John P. O'Neill

John P. O'Neill

John O'Neill Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 23, 2001.
September 23, 2001
John O'Neill Is Dead at 49; Trade Center Security Chief
By ROBIN POGREBIN
John P. O'Neill, who left the F.B.I. last month to become chief of security for the World Trade Center, died in the collapse of the center on Sept. 11. He was 49.

Mr. O'Neill spent the last several years heading major investigations of the Saudi exile Osama bin Laden, a prime suspect in the attacks at the trade center and the Pentagon. He also investigated the bombings of the United States Embassies in Kenya and Tanzania in 1998.

In 1997, when he was head of the F.B.I.'s counterterrorism division in New York, he warned at a conference on terrorism that militant terrorist groups were operating quietly within the United States. "A lot of these groups now have the capability and the support infrastructure in the United States to attack us here if they choose to," he said at the time, adding that there was a particular danger from Islamic militants.

On Sept. 11, Mr. O'Neill saw his warnings materialize.

In his career with the F.B.I., Mr. O'Neill proved to be one of the shrewdest counterterrorism officials and one of the most controversial. Associates have said that he sometimes chafed at the bureau's restrictive rules and that his single-mindedness occasionally irritated colleagues in the bureau, at the C.I.A. and at the State Department.

Last month, F.B.I. sources confirmed that Mr. O'Neill was under investigation after he left a briefcase containing classified information unattended in a hotel in Tampa, Fla., last year. The briefcase — which was recovered and returned to Mr. O'Neill — contained several documents that included a report outlining virtually every national security operation in New York.

As chief of the counterterrorism section at the bureau's Washington headquarters, Mr. O'Neill helped capture the mastermind of the 1993 World Trade Center bombing, coordinated information in the Oklahoma City bombing that led to the arrest of Timothy McVeigh and Terry Nichols, and played a key role in the investigation of the crash of Trans World Airlines Flight 800.

Born in Atlantic City, Mr. O'Neill received a Bachelor of Science degree from American University in Washington and a master's degree in forensic science from George Washington University in Washington. After joining the bureau in 1976, Mr. O'Neill worked in the foreign counterintelligence, organized crime and white collar crime units.

After assignments in Baltimore, Washington and Chicago, Mr. O'Neill headed the group charged with investigating violence against abortion clinics and the counterterrorism section at headquarters.

It was in the wake of the lost-briefcase incident that Mr. O'Neill announced last month that he would retire at the end of the month.
Editorial Obituary published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on September 23, 2001.


The Head of Security

John O'Neill of the Federal Bureau of Investigation was a relative newcomer to New York, but nearly everybody saw him as New York to the bone. And not just any New Yorker, but a New Yorker of a certain pure strain — the gregarious, high-living, deeply curious Irish cop, who loved wit and companionship and, most of all, investigating crimes.

During his six years as head of national security at the New York F.B.I. office, he seemed to have become acquainted with half the population of the city. One after another, said Valerie James, his companion, people would stop by his table at Elaine's or Bruno's or one of the other restaurants he frequented nearly every night. He would order a Chivas with water and a twist and a hearty, meaty meal, smoke a Dominican cigar and talk — to cops, colleagues, movie stars, kitchen workers, musicians.

He was a complicated man, with a life full of contradictions. Long estranged — but not divorced — from Christine O'Neill, his wife in New Jersey, he lived with Ms. James, a fashion sales director he met in Chicago. As well as a driven F.B.I. investigator, he was a well-studied lover of jazz and French Impressionism. He led the agency's investigations into the terror attacks on the American Embassies in Kenya and Tanzania in 1998 and the World Trade Center bombing in 1993, and was its foremost expert on Osama bin Laden. In August, he retired from the F.B.I. to become head of security at the World Trade Center, which he intended to protect against the enemies he had studied so deeply.

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May 27, 2025

It's a shame there was (is) such animosity between the CIA and FBI administrations. Your death and all the others who were sacrificed on 9/11 and the Iraq and Afghanistan wars would not have happened had John O'Neill been in charge of the CIA. Such tragedies could have been prevented and, sadly, took the life of the one man who was ferociously fighting to beat al-Qaeda.

Carol ONeill

October 29, 2024

No better love or deed then laying your life down for others!

Becky Kovatch

June 1, 2024

I’m reading The Great Disappearance by Dr. David Jeremiah, near the end of book he mentioned of your service to our country. Thank you sir, I’m sorry your warning was not headed and you died a hero trying to save.
Becky Kovatch

Paul Castonguay

August 13, 2023

Hero !!! I’m making my young Sons know and emulate You sir !! So sorry about how you left this world !! But know this your legacy is gonna be known for generations !! Hope my sons learn of how a Man’s life should be lived. Every man has flaws. But to keep focus on the job that’s so important and dangerous while living as an imperfect normal man implies strength in my eyes ! RIP Mr John O’Neil !

Rose Martyn Babjak

July 16, 2022

Hours a pond hours studying the Egyptian hieroglyphics at the library on Illinois Ave in AC. We got pretty good at it. We were between 13-15 yrs of age.

Joshua Price

July 15, 2022

You are a hero sir. Thank you for everything you did for this country. Your legacy lives on and inspires all of us to do our best professionally in our careers. High performers are a rare breed. It would have been beyond an honor to meet you. Your friends that were interviewed on Frontline had enormous respect for you, as do I.

Kathy Hill Stevens

September 14, 2021

I went to Grammar School with John O'Neill. Ever since I can remember from way back then he always wanted to be in the FBI. We were close back then along with Rose Babjack and other friends. I don't remember how exactly we lost touch. The next thing I knew I heard the news about the Twin Towers. At least I can say that he achieved his dream of being in the FBI.

Tomas Ryan

December 5, 2020

John p oniell. What a man, as someone who lives over the pond, I can see how brave and coragious this man was. My condolences go out to his family. Xxx

Rose Martyn

September 12, 2020

I remember John making me get up at 6AM to watch him as an alter boy for 7AM Mass. I would say John your killing me. He just wanted to do everything perfect. When I went to his funeral service I could see him on the alter looking over his shoulder to make sure he looked ok. He did it was perfect. Rose Babjak Martyn

The Man who Knew. RIP

Giovanni Sanseviero

September 11, 2020

As someone else here has already suggested: "They should erect a monument at or around the 9/11 memorial." These are my exact sentiments. Rest in peace, John P, O'Neill. You are one of our greatest patriots.

Nicholas G

July 28, 2019

A true patriot. They should erect a monument at or around the 9/11 memorial. His search for truth and justice in fighting terrorism and keeping Americans safe was monumental.

Michael Silket

January 16, 2019

Rip john you did amazing,job with the bureau and on 9/11

Alice O'Neill

July 29, 2018

On behalf of the O'Neill family of LA, deep regrets at learning of your death in the WTC. Remember us in our present political turmoil and guide us to right action, to retain our good will towards our brothers, our sense of humor and justice. Thank you for your devotion and passion. You are sorely missed.

Joi Dixon

June 29, 2018

So very sorry to have lost the one who tried so hard to stop it...and in such a way...your memory will live on forever...my thoughts and prayers are always with your family and loved ones.

Mark Messore

April 20, 2018

We lost a GREAT man on that tragic day...Somewhere up in the heavens John is looking down and protecting this country of ours that he loved so much and ultimately gave his life for...Loved and missed 4-Ever...Mark Messore, New York

A true American

M Francis

March 1, 2018

Rest in Peace, John P. O'Neill

Barry Edison

February 28, 2018

A truly great patriot and so very missed.

Jamie S.

September 12, 2017

John P. O'Neill

We needed more of you back then, and certainly still need your type today. Pray for us.

September 11, 2017

SAC O'Neill today I reflect on your life and death.
I appreciate all your help and advice. Your kindness never went unappreciated. May you continue to rest in the memory of our creator Jehovah God. Your unselfish death helped to save the lives of others.
Until we meet again. Thank you Sir.

Kevin Blakely

June 24, 2017

I was able to purchase a flag in Hanover PA in 2016 at the https://www.healingfield.org/hanover16/. I purchased the John P O'Neils flag. I did not know John personally but I worked with several of his colleges in the FBI that knew him well. I purchased his flag and have it proudly displaying at my house. I also worked for a govt. agency 30 years dedicating my life to the service of my country. John impressed me with his dedication to his job and his sacrifice.

S J. Friscia III

September 16, 2015

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

S J. Friscia III

September 16, 2015

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

Giovanni Sanseviero

September 12, 2013

We were blessed to have this man care for us.
R.I.P Mr. O'Neal.

s r

September 11, 2013

I will never forget this man and his love for this country.
god bless

Gerry Vickers

May 22, 2013

You're a great man, John. Thank you for all you have done.

BERNARDINO ORTIZ

May 15, 2013

Mr.O'Neill, from what i have read about your short life it seems you lived it well.I'm an average civilian but wish our path would have cross.I bet you would had made a great friend.

October 12, 2012

Giovanni Sanseviero

October 11, 2012

Thank you for everything you were doing and what I know you would have continued to do. You will always be a great man. Rest in peace.

s r

September 11, 2012

On this anniversary I am reminded of an American hero John P O''Neill. A true American.
God bless

Linda

September 11, 2012

To the family of John O'Neill, I worked for John while in the Baltimore Division for many years. He was a dedicated Agent and a wonderful person. I think of John every year on 9/11, my thoughts are with his family. He will not be forgotten.

KATHY SCHLOTTERBECK

September 11, 2012

WE REMEMBER RIP

Sue

September 11, 2011

Thank you for your service to all the rest of us. I wish your message had been heard in time. You knew. And now, we know. Bless you. RIP

Barbara Bowlin

September 11, 2011

Recently, as I watched your story on PBS, I was moved to tears for the frustration you experienced while in the FBI...literally, begging others in the FBI to listen to you. What courage you showed in spite of it all! How different life might be had the powers that were had put their egos aside and listened! May your story forever be a learning tool for agents and others in power. This is my prayer - that you did not die in vain... May you rest in peace.

E. P.

September 10, 2011

Did not know you personally, nor did I have the opportunity to work with you. Thank you for your contribution to the safety of our country, Mr. O'Neill. My condolences to all of your family, friends and colleagues.

Rest in peace.

Hillary Broas

September 2, 2011

John O'Neill, you are in my prayers tonight. Just watched a rerun of Frontline from October 2002 and every time I see or hear a program about you, I think it must have been an unbelievable privelege to have known you. It sounds like you were a one-in-a-million kind of man. God Bless Your Soul.

Tracy Nadeau

September 30, 2009

To "The Man Who Knew" we should have listened! Your brilliance and expertise is greatly needed and sadly missed. God Bless you.......

Donna Marsh O'Connor

September 13, 2009

You knew.

I hope in the way souls move in space and time, you are with my baby girl, Vanessa.

Donna

Martin McFadden

September 11, 2009

I read Murry Weis' book, "The man who warned America". God Bless you John and all you did for America.

Kevin Neal

December 5, 2007

Hi I am a High School student at Spruce Creek High School and i am doing a project on inicent people who lost their lifes on September 11th and i am doing my project on Mr. Jonh O'Neill. I would like to pay my dearest respect to him and his family. My prayers are for you

BrotherBrotherBrother

May 16, 2007

January 21, 2007

THANK YOU MR. O'NEILL.

P Tabbernor

January 18, 2007

In remembrance....

Kristine

November 22, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Theresa Siri

October 10, 2006

A Great Man Who Truly Loved His Country and Knew What Freedom Meant to All Americans. You surely will be missed by all. God Bless you John O'neill. A True American.

Leslie Perez

September 18, 2006

After I watched the mini series at ABC, I realized how much a difference it would have been if they had listened to you. God bless you a true american hero.

September 17, 2006

Mr. O'Neill,



You are a Hero who in love for this country and it's citizens laid down your life in sacrifice. Thank you for trying. May you rest in peace!



Leanne Shay

Sister of Robert J. Shay, Jr.

Cantor Fitzgerald 1WTC

Lauren Jacobs

September 16, 2006

I recently watched the ABC miniseries that had to do with the September 11th attacks and was moved by your story. I did not know you in life but I have great respect for your accomplishments and think you were truly a great American. A person is not measured by how many roads they've built, but by how many hearts they touched along the way and you sir have touched many.

TABETHA BROWN

September 13, 2006

DEAR JOHN, I DID NOT KNOW YOU, BUT AFTER WATCHING THE MINI SERIES ON TV I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO GET YOU OFF OF MY MIND. WHAT A WONDERFUL PERSON YOU ARE, FOR EVERYTHING YOU DID FOR THIS GREAT COUNTRY. THIS WORLD NEEDS MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU. YOUR FAMILY I'M SURE IS SO PROUD OF ALL THE GOOD YOU STOOD FOR. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.

Nicki

September 12, 2006

My heartfelt prayers are with the O'Neill family. I just finished watching the miniseries which has filled me with a variety of emotions, mostly sadness for a wonderful life lost.

Michelle Morado

September 12, 2006

i was touched on his true love for his country, i didnt know him but if he was anything like the person that was on the movie i would have have honored to have met such a man, this country need more people like he was, i am sad that such a person perished this way, but i know that things people say wont bring back your loved one but if its any consuling, that mr o'neil is in a better place where he is watching over his loved ones

Kay

September 12, 2006

John,

Like others I say the ABC special. I previously was a law enforcment officer, plus always a student, so I know a little about what you did, and really respect how you lived your life. You are truly a hero and a wonderful man. Thank you for all that you accomplished for all of us.

Jane Cassaro

September 12, 2006

Dear John:

I appreciate everything you did for this country. How hard you worked to prevent the catastrophe that also ended your life. I will never forget you. I will tell my grandchildren about you. May you rest in peace John. Say hi to my mom up there her name is Annette.

Ann

September 12, 2006

I watched the ABC special for the last two nights and learned so much. John O'Neill was a wonderful man who was dedicated to his job. He is a hero and his family must feel honored.

Mark Kehayas

September 12, 2006

After watching the ABC series, another great American has come to light. Seems that so many unsung heros are only known once they are gone. May you rest in peace, and thank you for your devoted service.

Michelle

September 12, 2006

A hero, if only people would have listened to what you had to say.

Rest in peace

Vishal Desour

September 12, 2006

My Brother, Sister in Law and I watched this Documentary/Film last night, I saw your John's name on the CNN Data base earlier that day but felt like I knew him after I saw the Film. John you done more then most people would and you truley are a hero. And your in gods house now, in peace.



My heart goes to your family and your son.



God Bless you.

And God Bless your family.

Carol Trevino

September 12, 2006

God Bless Mr O'Neill,you are a true american hero.You did our country a great service.May You In Peace.

Marianne Allen

September 12, 2006

Dear John,

If only we had more people like you. Your courage is an example to all Americans. You loved life and you worked so hard to make America a bettter and safer place. You will be remembered always as the great American hero. May you rest in peace.

N.J. Patel

September 12, 2006

I just saw the abc film and have read the 9/11 report. You are what heros are made of. We just don't have enough of them in these uncertain times. Thank you for being a tireless patriot, humanatarian and servant of the people. If only....if only....



My condolences to your loved ones.

DORA

September 11, 2006

DEAR MR. O'NEILL



MY TEENAGE DAUGHTER AND I SAW THIS FILM....THEN I HAD TO LOOK UP YOUR NAME IN OUR BOOK....



ALL WE CAN SAY IS "THANK YOU" FOR YOUR WORK. YOU WERE A GENTLEMAN, A REAL PATRIOT, AND SOMEONE WE ADMIRE TREMENDOUSLY. MY BOYS WANT TO WRITE A BOOK REPORT ABOUT YOU....A REAL AMERICAN HERO.



HAPPY 5TH BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS.

K O

September 11, 2006

Tonight I said a prayer for you.

Your will and your spirit, will not be forgotten.

Keith

September 11, 2006

John,

Thank you for your service to our country.

After seeing the ABC special tonight on TV you will always be remembered by me and many others as true patriot!

Fred Mason

September 10, 2006

Thank you, John...for many jobs well done. Rest easy and keep watch on Mays Landing.

Dawson Marshall

April 25, 2006

I can still remember the fun times we had in the H.S.H.S. years. One of the nicest guys I ever knew. May God have mercy on him. "We will NEVER forget."

Donna Marsh O'Connor

October 11, 2005

Still thinking about you and saying prayers...



Vanessa's Mom

Kevin LoVullo

September 7, 2004

Mr. O'Neill - Since learning about you from the documentary;

'The Man Who Knew' I cannot begin to thank you for the dedicated service you've demonstrated for our country. Thank You Sir.

S G

August 11, 2004

John,

Just a little note to let you know I'm thinking of you. Every now and then, I hear what sounds like your footsteps, and I think you've just got to be there.

Thanks for making me smile.

gracie

April 18, 2004

John,



A man of Greatness.



You lived your life everyday, unselfishly for others.

You were the protector Of all that is good.

You were loyal to your country and your honor was evident.

You even gave us your last breath , util the very end, protecting, unselfishly. This world will miss your dedication to conquering evil.

We know in heaven you will watch over us, and bestow on this great country the goodness that will always prevail.



You were a Great man John. Great.

k s

September 11, 2003

Dear Mr. O'Neil,

You are the kind of person that legends are made of. I hope that you know how much your life meant to others and that many people will always be indebted to you. May you rest with God in peace.

K T

September 11, 2003

JPO...My HERO, always and forever. KT

Bill

June 3, 2003

To have fought and died for justice is to have lived free. Thanks for your work, John.

J

December 24, 2002

Dear John,

Merry Christmas in Heaven.

Your spirit, spunk, and determination will live on forever! Love J

Patricia Emerick ONeill

December 18, 2002

John: I never knew you, I am proud of who you were, and what you stood for. My prayers are with you and your family. Pat

Chuck Raymaker

September 15, 2002

John and Christie, The memories go way back when we lived in Alexandria and worked at Bureau Headquarters. We had many a good laugh commuting to Ident in my sisters old beat up station wagon (Pearl). Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Niles Light

September 13, 2002

A good friend. A loyal patriot. A true hero.

Erika Frahm

September 13, 2002

John, I met you quite a few times because you worked with my dad in New York and at the Embassy bombings in Africa.He was in Washington at the time of the attacks and a part of me knows that you got him through this. You are the reason he kept going. We talk about you all the time and we look back at the pictures of you and him together before he left for Washington and I can see it in his eyes. He looks at those pictures and I know he's doing the best he can to help this country. Im so happy that i was able to meet you and that you were such a good friend to my father. He loves you, we love you, and we miss you.

Gene Tolman

September 11, 2002

The profile by the NY Times is an accurate picture of the Man. I was pleased to be with him on a counterterrorist assignment overseas. He was the best of the best in the fight against terrorism. He loved life and was a dedicated goverment official. I enjoyed our late night glass of Chivas, and on this particular day will share a toast to him.

daniel fedeli

September 10, 2002

I did not know Mr.Oneil,However, one day a young freshman boarded the HSHS school bus in ACNJ.He spoke about being a law enforcement officer.The rest is history.God bless you from Atlantic city New Jersey.

Marsey Cornett

September 9, 2002

Mr. O'Neill,

My Family did not know you until my sister was murdered in the 1998 American Embassy Bombings in East Africa. You fought so hard to bring us some justice and in the end you gave your life fighting to protect all Americans from the same group of terrorist. It's a shame no one was listening! You knew Americans were dying long before Sept. 11th. Thanks for fighting on our side!

My family will never forget what you fought so hard to prevent!

A TRUE AMERICAN HERO

Judy Cherbonneau

September 8, 2002

Dear John,

"Perhaps...

they are not the stars

but rather openings in heaven

where the love of our lost ones

shines down to let us know

they are with us."

A friend sent me this verse and I thought it was so beautiful and I wanted to share it with you and your loved ones.

I will never forget those who lost their lives on September 11! God Bless you all!

Love Judy

Judy Cherbonneau

August 9, 2002

Dear John and Loved ones,

I just read the article in Time Magazine about you and your efforts to waken Americans to the evil that was lurking in our very midst. I am sorry this was a battle you and only another handful of people were attempting to fight, alone! How ironic, you were in the thick of the reality of the horror you predicted, escaped safely, and reentered the devastation to save others!

The members of the FDNY, NYPD, PAPD, EMS, Court Officers and all the other rescue workers who risked their lives, many of them making the ultimate sacrifice, are my heroes. You are right up there, in my BOOK OF HEROES with Ollie North! MEN OF HONOR UNDER THE WORST OF CIRCUMSTANCES! GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL THE OTHER HEROES WHO WERE MURDERED ON THAT TRAGIC DAY! God bless your family and loyal friends! [email protected]

Leon Fainstadt

June 15, 2002

Dear John O'Neill.

Your courageous life is an example to all Americans. It seems you were not appreciated during your life but there will be many who will learn about you and appreciate your warnings to our nation. You did your job without the support you deserved. Your day will come.

Michael Iezzi

June 14, 2002

Father we entrust our brother John to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.

Joel A.

June 2, 2002

Thank you for your fine work in protecting the American people, John. Rest now in God.



We will not be slack in our labors to bring to light the full truth.

Angie Campbell

May 8, 2002

**********GOD BLESS YOU**********

Det Daniel Medina

May 6, 2002

John, met you with Ambassador Roberto Valentin, Dom Rep. Although brief, you made an impact just with the character you displayed. May God be with you and although we did not meet up in the Dom Rep as planned, I'll see you in heaven. Take care.

Roxanne Olivier

April 7, 2002

To John P. O'Neill who cared for his people as he went back in and died a hero. You always be my hero and I love you. I read several interesting stories about you. You was the Number 1 FBI agent and the best of all. You warned as you knew it coming and couldn't prevent the tragedy.
Tears has shed for your loved ones who lost you to God.
May God be with you and the angels guide you into heaven.
You will be remembered as a hero, always,John P. O'Neill.

Sarah McKillop

March 13, 2002

John,

When I look at the picture of you that I have I am filled with sorrow but also with pride. You gave up your life to help save others, but at the cost of your own life. You will always be a hero in my book.

Samantha Blair

February 22, 2002

John O'Neill: You lived your life as a hero. You lost your life as a hero. Thank you for all of your efforts. We love you and honor you as the powerful, loving man that you were. You lived your life with honor.

V P

February 11, 2002

I first had the opportunity to see Mr. Oneill at a Counter Terrorism seminar he gave at St. John's University (1999). I found he was well versed in the field of counterintelligence and counterterrorism. I was in awe of his knowledge of those fields respectively. He also helped me in applying to the Bureau. Thank You, you were one of a kind

January 24, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS

BRILLANT YOUNG MAN AND MAY HIS SOUL

REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND

FRIENDS...GOD BLESS THE FBI AND THE

MEN WHO WORK SO HARD...GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY ST. JOHN

MEET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN.AMEN

Teresa Jahn

December 17, 2001

We thank John for all his investigative skills that helped capture criminals. We are very sorry for your loss of John. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Janet Murray

September 27, 2001

John touched my life more than my words can ever express. My sincere condolences to Chris & J.P.

May you find comfort in knowing that John's life, while cut short, was a life well lived.

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