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Peter Gray Obituary

Peter Gray No more lonely nights The Original Hank has left the building, 55 years young! If there's a place where old country singers go when they're done entertaining people on this planet, then Peter Gray has left for that place. Peter was born in Redding, CA. and from the beginning he was very special. A person born with Downs Syndrome at this time wasn't expected to do much but Pete was one of the few born without congenital defects that would certainly bring about an early death. He went to school for many years at the Monte Vista School in Redding, CA. and then went to work. One of his favorite sayings was, "a man's got to do what a man's got to do" and he believed a man had to go to work. Sundays were spent getting ready for work on Mondays! Every other waking moment of his life was spent in his make-believe recording studio, he believed this to be his full-time job and he worked at it every chance he could. Peter had many gifts, but it was in the studio where he did his best work, presenting shows starring Hank Williams, Marty Robbins, Hank Jr., Waylon Jennings, Johnny Cash and of course Roy Orbison. His amazing knowledge of these legends and their music brought many fine women to tears. Pete never met a woman he didn't love! And I never met a man more worthy of love than my big brother Pete, always the gentleman who lived and died with grace. A distant second to singing would be dancing with a woman and Pete could swing with the best of them! Preceded in death by loving parents, Otis and Deloris Pine and his favorite Aunt Jean and Uncle Jim Bentle, cousin Danny Bentle, best friend and fellow musician (Elmo) Curtis Anderson. Peter is survived by his sister Rhonda Pine-Hovseth and husband Robert who he lived with for the past l5 years here in Utah. His sister Joyce, many cousins, nieces and nephews and a list of girlfriends and ex-wives too long to mention. But they know who they are! Even though he worked harder than most to do the right thing and exceeded the expectations of many who knew and loved him, he still experienced prejudice and disrespect. Even when it was obvious to us that those whose judgmental gaze were naive to his abilities - the pain and hurt feelings of being called names like "retard" or worse often ended in teary, emotional break downs. So as a final lesson to us, I hope we take a moment to teach and demand from ourselves a courtesy and respect for these special people we see each day! Peter will be fondly remembered by those he touched and his loss will be forever felt!

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Aug. 3, 2006.

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Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

July 28, 2021

My beautiful brother! I miss you every day and every night. Your singing and your humor. Loving hugs and kisses from your short legged goose!

Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

July 28, 2020

iss you every day sweet brother. You were truly one of a kind in this world.

Rhonda Pine Hovseth

July 17, 2016

If you were here you would be 65 ! Happy Birthday my sweet brother!

Rhonda Pine Hovseth

October 25, 2015

As I sit here with no plan of something to do it occurs to me that this would never happen to you. As it's Sunday you would be getting ready for work on Monday I miss you so much my sweet brother you really were one of the best parts of my life!

Rhonda Pine Hovseth

April 22, 2014

Thinking of you today and everyday ,

Rhonda Pine - Hovseth

February 14, 2013

While I go about daily rituals of normal human life. I can't but think of other humans who's existence is dependent upon thine,
Dan and Emma Jean And Alice
names that will deserve the ultimate chalice
it is hard to regret that which we have not yet seen
But a rock is a rock,
and I am a stream , Tumble these unseen schemes
space and time and earth and sky. I am watching on on on and on watchful eye

Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

July 16, 2012

Happy Birthday my sweetest Petey! A honky tonk angel has been sent to you so I know that the music will go on in memory of Ms Kitty Wells. I wish you musical notes on Angels wings!

Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

March 2, 2012

Please do not send flowers/// its almost 6 years since my brother passed. I would like to suggest that you consider becoming a volunteer in your town! Reach out! I know you will receive more then you give.... try it!

Laura

February 29, 2012

Petey, I have thought of you and missed you over the years. I especially have missed your performances and recordings, as you were the only country singer I fell in love with. I loved your one-armed hugs, and the way you cocked your head and looked sideways when you flirted with me. You were always a member of our party group and you sure spoke your mind. Your sense of humor and timing was righton. I wish I had had a chance to say goodbye to you, Petey, and give you one last kiss. But we will meet again and I am certain you will have a real heavenly band put together, and I look forward to another dance with you on God's dancefloor. Take it easy on them angels up there. Love you Petey! Laura

Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

July 17, 2008

Nature

As a fond mother, when the day is o'er,
Leads by the hand her little child to bed,
Half willing, half reluctant to be led,
And leave his broken playthings on the floor,
Still gazing at them through the open door,
Nor wholly reassured and comforted
By promises of others in their stead,
Which, though more splendid, may not please him more;
So Nature deals with us, and takes away
Our playthings one by one, and by the hand
Leads us to rest so gently, that we go
Scarce knowing if we wish to go or stay,
Being too full of sleep to understand
How far the unknown transcends the what we know.

By Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
The Poetry Foundation

Roxi Beck

May 9, 2008

I can't thank you enough and your sister Rhonda, for sharing the legacy of you, Pete. It has been a pleasure meeting you, even though physically I never got the great opportunity to touch you, or dance with you, you have greatly touched me.

Joan Hays

July 30, 2007

I sure wish I could have met you. I think we would have gotten along very well. Joan

Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

July 28, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Terry Medell

January 2, 2007

Dear Pete,
I want you to know that you will always have a place in my heart, you always called me girlfriend, even though you knew that Elmo was my partner. But the endearment and love you have shown to me will always be remembered. I have certainly learned alot from you for the kindness that you have shown to me and my Late husband Kurtis (Elmo) Anderson. Thank you is not enough for the joy you brought into so many lives. I will forever miss your gentle smile, and your abilities as a musician, for the hours and times we spent with Rob & Ronda & you at your job. You will always be remembered as one of the highlights of my life. We will greatly miss you!
Love Always,

Terry (anderson) Medell

Rhonda Pine-Hovseth

August 26, 2006

Thank you to all of you . I know that Petey would be grinnin... from ear to ear if he could here these nice words. He loved attention.

Rhonda

Laura Boyer

August 17, 2006

Petey, I will never forget your spirit, sheepish grins, the way you held your hands to your hips, the guitar you strummed and the microphone you put your head sideways to croon into, pouring your heart and soul out. I know you and I connected. It was a crush at first, attended by a blush,. Your innocence was nothing less than sweet, as well as your heart. The way you scooted closer to the women in your life. Sly man. When Niki was small you were tender and sweet to her, "where;s Niki?" if we didn't bring her over. We all remember you with fondness: your unique and genuine laugh, it still rings out. Kind of a cowboy ha. We loved you and still do. We are proud of you. I can see you in heaven on your stool, microphone in hand, workin' hard. Lay down some tracks for us as we wander about here below you, trying to follow a great like you. You left footprings of love, joy, dignity, innocence, and lightness that are imprinted in our memories forever. Farewell and Love Pardner, Laura, Niki, Mitch and Conrad.

Laura Boyer (San Diego, CA)

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robert hovseth/brother in law

August 14, 2006

Peter was a very special soul, and I don't mean that in a religious connotation because he would say " I don't know anything about that stuff"! I mean in the inner essence of a man, what puts meaning in a person's life, what defines what is good in a person and in that sense, Pete was giant! I have many memories to keep from the time we spent together but your empathy and generosity, along with your selfless love will guide me for the rest of my years!

Richard McArthy

August 9, 2006

well pete what more is there to say except that you have touch our hearts in ways that others could not. You will always be remembered and LOVED. You will be missed,

take care.

Lisa Kingsbury

August 8, 2006

What a beautiful tribute to your brother. How blessed he was to have such a loving family. How blessed you all are to have had him in your lives and to experience true unconditional love. He sounds like a wonderful man who loved life and lived it to the fullest. My sympathies to your family on your loss.

Kathy Mikich-Ivie

August 7, 2006

Pete you better be looking for some fast horses. When I get there were going riding, you owe me a riding trip. Oh! And I expect to get to meet your singing friends and hear some songs too.



Thank you for being here for a little while so we could have the experience of knowing you. You were so lucky to have Rhonda and Rob to love and take care of you. I learned so much from Rob and Rhonda’s unselfish love and care of you. They surly deserve recognition and a first class pass in the place where old cowboys go.



You brightened a lot of lives here and I bet you are brightening a whole lot more now. I know the time on earth is measured differently then the place you are now so if you can see this message know that you better find those horses fast!!!.



Thank you for all you were here to so many.



Kathy

Richard Watt

August 6, 2006

If we must judge a man, look not within his head but rather to his heart. It is that which is within our heart that shapes our soul. The mind is merely along for the ride.

Rest in peace Petey.

Betsy

August 4, 2006

That was a beautiful tribute to this man. It made me wish that i had the privlage to meet him, i am sorry i did not. He seems like an amazing man.

Jackie McArthy-Williamson

August 4, 2006

If any one can be called my brother, Petey can be.

Pete has touched my family's lives very deeply and has taught us all many lessons in love, understanding, patience, kindness, joy and perserverence to name a few, and will always have a special place in our hearts.

Remembering every family gathering and visit with Pete makes my heart heavy and longing for more, only to take more advantage of the time we have shared with him.

Petey will be missed greatly but the memories of him will be carried with us forever.

Marlene Higgs

August 4, 2006

Thank you for sharing the life of such a hero with my family. We smiled, giggled, and wiped away tears as we read your loving tribute to a brave man who faced many battles each day. He obviously took the higher road with great courage...a lesson for everyone. Humor, music, and a good cause are chosen areas we should all learn from Peter and include in our daily lives. We are so sorry that not only did he face climbing extreme personal challenges each day, unfortunatly the harshest and most painful challenges came from others who could have just as easily shared a smile and a "hello". God bless you at this difficult time. You are a wonderful sister and example. You have lived what Mother Teresa taught, "Love on earth begins at home." I'm sure Peter has taken center stage and is cranking up angelic music a notch or two.



Marlene, Kelly, and Troy

K.V.

August 3, 2006

I do not know your family or Peter; however, your tribute to him was beautiful. It brought both a huge smile to my face and tears to my eyes. I hope that many will be inspired by your written word, and look more kindly to those who are "different" but perfect in so many other ways.

Francie Duncan

August 3, 2006

I was moved by Peters obituary and sad that I didn't know him. What a wonderful loving man. I am sorry for your loss, but happy for Peter as no doubt he is singing with all the greats! Country music has been a favorite of mine, and it now has more meaning knowing that Peter continues to carry on the great tunes in heaven. God Bless you and your family through this difficult time.

Elizabeth Goldberg

August 3, 2006

i will miss pete , he taught me unconditional love.. Pete you will always be in my heart.

D Farnworth

August 3, 2006

Thank you for sharing your brother with the rest of us casual observers of life. I felt as if I had watched him record in his studio or dance with his many girlfriends and ex-wives! I'm sure he's as proud as can be to have such a wonderful sister. Thank you again!

Rhonda Pine

August 3, 2006

I loved you dearly, but you loved me more....sis

Lynda Richards

August 3, 2006

What a darling man...

JAMES CAMPOS

August 3, 2006

"I DID NOT KNOW YOU BUT YOU HAVE TOUCHED MY HEART IMMENSLY."



THERE IS ANOTHER STAR IN HEAVEN.



"GOODNIGHT SWEET PRINCE AND FLIGHTS OF ANGELS SING THEE TO THY REST."

Connee Schoon

August 3, 2006

Thank you for speaking out so eloquently about prejudice and disrespect toward people with disabilities. I hope many will be drawn to read Peter's obituary and be changed by the message of his life.

C. Wimmer

August 3, 2006

What a wonderful tribute! Peter sounds like an amazing man, that touched many lives. I'm sure he is making beautiful music up on high.....

Kathy Ford

August 3, 2006

Peter sounds like a wonderful man. What a beautiful tribute you wrote for him... God bless you and comfort you in your loss.

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