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Diane Pelkey
January 7, 2025
She taught the Bible study I was in...we had so much fun as we were learning together.
Laura Havens
October 22, 2024
Awaiting our sweet reunion at the foot of Jesus, along with Kim and others whose lives she so bountifully blessed.
Kathy Pabis
October 21, 2023
Can´t believe it will be 4 years since you left us. Warren continues to ensure Kimmie is being taken good care of. Dan, Kayla and I have continued to help out with Kimmie and maintaining the house for Warren. You can relate to this, Warrens is a handful, lol. We all miss you, but know you´re in a much better place than us.
Laura Havens
October 20, 2023
Often recall all the times I watched Joan be Jesus with skin on to her church community and her volunteer efforts on many fronts. She loved life and all living beings. She had a special place in her heart for anyone hurting, especially those with a lifetime of struggles in learning how to navigate loss and pain. Will always be someone I want to emulate.
Laura Havens
November 10, 2022
When I thank the Lord for family and friends, Joan is always on my mind. Every time my Adult Fellowship class at church recognizes the Gideons (we have several men and women involved here in GA) I can see Joan and her sweet face. So blessed to serve with her and to share happy times with family. Kim was a delight to teach in Sunday School. Blessings to the Darby's.
Kathy Pabis
October 20, 2020
Its been almost a year since you left us Joan. Warren has kept his promise and is taking good care of Kimmie for you. We all are helping out as much as we can. You are forever missed and loved.
The Pabis Family

Carrie Dashnaw
September 30, 2020
Laura Havens
November 3, 2019
Warren and Kim: Joan is always in my heart. Praying God's unfailing love keeps you safe in His arms and the fond memories of Joan bring you many peaceful moments during your journey in the valley. I loved her like a sister and enjoyed the times I spent with all of you. Kim, I think of you often and the smile you always put on my face. Warren, you were Joan's best friend and husband in every sense of the word. Laura Havens
David O'Connor
November 2, 2019
Warren and Kim, Am so sorry to learn of the passing of Joan. I remember how she looked forward to the hot dogs at the National Night Out picnic that Neighborhood Watch of CNY held each August. Joan was so caring and just a sweet lady.
Franie Patnode
November 1, 2019
Warren,So sorry to hear the passing of your wife.My prayers are with you and your family.May she rest in peace,Sincerely,Franie
Dean and Ruth Woodard
October 31, 2019
Our heartfelt sympathy to you, Warren and Kim. Joan is now healed and praising the Savior she loved so much , but will be greatly missed here on earth. Joan served so faithfully and unselfishly. She truly was loved by all who knew her. Our prayers continue for you in the days/weeks and months to come.
Matthew Sills
October 31, 2019
Im very sorry for your loss. You and your family have my deepest condolences.
Jarvis Saunders
October 31, 2019
I am truly sorry to hear of Mrs Darby's passing. I did not know her well however, I know her Husband Warren. My prayers are with her, Warren and their family.
October 31, 2019
We are so sorry to hear of Joan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Ed and Judie O'Donnell
October 31, 2019
Our condolences and Hugs to you & yours ,She was a Grand lady an will truly missed.Gain Peace in your memories Cecelia Barret & Family / CVFD
October 31, 2019
Warren, As you well know, Joan was the most gentle, caring, humble, genuine women around. I wish I could have even a bit of those qualities and carry myself as she did. What a lovely woman Heaven has gained. I know you will find peace through the sorrow because God decides when He wants us back. We are all grateful for the time He loaned her to us. Bless you and Kimmie!
Lisa Andrianos
Wendy Jacuk
October 30, 2019
Warren - So sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this very hard time. Jay and Wendy Jacuk
Ann Shaw
October 30, 2019
Warren .. sending you and the family our deepest condolences. May you find peace in this difficult time
Alexander Eller
October 29, 2019
Warren:
I'm so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Sending thoughts and prayers.
Alice Yavorsky
October 29, 2019
Warren and Kim-- I'm so sorry for your loss of Joan. May God bless you and hold & heal your hearts. Joan was a treasured friend for 50 years, even all the way across the country. She was a light in my life, and especially when our son was dying. She will always be a light to all of us that knew her.
Jim Joy
October 29, 2019
Warren, my deepest condolences on the loss of Joan. God Bless.
Joy Davis Gould
October 28, 2019
Warren and Kim - So sorry for your loss of Joan. I have so many great memories of our years at The King's College and then at Columbia Nursing School. Joan is now safely home with her Lord and Savior.
October 28, 2019
Warren, I am so sorry for your loss.
Jacqueline Belfort-Chalat
Roger & Vicki Baker
October 28, 2019
Warren & Family,
Our deepest sympathy on your loss. May she rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Cheryl Jantzi
October 28, 2019
Warren, I'm so sorry to hear of Joan's passing. She was a wonderful person and took me under her wing and always showed such love and kindness. I know she is now in the presence of her Savior. I'm praying for your comfort in this difficult time.
Nick Pirro
October 28, 2019
Warren and Kim,
Patti and Nick send our sympathy on Joan's passing. She is now in Gods hands,having done so much to make this Community a better place for all.
John and Kelly Ball
October 28, 2019
Warren: Kelly and I are saddened to hear of Joan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Kim. God has blessed her and will continue to do so.
Dana, Kathi, Michael and Amy Jonas
October 28, 2019
Warren and Kim: We mourn with you at the passing of Joan but also rejoice that she is now with her Lord and Savior Jesus! Praying for God's comfort through this difficult time.
Joseph King
October 28, 2019
Warren and Kim, God Bless you both at this difficult time. Joan was an amazing person, mother and wife. The times I spent with you all laughing, fishing and sharing a meal through friendship will never be forgotten. May she rest in peace with our Dearest Lord Jesus Christ and his everlasting kingdom.
Joe and Matthew King
Bonnie Novak
October 27, 2019
Our prayers and hugs for Warren and the family.
--Karl & Bonnie Novak
John and Roe Capria
October 27, 2019
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rick&Susan Rioux
October 27, 2019
Warren we are so sorry to hear of Joan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this sad and difficult time.
Mike & Betty Agaliotis
October 27, 2019
Warren and Kim so very sorry for your loss you are in are thoughts and prayers
Gail and John Loucks
October 27, 2019
Warren, we are so sorry for your loss. She will be missed. So glad we got to see you this summer.
October 27, 2019
Warren and Kim so very sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.Joan was always so gracious and fun loving .We will never forget.We always had fun on the river and she knew how to cook up those fish ,our condolences. Monica,Kevin,Lillian,Jeremy,Lea,Kraig,Krista,Kelly and Kraig Daily. Arizona and New York
Marilyn and David Dominick
October 27, 2019
To Warren and family - We praying for comfort for you as you cherish the memories of Joan's well spent life. Her impact is of eternal significance in the lives of all the people she touched while here on earth. Now, she stands face to face with Jesus, her Lord and Savior! She's well and so happy! May God bless you as you walk through this challenging time.
Ron & Mina West
October 27, 2019
Warren. We are so surprised to hear of Joan's death. Know we have not seen you for quite some time but we both have lots of fond memories spent with the two of you and the girls. Our love and prayers to you and the family.
Beth & Paul Smith
October 27, 2019
We are so saddened to hear about Joan's passing. She was such a beautiful woman inside and out. We are thinking of you at this most difficult time. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. Beth & Paul Smith and Family
Krista Klepacki
October 27, 2019
Warren and Kim , our deepest sympathy are with you at this time . Condolences from the Daily's in Arizona . We had many a great time at camp when we were kids. Joan was a very good cook . We will never forget . Love and prayers from the Daily's.
October 27, 2019
Warren and family, Sorry to hear of your families loss of Joan. Praying for you all.
Dennis Dwyer
Jon Battelle
October 27, 2019
Joan was a wonderful warm and passionate person. Her light in the world will surely be missed.
Tyesha Fambro
October 27, 2019
My deepest condolences to you and your family! My prayers are with you!
Timothy Christ
October 27, 2019
Warren, My deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Tom Lavere
October 27, 2019
Warren and family, So sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.
Doug Bailey
October 27, 2019
Warren and family. I am so sorry to hear of your loss my friend. You are in our prayers , may God bless Joan and your family.
Joe and Vici Rinefierd
October 27, 2019
Our most sincere condolences Darby and Kimberly. Let the love that held you close continue to bring you comfort and strength.
Frank Barrett
October 27, 2019
Warren and Family... Please accept my deepest condolences. Joan is now in the arms of the Lord. God bless you and comfort you during this most difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Michael Pollman
October 27, 2019
Very sad on your (our) loss of Joan. I wish I could be there but living in Tennessee now.
Deborah Spaulding-Gentile
October 27, 2019
Sending my deepest sympathies to all family and friends! Prayers to Warren and their daughter! *previous student at Onondaga Community College, also knew my dad Rick- Oswego County Sheriff Dept
Garry Luke
October 27, 2019
Rest in Peace, soar with the angels. My deep sympathies for the Darby family.
S/O Brian P. Cunningham Mid Hudson Psych
October 27, 2019
Darby family & friends. My deepest condolences for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers this evening.
Richard Lockwood
October 27, 2019
Sorry for your loss.

Lynda (Gorman) Wheeler
Lynda Wheeler
October 26, 2019
Warren & Family, I'm so saddened to hear the passing of Joan. My deepest sympathies to all of you.
John Slentz
October 26, 2019
Mr Darby and family. So sorry for your loss. Prayers to all.
S/O John Slentz Valley Ridge CIT
October 26, 2019
Dear Warren & Family.
So sorry to hear of Joan's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Monica Evans
S/O NAJIEB from KPC
October 26, 2019
Undersheriff Darby please accept my condolences for the passing of your dear wife. May she rest well and may G'd comfort you and your family at this time.
Dilima Alexander-drew
October 26, 2019
My deepest condolences to the Darby family, especially undersheriff Warren Darby. You spoke of her with such love that I felt like I knew her. Losing a life partner is the hardest, but be of good courage. The Lord whom you serve is able to see you through this time of grief. Lean on Him and His promises. Live in the hope of reuniting with her in the beyond. Jesus said "my peace I leave with you"...she would also want you to be at peace...love from SSO1 Dilima Alexander class of 2019-1
Daniel Pabis
October 26, 2019
Now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Please keep the guardian angel pin that I gave Joan.
Randy and Anita Liddle
October 26, 2019
Warren and family. So sorry for your loss. Our sincerest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rev. Joseph Morano
October 26, 2019
Warren my deepest sympathies to you and your daughter please except my condolences at this time of loss may God uphold you both & strengthen you as you go forward. Please rest in the knowledge and In the hope that you will see her Again one day as she is in glory.Although we mourn for her here on earth for our loss we can rejoice in the knowledge of knowing that she is in the presence of the almighty.May the Lord bless you And if there is anything I can do to help you in Anyway going forward please do not hesitate To ask.God bless you and your family.I pray that the Lord hold you in the palm of his hand While comforting, Strengthening And keeping you.
Frank Pena
October 26, 2019
Mr. Darby so sorry for your loss! You touched our hearts this past fall OMH Academy. May she rest in peace. Just know she is in a better place and no more suffering. On behalf of the past fall OMH academy we are with you and sends our deepest condolences.
Rick Nemier Nemier
October 26, 2019
Joan you are the strongest person I know love you
Jenniffer Rishe
October 26, 2019
So sorry for your loss, your in my prayers & thoughts.
John Douglass
October 26, 2019
Warren, Sorry to hear of your wife's passing. May you find comfort knowing she is in a better place, and watching over you. God Bless.
Thomas Allen
October 26, 2019
My condolences to your family Mr. Darby I pray you find peace
Kathy Pabis
October 26, 2019
Warren, words can't express how very sad we are. Praying for all of you that the good memories you have will see you through this very sad time. Know that we are here for you.
Dean Panarites
October 26, 2019
Warren .... My condolence to you and family
Dick Worden
October 26, 2019
Sorry for your loss Donna and I are thinking and praying for you and your family
Dave Fletcher
October 26, 2019
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Dave and Michelle Fletcher
Jim & Alexandria Hurley
October 26, 2019
we pray you and your family for the strength to get through this , our thoughts and prayers are with you ♥
The Fergerson Family
October 26, 2019
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
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