Gordon Joseph Hoffman

Gordon Joseph Hoffman obituary, Albuquerque, NM

Gordon Joseph Hoffman

Gordon Hoffman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 6 to Dec. 11, 2012.
Gordon Joseph Hoffman, 82, died Dec. 3, 2012 in Albuquerque. He was born, the second twin, on June 6, 1930 to Bruno A. Hoffman and Anna Angeline (Karels) Hoffman. Gordy spent his early life on the family farm in Rosen, Minn. At age 13 as a freshman, he entered Nazareth Hall Minor Seminary in the Twin Cities, and following graduation from Naz Hall attended the St. Paul Seminary. After completing eight years of college and post-graduate education, he was ordained to the Roman Catholic Priesthood in June of 1956.
He served eight years at St. Francis de Sales German National Parish in the West 7th Street neighborhood of St. Paul. In 1964, he was transferred to St. Joseph Church in Hopkins, Minn. where he was assigned until 1968. "Crazy Gordy" leaves legions of friends in both parishes. He was known for initiating fun activities for seniors, youth, and other parish members, most famously hay rides, picnics, canoe and ski trips. His love of sports, athletic activities, and physical fitness was legendary, at every opportunity playing hockey on Twin Cities neighborhood rinks and handball with St. Paul police and firemen.
Gordy's decision to leave the active ministry led him to study Spanish at the American University in Puerto Rico and to participate in the pastoral chaplaincy program at Ft. Logan in Denver, Colo. Acting on a suggestion from his colleague and good friend Jack Dolan, he entered Adams State College in Alamosa, Colo., to pursue a master's degree in Guidance and Counseling. It was there that he met his future wife Wendy Rawson. After their 1971 graduation, they were married March 4, 1972, celebrating their 40th anniversary earlier this year. Gordy and Wendy were blessed with not only their two children Nicholas Joseph and Angela Eileen, but with their many friends who became a whole family of "extra kids" at Hoffman House.
He accepted a position as guidance counselor at Los Alamos High School in 1971 and retired in 1997 after 26 years of service. He then obtained his realtor's license, with many of his sales being to former students who continued to seek his assistance whatever profession he might be practicing. He cherished his association with Mary Deal Realty and the Deal family who he considered among his dearest friends.
Gordy leaves a legacy of love and inspiration far too extensive to detail, but he will always be known for his dedication to physical fitness, for his soccer and hockey coaching philosophy of making sure the kids had fun while developing skills, and for his own active lifestyle and love of the outdoors. Throughout his life, he remained an active supporter of Laketrails canoe base camp on Lake of the Woods, having attended its 60th reunion in August. He played his last hockey game at 73 and never gave up his passion for the sport he loved most, to the extent of building - in his garage - a whole set of new boards for the Los Alamos Ice Rink in the days when the rink was powered by volunteer labor. When Nick and Angela were playing varsity collegiate sports, he spent hours arranging flights or road trips to their games, and through these travels, he and Wendy gained yet another family of young teammates, many of whom have remained lifelong friends. Most of all, Gordy will be remembered as someone that inspired instant affection from those with whom he interacted. He never met a stranger, forgave easily, loved deeply, and lived life to its absolute fullest. He was truly larger than life.
He is survived by his wife of 40 years and his children Nick (Dr. Peggy C. MacLean Hoffman) and Angela (Dr. Marcos J. Gutierrez). Gordy considered his son- and daughter-in-law to be his own children, and he adored the three grandsons they gave him: James Gordon and Joseph Marcos Gutierrez, and Camden Joseph Hoffman. He is also survived by his twin brother Maurice M. (Agnes) Hoffman and his sister Kathleen (Gene) Wolfe as well as numerous nieces and nephews. He was a member of a very large Minnesota extended family, so he also leaves countless cousins and their families who loved him dearly. Also left behind are his "co-padres" George and Denise MacLean and Marcie and George McClaflin, his "extra" daughters-in-law Nancy MacLean Davidson and Jenna Lapaglia, and his very special friend and helper Joe Chavez.
Gordy was predeceased by his parents, his parents-in-law H.T. and Mary Eileen Rawson, brothers Roland and Richard Hoffman, sisters Regina Hoffman Collins and Eveleth Hoffman Rowe, brothers-in-law Robert Collins and Dan Rowe, plus one feline and seven beloved canine best friends.
Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11:00 a.m. Dec. 10, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church. For those wishing to memorialize Gordy, the family suggests donations to Laketrails Base Camp, 17843 Riverwood Drive, Little Falls, MN 56345 or online at laketrails.org; Espanola Animal Shelter, 108 Hamm Parkway, Espanola, NM 87532 or online at evalleyshelter.org; or the Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church Christian Concern Committee, 3700 Canyon Road, Los Alamos, NM 87544. He is being cared for at French Mortuary in Albuquerque.

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April 6, 2017

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January 4, 2013

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January 2, 2013

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Paula Dupre

April 6, 2017

Wendy, I was thinking of you and Gordy the other day and decided to look you up. I am sad to hear of Gordy's death. I don't know if you remember me, but we took chemistry together at night at Los Alamos, when you were still dating. I used to spend the night with you guys sometimes. May God bless you always, your friend, Paula (Richey) Dupre

Sally Hoffman

January 4, 2013

Wendy,
Even though I moved away, now and then I check the Monitor. Just now I read the sad news about your husband. I felt a special "kinship" because of our last names. It was always a pleasure to speak with both/either of you. I am so sorry.

Dale Ulland

January 2, 2013

Dear Wendy, Nick and Angela: Was just looking at the Los Alamos Monitor (a nostalgic thing I regularly do with the other papers I've worked at) and came across this sad news. Wendy, I treasure our three years working together, side by side, and how you mentored me -- and how fondly you spoke of Gordon and your children. And how you recounted his love of, and skill at, ice hockey. Little did I know then that Celeste's and my future son, Tanner, now 17, would be so passionate about a game I had no interest in but absolutely love now. Celeste and I also have a 15-year-old daughter, Cali. You and your family are in our prayers and thoughts. And Gordy is a man who influenced and affected so many lives. Take care, and peace and love to you and yours.

December 26, 2012

Dear Wendy, Angela, Nick, and family,

I was so sorry to learn of your loss. Gordon was a wonderfully loving, caring person whom we will all miss. He was a gentle, generous source of personal support when Jack died, for which I will always be grateful.
You are all in our prayers.
Love,
Sharon and Bill Eklund and Hannah and Alyssa

Michael Conner

December 20, 2012

I was one of the older kids at St. Joseph's School in Hopkins Mn. when Fr. Hoffman came in and energized the whole place! He was the coolest priest ever, tooling around in his black Karmann Ghia. I always wondered where he'd gone to and was glad to find out he'd touched so many lives after leaving St. Joe's.

He really was a charismatic guy back in the day. RIP, Gordy Hoffman, and condolences to his family and friends.

Jim & Jenny Sprinkle

December 19, 2012

We are sorry to hear about your loss - I remember Gordy at those Tuesday night 'fun runs', 'walking the dogs' on his bicycle (at least once) and his endless endeavors around the back yard, even one with a chainsaw in trees. He certainly lived life fully and energized those around him. We are better for having known him. May God bless.

December 13, 2012

Dear Wendy, Nick and Angela,
I am so sorry for your great loss and for the depth of the grief you are feeling with Gordy's passing. I have been reading the messages left on this site, and can see what a wonderful person he was, not just to you, his beloved family, but to a wide community of friends. We continue to remember all of you in our prayers. Love from, Linda and Dale.

Manuel and Prescilla Vigil

December 12, 2012

Hoffman Family,
We were very sorry to hear about Gordon's passing. We will continue to pray for your healing. God bless you all during this difficult time.

Vic and Mary Dalla Betta

December 11, 2012

Dear Wendy, Nick and Angela,
Mary and I were greatly saddened when we heard of the passing of Gordon. What a great father, grandfather, husband, colleague and friend. He was such a supportive, encouraging and positive role model to all those who knew and worked with him. His love of sports, especially soccer and hockey, was legendary--biking was also another super feat I will never forget. All that was secondary to his love of family and all who knews him. I am certainly grateful for his guidance and friendship all those years at Los Alamos High School. His ability to provide assistance to students, friends and family at just the right time was a amazing gift and extremely unique. He will be missed by all those who knew him; we are the fortunate ones for his continuing presence in our lives.
With sincere regards and sympathy, Vic and Mary Dalla Betta and family
Bozeman, Montana

Larry and Shirley Jeffryes

December 10, 2012

Out daughter, Amanda, describes Gordon and Wendy as her second parents. We are grateful for your support of her and the others that invaded your home from time to time - all the time. Shirley and I are sorry to hear of Gordy's passing and our thoughts and prayers are with the Hoffman family - the extended family as well.

Kathy McEachern

December 10, 2012

Dear Wendy, Nick, and Angela Sending my deepest, heartfelt sympathy to you at this most difficult, sad time. I didn't know Gordy very well, but I certainly remember the kind, gentle soul I met when you were here. You two, I remember thinking, were so good together, and obviously so happy. Please know, our hearts are with you, and our prayers for all you will need to get you through this hard time. Much love,from Kathy, and all the McEachern family in Canada

Liz and Larry Cloutman

December 10, 2012

Dear Wendy, Nick and Angela and family,

We moved away from Los Alamos a very long time ago (1986), but have never forgotten the Hoffman family. Gordon was such a wonderful, kind, warm man who will be missed greatly by everyone who knew him.

Our son David, who now lives and works in San Francisco,grew up with Nick in his Pinon classes (perhaps even in pre-school and in the Y's infant swimming class, as well!) and in their Cub/Boy Scout troop at Pinon. David remains in touch with Nick through Facebook all these years later.

I knew Gordy not only from our lives in White Rick, but also when I was working as an aide in the English Department at Los Alamos High School in the mid-1980s, when he was the guidance counselor there.

Larry and I are now retired and living in our old college town of Lawrence, KS (University of Kansas Jayhawks.) Wendy, I see from what I have found on the Internet that you are retired from your job at LAMC.

Please know you are in our prayers as you grieve the loss of a very special husband, father, and grandfather. I just wish we were able to attend his memorial sevice today. You will certainly be in our thoughts and prayers.

Kristina Arko

December 9, 2012

Dear Wendy,
Fondly remembering Gordon and extending my deepest sympathy to your whole family. May he rest in peace.
Kristina Arko (former neighbor on Yosemite)

Sandy Podley

December 8, 2012

Dear Wendy and Family, I hold you in my thoughts and prayers at this time of such incredible loss.

December 8, 2012

To Wendy and Family, my late husband always spoke highly of and admired Gordy. I knew of his kindness love of life through him. Both worked for Los Alamos Schools. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Joanne Rader, Albuquerque

Leonard Schwartz

December 8, 2012

Gordy was loved and respected by everyone who knew him in our parish. His aggressive hockey playing style is still legendary. He was the best.

Amy Harrison

December 8, 2012

I am deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. He always made me smile, and feel welcome and at peace in his presence. I know his Spirit will live on through the numerous family, friends, and loved ones so blessed to have shared in his life. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Tom Christofferson

December 7, 2012

Dear Wendy, Nick, and Angela,
It was with a sad heart I received news of Gordy's passing. As a colleague and friend for over 30 years, he gave me so much personally and professionally. He was much more than a friend. Gordon was both coach and mentor to my son, Justin, one of those adopted members of the Hoffman family. Gordy instilled a love of hockey in Justin that lasted through college. Gordy would probably be proud that today Justin races bicycles. I will cherish the memory of playing pool with Gordon at the Ehart Center on one of my last visits to Los Alamos. I don't think I've encountered many people in my life with a purer heart and a greater love of life than Gordy.

Don & Rose (Dale) Strei

December 7, 2012

We extend our sincere wishes for peace, and of love, to the family of "Gordy" with whom we grew up at Rosen, Minnesota. I also went to Nazareth Hall at the same time, and admired Fr.Gordon in his work as a parish priest. We always looked up to him as a fine role model, and talked to him last in St Paul at his sister, Evie's, memorial service.

Rebecca Hamilton Ihde

December 7, 2012

Wendy, Nick & Angela...Gordon was blessed to have touched so many lives in his lifetime. You can really truly say he lived life to the fullest and enjoyed every moment. He will be missed. My prayers to you and your family through this difficult time and always!!

Nicole Algarra (Chavez)

December 7, 2012

Dear Nick & Angela, Your dad was one of the greatest men to ever grace God's green earth! He was so fun to be around; he just blended in as one of us kids! I feel so blessed to have known him! God bless you, your mom & all Gordy's loved ones during this time. I know the Great White Bear is shining down upon us from heaven! Much love! ~Nicole, Jeff & Teagan Algarra

the Sheffield family

December 6, 2012

Your family has always given so much to our community, please accept our prayers to give you strength at this time. God Bless you!

nancy eckerson

December 6, 2012

gordie was a very special person. i will remember his quiet way and love of nature and of life. wendy, nick and angela - my thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 6, 2012

Gordy was a great guy - the best

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