1944 - 2025
1944 - 2025
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1944
2025
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Timothy E. O'Grady
May 17, 2025
I just learned of Tom´s passing. Tom and I worked together in Philadelphia for several years. Tom was enormously smart and had a wonderful cheerful and optimistic persona, which is reflected very well in his photo, shown on his Memorial page. Tom had an enormous heart and was a loyal friend. I´ll never forget him. Tom´s memory lives on through the next generation of Meisses, just beginning. "Death does not have the final word."
Tim O'Grady

Penny Pensyl Benson
May 2, 2025
Thank you for taking a chance and hiring a crazy 18 year old kid at PNB all those years ago. You've been a boss, a mentor, a friend, a great person to laugh with or a shoulder to cry on when needed, but most importantly, you were like family. Love and miss you so much. thank you for being a big part of my life.
Maryanne Hood
April 29, 2025
Many of us here in Punta Gorda/Port Charlotte Florida have fond memories of Tom. We are the NY Giants Fan Club!!! He kept in touch even from the LifeCare Center. And he never missed a beat on the Giants performance (we will leave that definition up to y'all!!) He sure was proud of his family and always spoke of you with love. We all send our condolences on your loss.
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Barb Stone
April 24, 2025
The emptiness felt in our hearts will linger. His smile at Rolls Landing will not be forgotten. Polite and classy. Rest Tom.
Sadly the family will feel the void and pain.
Nancy Passer
April 23, 2025
Thank you Sue for the beautiful memories of you Dad. I will always remember vacation with Tom in North Carolina. We had so much fun when working in the kitchen together especially when cleaning up after meals. We really were "birds of a feather." God bless you, Todd, Riley, Madison and Thomas and his family. Much love always, Nama
Gail Ruperd
April 23, 2025
Prayers for the family. Tom was a great guy. We was well loved by Rolls Landing. We were sad to hear of his passing.
Gail Ruperd
Scott Toner
April 22, 2025
Tom was my Dads neighbor, Hugh Toner in 221. He was patient and would look out for my Dad. Tom will be missed.
Allison Ostern
April 22, 2025
Big T!! I loved him so much! XO Allison


Allison Ostern
April 22, 2025
Grandpa T or " Big T" will remain in my heart and memory forever. My family enjoyed many wonderful beach vacations in NC with Tom and he was always at the center of all the fun. I loved him so much. His loss will be felt by many. Thinking of Sue, Todd, Riley, Madison, Thomas, Jen, Brooklyn & Ella with love. XO Allison Ostern
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