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STANLEY MIRSKY Obituary
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for STANLEY MIRSKY
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Jerome Zacks
December 26, 2024
My memories of moments with Stanley are vivid and bring a smile to my face repeatedly. He was always solving problems. I miss his brilliance, insight, respect and kindness. To his loving family, thank you for sharing with so many who benefited from his efforts. May his memory be a blessing. Jerry Zacks MD
Adam Reingold
April 25, 2011
It's like a mansion without heat.
Brett Ives, NP, and Dr. Stanley Mirsky - (11/11/2009)
May 10, 2012
Photograph of Dr. Stanley Mirsky by his good friend and patient Gordon Parks.
May 10, 2012
Susan and Stanley Mirsky - (3/5/2005) - Susan and Stanley Mirsky at Jonathan's birthday dinner. Photo by Jennifer Mirsky.
June 4, 2011
Stanley Mirsky and Gordon Parks - (7/4/2006) - Stanley Mirsky with his dear friend Gordon Parks, in the Hamptons. Photo by Jonathan Mirsky
June 4, 2011
Dr Stanley Mirsky at His Country House - (7/2010) - photo by daughter Jennifer Mirsky
May 5, 2011
Aboard S/S Nassau with his twin brother - (1959)
May 4, 2011
(7/2005) - Stanley, Susan, Jon, Henry, Jennifer
April 27, 2011
(7/2010) - Jennifer and Stanley Mirsky in the country. Photo by Megan Cogswell.
April 27, 2011
(7/2010) - Susan and Stanley Mirsky in the country. Photo by Megan Cogswell.
April 27, 2011
(7/2010) - Dr Stanley Mirsky at his country house. He loved it here. He looked forward to getting out here all year. Photo by Jennifer Mirsky.
April 26, 2011
(5/2009) - Dr Stanley Mirsky at a family wedding. Photo by Jennifer Mirsky.
April 26, 2011
Stan and Sue M @ Dad's 90th! - (07/2008) - Dearest Stan... we love you and will miss you terribly.
April 27, 2011
Irene Dobronski
April 6, 2024
I saw Dr Mirsky. So many years ago.....he was an exceptional doctor and person. I think he was the best of the Endo doctors. Rest in peace and thank you
Mona Mcknight
April 4, 2024
My Dr Mirsky. I think about you everyday. Your picture is hanging on my fridge You always took such good care of me. Forever in my heart
Regina Monteleone
April 20, 2023
Always thinking of you Dr. Mirsky. Your kindness and generosity will never be forgotten. May you continue to rest in peace.
Roseanne Hagan-Laverty
April 21, 2022
Dr. Mirsky was my endocrinologist for 20 years until his passing. Because of his encouragement to have a child at the age of 39 despite being a type one diabetic for 14 years, we have a daughter graduating from college in 3 weeks. I will always remember his gentle soul and kind ways, God rest his soul always.
HON. PETER M. LEAVITT
April 20, 2022
It is not surprising that I think about you so many times during each year. You were an amazing human being and gave so much to so many people. I will always cherish the time we had together brother.
Peter M. Leavitt
March 26, 2021
Stan and I would often escape the family gatherings to have a private time to ourselves. He was so much more than a brother-in-law, he was a brother. I loved that man and have not have the kind of respect and admiration for another adult (except for my Father) in my lifetime.
J. Devine, Former Patient
March 26, 2021
His memory continues to be a blessing
Mona Mcknight
March 25, 2021
My Dr Mirsky was a very warm kind hearted man. He helped me tremendously. I think about him all the time. His picture is in my fridge. I love him dearly & miss him Thank you Dr Mirsky
Karen Leavitt
April 25, 2020
The kindest, warmest, hilarious (those puns!), engaging, gallant man. He adored his children beyond conception and his love for and devotion to his beloved Susan was always a sight to behold. I always strove to meet a man who treated me as well as my uncle treated my aunt... He truly set the bar as a physician, innovator, father, husband, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, and furball grandpa (and surely other titles that I'm missing!). His book collection that still lines the den is a constant reminder of the depth of his intellectual curiosity and engagement with the world. He will always be treasured and missed.
April 21, 2020
Will never forget your gentle and kind way with my daughter whilst living in NY. Thank you from an Australian mother. Danielle died in 2001 enroute to Australia.
Peter Leavitt
April 20, 2020
It doesn't take a year to remember Stan. I think about him very often especially during this health crisis. I know what a calming voice he would have been and I know he would have placed himself on the front lines at Sinai.
Lynn GIlbert
April 20, 2019
I was lucky to have had Stanley as a friend first and then as a doctor. I didn't have to go through the process of building a relatioship. I knew that he was a terrific doctor and when I told him something was wrong, if it wasn't serious he could diagnosis the problem much faster and I knew I was going to get great care. He made his office such a comfortable place to visit, and always made me feel that he had plenty of time.
Peter Leavitt
April 20, 2019
Dear Stan, You are never far from my thoughts, you were the best! Peter
Irene Dobronski
March 21, 2019
Dr. Mirsky was my diabetologist maybe in the 1980's.....He was an excellent doctor....one of my friends mentioned he had passed in 2011......
What a wonderful physician and man! Rest in Peace, dear Dr. Mirksy..........
Lori Weisman
January 9, 2019
I had just graduated college and had my first job at JW Thompson. I met your mom there and after feeling awful she recommended me calling her husband. I am so thankful that I did. Dr. Mirsky had the kindest soul, patience like a saint and would return sick calls even when he was on vacation. It is because of him that I have 2 grown healthy children. He and the rest of the team of doctors he recommended me to kept all of us healthy. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Your husband/dad absolutely adored you. RIP
Susan Cowperthwaite
January 21, 2015
Susan, Jennifer, & Jonathan, I am so very sorry to learn of Stanley's death. As the Christmas card I sent was returned, I did a Google search and was sad to see his obit. He was a very special man, who was very kind to me and also a very caring man to work with. He so loved his practice...but most of all he loved you all. He always spoke of the three of you with a sparkle in his eye and a pride that was endearing. God's Peace to you. Sincerely,
Louise Josell
December 27, 2014
Dr Stanley Mirsky was so compassionate and kind that I don't think there could be a single person who could not adore him. The finest and sweetest doctor anywhere. Stanley took care of my brother as if he didn't have another patient or care. Unfortunately my brother lost his fight with cancer at the age of 27 in 1967. For the rest of my life I will never forget either of them. His family was so fortunate to have had this giant of a man be their father, husband, brother. I know he will always have a part of my heart.
Ed Behringer Jr.
January 31, 2013
Just heard about this. Dr. Mirsky was my dad, Eddie Behringer's, diabetes doctor many years ago (1970's). Dad worked at the Westbury Hotel as a doorman which was near his office and I believe was referred to him by a guest. Dad spoke of Dr. Mirsky often and raved about his treatment and advice. We still have his books which I refer to since some in our family continue to suffer from diabetes. Just wanted to pass along our condolences and say thanks one more time for helping my dad greatly in dealing with this disease.
Lionel Castro
September 30, 2012
Dr. Mirsky was my first primary doctor when I was diagnosed as a type 1 diabetic at the age of 13. I am 38 years old now. He was and is inspirational to me. He will be strongly missed.
May 10, 2012
susan Polye
May 8, 2012
....I was one of those people who were lucky enough to have known you! Missing you Always.......
Susan Polye (New York, NY)
Robin Solid
April 21, 2012
Remembering you today dr.mirsky with lots and lots of love .......every food choice I make I hear your voice .........xo
J. Devine
April 20, 2012
Still missing you, Doctor, a year later.
Carol Estroff Curci
October 9, 2011
Dr. Mirsky's name was noted in the annual Book of Remembrance at Temple Shaaray Tefila, New York City this Yom Kippur. I was saddened to learn of his passing as he was my father's physician at a time when Diabetes was not in the forefront of daily American life. Dr. Mirsky was deeply respected by my father, Jesse Estroff. He guided his care here in New York and at the Joslin Clinic as well. My parents relied on his brilliance and kindess, both of which helped get our entire family through years of stress. My dad lived to 81 years - having survived numerous surgeries - without Dr. Mirsky's care, we know his life would not have been as rich or long. Our deepest condolences to the family.
Jon Mirsky
September 28, 2011
I miss him so much; my agony is overwhelming. There is so much pain outside our front door, outside our circle of friends, outside our city and country - but I cannot help but feel his loss in the most acute way possible.
Recently, I have been overcome with thoughts of what I would give for one more day, eve one more hour, with my sweet daddy, who meant so much to all of us.
Surely, I took so many of these times for granted, in the past, but as I said some months ago, he never made me feel that the profound was lost in any of these moments, that the strength of the love between us was challenged in the slightest by any indiscretion or carelessness. Still, how I miss him.
I would also like to take this erev Rosh Hashanah to make an apology long overdue. My father's service was nearly perfect. So much of what my father was about, so much of what my father cared about, so much of what my father would have wanted was represented over those hours.
But in our haste, in our loss, in our bewilderment, we left out one thing that was of the utmost importance to my father - the love he had for his brothers. Both Herb and Henry were so dear to him. Their passing, each in turn, was so painful to him. My father loved all his family. I will never forget his uncontrollable weeping after the death of his father - he had to deal with a son during this time; I have been allowed to experience these moments in private. His sadness when we lost Herb, and then when we lost Henry was of a different kind - it was deep, for a man who did not always allow himself to plumb the furthest depths. It was terribly thorough.
I pray he is with them, as I know how powerful his love was for both of them.
I pray to see him again, one day - there is a gaping hole in our lives as we walk forward to that day.
Robert Wachtel
September 23, 2011
My condolenses to Dr Mirsky's family. I was his patient in 1961 when diagnosed with diabetes. Due to his guidance, I have never spent a day in the hospital related to my diabetes, and continue to practice Emergency Medicine and consider my self basically healthy and fortunate. Bob Wachtel
marco greenberg
September 7, 2011
Dr. Mirsky was truly one of a kind. They don't make his model anymore. The genuine care, consideration and humor he displayed we will cherish forever -- not to mention his medical expertise. He was a great man and we miss him dearly. Our sincere sympathies to the family.
David Selig
May 26, 2011
Words cannot express how we felt about Stan. He was more than just a colleague. He was our friend, our doctor and our confidante. He was one of the best "cheerleaders" a new doctor could have, entrusting his precious patients to a young podiatrist just starting out 20 plus years ago. He and his wonderful twin brother, Herb, went above and beyond the call of duty and personally saw to it that we learn the business of medicine. The warmth and kindness of the whole Mirsky family is something we will always treasure. We consider it a privilege to have known Stan and wish we could have done more to ease his pain in his final days. It always amazed us that he never spoke of retirement before, during and after his illness worsened. He passed "with his boots on," which is just the way he probably wanted it. Not needing the compensation, he knew leaving his practice would create a great void for his patients and employees. That goodness can only come from within. Being a twin family ourselves and knowing the closeness between Stan and Herb and the twin bond in general, it only stands to reason that Stan was missing Herb very much since Herb's passing not that long ago. We can safely say that he is now reunited with Herb and the twins are back together, as they should be - in heaven. They shared the womb together and it was meant that they share eternity together in a better place. Our condolences to his loving and gracious family who were lucky enough to have Stan in their lives "after hours." There will never be anyone else like him. Rest in peace Stan. You deserve it. David G. Selig, DPM and Family
Susan Calise
May 24, 2011
I am so sorry to hear about Stan. I know I only knew him for a short time but I really enjoyed working with him as well---he was such a noble soul. He is someone I will always remember with great fondness--I can see how he touched the lives of so many of his patients. Please accept my sincere condolences.
ROBERT GLASS
May 19, 2011
My condolences to the mirsky family. Dr Mirsky cared for my dad joel glass for 50 years and for me for 10 years. He will be deeply missed.
Lowell Laporte
May 15, 2011
Reposted from May 13, 2011 via Jennifer Mirsky
My first meeting with Stanley Mirsky was New Year's Eve 1969. I was facing an eye emergency and my oculist wanted a thorough medical exam before proceeding. 41 years later, my last appointment was in March of this year. Between those dates were many annual physicals and several other visits.
Dr. Mirsky also saw several who were close to me. With my mother he discussed at length her vitamin regimen. One friend who lives in San Diego came to New York just to see Dr. Mirsky. He told me how much better he felt just stepping down into the office at 4 East 70th. And an elderly lady friend, told by her doctor in New Hampshire that there was a three-month waiting period to see her, was comforted when Dr. Mirsky sent her immediately to a specialist.
As the years passed, Stanley and I becaame close friends. He of course had me buy his books, which he autographed. When my wife was discovered to have a high white blood count, he left the office and came out onto the street where I was parked to tell me about it.
On a recent visit, Stanley told me that he wanted to die in harness. Thankfully, that wish has been fulfilled.
Joe Murphy
May 15, 2011
reposted from May 02, 2011 via Jennifer Mirsky
We have lost a great doctor and friend.
Adrienne
May 14, 2011
Dear Mirsky family,
I am so saddened by your loss. Dr. Mirsky was such a kind, caring and intelligent man, so genuinely interested in his patients' lives, even beyond their state of health. He was thrilled when I got married several years ago, and every time I saw him he would tell me how happy he was for me. When I last saw him, just this past month, he said that he keeps going because "my patients need me."
I gave him a hug and thanked him for all his caring and support over the past 25+ years. He reciprocated, with some very kind words. As I walked toward the door, I turned to him and said, "You're the best!" He smiled and said, "Thank you." I will so miss him.
Linda and Bob Lerner
May 14, 2011
On one of our last visits with Stanley, he announced "I can't die; my patients need me too much." This was the very essence of this remarkable man and superb physician. His dedication to his patients, his kindness and understanding, even at his sickest, are a model for others, physicians and patients alike, to aspire to emulate. He always attempted to make diabetes a disease that one could live with comfortably, never criticizing when you fell off the wagon. We will miss him so very much.
Regina Monteleone
May 14, 2011
I just want to express my deepest sympathy to Dr. Mirsky's family. I had the great pleasure of becoming his patient in the summer of 2000. He helped me to understand and control my type 1 diabetes. Because of his great knowledge and compassion I now have a healthy 10 year old daughter. He was always kind and took the time to sit with me and explain everything. He always took my phone calls and after speaking with him I always felt 100% better. He will be greatly missed. God Bless Dr. Mirsky
May 14, 2011
I ran into another Endocrinologist from 5 East 98th Street his AM and told me that everyone adored Stanley. She said "he was such a kind sweet man". That just about sums it up.....Her name is ALice and she is at 5 East 98th Street and she really adored him too... So he left too early but he is always in my heart. Robin Solod
Mohamed Ashmawy
May 13, 2011
I was very saddened to hear of the passing of such a wonderful man. My deepest condolences to his family.
Nataki Leung-Yuen
May 13, 2011
My condolences to the family....He was a great doctor and will be missed dearly!!! There are no words to express how he touched me and my family...
May 10, 2011
How do I begin to say good-bye to someone whom i just met and ADORE? For me its not easy. I only know knew Stanley for six months but we had a special connection. I bet all his patients felt that way..I am different!! I ADORED HIM... I went to him to lose weight and he sat and schmoozed with me for over two hours. HE CARED ABOUT ME... the patient... ROBIN. I lost over 30 pounds and he told me to go back on JDATE. OH, how i will miss you...Your sweet soft gently manner made me feel special and i knew i was taken care by you. I AM 56 and no DR ever made me feel like i mattered like you did. You left with so much for the rest of my life. I do NOT have to exit this world prematurely as you left me so equipped to face the challenges and the road ahead......I should only be so lucky to meet a Mensch like Stanley.... We all knew how he cared and save a spot for me....You must be with the ANgels Dr. Mirsky......xoxox Robin
Farzad & Neda Rastegar
May 8, 2011
When I came to New York some 30 years ago and took up my residence at 4 East 70th, I got introduced to this handsome and elegant doctor who so terribly reminded one of Dr Make Well, the famous 'do-good' doctor we would read about as children. His care and attention over the years combined with his special wit was always a high point in our lives. He is very much missed but we are so fortunate that he touched our lives and made us reflect on our own sense of duty and community. His memories will be with us and much cherished. May his soul rest in peace in a better world.
Sarah Laurence
May 5, 2011
I can't remember the first time I met Stan because I've been friends with his daughter since we were little. It's hard to believe that he is gone. I have so many wonderful memories from skiing to hanging out at their apartment. Stan was a wonderful father. He is missed very much by all who knew him. I wish I were closer to NYC to say this in person, but I send my love to Sue, Jen and Jonathan.
Laureen Nowakowski
May 3, 2011
I got to know Dr. Mirsky when he started going to the Ruttenberg Treatment Center. He would stop into the Cullman Institute to hang up his coat, and often sit and wait for Susan. His attitude about his illness and life was an inspiration to me. I never heard him complain, and up until the end was always in awe that after an extensive day as a patient, even if it was 5PM, he would be going to the office. Once he was waiting for Susan and when she came in, with sparkles in his eyes, he told me she is the most beautiful woman in the world and I am married to her. If I ever become ill I will use Dr. Mirsky as my role model. Susan, Jennifer, and Jonathan my deepest sympathy on your great loss.
May 3, 2011
to the mirsky family..stan lived across the street from me in yonkers ny and stan was my dr for many years.I am very sorry for your loss.Stan was a great guy and very dear friend of my uncle joe strassman who went to grade school together.
jack uram @URAMJAC AOL.COM
Bobbi Brody
May 3, 2011
To The Entire Mirsky Family,
Stan was not just my doctor for almost 40 years. He became my friend for life when he genuinely offered to walk me down the aisle and give me away at my wedding if my brother was not able to. From that point on our lives were enriched by attending some of each others important family events such as his 60th birthday, where Susan made books the center pieces! I loved that! Over the years we shared the joy of each others daughter's weddings and even house hunting in Bridgehampton.
We have had so many wonderful times together. And so many wonderful conversations. I will miss Stan tremendously. I am fortunate to have a lifetime of fond memories.
Love,
Bobbi
Michael Ravitch
May 2, 2011
To the whole Mirsky family and especially Jennifer,
I am so sorry about the loss of your father. I remember him as a warm and wonderful man. It must be a very sad time and my thoughts are with you.
Michael
Ron Shapira
May 2, 2011
[reposted by Jennifer Mirsky from Ron's 4/28/11 guestbook entry for Dr Stanley Mirsky]
I was beyond saddened to hear the news when calling to make an appointment today. Dr. Mirsky was truly an exceptional, kind, and special man.
I was privileged to have him as my doctor for the last 5+ years -- I recall looking forward to my appointments, just knowing I was being treated by someone who truly CARED about his patients...he was a rare example of not just what a great doctor should be, but what a great human being is! I will miss you terribly...Ron
Ellie Krach
May 2, 2011
How sad. My love & heartfelt sympathy to Sue & family. Thank you, Sue, for allowing home phone calls at any hour. I so appreciated home visits when Bill was sick. You & Stan always made us feel better. Love, Ellie Krach
David Copeland
May 2, 2011
Stan ...
I am sad to learn of your passing....
I will always remember your interest in life, honesty, humor and tremendous intellect.
You helped me when I came to you.
My deepest sympathy to your family.
I will miss you.
Mary Wright
May 2, 2011
Jennifer,
I am Ellie K.'s daughter, Mary. I am on a trip right now, but when I spoke to my mother yesterday, she told me about Stanley. A friend and mentor to many, a wonderful and proud parent, and a husband who must have been so easy to love, my family was blessed to have him as a doctor and friend. I thank you for sharing him with us, and I thank him for his selfless devotion and expertise. Not only was he my mother and Bill's doctor, but he recommended my back surgeon and a later neurologist for my husband.
He has left the world a much better place because of what he has done medically, professionally, as a teacher, and as the patient and caring doctor; one who even made house calls know my family feels so much sorrow over his loss, but oh, have we gained over the years from knowing him. We are here for you.
Please accept my sympathies, as well as my husband's at this time and on-going.
Love,
Mary and Tot Wright
Carol Potter
May 2, 2011
I am so sad to hear this news.
I still feel I owe James to him….his certain belief that I could get pregnant (when I was 41yrs old and with only one fallopian tube ) gave me all the hope and
optimism I needed to make it come true.
Kellie Gould
May 2, 2011
Jennifer,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know how much your dad meant to you. Although I did not know him, I always enjoyed hearing your stories about him. Your tribute and words about him show that not only was he a very special man but also a truly wonderful father. I know he will live on in you.
My thoughts are with you and your entire family.
Love,
Kellie
May 2, 2011
Dr Mirsky was our friend and Doctor. He always delighted in the fact that My wife Lois & I were his 2nd and 3rd patients when he started his practice.
He was wonderful, our sincere condolences to the family. We will miss him.
Love, Larry Danziger
Yaron Tomer
May 2, 2011
I have known Dr. Mirsky since I started my Endocrine fellowship 17 years ago. He was an inspirational teacher, fun to work with, and compassionate physician. I will always cherish his teachings.
Mindy Shapiro
May 1, 2011
To the family of Dr. Stan Mirsky;
His kind intelligence, and gentle strength were evident at his first handshake.
His loss will be large. May you find solace in the grace of his life and love.
May 1, 2011
Dr. Mirsky was a great man as well as a great physician. I have been his patient for some 15 years. His care of and kindness to me (as well as to my wife, who was not his patient but who sometimes called upon him on an emergency basis for medical advice) will never be forgotten by me as long as I live. Of course, his care for me was comparable to that which he provided to all his patients - I recall often being in his office when he took calls from patients, and, in his unique manner, without ever evincing slightest impatience at being called upon. I will miss him greatly. My most profound condolences to his son Jonathan, whom I had the privilege to meet, and of course to his wife and daughter as well, and to his devoted staff, especially Zandra.
David B. Simpson Tenafly, NJ
Susan Alberti
May 1, 2011
Dr. Mirsky, you were so good to my daughter Danielle whilst she was living in New York away from her home in Australia. I will never forget your care and kindness shown to her prior to her death. My deepest sympathy to the Mirsky family.
Bradley Radwaner, M.D.
April 30, 2011
An outstanding physician and truly a compassionate man. He was indeed a "mensch". He will be much missed. Condolences to the family Dr. Brad Radwaner, New York, NY
Sheldon Lance
April 29, 2011
I thought Stan was spectacular from the moment I met him. He had an amazing ability in directing my self-management of diabetes, I had ever-lasting confidence in his judgment and valued his attention. He had an enormous impact on me as a patient and I wouldn't be alive today at 93 years of age without Stan. Condolences to his family.
Barry Kaufman
April 29, 2011
I will miss him terribly. I feel so fortunate to have met him and to have been under his care. Since 1984 I have so valued his guidance, support and all that I've learned from him about a disease that can be an every day fight. My career took me away and abroad but I would sometimes so depend on my communications with him, wherever I was. Just hearing his voice, I felt better. He was there for me, and I don't think I'll ever know any one like him. My deepest regards go to his family, and to his office staff, Felicia, Sandra and Wanda. I am sorry for your loss. He was the most warm and caring and wonderful man -
Barry Kaufman
Elena Radenovska
April 29, 2011
Rest in peace, d-r S.Mirsky!
My family and I will always be greatful to you and remember you as a great person and diabetologist.
We offer condolences to your family and friends.
Chip Sealy
April 29, 2011
My family and I have been seeing Dr. Mirsky for 40 years. He was our rock, no matter what it was , he made it better. He could move mountains with a phone call. The Doctors he referred you to could not get to you quick enough due to the high esteem in which he was held.
I have only known two great men in my life. Stanley was one of them and my Father was the other. I shall miss him terribly
April 29, 2011
On behalf of the board of directors, staff, and students of Boys & Girls Harbor Inc., we mourn the loss of a long-time benefactor and Trustee. For more than 40 years Dr. Mirsky has contributed to our work to educate children and young people to be their best. We offer condolences to his family and many friends. He will be missed. Thomas Howard, Ed.D., Executive Director (East Harlem, New York, NY).
Deborah Goldstein Schoeberlein
April 29, 2011
Jennifer: I am so sorry for your loss and will remember your dad, always, from our youth. Take care.
Tamara Cacchione
April 29, 2011
Stan touched so many people and made such a difference in so many lives. One can only hope to leave the world a better place than they found it, and he truly did so. My thoughts and prayers go to the whole family. I know you will miss him tremendously, but I see his kind, gentle, intelligent demeanor in each of you.
Dr. Rose Mason
April 29, 2011
I came to the US in 1978, the year after I married Uncle Stan's nephew, Mark. My left arm was grossly swollen from one of the myriad vaccinations I had to endure to come to America. Henry (Stan's oldest brother, my beloved father-in-law) was so worried when he saw the swelling that he immediately sent us to see Uncle Stan. I was 20 years old, painfully shy, and in cultural shock. I had a fever from that shot, and was extremely jet lagged. Stan took one look at my arm, sized me up (meeting me for the 1st time), and gave me that warm, reassuring smile that all doctors should have, and told me "You'll live". Suddenly, the fever was gone, the jet lag disappeared, and I was well! The power of a doctor's suggestion. No medication...just that ever so gentle prod- my first memory of Dr. Stanley Mirsky. What a privilege to have known him! He was a brilliant doctor, but more importantly, he was an exceptional family man. Terribly missed, but will never be forgotten.
Lynn Gilbert
April 28, 2011
No matter what Stanley did, he was always a mensch and so giving. Seeing him at his office, was like going to visit a friend, which is what he made me feel in addition to being a wonderful and caring doctor.
The first time, i went to see Stanley, I had to go on radio and I was so hoarse there was no way that i could speak, He took care of the "minor" problem so that I could function and I thought can I make the leap from knowing him socially to making him my primary doctor. Not easy then, when I was then a 40+ year old very conservative woman. My instinct told me, I wont find a better doctor.
Choosing Stanley as my doctor was one of the best decsions that I could have made. It enabled me to have a lifetime of care from a very, very caring doctor.... something that everyone should have, and not always lucky enough to get.
April 28, 2011
Dearest Susan, Jennifer and Adam;
Diane, Maggie and I are deaply saddened by the loss of your dad.
We never met Stanley, but I will never forget the time he spent with me on the phone -with all that was going on in his life - to comfort me with words of encouragement, when I thought that I had a tumor. I will never forget him.
You and your family are in our thoughts.
Sincerely,
Arthur and Diane Provenz
April 28, 2011
While I never met Dr. Mirsky I knew he was a special person by the love and devotion he inspired. My thoughts are with you all.
Lynn Christie
Ron Shapira
April 28, 2011
I had the privilege of being under Dr. Mirsky's care for 5+ years. I can recall looking forward to my appointments, getting a chance to visit a doctor who was so kind and truly CARED about his patients. He was not only what the best doctor should aspire to be, he was a uniquely special human being. I was beyond saddened when I called to make an appointment this week...you will be so very much missed.
Ron
Gretchen Grant
April 28, 2011
I met Dr. Mirsky about a year ago when my dear friend Jennifer invited me out to Bridgehampton to visit her and her parents. How inspiring it was to see his passion for his work even when he could have retired many years ago. I remember how easy it was to talk to him though we had just met, and his warmth ... Jennifer, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Peter Leavitt
April 28, 2011
Stan was my friend. He and I shared so many of the same likes and dislikes on a personal, professional and even a political level. It is almost inaduquate to say he was a real "hamisha" guy. I loved you Stan and always will. I promise to do whatever I can to help Susan and the kids.
Deborah Shea
April 28, 2011
Soft-spoken, humble, humorous and kind. A loving and gentle soul. My thoughts and prayers go out to Susan, Jennifer and Jonathan during this most difficult time. I came across this quote that I thought was apropos. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. - Kahlil Gibran
Stan was certainly a delight!
roseanne hagan-laverty
April 28, 2011
When I first went to Dr. Mirsky's office in July, 1985, he told me not to worry. He said that he would be my doctor for the next 25 years and always be there for me. He was right in both cases. It is almost 26 years since that first visit and I wish that he could be here for another 25 years. He was also always there for me - night or day. I doubt that I will ever find another physician who will be so attentive and responsive. More importantly perhaps was his unique style of practicing medicine. He put the patient completely at ease and I looked forward to my visits and our chats. I always left his office with a smile on my face. My sympathy and prayers go out to his family. Dr. Mirsky will always have a special place in my heart
Pamela Geismar
April 28, 2011
To Jennifer and the rest of the rest of the family, my deepest condolences. My family and I send our sympathies in what must be a very sad time.
Diane Hunstein
April 28, 2011
Stan was, by far, the kindest, gentlest, sweetest man that I have ever met.
Dr. Graham Boettcher
April 28, 2011
I often called Stan and Sue Mirsky my "East Coast parents." Their son Jon was my best friend at Yale, and with my own family all the way in Washington State, the Mirskys were "in loco parentis," always making sure I had a place to spend the holidays and looking after me. Stan was a constant a source of love and support. I have had a life-long battle with morbid obesity, and Stan was always there for me, giving me words of care and encouragement. I feel so blessed to have the entire Mirsky family in my life, and will miss Stan tremendously. He was a truly great man.
agnes cabot
April 27, 2011
stan was my doctor and a wonderful one, for many years when i lived in nyc....my fondest memory...i met him while walking down 57th street...he asked me to sit in his car so he would not be given a ticket while he went into hermes to buy himself a necktie....he will be missed...my heartfelt sympathy to his family..
Richard Solomon
April 27, 2011
Stan has been my doctor since I first came to New York in the early 70's. Not only did he provide me with the best possible medical care, but he was also incredibly wise, caring and interested. You never left his office without feeling that you were being well taken care of, regardless of the problem. Stan was a really fine person and as my friend and doctor, he will be sorely missed. My heartfelt condolences to his family.
April 27, 2011
Stan was our doctor but most importantly our friend for over 25 years. A brilliant and compassionate human being who made you feel at ease no matter what the issue. He always said to us I will be around to keep you both well. Sadly that will not come to pass. He will be missed but never gone from our hearts. With our deepest sympathy to the entire Mirsky family.
Respectfully Mickey and Jim Santello – Staten Island, NY
Harry S. Precourt
April 27, 2011
Stan was my physician and, as important, my friend for some 35 years. He was an exceptional healer. He was a delightful gentleman. Above all, he always cared. I miss him.
Harry S. Precourt
April 27, 2011
Stan was my doctor and, as important, a friend, for some 35 years. He was a brilliant physician, he was a gentleman. Above all, he always cared.
Dr. Mark Mason
April 27, 2011
As the second nephew I was the magnet for my uncles when I was little. Stan was somebody I tried to emulate...who set the bar of my achievements in life and professionally. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Susan Shepherd
April 26, 2011
I was a short term patient of Dr. Mirsky's prior to the birth of my son in 1987 in New York. At the time of my weekly visits, I was comforted by his wisdom, experience and kindness. Now living in San Francisco, I was reading this morning's NYT where I read of his passing. The irony of seeing this after so many years and so far away, reminds me of how fortunate I was to find such a talented and caring physician. I wish you my condolences.
James Roth
April 26, 2011
Although I am sure that Dr. Mirsky’s passing will be a great loss to many, his passing is also a great personal loss to me. I first met him in 1966 at the age of 10. My parents had brought me to his office with a new diagnosis of Juvenile Diabetes (now called Type I diabetes). I remember the first visit vividly. He gave me an injection of regular insulin in the office, then brought me and parents into his office around his desk to talk about the condition. We must have been there for some time, because while we talked I felt for the first time, tremulous and diaphoretic, experiencing for the first time the symptoms of low blood sugar. I spent the next ten years under his close care, taking a bus to his office after school for visits where he would always take time to talk with me across that desk with myriad books on the shelf behind him.
One day when I was probably no more than 14, he reached around and pulled a thick book off the shelf and showed it to me. Showing me all the fine print he told me “Don’t ever become a doctor, you’ll have to read all this!” He had a relaxed way with his patients that I have never seen in any other physician I have met. He treated me as an equal (even as a child), never spoke down to me. It was in my second year of college, trying to find something meaningful to do with my life, that I remembered Dr. Mirsky, my friend and physician though much of my childhood and adolescence, as probably the most important role model for compassion and care in my life. It was at that time that I decided, Dr. Mirsky in mind, to throw out his advice and try to become a physician myself.
It is now 45 years later, I have become a cardiologist and Associate Professor at the Medical College of Wisconsin in Milwaukee. I have repeated myriad times to my patients why I chose to go into medicine. I always start by explaining that I had the good fortune to have a doctor as a child who embodied the ideal of a compassionate and caring physician.
James Roth, MD
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