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Tom Wright Obituary

Tom Wright, founded Tom's Place restaurant

Tom Wright loved barbecue.

Born in Georgia, he dedicated his life to sharing this love of Southern-style ribs with the world, or at least Palm Beach County, through his legendary restaurant, Tom's Place.

But his dedication may have helped cut his life short, his family said. Hours spent over a poorly ventilated barbecue pit in the restaurant's early days gave Mr. Wright, who did not smoke cigarettes, emphysema, daughter Cassandra Wright said. He died Friday at Boca Raton Community Hospital of complications from that disease and overall failing health.

Still, nothing would have lured her father away from that pit, she said.

"He liked cooking," Cassandra Wright said. "He would go to work sick and you wouldn't know it. He was so stubborn. His goal was he'd get three cooks on the line, and he'd get on the line by himself and produce more than those three cooks would."

He would still be here, sick as he was, if his wife, Helen, hadn't died. It happened two years ago, while Mr. Wright was recovering from a stroke. They were married 47 years. Even while living in the Dunbar Village public-housing complex in West Palm Beach, Helen Wright was known for a keen fashion sense honed at her job dressing the rich at a Worth Avenue boutique.

She had been in poor health. The children couldn't tell their father until months later, when his recovery had progressed enough that he was able to understand.

"When he found out, he had a broken heart," Cassandra Wright said. "He gave up."

The restaurant, opened in Boca Raton in 1977, had closed shortly before Mr. Wright's stroke and his wife's death. Cassandra and her five brothers and sisters decided to reopen it in West Palm Beach last year. They wanted to carry on the dream that had given their family so much.

The restaurant business took the Wright family from the housing projects to a comfortable suburban home. For dinner, the family ate restaurant-quality prime rib and shrimp scampi. Mr. and Mrs. Wright gave each of their children a car for their 16th birthdays.

"It might have been a used car, but it was a car," Cassandra Wright said. "We were the fortunate kids on the block."

Mr. Wright loved cars almost as much as he loved cooking. When he wasn't manning the restaurant, his friends could find him out at Moroso Motorsports Park racing his Camaro. They called him "Quick Draw."

Mr. Wright was a pastor who considered the world his church. He cooked for the homeless, helped down-on-their-luck restaurant patrons with electric bills, and gave money to churches. The phone at the restaurant has been ringing off the hook as news of his death spread.

"He's a well-known man," Cassandra Wright said. "I'm so honored to have a parent like that."

In addition to his daughter Cassandra, Mr. Wright is survived by children, George, Kimberly, Kenny and Tom Wright, and Belinda Johnson.

Visitation will be 5 to 8 p.m. Friday at Royal Palm Funeral Home, 5601 Greenwood Ave., West Palm Beach. The funeral is scheduled for 10:30 a.m. Saturday at Redemptive Life Fellowship Church, 2101 N. Australian Ave., West Palm Beach.

The restaurant, 1225 Palm Beach Lakes Blvd., will close Saturday out of respect for its founder. Mr. Wright's family hasn't designated a charity; instead urging that mourners honor their father's memory by eating ribs.

"Keep the dream alive," Cassandra Wright said.
Published by The Palm Beach Post on Feb. 27, 2006.

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Aaron Evans

November 28, 2007

I want to show my apprecaition to your father and thank him for faithfully serving his community with great tasting ribs.

Vernon Billingsley

August 28, 2007

Best B.B.Q sauce I ever tasted in my life....Very sorry to hear the creator of this tasty sauce has passed on.....Best wishes to the surviving members of his family.

Jennifer Meeker

March 7, 2006

Mr. Wright was a patient at the physical therapy office that I worked at in Greenacres. He was a very kind man and will be greatly missed.



Jennifer Meeker

KaTia Johnson

March 6, 2006

Kim I was very sorry to hear of your great loss. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. I will be in touch.

Van Lee

March 6, 2006

Jukie, San, Belinda, Kim, and Kenny I know your dad is going to be greatly missed. But, remember God only wants the good ones. I'll be stopping by; but I am sending my heartfelt condolences from me and my entire family.

Dean Johnson

March 4, 2006

Mr. Wright was a good man. He was a caring man who will be truly missed by many. He has touched many hearts. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. God bless you.

RUSS RAYNOR

March 4, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of your dads passing. I remember Tommy when he was the head chef at the Bayou restaurant in Boca Raton. The Bayou became one of top restaurants in south florida after my uncle,Jack Benson promoted him to run the kitchen. I parked cars at the Bayou and Tommy was a great friend. Over the years I lost touch with him but it was great news to learn of his later success with Tom`s Place and his famous rib sauces. His great personality and love of life will remain with me forever.

clara bakerr morgan

March 4, 2006

THE ROSE THAT GROWS BEYOND THE WALLS.THE TROSE STILL GROWS BEYOND THE WALL.THOUGH NOW IT!s lost to view behind the clouds that hang solow.the sun still lights the blue.and back of all the shadows that loom on every hand it!s the friendly thought and sympathy of those whose who understand.

Edward & Gussie Maynor

March 4, 2006

You have our sympathy and we are so

Sorry to have ben informed of your lost. Tom and I opened the Bayou

Restaurant in Boca Raton FL. 1968 Under the ownership of Mr & Mr. Manikas, we worked togeather and made the Restaurant a sucess.. we remained friends from that time on.

David & Ellie Patrick

March 3, 2006

Dave and I remain eternally grateful to God for allowing us to love and be loved by such a great man and woman. We valued Mr. Tom and Mrs. Helen as precious gems. Dave and I appreciate the love they had for the people in Belle Glade. Many Sundays they drove from their home to attend services with the Redemptive Life Fellowship, in Belle Glade. Mr. Tom would teach everyone in the audience the importance of giving and receiving from God. One could see the burning desire in his heart for the people to live above their circumstances. May the God of all comfort be light to you and give each of you His Peace.

Dr. Nathaniel Knowles

March 3, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Be encouraged that your father is in perfect health and in perfect peace with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I will miss my Friend Tom. Just know that the church family of Emmanuel Christian Center is here when you need us. God Bless you.

Angela Williams

March 3, 2006

The children of the late Mr. Eddie B. Williams and Geraldine Williams offer our prayers and thoughts to the Wright family during these most difficult times. Our families go back so far from the time Mr. Tom open his restaurant. Our fathers were friends and all of us eventually became friends. Our parents are now in eternity together and all of us know exactly how each of you are feeling and will be feeling in the days to come. Ironically Mr. Tom past into eternal life on the 12th anniversary date of dad's departure and our mothers passed in the same year. We have learned in these past 12 years that earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. All of us, Eddie, Cheryl, Angela, Bobbie, Patrick, Francine and Frank have you in our prayers and offer our deepest sympathy. God Bless you and keep you is our prayer.

John & Jackie Leonard

March 3, 2006

To the Wright Family,

We send this page with our deepest sympathy. We have visited your restaurants from Boca to West Palm Beach, and both of us were like Family to both Tom and Helen.

We also attended the same church (Redemptive Life Fellowship,with Bishop Harold and Pastor Brenda Ray, and was there when they spoke at the Miracle Revival Faith Center Ministries with Pastor Janice L. Dillard, Ft. Lauderdale.

They will both be missed. What an Inspiration to all. March on Troopers, For God knows best.

John And Jackie Leonard(The Twins)

Kenith Gallon

March 2, 2006

TO THE WRIGHT FAMILY:

LIFT UP YOUR EYES ONTO THE HILLS FROM WHENCE COMETH YOUR HELP. YOUR HELP COMETH FROM THE LORD, WHICH MADE HEAVEN AND EARTH.



WITH GREAT SYMPATHY,

KENITH GALLON

Katrina Jackson

March 2, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you Wright Family, I have visited your restaurant many times w/my mother when you all were in Boca and I am very happy to have you here in West Palm Beach. Cassandra you always have a smile on your face, you are such a joy. I know you are a family of faith. Be blessed. :)

BARBARA RUMPH

March 2, 2006

TO THE WRIGHT FAMILY,SORRY TO HEAR THE PASSING OF YOUR LOVE ONE(TOM RIBS)MAY GOD FOREVER BLESS AND KEEP YOU IN OUR PRAYERS.LAWRENCE/BARBARA RUMPH DELRAYBEACH/FT.WORTH TX.

Phyllis Duncombe

March 2, 2006

To the Wright Family,



You are in our thoughts and prayers! We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Tom and Helen. I have known Helen all of my life because she was my God-Sister. We had the opportunity of having my husband's Retirement Luncheon at the Boca Facility of Tom's Place, and we had often dined there. They will be missed, but Earth has no sorrow, that Heaven cannot heal. Look up, for your redemption drawth nigh! Be encouraged, no matter what's going on, He will make it alright, but stand firm and let God take control.

God bless the family!



Mr. & Mrs. Donald Duncombe

(Phyllis Menendez)

Annette & Brad Hicks-Adam

March 2, 2006

Our heartfelt condolences goes out to the Wright family. He will be truely missed by all. May God bless your family. Be encouraged and stay strong always trusting in the Lord.

Markesha Minor

March 2, 2006

My heart goes out to your family. May god continue to bless you all. Be strong and be encouraged and continue to love one another always. No matter what you go thru god is always with you.

geraldine (Geri) williamson

March 2, 2006

Hi Cassandra, my sincere condolences to you and your family. Tom's Place/Ribs my favorite meat. I am the tall lady who came to your place at least once a month with (Stan). I started at the Shack, then the 1st new small place then the larger one, all in Boca. I was interview at the Shack & on TV when you all was moving to your 1st new place. I was asked if the Ribs were really that good, they are. Like one of the other patrons said you, Helen and Tom always made me feel like family. I now live in Hartford, CT since 10/2000, will see you on my next trip to WPB, Love Ya

Cheryl Barnard

March 1, 2006

Our prayers and condolences to a wonderful human being and family.We were lucky enough to be neighbors with Tom at his warehouse in Delray Beach. May his legacy and his recipe live on!

God Bless the Wright family.

Thomas Bruckner

March 1, 2006

I am a teacher. I used to teach drop out prevention for elementary school kids. I also loved Tom's Place... so one year for our end of the year celebration I gathered my kids for a field trip to Tom's and then off to a movie. As I prepared to pay for the meal of some 15 kids, Tom came by and comped the whole thing...his wife then gave each of the kids $5.00 for the movie. I'm sure those kids never forgot that day. I know I haven't. I'm sure God in Heaven is eating a little better these days.

BIBLE CHURCH OF GOD WEST PALM BEACH

March 1, 2006

BE BLESSED AND CONTINUE TO KEEP YOUR HEADS UP GOD WILL BRING YOU THROUGH THESE TOUGH TIMES.

LENARD, TRACI BANKS

March 1, 2006

MAY GOD KEEP YOU , AND WE SEND OUR DEEPEST GRADITIUDE TO YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU

KIMBERLY WHITE

March 1, 2006

WITH DEEPEST SIMPATHY, WE ALL LOVE YOU AND YOU WILL GREATLY MISSED

Michael Welch

February 28, 2006

Sincere condolences to the Wright Family

Susan Cline

February 28, 2006

My husband and I were saddened to learn of Mr. Wright's passing. We greatly enjoyed the hospitality he and his late gracious wife Helen offered at their Boca restaurant. Their history and the spirit they shared with this community and all who crossed their paths should prove an inspiration to all of us. He (and Helen) will be sorely missed, but we are pleased that their legacy continues in West Palm Beach. Our deepest sympathy to Mr. Wright's family and friends.

Gene Hayes

February 28, 2006

As asales man working direct with Tom, Sr. I found him to be anhonest and fair person. Not many people are found with these rare qualities

Seth Dolderer

February 28, 2006

I never Knew Tom, but I only buy his sauce when at the grocery. Last year in college I made sure to spread his sauce to every BBQ I went to...Thanks and my sympathy. Seth

Sheila DENNIS

February 28, 2006

I enjoyed Tom's ribs, chicken, and all the delicious foods he prepared. I lived in the Northwood Area for many years, and the highlight of our weekend was to see Tom's mobile BBQ set up in King's Foods parking lot. Many thanks to Tom and his entire family for sharing their delicious foods and friendly ways. Please keep it going.

Frank Trimboli

February 28, 2006

MR. Wright was a great friend of mine and my father in law Sal Manuri, Retired Boca Raton Police Detective. Who took great care of local Law Enforcement. It is with great sadness to hear of his passing. May God watch over his family in this sad time.

Stephen Ley

February 28, 2006

I never met Mr. Wright, but I've enjoyed his barbecue and I'm happy that his legacy will live on. A sign above the entrance to Tom's Place says "This place is a blessing from God". This man was a blessing from God too! Sincere condolences to his family and friends...

kevin MCDOWELL

February 28, 2006

My God bless you and your family.The McDowell Famliy

Holy Ghost fire filled Ministery

February 28, 2006

Our condolences goes out to you and you family. Your prayer are with us.

For God knows best. He took a soldier home.

Chuck Jackson

February 28, 2006

Back in 1983 when I first moved to Florida, I worked for a local accounting firm. Mr. Wright's business was a client and any time he would drop off his paper work at the office, he would always bring ribs for the whole office. Any time I went to the restaurant on Dixie Hwy to conduct business; I never left without having been fed. I will always remember his cheerful attitude and his enthusiasm to please his public. This icon of Palm Beach County will surely be missed. My condolences and prayers are with the Wright family.

Alton Sears

February 28, 2006

I was reared in Boca Raton, and fell in love with Tom's Ribs during the days in which he started at "Mr.Lee Arthur's" old place on Dixie Highway. Mr. Wright lived by the the adage esposed by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., "everybody can be great, because everybody can serve." Not only was he a smart businessman, but he was also a humble and concerned citizen who gave back to the community in immense ways which have never been told. In 1985, I was engaged in volunteer work with at-risk youths in the Pearl City community, and, without any fanfare or media attention, Mr. Wright gave me a check for $2,000 to support the effort. He will be greatly missed.

God Bless the Wright family.

S. Chapman

February 28, 2006

I'll always remember all the great times and wonderful food at Tom's Place. Any time relatives came from out of town we had to take them there for dinner. But of course, we never needed an excuse to head to Boca. Tom's was always known for the best ribs in town.. Hands down! (and don't forget the black eyed peas and corn bread!) Tom will be missed. My sincere condolences to the Wright family. Keep up the good work in WPB.

Angelia Gamble

February 28, 2006

My prayers and sympathy go out to the Wright family during the loss of your father. Your entire family was always a welcoming sight when anyone entered Tom's Place. You made others feel as though they had been a part of your lives forever, even if you didn't know them. I always felt that way when I came in, Cassandra always asking about my daughter in school. Thank you.



Your parents (both Helen & Tom, Sr.) will be greatly missed. Keep up your parents legacy.

Paul Gurney

February 28, 2006

Palm Beach County has lost a great icon. Tom and his family have done much to unite our community regardless of race. Tom's love was not only for his food, but for all people and God. His love made that old shack blossom into the various restaurants over the years.

Today, I know Tom and Helen are still smiling down at all who enter Tom's Place.

Pamela Owens

February 28, 2006

Tom Wright was a legacy and an inspiration to me and my family to become entrepreneurs. He and his family are an integral part of African-American history in Boca Raton. He will be missed!

David Griggs

February 28, 2006

Heaven just inherited a great man.Tom will be greatly missed.God bless the Wright family.

Judy Cunningham

February 28, 2006

Our condolences to the Wright family. My husband and I spent many winters in Florida and a stop at Tom's Ribs was always part of our trip! We would eat at the bar and be served by "Mr. Harvey" and were never disappointed by the food or service. Dear Mr. Wright will be sadly missed. God Bless.

Kevin Cohen

February 28, 2006

He was a special man, we are saddened to hear of his passing, i always enjoyed the restaurant

Daniel Coppola

February 28, 2006

Regards to Sandy and her entire family.



Dan Coppola

Jim Taylor

February 28, 2006

From Southeast Appliance Service, our thoughts and prayers go out to the Wright family, Tom was a special man and we will miss him dearly.

Roy Van Wagner

February 28, 2006

may you rest in peace,you will be missed,thanks for all the good Bar-BQ's,and the fun racing togther...

John Fennell

February 28, 2006

My deepest regrets and condolences to the entire family. He was a fine man!

carol thomas

February 28, 2006

when i moved to boca in 1978...toms was a treat for my family. once a month dad would bring us home this wonderful food. i especially loved the collards. my condolences and heartfelt prayers for the kin of tom. all of you have made a difference in life and fond memories for me

William Griffin

February 28, 2006

Thanks Mr. Wright, for your legacy. I remember the origial Tom's Ribs shack off of Dixie Highway in Boca, when my dad took me there to get some ribs, then to see it grow to the new one on Federal Highway. Mr. Wright is an inspiration to all that anyone could make it in this life with hard work, no matter what color you are. Mr. Wright will be truly missed, now he's reunited with Helen, spending eternity with her forever.

malcolm& GREG SWANDA

February 28, 2006

GREG AND I LIVEED IN BOCA FROM1986 TO 92.COMEING FROM WI, TOM AND HIS FAMILY MADE THE SOUTH AND FOOD A PLACE I WELL AWAYS KEEP IN MY HEART.IN ALL MY YEARS OF TRYING B&B IN ALL PARTS OF THE WORLD, TOMS IS AT THE TOP.GOD BLESS.

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