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Diane Polesko Obituary

Diane (VALENTIA) POLESKO
March 17, 1943 - April 9, 2020
Middletown, NY
In the early morning hours of Thursday, April 9, 2020, Diane (Valentia) Polesko entered into rest suddenly and unexpectedly at Andover Subacute & Rehabilitation Center Two, located in Andover, New Jersey, where she was a resident since February 2019. She was 77 years old.
The daughter of the late Doris Jean (Thurston) Valentia and Joseph Valentia, she was born on March 17, 1943 in Middletown, New York.
Diane was proud to have been born on St. Patrick's Day and loved celebrating her birthdays with the Luck of the Irish. She was an animal lover who missed her beloved Shih Tzu Coco deeply while a resident at Andover. She was also a huge New York Mets fan and enjoyed going to Mets' games with the Friendship Club whenever possible.
Diane is survived by her five children: her loving daughter, Donna Lynn Hernandez and her husband, Leo of the Town of Newburgh, NY, her sons, Donnie Helms and his wife, Suzanne, James Coddington, Mark Coddington and John Polesko, Jr., all of the State of Florida. She is also survived by her four grandchildren, Ambur Graham, Miranda Coddington, Corey Helms, all of the State of Florida and Cheyanne Polesko of South Carolina. Diane is also survived by her siblings: brother, Thomas Valentia and his wife, MaryAnn of Middletown, NY; sister, Susan Tonic and her husband, David of Middletown, NY; sister, Janice Renella of Sarasota, Florida; brother, Leo Valentia of Daytona Beach, Florida; and brother, Kevin Valentia of New Haven, Michigan; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her husband, John Polesko, Sr., her brother, James Valentia and sister, Karen Coleman.
Due to the horrific Pandemic that has taken the lives of so many people all over the World, Memorial Services and Burial will follow at a later date. This is a difficult time for all, and our family hopes that everyone takes all measures to Stay Safe and Healthy during this difficult time, and is deeply saddened by the loss of others due to COVID-19, and our thoughts and prayers go out to all families who have lost loved ones. We would also like to acknowledge, with thanks, the heroic efforts of all Medical Workers and First Responders working diligently on the fight to save the lives of the people affected by COVID-19, and wish them all well during their plight. Arrangements are under the direction of Martinez-Morse Funeral Home. Messages of condolence may be left at www.morsefuneralhome.com

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Apr. 10 to Apr. 22, 2020.

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WILlIAM SCHIMPF

April 22, 2020

My sympathies go out to Tom and MaryAnn. May God Grant Diane Eternal Rest In Heaven and much Peace and Comfort to her family always.

Bill Schimpf

Judith Thurston

April 21, 2020

Dee and I grew up together, she being three months older. We went to movies, stocks at the fair, berry picking, skating, and other things in the good old days. I love you, cousin. Rest in peace.

Judi

Angela Ulshafer

April 21, 2020

My deepest condolences for my family's loss of Diane. I will always have memories of Diane as I hold so many photos of her and my mother together and being told of all of their fond memories; from babies to adults. She was not only my mother's cousin, but her first and best friend.
May you rest in peace, Diane and know how much you will always be loved and missed.

Angie

Judith Thurston

April 21, 2020

Dee and I grew up together. She being 3 months older. We went to movies,stocks the fair berry pickling skating and other things in the good old days. I love you cousin REST IN PEACE.

Judi

Cathie Illenberg

April 21, 2020

Janice,

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cathie Illenberg

April 21, 2020

Janice.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jim Masi

April 14, 2020

Tom, Sue and families, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you all comfort, and peace in your hearts, and may Diane rest in peace!

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