at UBC architecture/Athens trip). You touched so many different lives. You certainly touched mine - thank you Erik and enjoy looking down from your bright star up in the sky.
Jim Stirton
October 20, 2009
Erik
I have just heard of your passing, from one of your close neighbors in Parc.
I am deeply saddened as I am always telling others in the profession about this young Architect who will shortly become one of Victoria's outstanding practitioner. That's how I remember you.
I just wanted you to know that the brief time I spent working with you, in opposing roles as Architect and Contractor on the Royal Theatre, was memorable.
Your skill and personality combined well the many talents required of a great Architect and you have left this old Architect with an indelible memory of your capacity.
I trust that you are where you are needed.
My condolences to your family.
Jim
Harvey Thompson
September 21, 2009
Dear Ann-Chalotte and Jessica
I just recently learned of Erik's passing and I am deeply saddened and troubled by it. I have known Erik since 1983 and was one of his room mates our first two years at UBC , he being in Medicine and me in Dentistry. We shared alot of good times especially in those two years including attending about a half dozen heavy metal concerts in the first year alone.He loved music more than anyone I knew.We would go grocery shopping together as he had the car and we used to talk through the walls of our rooms as we studied. I think he preferred the guitar to studying . I am so sorry that I had lost touch with Erik as maybe he would have confided in me what was bothering him. I last saw him around 1999 when I brought my wife to meet him in Vancouver. I only learned of his untimely passing in Victoria of all places, a place I had not been since 1994 and I had thought previously of looking him up when a mutual friend of ours informed me of the news.Erik was a good friend and I let time separate us and I will never forgive myself for that but I am glad to have known him as well as I did and I will miss him. I kow you are at peace now Erik. Go with God.
Harvey
Rich Hamilton
June 28, 2009
Very tough to hear of this. It leaves a true feeling of emptiness in my being. Since the days when we grew up together in Kaleden, every time I have something with marzipan, see a VW Golf, a Newfie, hear KISS I have always thought of you - now when I see those things they will have even more meaning. I remember sitting beside you most days as we rode the bus to school - especially the day that John Lennon died. We were listening to CBC on the bus's radio and we both looked at each other stunned knowing that your Mom had interviewed the Beatles! I have always remembered that moment. All those little things that become attached to one's identity that make them so unique and special.
Ann-Charlotte & Jessica; I hope that you are well. I have no doubt that both of you know how special Erik was and what we who knew him as a friend feel about Erik.
Steve Perkins
May 6, 2009
Erik,
Having just heard of your passing, I'm saddened at a level that has surprised me. It has been years since I saw you last, and years before that. There was/is something special about you to have left such a mark. You have inspired numerous emails over the last two days, all from old high school friends, all who remember you fondly. Gary McGuire put it well: we take for granted the gift of just being happy.
My deepest condolences.
Tilman
May 6, 2009
Erik, we just met once while I was visting Victoria in 2004. You, my pregnant wife Shabnam,unborn Hana and I were paddeling in Victoria harbour.
My wife, currently abroad, told me lately that you have passed away and I was and am deeply saddened.
When we left Victoria you gave us a small paiting of a lighthouse now hanging in Hana's room. With your lovely, friendly attitude and your open approach to strangers you now moved into that lighthouse.
We will not forget you!
Thank you for letting us share a moment of your life!
Sharyn Green
May 4, 2009
Erik,
I was saddened and shocked to hear of your passing. I remember dragon boating with you and all the fun we had. You were a great paddler and a wonderful team mate. I am glad I got to spend some time with you. My condolences to your family. Rest in Peace my friend.
Brad Webb
May 4, 2009
Dear Erik,
I am very saddened to hear of your passing. I remember our time in High School together. Vern, Jerry and the gang.
While I hadn't had the pleasure of seeing you in many years, I often think of You and Vern, Jerry and Rob; Wondering if we would ever meet up again. Wondering if you still enjoyed tennis and the outdoors. I had heard you have become an accomplished architect and I congratulate you for all your achievements.
Erik, may God keep you and hold you in his arms. May there be no suffering that you endure. May your thoughts be ones of happiness and peace. I look forward to seeing you again one day.
Respectfully,
Brad
Roger Tailleur
May 4, 2009
Erik, you've been my best friend since I moved to Victoria. These past five and a half years we've shared so many good times together and we've supported one another through life's challenges. Your friendship brought much joy to my life. You were always a caring, generous and supportive friend to me. You are truly a gentle soul.
I miss you so much but I am comforted in knowing that you are now at peace. I imagine you dancing eternally to your favourite music, with a big smile on your face and joy in your heart.
Jerry Divoky
May 3, 2009
Erik was the first new friend I made in Victoria upon moving here over four years ago. He was one of those people who attracted great people to him. I suspect, like me, they were drawn to his combination of sincerity, intelligence, compassion, and wit. Thanks for your generosity Erik, I will miss you.
Patrick Buchanan
May 3, 2009
Frille.
The mountians around the Okanagan is where I will always remember you. The games of ghost, tea and cold nights around the fire. You are a true super scruff. Enjoy the stares, all be looking for yours when I am sleeping on top of the mountian.
Cheers Brother.
Ulrika Gillespie (Hawkins)
April 26, 2009
My mother and Ann Charlotte were best friends when the Berglunds lived in Banff. My fondest memory is of our families dancing around the christmas tree and running through their house to Swedish Christmas music and laughing. My other memory of Erik is of him and his group friends skiing in Banff.
Anders, Maria and I are deeply saddened for your loss Ann Charlotte and Jessica and family.
We will always be in touch.
Nathan Miller
April 26, 2009
I am so sorry for the lost of your dear loved one. It's comforting to know that God cares for all of us and losing a loved one is something we cannot get used to. The Bible gives us hope that one day we can see our dear loved one again. On behalf of all mankind Jesus surrender his soul for many. John 15:13 says “No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his soul on behalf of his friends.” Truly I am sorry to hear of the loss of your dear loved one and I hope these few words will bring you comfort and hope.
Julia Mogensen
April 25, 2009
I am very saddened to hear of Erik's passing and send my deepest condolences to Ann Charlotte and Jessica. I first met Erik at Uvic one summer 22 years ago and we remained friends since. Though we only saw each other once or twice a year recently, I already miss his kind, considerate, and loyal friendship and passionate, thoughtful discourse.
I'll miss you Erik. I hope you have found peace.
Niki Timar
April 24, 2009
Erik, it was a pleasure to paddle with you and to get to know you. We miss you already.
Murali & Charlotte Venkataraman
April 23, 2009
Erik,
A part of you will always be with us.
Everyday, as we live our lives in our home that you created for us, we will remember you. The solid posts and beams will give us strength, the windows that you artfully placed to bring in light will lift our hearts, and the beautiful lines that you achieved will give us direction.
My everlasting memory of you will be of you laughing, singing, and playin' the blues on your guitar under the starlit night, into the early hours of the morning at Manning Park for Mike's stag.
Our utmost heartfelt sympathies to your family.
Steve Levitt
April 23, 2009
I will always remember hiking with Eric and the big black dog. He was a great person to have spent time with. Ann and Jessica my thoughts are with you.
Rob Whetter
April 23, 2009
I was a couple of years behind Eric in architecture school, and shared a few laughs with him. He was one of those people who exuded positivity, calmness and wisdom.
Sheila Stainton
April 23, 2009
A gentle smile
a brilliant mind
a faithful friend
a heart so kind.
An artist
& an inspiration
filled with passion
& determination.
Touched by you
in many ways;
we couldn't fill
the cloudy days.
The storm rolled in
the clouds they grew
thunder came
& it claimed you.
Heather Alexander(Rogers)
April 23, 2009
It has been many years since I have seen Erik and his family, but I have many fond memories of visiting their ranch in the Nicola Valley. It is evident that Erik touched the hearts and lives of many and will be remembered and appreciated by all those he knew throughout his life. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Anne Charlotte, Jessica and family.
Selena Redel( Van Tol)
April 22, 2009
I am deeply saddened to hear of Erik's passing. My heart goes out to his mom and Jessica. I always admired Erik's determination in all that he did, and his loyalty to his friends. You will be missed.
Teresina Lazzaro
April 22, 2009
Erik, I didn't know you that well, but always understood you to be a very special human being. I'll never forget the sunshine & kindness you radiated to all around you. You will be greatly missed, but never forgotten by all who were fortunate enough to meet you.
Robert Holmes
April 22, 2009
I think I last saw Erik when he was about twelve, when the Holmes family visited the Berglund family at the ranch in Upper Nicola to cross-country ski and play in the cold crisp sunshine and drink glug. Happy days!
When I saw Erik's obituary in the Vancouver Sun, it was like looking at a photo of Urban. A beautiful person.
I have no words to express my profound sorrow to Anne and to Jessica, and I will do my best to stay in touch much more as time goes by.
Lynneth Stuart-Hill
April 22, 2009
Dear Ann-Charlotte and Jessica
I too send my deepest condolences to you both. I met Erik when I first came to UVic and immediately loved the boy in the bright yellow rugby shirt with the gentle and genuine smile! Erik will always hold a special place in my heart. I share your sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Piero Galvagno
April 21, 2009
It is with great sadness that I received word of Erik’s passing. Erik was a kind, compassionate soul and a great friend. For me, his life is an inspiration. I always admired his ability to connect with people and his courage to pursue life passionately, whether it was architecture, music or the natural world. He will be sadly missed by our family. I regret we could not have had the opportunity for one more visit, for one more chat over a pint.
Once on a visit to Kelowna he helped us decide whether to add an additional floor to our house. To make the final decision he encouraged my wife, Hilary, and I to climb up onto the roof. There the three of us spent almost an hour talking and watching the sun set. It’s quiet moments like these that we’ll miss.
Ann-Charlotte and Jessica have also been in our thoughts and our hearts go out to you.
Esther & Doug Harvey
April 21, 2009
Dear College Erik,
No architecture on earth could compare with that you will live in Heaven. That your way to The Eternal God be surrounded by angels.
“For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” Matthew 11:28-30
We will miss you on earth dear friend!
Ian Hamilton
April 21, 2009
Erik, I knew you in high school in Penticton, and even then was awed by your keen intellect, and appreciated your dry sense of humour. I am so saddened to hear of your passing.
I lost my infant son 10 years ago, and can only say to your family that I can begin to understand what they are going through, and that time and love will begin to take away the pain.
As with other people I went to school with, I didn't keep in touch with you since then. I suppose I made the innocent assumption of youth that we all would be around forever to renew acquaintances, and it is my loss.
You seem to have developed a kindred spirit love of the outdoors, and I regret that I will not be able to share that joy with you in later life.
I hope that you are at peace.
Katarina Ljunggren
April 21, 2009
Erik, you moved me and I will never forget you – the two times that we met.
Erik and Jessica was the first two that I had a physical resemblance with – we had our first meeting
in Gällivare, Sweden, 1993, and I remember a cold June-evening looking for the “beautiful midnight sun” up
on the hill Dundret, (Thunder).
Shivering in the northern June night I remember just being around you Erik - soft and gentle, we gave it time - till next time sort of…
Me do not remember more then actually being up there on the hill with you – it was the highlight!
It was just so nice to be surrounded by you lot – especially you Erik. I just thought we´d see much more of each other later, soon.
Ann-Charlotte and Jessica – my warmest thoughts are with you.
I wish you “love and strength” to pull through your loss –
and that you can feel comfort in that there is an “after-life”.
New cousin
Steve Epp
April 21, 2009
Erik, I don't know you all that well, but I'm deeply saddened by your passing. I hope that you have found peace of mind.
Sherri Corrie
April 21, 2009
Erik,
To my high school biology lab partner and grad date, my memories of those times will now be tinged with sorrow. I offer my condolences to your family.
Sherri Macdonald (Corrie)
Rick Couvelier
April 21, 2009
Erik, I knew you such a brief time but saw the impact you had on those who knew and loved you. Your kindness and empathy drew many to your world. We will all think of you and our memories of you whenever we look skyward. You left a wonderful mark on us all.
April 21, 2009
Erik,
I was your neighbour and friend. I remember the day you helped me with some gardening. I found you so easy to talk to, very gentle and sweet.
You made the world a better place, I never heard you say an unkind word about anyone. I always admired that about you.
I offer my condolences to your sister and mother. I just lost my brother in January, so I know how painful it is to lose a loved one.
Wendy Johnston
Lena Severin
April 20, 2009
Erik my dear cousin,
Am so sad to hear what has happened and all my thoughts are with you, Jessica and your mother Ann-Charlotte. Unfortunately we didn't meet so many times but I have a very bright and happy memory of you being in Stockholm not long ago, very passionate about arhcitecture and guitarplaying. Always with a friendly smile and curious questions. I will think of you every time I look up at the stars, promise.
You will be loved and missed
Your Cousin Lena with family
Samantha Patterson
April 20, 2009
I miss you, Erik. You will always be one of my best friends.
Love,
Sam
Rita, Jennie, and Jonn
April 20, 2009
Kind, gentle, sensitive soul. Look down on us from the heavens above, Erik, with that twinkle in your eye that is now a star. You are certainly missed on earth by those whose faces look up toward you. Goodbye dear and beloved son of Ann-Charlotte and brother of Jessica. We share in your sadness and offer our condolences.
Krista Stovel
April 20, 2009
Erik, I am unbelievably saddened to hear of your passing. The man I remember from my university days with Jessica was sweet and gentle and I was in awe of your determination to study architecture and the passion you had for that goal. Even though it was so many years ago I have not forgotten you. I am sending my love and thoughts to your family and friends. You are and will always be loved.
Stephen Lee
April 20, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about Erik's passing. My heart goes out to all his family and friends. I enjoyed having him on our dragon boat team. He was a great teammate and a wonderful person. He will definitely be missed.
Lindiwe Coyne
April 20, 2009
Erik, I have never met you, but have heard your name throughout the years from various friends, and your sister, Jessica. I am so incredibly sorry for your family, but I hope you are now at peace.
Louise Sheffer (Soar)
April 20, 2009
Erik it was your steadfastness and your kind heart that got me through Biology 12. I am saddened to hear that you needed to move on to a better place so soon. My thoughts are with your friends and family as we all struggle to accept that you are gone. I will always remember your quiet ways, your smile and your ability to support others unconditionally.
You will be missed.
Bob Sochowski
April 19, 2009
Erik, I am deeply saddened to see you go. I still see you standing on the dock and cheering me on when I am paddling!
I have got to know you as a client, colleague, paddling pal and a friend. I remember years ago when we were working together on a number of projects and you inquired about paddling. I am thrilled to be with you on your first paddle in the dragon boat. Those long practices we goofed around and had many deep inspiring conversations.
You will be missed and you will always be my thoughts.
God bless you my friend.
Sheila Stainton
April 19, 2009
I am very saddened by the loss of Erik he was a brilliant and caring individual. Jessica my heart goes out to you.
Heather Quamme
April 19, 2009
My deepest sympathies go to out to all of the family, friends and everyone who new Erik. He was a person of honesty and genuine conviction. He affected people in profound ways and inspire me to want to be a better person. To Jessica and her family if there is anything that I can do to help you please do not hesitate to let me know. My sincerest condolences.
Michael Ulrich
April 19, 2009
I am deeply saddened to hear of this tragic loss. Erik was a good friend at UVIC, and UBC. I remember Erik as a kind, sensitive soul with a big smile. Rest in Peace.
Vern Raincock
April 19, 2009
Erik and I started playing guitar in 1983...our role models at that time were none other than Def Leppard, Jack Green, Van Halen, Joe Satriani, and Frank Zappa.
As years passed, Erik studied classical guitar with Penticton instructor Selwyn Redivo and we always had fun getting together to jam.
Most recently, we would meet each September and have fun at the Great Canadian Beer Festival, reflecting on our past trips and experiences, and hop on our bikes and enjoy the various trails in and around the inner harbour.
I plan to bike along the same routes we took over the past few years, to reflect on the fun times that we had, the challenges we conquered, and the accomplishments that we shared.
Anne Charlotte and Jessica, from the bottom of my heart, I pass on my deepest condolences.
Jean and David MacDougall in Vernon, Lloyd Raincock in Summerland, Victoria and Gary Strandebo & family in Canoe, and my wife, Michele Mcleish and family in Airdrie all offer the deepest sympathies and want you to know that our thoughts are with you always.
Friends Sharing Fond Memories in Penticton, 1993
April 19, 2009
Arlene Ewert
April 19, 2009
Erik, as you enter this new journey, know that the joy you shared with your teammates continues. May you find what you seek. Your spirit lives on in the waves off Brotchie’s and in the inland waters of the Gorge. May your family find comfort in knowing that you touched the lives of so many people. You are missed, loved, and cherished. Paddles up, Erik!
Johan Salander
April 19, 2009
Dear cousin Erik, there was a great sea between us but our spirits were neighbours. We remember your visits at Kalvö, by the sea and our home in Stockholm. Your warm, curios, inspiring and friendly person. You shared your thoughts, your fantastic sketch book from travels in Poland and italy and your talents on the guitar. We wish that we had spent more time together over the years and will keep you in brigth memory now when you have chosen to team up with Urban, your beloved father.
Dear Ann Charlotte and Jessica, our thoughts are with you.
Johan, Sanna,
Victor,Philip & Martina/Stockholm Sweden
Rami Ghaleb
April 19, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear of Erik's passing.
My thoughts are with his family and many friends.
Regine Anderson
April 18, 2009
Sincere condolences to Ann Charlotte and Jessica. I remember Erik as one of Gerry's group of friends when they were in high school in Penticton and room mates in University.
Erik and good friend Gerry summer 2008
Gerry Anderson
April 18, 2009
I first met Erik at Princess Margaret Jr. Secondary in Penticton in 1980. We instantly became great lifelong friends, sharing interests in many activities such as academics (he always came out on the top end of things!), video games and tennis (just to name a few). We went to UVic together as roommates our first year, and while our educational paths lead in different directions, we never lost contact with each other. I always enjoyed coming to visit and chat with Erik in Victoria, especially last summer when he brought my daughter Francesca a little gift to help celebrate her 6th birthday at the Keg. Erik, I will truly miss you, and this is a huge loss for me, as well as your other high school friends. You were an intelligent, articulate, caring and wonderful friend. I never had a problem speaking with you about anything - you were always genuinely interested in listening and helping. I pray that God has given you a special place in Heaven and has taken away your sadness forever. Ann-Charlotte and Jessica, my deepest condolences for you and all of your family at this difficult time. Please know that I will keep you in my prayers.
Lara Wilson
April 18, 2009
Erik, I was grieved to learn of your suffering and I hope that you have found peace. Your friends from Paddlers of the Fifth Moon will always remember you.
April 18, 2009
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Eric.I cant get his face out of my head.What a tragic loss of Life.He was a great guy.
Greg Hill
Clark Schwab
April 18, 2009
Erik was my seat partner for many of our races and practices in the dragonboat. We laughed,kidded, and shared some great times. I am shocked and deeply saddened by the loss of one so kind and caring. All those you left behind will remember you.
Katy Milne
April 18, 2009
Erik,
I'm so glad I had the opportunity to coach you and paddle with you in the dragon boat. You were an integral part of the team and will be greatly missed by all of us that knew you. I was shocked to hear about your passing as I can't picture you without that big goofy grin. That is how you will always remain in my memory. I hope you've found some peace.
Love,
Katy
Ken Kaneda
April 18, 2009
Erik you have been a dear friend from the beginning and the memory of your friendship will always be my companion.
Karin Gale
April 18, 2009
Erik, how you will be missed forever. When we were children, playing at the Ranch, with Kalle, Mack and Sara, your laughter and imagination was so infectious. I have always been in awe of your intelligence, curiousity and integrity and still cannot believe you are gone. Deepest condolences to Ann-Charlotte and Jessica.
Antje Helmuth
April 18, 2009
If only there was a way that we could turn back time exactly a week ago, when we were all at the Easter Egg Hunt in Estevan Village. If only I could have done or said something that would have made a difference in the way that Erik felt that afternoon. My memory of Erik will always be of him scrambling through the shrubs in order to avoid the kiddie line-up in the Easter Egg Park, so that he could say hello to Jasper and I. I won't forget his kind, gentle smile and greeting at that moment - there was a twinkle in his eye. I am so sad for you, Jessica, your mother, and anyone else who knew him, as his passing leaves a gap in all of our lives.
Kelvin Lit
April 18, 2009
Erik, you were a dear brother to me, and an inspiration. In tough times, we shared our personal struggles, and you were always there for me, listening and giving me a helping hand. Your compassion warmed me, your laughter stays with me. More than once, I have lived my life following your example. In the good times we shared, I was fortunate to share your love for life:in passion and rigorous dedication to architecture, with a good meal together, in walks around beautiful Victoria. Your friendship is eternal.
Deborah Nickel
April 18, 2009
I knew Erik as the big brother of my best friend Jessica. I still remember that summer day in Kaleden, as two young girls, when he introduced us to some groovy new tunes that he brought back from University. Never having had a brother myself, I was envious that Jessica had this very thoughtful, intelligent and kind sibling.
I know that Erik loved and was loved immensely by his family. This is a great loss of a wonderful person.
However, may the memories of Erik remain alive and very close to the hearts of all who knew him.
M. E. Ann Patterson
April 18, 2009
My heartfelt condolences to Anne Charlotte and family....Erik was a charming, warm, sensitive and endearing young man. His star will shine in perpetuity!
Donna Brunsdale
April 18, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your painful loss and to imagine how difficult Erik's struggle was. I knew him only a little and mainly through his sister, but I feel the loss to this world of a deeply thoughtful and wonderful person.
We send our deepest condolences.
Karina Brino
April 18, 2009
Rest in peace, Erik.
Love,
Karina
Al Baumbrough
April 18, 2009
Very sad news - condolences from me and my parents to you and your mom.
Michelle Greffard
April 18, 2009
We were deeply saddened to hear of Erics passing. He was always kind, considerate and sweet. We will cherish the memories we have of him.
Jessica Berglund
April 18, 2009
Erik, it's been a week and I miss you so much. You were such a loving and kind brother and always there for me. I am so grateful to have been with you during your last week and only wish that I could have done more to take away your pain. I love you. Jessica
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