H.M. "Jack" Trayer

H.M. "Jack" Trayer

H.M. Trayer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 3, 2006.
BRISTOL, Va. – Herbert Malcolm "Jack" Trayer, age 97, passed away on Saturday, April 1, 2006, at his home.
He was born in Daves, W.Va., in 1909, to the late Charles H. and Georgia Toney Trayer, and was raised in Pounding Mill.
He moved to Bristol in 1927 to begin a successful career of entrepreneurship in the restaurant-hospitality and food service industries. Jack's name was on many of Bristol's best known restaurants including Trayer's and Trayer's Too, but Jack will be best remembered for his support and service to the Bristol community and the Commonwealth of Virginia.
Red, White and Blue Bar-B-Que was Trayer's first restaurant in Bristol and opened in 1927 on Moore Street. Jack continued his long business career after valiant service in the U.S. Navy. He partnered with Homer Jones and Morris Ross to build the first Holiday Inn in Bristol in 1958. Later, he partnered with Carl Moore and Homer Jones to develop other hotels in Bristol, Johnson City, Kingsport, Greeneville and Marion. Jack also developed a chain of grocery stores called Trayer's Food Shop.
Jack was a former president of the Virginia Restaurant Association and in that role led the 1960s fight for racial integration on a state level. Jack served Govs. Robb, Baliles and Wilder as a member of the Governor's Council on Tourism. In this role, Jack often represented Bristol and Southwest Virginia internationally.
Jack was a generous supporter of a multitude of community organizations, including the March of Dimes, the YMCA, Bristol Ballet, Girls, Incorporated and Barter Theatre. Jack conceived the idea of the Community Christmas Dinner held at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, now in its 25th year.
Jack was a strong supporter of the region's colleges. In the late '40s, he made a pledge to then Sullins College, followed by an endowment at King College and led restoration of the Virginia Intermont College performing arts theatre.
He was long-time member and supporter of the Rotary Club of Bristol, was a Rotary International Paul Harris Fellow and sponsored the Annual Rotary Christmas Luncheon for many years.
In 1992, Trayer was inducted by the Bristol Regional Medical Center Foundation into the Citizen Hall of Fame, recognizing his being a "great champion of our community."
He is survived by his loving wife, Loretta; sisters, Louise Morgan and Peggy Trayer of Abingdon; daughter, Barbara Trayer of Clearwater, Fla.; grandchildren, John Michael and wife Helen of Clearwater, Carolyn Musselman and her husband Don of Tampa, Fla., and Julie Byrd and her husband Bill of Tampa; and five great-grandchildren.
The family recognized with grateful appreciation Jack's special caregivers, Faye Roark, Patty Wright, Deborah Gunning, Otis Murphy, Darlene Ramsey and Ann Roark.
A funeral Mass will be conducted at 11 o'clock Thursday morning, April 6, 2006, at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, 700 Cumberland St., Bristol, Va., with the Rev. Dr. Paul Hamilton Fuller IV officiating.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to the Emmanuel Episcopal Church for the Organ Fund or the Community Christmas Dinner. Condolences and memories may be shared with the family by visiting www.oakley-cook.com.
Mr. Trayer and his family are in the care of Oakley-Cook Funeral Home and Crematory, 2223 Volunteer Parkway, Bristol, Tenn.; (423) 764-7123.

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April 15, 2006

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April 6, 2006

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April 5, 2006

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Ann Brewer

April 15, 2006

Babs, you were the most loving caring daughter you could possibly be. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family for the loss of Jack - he was truly a very memorable person!

Ann and Bill

Tri Cities Realty

April 6, 2006

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Karen Cox, Jim Warren, Sherri Seymour, Chris Ketron and Dee Kowalski Tri Cities Realty

Albert Moretz

April 5, 2006

With Deepest Sympathies,

Roger Webster

April 5, 2006

My deepest heartfelt sympathy to the Trayer family. Jack touched so many in his kindness and service to the Bristol community. We all are better people for having his life shared with us. Jack personally instilled in me a hunger to always succeed in life while always being sensitive to the welfare of other people. Jack will always be with me.



God Bless

Teresa Fannon

April 4, 2006

Trayer Family,

So sorry to learn of Mr. Trayer's passing--His business success in this area has been an inspiration to many and his contributions to the community have benefited countless lives

Aileen Sells

April 4, 2006

Loretta,



At times like this it's difficult to find a way to express the feelings within my heart, but may it comfort you in knowing that you have so many friends who sympathize with you and share in your grief.

Robert Wells

April 3, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the Trayer family. I knew him and his family very well when my father Wesley worked for him during the 50's thru 60's.

May God be with the family.

Mitchell Don Sutherland

April 3, 2006

Loretta and family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Jack lived a long and hearty life. He will be remembered by many for all his achievements in his time here on earth.

My best to you and your mother at this time of sorrow.



Don Sutherland

Cardington, Ohio

Madeline (Owens) Kerr

April 3, 2006

Loretta, Marie and Other Family members, Our sypathies are with all of you. If we can be of any help, don't hesitate to call on us.

Madeline and Earl

Norma Ward

April 3, 2006

Loretta and Family,

May God wrap you in the shelter of his arms and give you the comfort that only he can. My prayers are with you......

Rock'N Roll Realty LLC

CINDY ELLER-VAUGHN

April 3, 2006

I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR OF MR. TRAYERS PASSING. MAY GOD BLESS AND BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF GRIEF.

Jerry Bruce

April 3, 2006

I am sorry for your loss. My prayers will be with you.

Jan Hoffman

April 3, 2006

You will be in my thoughts & prayers.

Martha, Fred & Chuck Ryan

April 3, 2006

You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Richard Norris

April 3, 2006

Hello I am sorry for your loss , I believe I met mr. Trayer a few times at duff's when I worked there . I did love work at duff's though . I miss it but I also like the bank that is there now also . You all are in my prayers .

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