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Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Holland
Sponsored by Aileen Holland.
Sandra Pinson
January 21, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Elizabeth Smith
November 22, 2010
Dear Holland family,
I knew Jerry from Sacramento and Sonora, CA. I was googling old friends I've lost contact with, and just saw this obituary. I am saddened by the loss. When I knew Jerry, he was searching and seeking...knowledge, personal fulfillment, etc. From the posts, it appears he found what he was looking for. I sincerely hope so. I remember how happy he was when he told me he was getting married...
I can tell that he was loved and respected by his patients and colleagues. I'm hoping that his memory lives on with all, as it does with me--that of a man who wanted to see the best in this world, even in the face of adversity. A blessing to him and his family.
Melody Karen Barnett
June 13, 2010
He is missed and there will never be another Psychitrist that comes close to him he cant even be matched in comparrison... Psychiatrist like no other, he took his time to help his patients and if you really needed him he was there and h did not watch the clock as all do... He was always there!!! Missing him terribly!!!
Karen B
Lynne Richards
June 12, 2010
You touched my heart, you listened to my words and feelings, your spirit of love lives on through your wife and children. You will never be forgotten.
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Sharon Gehl
June 11, 2010
A day late but still in our thoughts.
You never forget someone that made such a difference in your life like Dr.Holland did in so many peoples'lives.
Wishing we could find someone half as good as you now.
With Jerry's encouragement I went from 300lb to 125. Thank you Dr. Holland!
Karen Goodrich
April 8, 2010
Oh my, I just found this while looking to see what Dr. Holland was up to. Chuck & I have yet to find his equal here in Florida and talk about him all the time. He changed my life by encouraging me to get gastric bypass! Eileen, my biggest hug and sincerest blessings to you. Karen Goodrich, Chuck Goodrich
Denise OBrien Hopkins
February 6, 2010
Dearest Aileen: I just learned of Dr. Holland's death, from my daughter in Clarksville. I am so sorry for your and your family's loss. He was a wonderful and caring man, and an excellent physician. He helped me through a tough time after my mother's death. Such a loss to so many. Again, my condolences. Denise Obrien Hopkins (Clarksville, Tn)
Karen Barnett
October 17, 2009
I miss him so so so so so so much... I think about him daily, and I just miss him terribly. No Psychiatrist will ever match or even come close to him!
Rebecca Skerritt
October 15, 2009
I just learned of Jerry's death 2 years after the fact and am stunned. What a horrific loss to all who knew this wonderful man and those of us who were greatly helped by him. Dr. Jerry Holland helped bring me through the most difficult crisis I have ever experienced - what a blessing to have know him. My prayers are with the family, always.
A forever grateful patient, Rebecca Skerritt
Celeste Greening
July 12, 2009
Dear Aileen,
As small as Clarksville is I was shocked to just learn about Dr. Holland's death. To me he was more than just a doctor, he became as friend. I'll always remember our talks and his sharing his meditation tapes with me. I'm still meditating and I've learned to use it to help with pain, stress and everything that my MS and life in general throws at me. I've missed the both of you very much. You each treated me with true affection and such diginity. Through the two of you I overcame many obstacles. By that, I know he had so much strength through you and your children. Thank you for that. I am keeping you in my thoughts. I miss you all.
Sharon Gehl
June 10, 2009
2 years already..His memory will live on in all those that he helped and I know I will never forget him.He was a great psychiatrist and human being.Wishing you and the children the best.
Brigget Mathis
May 4, 2009
Aileen,
Thank you for keeping this Guest Book available. I miss Dr. Holland as much today as when you all left for Arizona. He gave me so many tools to help me maintain my mental health. Although I still grieve, part of him will always be alive in those of us whose lives he truly changed. You and your boys remain in my prayers.
Karen Barnett
May 3, 2009
I still think about him all the time and I miss him terribly. He was the best Psychiatrist ever. I can judge that on the basis I have seen many!
How are you Eileen and boys? I pray all is well
Kim Shafer
May 2, 2009
I just found out about Dr. Holland's death, and my heart broke. He was such an amazing man, a true healer and I know he will be missed. I am so very sorry for you loss, for it is a loss for all of us who knew him or were patients of his.
Beverly Brown
June 11, 2008
Dear Eileen, Bronson and Marlon: I think about you so often. I realize it has been a year and hope all of you are doing well. If you come to Clarksville I would love to see you. I have worked for many psychiatrists but Dr. Holland was the best and the most knowledgeable about medications. He helped so many people and gave them the will to carry on with their lives. I will be calling you soon. All of you take care. Your friend, Beverly Brown
Karen Barnett
June 11, 2008
One year already, it has been really hard. I thought in time it would get easier and it just does not. There will neve ever be a replacement for him. He was not only a psychiatrist and a friend he was an awesome counselor. He is greatly missed by all he new. I have tried to find someone, but you just cant. I find I have to turn a lot more over to Christ to take from me. Holland always had the answers. You went in crying and mad and you left happy. I know we are going to see him again as I know he is in Heaven. He was an unbelievable man. Eileen and boy's.. Will be praying for you all!
God bless you,
Karen
Sharon Gehl
June 10, 2008
It's been a year now and Dr.Holland is missed just as much as if it were yesterday.Just thought I would send you a message letting you know how unforgetable you and your family are.I saw Melissa today at Dr.Bolers office it was nice to see someone from back then.Peace to you and the boys.
Teresa Stelmaszczyk
April 8, 2008
Hi Aileen, We've never met and I have always thought about Jerry as we lost touch for many years ,I am Jerry's niece and as kids growing up yes we both where the same age, I would go over to see my Grandpa & Grandma Holland , Jerry was so shy and quiet but not for long !! He was a talker! He once told me I was like having a sister around ,as I read the entries I know too how uncle Jerry had so much love for feelings and hurt I often heard it when he would play the piano the expression and the care. I was young but I still remember He was the best! Jerry reminds of His Dad my Grandpa. I will always miss Him, my Grandpa too! For those whom know Jerry yes you have to push on and find the joy in around you! Thank God ."for this is the Day the Lord hath made to Rejoice and be glad in it". Our Jerry is walking with all of our loved ones in Haven yes He will always be missed. Please believe,"that in Him all things are possible". I will continue to pray for us all.
Your Niece, Teresa
Stephanie Smith
April 7, 2008
I get notices when a new entry is posted on this site and all I want to say is Dr. Holland would want us all to move on and keep on the path he helped us locate. Yes, it is tragic what happened and God allowed us to know him and his purpose on Earth may have been just that. So, the next time you feel you can't go on, just ask. Jerry is in all of our hearts and nothing can change that. Smile and know you can go onto the next day. He is here.
Sally Hassman
April 6, 2008
Aileen,
Like so many others I so miss Dr.Holland. I have been unable to find anyone with his insight. To me he was the light at the end of a tunnel and now with my world crashing beneath me I find myself asking for his guidance in my nightly prayers. Just felt I needed to share this with you.
Karen Barnett
April 3, 2008
Aileen,
Have you ever thought about doing Psychiatry? I miss Holland so much and I will never forget about him. What happened, it is like a huge tragedy in my life. I just thought that you were with him so much and you know a lot of what he knows... I dont know I just thought I'd ask you. I will never be satisfied with anyone elses care! He was the best and can not be replaced. I just adored him.. And you.
Sharon Gehl
February 26, 2008
Aileen I just wanted you to know that you and the boys are still in my thoughts.I never told you how much your kindness meant to me.Dr.Holland meant so much to my daughter and myself I will never stop thinking about him and miss our monthly visits.When he and you moved from here I keep telling myself he would be back,I would get to talk my problems out with him again and his clam voice would clam me.We talked and laughed about alot of things, my husband could tell when I had been to see Dr.Holland because I would always be in such a better mood.Now that Angela has been DX with lupus she says she sure wishes she had him to talk to again too.
The two of you made such a great couple,you know where his sprit is and I am sure you feel him often.He understood the mind better than any pyschiatrist I have ever been to.Just know Dr.Holland was loved by many and so are you.
Karen Barnett
January 30, 2008
Oh my gosh, every day I just miss him. There is no Psychiatrist out there like him. He was so kind, I just miss him! Wow, this is just horrible! Wow, I am going through so much now, he would have been able to give me answers and just help me. This just isn't good. Aileen I am praying for you, and the boys. How are you all? Wow, this is just unbelievable. I want to be pinched. I dreamt one day that I was talking to him. I was so excited I woke up and he wasn't there. I wanted to go back in that dream again. I loved him, I had respect for him. This just can't be real.
Karen Barnett
January 15, 2008
I thought that maybe I would stop thinking about him. It can not be done. I was sleeping the other day and he just popped in my head. It was like he was there and I was talking to him. I had so many questions, he could have answered them for me. I awoke with such excitment, boy was that a dissapointment to wake and find out it was only a dream. Oh my goodness, I have never been effected by anyone the way I am with Holland. WOW, I wish he were still here. I am thankful that I have a memory of him than to never have had one at all. He is so missed. He was worth knowing. Oh man, will I always have to fight these tears? I have lost many and known them for a long time, never have I felt this way. I have known him for a short time, I know his memory will linger. GREATEST PSYCHIATRIST EVER. May he rest in peace!
DORA PEREIRA
January 8, 2008
MAY YOU BE STRONG AND MAY THESE YEAR BE A GREAT ONE,TRUST ON THE LORD
Judy Farmer-Hutchings
January 4, 2008
Aileen, Thinking of you and the boys this season and praying for you often. Think of Dr. Holland so often and hurt for you. May you find comfort with time.
Megan Hammit
December 12, 2007
Dr. Holland helped me through a lot. I miss our conversations so much. I can't tell you how much I adored him, and how sad I am that he has passed. Aileen, thank you for always being such a joy to talk to. You are one of the sweetest people I have ever known. I am so sorry for your loss. I am very thankful to have known Dr. Holland. He changed my life for the better in so many ways.
Karen Barnett
December 5, 2007
My life has never been the same since Holland. There are situatipns that have happened and Dr. Holland knew the right words to say. He pulled me out of a lot of funk. Not a day goes by where I don't think about him. He was such a wonderful human being. Life will never be the same.
Gloria Baca
November 6, 2007
I don't have the words to express how much Dr. Holland meant to me. He literally changed my life from the very first day I became his patient. I only saw him for a couple months but he made a huge impact in my life.
Sean Flanagan
October 31, 2007
Aileen, I am so sorry to hear about Jerry. My prayers are with you and the boys. Take care
Tana Rupe
September 13, 2007
I've only just learned today that he died. I wanted to express my sympathies to his wife and children.
He saw me for several years on and off. The most compassionate and proactive psychiatrist I've had by far throughout my m any years of care.
He was very dearly loved by many and I cannot express the sorrow I feel and empathy for his surviving loved ones to the depths that he and they deserve.
He made a true difference in my life.
Lisa Jane Vargas
August 15, 2007
Dear Aileen,
Even though we just met, my heart goes out to you and your family. I can sense what an incredible man Jerry was and that he touched so many lives in such a beautiful way. I wish for you and your sons a healthy journey of healing filled with love from those surrounding you.
Jim Gisriel
August 14, 2007
Aileen –
I am deeply grieved to learn of Jerry’s passing. It saddens me to think of the tremendous loss that you and the boys have suffered. In these moments, I am reminded of the Buddhist teaching that suffering is an integral part of our lives and that all suffering has a beginning and an end. One of the most important things that Jerry helped me with was to be able to acknowledge that suffering was not personal. This understanding was a major factor in helping me to deal with my problems.
I am grateful for the warm and compassionate help that you both provided during a particularly traumatic period of my life. Jerry was both a healer and a teacher – and I will miss those casual and candid talks with one of the most caring persons I have ever known.
Jim
Angi Kearney
August 13, 2007
Dear Aileen, Marlon and Bronson,
We just heard of the passing of your husband and dad. We are truly sorry and hope that you find the strength you need to get through this unfortunate time. We only met Jerry a couple of times and each time he was just a pleasure and always so kind. He will be missed by so many people. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time and always.
May God bless you all,
Angi, Alex and Zac
Zac Kearney
August 13, 2007
Marlon,
Im really sorry to hear about your dad. Just know if you need anything Im here for you. You are a good friend.
Your Friend Always,
Zac Kearney
Phyllis
August 6, 2007
Aileen-
My daughter was a patient in your office, and I think it is important for you to know how special she thinks you and Dr. Holland are. She was always treated kindly and respectfully and with compassion. I remember thinking the first time that I called to make an appointment for her that if he was as awesome as you, that she was in great hands. Thanks to both of you for all that you did for her.
Colleen Hamilton
July 31, 2007
Aileen,
My family and I are truly sorry for your loss. Dr. Holland was one of the nicest people we have ever had the pleasure of having in our lives. He really helped us in a time when I thought no one would be able to. He was a very special man and we will never forget him. You and your family are in our hearts and in our prayers.
Noah Kobay
July 24, 2007
I just found out about Dr. Hollands death today. Though I was saddened, I couldn't help but to think about his family and patients. Dr. Holland was not just a man, but a gentleman. He tought me a lesson in life that I will never forget and fought hard for me during a crisis in my life. With elequence and suave, Dr. Holland brought so much compassion to those that knew him. To his family I say, I am so sorry for your loss and words just can't comfort you. Just know that the gentleman you loved, loved his career and family with so much empathy, and the World was Blessed by his presence.
Sandra Weierbach
July 23, 2007
Aileen, It has taken me a very long time to wright in this guest book, I am so so very sorry for your loss. I am still at a loss for words, as a patient of Dr. Hollands he will be very very missed.Dr Holland greeted people with a warming bright and beautiful smile, he was very kind and caring, he was always interested in what I had to say, I've never had a theapist like him, he was the only theapist that I ever truely trusted with my deepest thoughts and with my past history, it will be hard to trust another like I trusted him, He was an amazing person. He liked to crack jokes sometimes during my visits, what awsome Doc. Aileen you and your family take care my prayers are with you and your children.
Greg and Linda Owen
July 21, 2007
Dear Aileen and Family:
Our sympathy, prayers, and warmest thoughts are with you. We have lots of wonderful memories with Jerry, Greg talks of the time they went to Chico to look at it as a college for Greg and there was a piano and Jerry was playing so amazingly that a crowd had gathered in awe. I remember wonderful times we had when we went to visit Jerry at Berkeley. We will miss his "thinking" conversations, his sincerity, his interest in people and his rich, unusual sense of humor. Greg always said that no matter how much time elapsed since they talked, when they did, it was as if they were picking up from yesterday. Jerry has always been and always will be in our hearts.
Debra Beneker
July 16, 2007
Aileen,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and Dr. Holland treated me with respect and kindness. I will always remember the concern that Dr. Holland gave me as his patient and the wonderful sense of humor he had. He helped me to find humor in daily life and I will always remember the laughter we shared.
Judith Hollowell
July 15, 2007
Dear Aileen & Family,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the loss of Jerry. I wish I had the words to make you feel better at this tragic time. Please know and be confident that Jerrys spirit will always be there to confort you. He would want you to carry on in his absence and have a joyful and full life. Look forward in the knowleadge that you will see Him again. Love to you and your family.
kelli fitzgerald
July 12, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I am stunned and speechless and so terribly sorry to hear of dr Holland's passing. It is so hard to know what to say other than to just let you know how kind and sweet this wonderful doctor was to me. He was so incredibly helpful in my life and was one of the few doctors I have ever been able to actually trust with the details of my life. I respect him deeply and will continue to think of him when I need inspiration. Again, my thoughts are with you and your sweet family. Please know that his kindness and understanding made a difference in my life and he will never be forgotten.
Robert Baumsteiger
July 10, 2007
Dear Aileen,
I am very sorry to hear about your families loss. Dr. Holland was a great DR. that really understood people and how to break thru walls. I can honestly say that in the time I spent with him he really changed my life. He will be missed! If there is anything that I can do please feel free to contact me!
Robert Baumsteiger
Brigget Mathis
July 9, 2007
Aileen, I learned today of Dr. Holland's death. I am so sorry for your loss. His death is a loss to many. I am thankful to have known him. I learned so much from him, and without a doubt he changed my life. He was knowledgable, professional, compassionate, and personable. May you and your sons be comforted in knowing that a little of Dr. Holland will live on in all of us whose lives he affected. I will never forget him. You and your family will be in my prayers. (I noticed in one of the photos he has a camera. I guess he finally bought that fancy camera he kept talking about. I hope so.)
Jong & Chikee Cortez
July 8, 2007
Dearest Aileen, rest your heart my friend, knowing that Jerry is with our God. Weep no more, knowing that your family is so loved by so many. Keep the faith, knowing that someday you will be with Jerry in God’s paradise where there will be no more pain, nor crying but only love and peace. With our fervent prayers for you, Bronson and Marlon: Jong, Chikee, Toby, Mommy Rose, TJ, & Tembong from Olongapo.
Blake, Ami, Marc, and Kimiko
July 4, 2007
Aileen, Bronson and Marlon,
Our sincere condolences for the untimely passing of a loving husband and father. You are a part of our family and we will be with you every step of the way as your family moves forward from this tragedy. We love you all. You are always in our thoughts.
Mary Rutherford
July 3, 2007
Aileen- I have been to this site three times so far and couldn't put my feelings into words. I still can't very well, but I will try. Dr. Holland was a very special person, as well as a great psychiatrist who truly cared about his patients and their best interests. He was one of my clinical supervisors while I was getting my Masters. No one could have been more patient or helpful than he was. He was always interested in my assessments and gave me very positive feedback in my work. It was pleasure to work with him in the hospital too. I always knew he would hear my concerns about patients and do something for them. He was never once condencending, never impatient with me, no matter how much I had to learn about the field of psychiatry and the medications he prescribed. The last time I saw him, he told me he regretted that we wouldn't be working together again. He was leaving Clarksville just as I was about to get into private practice. I regretted it too, but was glad to see him move to Arizona and achieve his dream of opening a Meditation Center. Jerry was there when no one else would help my son. My son trusted Dr. Holland at a time when he didn't trust anyone, not even me. My son couldn't believe Dr. Holland was gone and neither can I. I can see by all the memorials that people have written at this site that Jerry lives on in the minds of his family, his friends and his patients. I can still see his smile when he came out of his office to see us- it will always be there for me. I know that he is finally at peace and I am happy about that. I also know you and your sons must miss him terribly. Please call on me if there is ever anything I can do for you.
Virginia Teddy, M.D.
July 2, 2007
Jerry was a wonderful colleague and a caring physician. His knowledge of medicine was deep and his compassion for his patients, vast. He is greatly missed. In life he found great peace through meditation, and this legacy he has passed on to many others as well. May you all - Aileen, Marlon, Bronson, Jonathon - find peace in your memories.
Zig and Adele Yee and Family
July 2, 2007
Dearest Aileen and Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences for Jerry's passing. We are grateful to have known him and he'll be remembered always. Aileen, I am truly sorry. I share your grief. Take care.
Sherry Shaw
July 1, 2007
Dear Aileen and Family,
My mother called and told me about Dr. Holland a couple of weeks ago. We were both shocked and saddened by the news. I really miss having him as my doctor and just having your office as the one I visit. Both of you have been irreplaceable on even the most basic level. It didn't take your leaving for me to realize the Dr. Holland was a good doctor -- just that nobody else came even close. I know that you and your boys will miss him so much, and I am sorry once again for your loss.
Leslie Scholes
June 30, 2007
Dear Aileen and Family,
I will never forget the day I drove to your office for my appt with Dr. Holland and read the note on the window that your office was closed for an emergency. When I called the office and was told of the loss of Dr. Holland I went numb. He had been treating myself and my children over the past year. He helped me find myself again and got me thru my past issues and on to live life now.. and too grow. Dr. Holland made a huge inpact in my life and my husband and childrens. He was a remarkable man and doctor. It took me weeks to write you...because it is so hard to believe we will not see Dr. Holland again in this lifetime. You always made us feel special when we checked in for an appointment. We are all so very privledged to have had Dr. Holland be apart of our healing. Thinking of you and the boys. Dr. Holland will be greatly missed. The Scholes - Johnson Family. Peoria, AZ
Debra Brown
June 30, 2007
Aileen, I was shocked and terribly saddened to learn of Jerry's death. Over the years I have spoken of him often. Jerry is the only person I've ever known who represented the ideal in a psychiatrist. He not only was a brilliant diagnostician, but he knew how to do meaningful psychotherapy as well. Jerry is the only psychiatrist I've known who really knew how to do comprehensive treatment. It is unusual to find a doctor of his skill and expertise who kept his humility and his humanity. I am thinking of you and the boys. I so enjoyed knowing Jerry personally and professionally. Professionally, I benefited greatly from his extensive knowledge. I regret our paths never crossed once you left Arkansas. I appreciated your Christmas cards and notes. Love to you, Debra
Monique Merola
June 28, 2007
Dear Aileen,
There are no words I can say right now to ease your pain. I am just in such shock! I am sooooo terribly sorry for your loss. Dr. Holland was such a sweet, honest, loving and kind man. I wish he was family, but I have had the privilege to have been his patient for about a year now. I truly do not think I would be here today if I did not have him in my life to ease me through these tremendously difficult times. Through him, I discovered breathing, relaxation techniques and yoga, among many other things that have helped me to become a better person, wife and mother, not to mention the ability to cope with major life stressors. I will miss him so much! There is no other like him. Thank you for sharing his life with us through this wonderful Guest Book. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May he always be "with" you until you meet again!
With love and hugs,
Monique Merola (Goodyear, AZ)
Eric Raider
June 27, 2007
Aileen and family,
Words cannot express the loss of a such a wonderful,kind, sweet and talented man like Dr. Holland. What we do know is that his life and his legacy lives on in our memories because of all the lives he helped to change and improve. I and many others will miss him but we who knew him are all better people because of him.
I pray that God comforts you all during this time and please call on me shall you need anything I can help you and the boys with.
My kindest sympathies,
Eric Raider and Family
Jan and Dave Stackhouse
June 27, 2007
Aileen,
Dave and I just found out. We are so, so sorry. If you need anything at all, please call us-day or night. We join you in your sorrow at losing such a wonderful man. He was the only one who stood by us- "our Guardian Angel". With much love and prayers, Jan and Dave
Helen Coplin
June 26, 2007
June 26, 2007
Aileen and boys,
The news just came to me this morning of the untimely death of Jerry. I was so saddened, and the memories flooded back of the time I worked with him at the Guidance Center. I remember how happy he was when the two of you became engaged to be married. And later how proud he was of Bronson and Marlon. It is hard to accept that he has gone on to be with the Lord. Thank you so much for keeping in touch with pictures of your family. My heart goes out to all of you. May God be with you in your time of sorrow and show you the way to go now. Please keep in touch.
Helen Coplin
Debbie Mehigan
June 26, 2007
I feel as if I have lost a family member. Dr. Holland was loved by all that knew him. My prayers are with you all.
Bonnie Hudson
June 25, 2007
Aileen, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. May you and your family be comforted with wonderful memories. Sincerely, Bonnie Hudson
Gladys Cardwell
June 25, 2007
Aileen and boys,My sympathy is with you in your time of sorry.
Alicia Siska
June 25, 2007
I am so sorry. I was lucky to have known him for the short time I did:)
Mark and Stacy Lonquist
June 25, 2007
Dear Aileen and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Dr. Holland meant so much to us. I will always remember how he helped hold me up when I was unable to do it myself. He helped restore my feelings, and the reality of life. There aren't enough words to express how amazing we thought he was. I will share a story with you the next time I see you. Please, if there is anything I can do for you or your family, please call upon us. We would love to be there for you and your family in anyway that we can.
Krista Releford
June 25, 2007
Aileen,
It has been a few days since you told me that Dr. Holland died and I am still trying process this tragedy because I so dont want it to be true. There were many years, many doctors and so many pills I had to swallow before my journey led me to Dr. Holland. As you may know my father was his patient first and he had such a liking and respect for Dr. Holland that he urged me to start seeing him as well. Me seeing Dr. Holland changed my life- I now have a life that I forgot was even possible- I almost didnt take the medication that has made this possible but he did not give up on me and it his by his encouragement I did. I will not forget sitting in his office and how he listened to me and would adress my concerns and needs- I felt respected and understood. I feel I had a friend in him and am going to miss him as such.
I also want to thank you for the support you have given me as well, and that you have been and will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Krista
Billie Haley
June 24, 2007
I too was a patient of Dr. Hollands. I was shocked to learn of his passing. He was a very caring doctor and shared alot of truth and wisdom when I needed it most. I am so sorry for your loss Aileen and children.
Ann Davis
June 24, 2007
Aileen and boys
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Natalia Dotts
June 22, 2007
I thank God I have had opportunity to meet with Dr. Holland. He gave me hope when I had little. I will never forget him. Thank you to his family for sharing him with others. God bless you.
laura cooper
June 22, 2007
you opened my eyes to life
Greg Bryant
June 22, 2007
To Aileen, Bronson and Marlon,
I'm sad to hear of Dr. Holland's passing. He wasn't just my Dr., but I considered him a friend. He helped understand my condition. I really miss you guys. Bronson and my son Tyler, were on the same baseball team for a few seasons. I remember Bronson's baseball games, and all his hot 'cheerleaders' urging him on in the stands. You guys are great.
Having Dr. Holland as a friend and a doctor was a real gift I will never forget. I feel lucky to know All of you. Take care!
Love you all!
Greg Bryant
Mischa Heinz
June 22, 2007
Aileen and family, my sincerest condolences on your untimely loss. On a professional level, Dr. Holland was a pleasure to call on. He was truly an innovator in his field, and his knowledge was unsurpassed. I learned so much from Dr. Holland and appreciated using him as a resourse when I had questions in the field of psychiatry.
On a personal level though, I think you and Jerry were the first people I would consider friends when I moved to the Phoenix area. I have had so many great conversations with him, sharing so many personal experiences. His unique sense of humor will be missed. Jerry was an amazing man, and will truly be missed by so many. You and the boys are in my thoughts and prayers.
April Heaton
June 22, 2007
Dear Holland family ,
I was a patient of Dr. Hollands while he was in Clarksville . I started seeing him in 1995 and continued with him until he left TN . I am so very sad that he has passed . He helped me like no other could. had it not been for Dr. Holland ,I don't know what would have happened to me . I owe my life to him and feel that he truly was an angel on Earth . I will miss him greatly.I will keep you and your whole family in my thoughts and prayers.
April Heaton Clarksville , TN
Hazel Heaps
June 22, 2007
Aileen
I just found out today about Dr Holland when your office called me. As you know I was out of town last week visiting my daughter and grandkids. Just like other visits with her I was looking forward to talking to Dr Holland about it. How unemportant that is to the loss I feel now. I was so shocked to here about his death. I cried and am still crying for the loss of a wonderful man and Dr. Our last visit together we talked about living life NOW to the fullest. This has made me realize how right he is and I will honor him by doing just that. I have been in thearpy since I was a teen and he is the first Dr I have felt really understood me. In the year I have been coming there he has made a big difference in my life, but I feel we had so much more work to do. His knowledge of medician was truly remarkable. His sence of humor, kind smile, and gentle ways were like no other and I will tuly miss this man. You have always been so kind to me as well. I am truly saddened for you and your boys. He talked of you sometimes and I could tell he loved you and his boys and life very much. Just remember that always. If I can do anything for you I would be glad to do so. I know from the other letters in this guest book just how much he, you and your family is loved. I don't understand why he was taken from us so soon when there was so much more work for him to do here. This place called earth will be a better place because of the people he helped and now there is an amazing angel looking over all of us but especially you and your family.
Goodby Dr Holland, gone but never forgotten.
Mary Alvarez
June 21, 2007
Dear Aileen,
My prayers are with you and your family. I believe Dr. Holland has helped so many people, including me. I will never forget him. I feel fortunate to have known him, even if it was for a short period.
Angela
June 21, 2007
Dear Aileen,
I was deeply saddened to learn of Dr. Holland's passing. I didn't know Dr. Holland very long, but I found him to be a very caring and concerned man who helped me through a very difficult period. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will miss him.
Jonathan Hill
June 21, 2007
Aileen, Bronson and Marlon,
I feel pretty sad and I will miss him. I didn't really get the chance to get to know him, but he was my dad and I will always remember the times that we did share together, like when we went to Mt. Shasta.
Even though my dad is gone, I would still like to stay in contact with you and my two brothers. I hope to see you in July.
I love you Aileen.
From; Jonathan
Fred Henninger
June 21, 2007
Dear Aileen,
It was a shock to learn from my doctor of Jerry's passing. Our sympathy goes out to you and your boys. He has changed my life and will be missed! Our prayers are with you and the boys.
Saritha Prabhu
June 21, 2007
Aileen, We didn't know each other, but as a Clarksville resident, I saw you, Dr.Holland and your sons once in a while at Sango Elementary or at Mrs. Bogard's piano recitals. My impression was that you were a lovely family, and that Dr.Holland was a devoted father and wonderful family man. I was shocked to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to you and your sons, and I pray that you'll find the strength to cope with your loss.
Daniel Javier,MD
June 21, 2007
To Aileen, Bronson and Marlon,
I can still clearly remember when Jerry started private practice in Clarksville around the same time I did in Nashville in 1995. Jerry, Aileen and I first met making the rounds of drug-company sposored dinners to learn more about the new medications available. We have been friends since and I am still grateful for all the invitations I got to gatherings of good friends and family at their home in Clarksville. My son and I still remember the warm reception one time when we joined them for a Christmas day party and also got to now their two sons. Jerry and Aileen also helped me start my solo practice four years ago. My memory of Jerry will always be the cool, calm and caring physician, father and friend that he is. I am deeply saddened for the lost of a great person and I am so sorry for your loss.
Catherine Pittman
June 21, 2007
I was incredably saddened to learn of the passing of Dr. Holland. He was an awesome doctor and I never felt like just a patient to him. He was always willing to listen and never pushed hurry through an appointment when he was busy and helped me in so many ways.
My heart goes out to the entire family. Aileen, you have a beautiful family and if your son's have half of the pesonality and caring as Dr. Holland did they will be great children and possibly great doctors as well. You are all in my prayers.
Lynn Spire
June 21, 2007
Dear Aileen;
There are no words to correctly convey my deep sorrow for you & your families sudden loss. The shock & sorrow I felt yesterday when I showed up for my appointment only to have you inform me of Dr. Holland's untimely death was so profound and can only be but a fraction of what you are experiencing.
I have been a patient of Dr. Holland's for just over a year. He made me feel like an equal & never once did I feel that he thought of himself as being superior to me or anyone else. With getting a correct diagnosis by Dr. Holland just this March, after 20+ years of being treated for depression, was such a relief. I feel better now than I have in a very, very long time thanks to him. His genuine compassion and empathy was refreshing and I feel will never be matched.
Aileen you too made me feel so welcome and cared for. I loved talking to you as much as talking to Dr. Holland whether it was about my disorder or getting a reference to a day spa! I will miss you both so much.
You & your boys have been in my prayers these past 2 days & will continue to be in my prayers for a long time.
Sincerely,
Lynn Spire
Mary Litt
June 21, 2007
Aileen,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I was so saddened to hear of Dr. Holland passing away. He was a blessing for me and I will miss his guidance, expertise & sense of humor. His eyes had that way of twinkling when he said something funny and he could make any situation bearable. God Bless you and your sons.
Abrahamm Carney
June 21, 2007
Aileen and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. He was one of the only people that really helped me. He was a great guy and I will always remember him.
JoAnn Dudek
June 21, 2007
Dear Aileen:
I am so very sorry to hear about Doctor Holland's untimely death. As a rep, it was clear to me that his warmth was something he shared with all of us, regardless of whether a pharmaceutical representative or a patient. His smile will remain with me, and I will keep all of you in my prayers.
JoAnn Dudek
Anthem
Linda Calderone
June 20, 2007
To Dr. Holland's family: I never met Dr. Holland, and it saddens me that I let that opportunity pass by. I am a therapist in Goodyear, and I have had so many clients talk about Dr. Holland. I very often hear clients say their psychiatrist doesn't really listen to them, but the stories were completely positive when it came to Dr. Holland. I learned recently, in talking with one of my clients who was also his patient, that Dr. Holland had recommended me to his patients. I feel as if we had a very positive professional relationship, both working with some of the same patients/clients, both in Goodyear, but never having met each other. I can't thank him for the referrals or let him know what a positive impact he made on my clients, but I hope his wife and children find some solace in knowing he has touched even people like myself who he never met. My deepest condolences on your loss.
Bob Murrieta
June 20, 2007
Aileen & Sons
Our deepest condolences.
Shannon and I are very saddened to hear of Dr. Hollands pasting.
Our thoughs and prayers are with you.
God Bless
Terry Siddall
June 20, 2007
Aileen, my prayers go out to you and your family. I will truly miss your husband for all the help he gave me.
Stephen/ Marguerite Fersch
June 20, 2007
Such a geat tragedy that Dr. Holland has been taken from his family and from us. We all will miss him both personally and professionally.
Peg and Steve Fersch
Marianne Williams
June 20, 2007
I was very shocked and saddend by the news of Dr. Holland's passing. Your husband was the best of the best when it came to his work. He came into my life not by choice at first, but became one of my friends forever. I just wanted you to know how much he has help me and a lot of my friends by just being there, listening and always having the right answer or way of making things right again. He was already missed by this community and now he will be missed even more. Please know in your heart that you and your sons are blessed to have had this man in your life. My prayers are with you.
Elsa O'Buckley
June 20, 2007
Dear Holland Family, We are sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that your family is in our hearts and we wish you strength, peace and love during this time. - Mrs. Elsa O'Buckley, Westar Elementary School.
Dalynne Nyiri
June 20, 2007
Aileen and boys:
Thank you for the link. What a wonderful way for those of us he touched to pay tribute to him. Dr. Holland will be so very missed by myself and our family. My feelings are echoed over and over again by others signing this beautiful guest book. There has never been a doctor as kind, patient, sincere and willing to listen as your husband. He had a unique way of making each one of his patients feel special. He will be missed beyond words...All our love and prayers..The Nyiri's
Doug Wiseman
June 20, 2007
To the family of the "doc",the man who in my words was a blessing for me and my family. We are truly sorry about the sudden tragic loss.
The "doc", as I have call him many times, was the first doctor who I truly trusted in my lifetime.
Laura Cluff
June 19, 2007
Dear Aileen and boys,
Dr. Holland was the best doctor around. He had such a peaceful and kind personality. I know from personal experience how he changed peoples lives for the better because I was one he changed. I was so sad to hear that he passed away. Bless your family at this time and know that Dr. Holland will be deeply missed.
Christopher O'Shana
June 19, 2007
Ma'am,
I would like to express for my family and I our deepest and most heart felt condolences. The GOOD DOCTOR will truly be missed by you and your as well as by the community he served. My wife and I understand sudden losses and the is part of the reason I had seen the DOCTOR. He was truly an exceptional man, I wish that I could have seen him longer. I hope you and your family stay strong. Remember he is in a place of peace and happiness. Always keep him in your heart he will be watching over you when you need him the most. If in doubt watch CITY OF ANGLES and you will remember "THOSE" times that matter the most.
P.S. ROGER, that MA'AM
Donna Byrd
June 19, 2007
Aileen, family, and friends,
Each of us has been touched in various ways by Dr. Jerry
Holland. We have each been blessed. As for
Dr.Holland, “Neither fire nor wind, birth not death can erase your good deeds”.
Suzie Jackson
June 19, 2007
I'm still in shock as I only had my 1st appointment with Dr. Holland 4 weeks ago. I left the appointment calling my kids and friends with ADD telling them about this amazing man I had just met who in 30 min. listened, shared his extreme knowledge of medication and made major changes to mine (which I had reluctantly been unable to accept in the past) I was so excited to come into the office on the 20th and tell him what our appointment had meant to me. I now have to refocus and send those words upward to your angel. I hope you find comfort in what your husband and father meant to the world and even his NEW patients. The medical profession has lost one of it's BEST!
Richard Byrd
June 19, 2007
Aileen,
My wife and I were stunned to learn of Dr. Holland’s death. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I was a patient of Dr. Holland’s Clarksville practice. The guest book is a testament to his impact on those with whom he came in contact. It was a privilege to have known him.
Vicki Schmidt
June 19, 2007
Aileen,
It is with a heavy heart that I write this message. My sincere condolences to you and the family. As one of Dr. Holland’s reps, I truly enjoyed calling on him and looked forward to his interesting conversation. He was an amazing intellect with true compassion and understanding for his patients. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tim Wheeler
June 19, 2007
Dear Aileen, My deepest heartfelt condolences to you and your family. My first visit to see Jerry was on the same day that my wife passed away. As difficult as it was for me to keep my appointment, I knew my wife would not have wanted for me to miss it so I went anyway. Jerry is the kindest man I have ever met and I will miss him. He helped me to feel a since of inner peace about myself since my wife died. Dr. Holland was a great asset to his profession. I sincerely hope that Dr. Holland and my wife Renee cross paths in heaven just so she can see what a wonderful person I had for a Doctor.
God Bless You Aileen & Family through this difficult time.
Wayne Yee
June 19, 2007
Aileen,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry and I were schoolmates growing up in Fairfield, CA. It was a real pleasure meeting you and getting requainted with Jerry at our 30-year Reunion.
I remeber Jerry as being shy (like a lot us!), but also being very intelligent, friendly, funny, and musically gifted.
I marvelled at his talent as a pianist. One poignant memory was watching him perform "Rhapsody In Blue" in concert.
I am truly a better person having known Jerry.
April & Scott Wakeford
June 19, 2007
Aileen Holland and Family: We really feel sad that Dr.Holland is not here with us.What a kind thoughtful person.He is missed.
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