Joseph L. Darr M.D.

Joseph L. Darr M.D. obituary, Indian Wells, CA

Joseph L. Darr M.D.

Joseph Darr Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 14 to Dec. 20, 2014.
Joseph L. Darr, M.D. passed away at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles on October 31, surrounded by his family. A private funeral mass was held on November 13, at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church in La Quinta, followed by a Military Honors burial ceremony and 21-gun salute at Forest Lawn Mortuary in Palm Springs. Dr. Darr was a dedicated physician and highly-respected ophthalmologist, a decorated military officer and a trail-blazing community leader. He was a devoted family man and a dear friend to many. Above all, he was a man of devout faith who believed that his life's calling was in the healing service of others. Born on May 1, 1933 in the small town of Cumberland, Maryland, "Joe" came from sturdy Catholic roots that traced back to County Galway, Ireland. His parents enrolled him in St. Mary's Elementary where he would become one of the parish's most dedicated altar boys. In the first grade, Joe fell in love with Lois Nehring, a sweet but shy little girl, who dazzled him with her ability to play the piano and the violin. This same talented, kind-hearted girl would become his one-and-only bride in 1956, and would stand by his side for the next 58 years. Joe attended Cumberland's La Salle High School where he received a rigorous education from the Christian Brothers. Not only was he Vice President and Valedictorian of his senior class, but he was also voted Most Scholarly, Most Likely to Succeed, Best Dressed, Best Looking and Most Courteous. He was accepted into the pre-med program at La Salle University, in Philadelphia, PA, and attended medical school at the University of Maryland, in Baltimore. He and Lois dated long-distance while she majored in Music and Piano Performance at Ursuline-Bellarmine University in Louisville, KY. The two married after Joe's first year in medical school. Upon graduation in 1959, Joe was selected to serve in the Medical Internship Program with the U.S. Army Office of the Surgeon General, and he began his military career as a First Lieutenant at Madigan General Hospital at Ft. Lewis, WA. The following year he was promoted to Captain and commissioned to take part in the U.S. Naval Air Training Command Program in Pensacola, FL. There, he soloed the Navy T-28 aircraft, and was awarded his Navy "Wings of Gold" and a place in the 3rd Army's prestigious Special Services Medical Corps. As a Naval Flight Surgeon he was assigned to the "Screaming Eagles" squadron of the 101st Airborne Division out of Ft. Campbell, KY. He furthered his training at the School of Aerospace Medicine at Brooks Air Force Base, in TX. In 1963, Dr. Darr was offered a residency in the esteemed Ophthalmology program at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, D.C. As Chief Resident there, he studied ophthalmic pathology with the famed Dr. Lorenz Zimmerman at the Armed Forces Institute of Pathology and with Dr. Marshall M. Parks, "father of pediatric ophthalmology," at Johns Hopkins University. In 1966, Dr. Darr was assigned Chief of the Department of Ophthalmology at Tripler General Hospital in Honolulu, where his practice included performing extensive facial and ocular reconstructive surgery on wounded soldiers. As a Flight Surgeon, as well, he performed war-time duties in Vietnam for which he was awarded the Army Commendation Medal for Meritorious Service and the Army National Defense Service Medal. Promoted to Lt. Colonel in 1969, Dr. Darr returned to Walter Reed where he was named Asst. Chief of Ophthalmology. After receiving an Honorable Discharge from the Army, Dr. Darr left the military to pursue a career in private practice. An ardent scholar of U.S. history, especially that of the trail-blazing days of the "Old West," it was his dream to "stake claim" in the painted desert of Southern California's Coachella Valley. In 1972, he opened the first Darr Eye Clinic in Indio, CA adjacent to Indio Community Hospital (now John F. Kennedy Memorial Hospital). He served on the ICH medical staff for 20 years, six of which as a member of the Medical Executive Committee. In 1973, Dr. Darr became one of the first surgeons in the country to perform intraocular lens implantation in cataract surgery. As Chief of Staff at ICH from 1982 through 1984 - and as a concurrent member of the hospital Board of Directors - Dr. Darr was instrumental in restructuring by-laws and policies which resulted in heightened regulation of physician practices and quality assurance standards for the hospital. During this tenure, he also served as Chairman on the Administrative and Professional Activities Committees. He was on staff at Eisenhower Medical Center, as well. He expanded his practice in 1988 to open The Darr Eye Clinic Surgical Medical Group in Palm Desert. This facility was the first ophthalmologic ambulatory surgery center in the Coachella Valley and one of the first in Southern California to perform state-of-the-art procedures using the Argon and YAG laser technologies. The clinic was noted for Dr. Darr's expertise in the treatment of glaucoma and retinal disease, and for his ground-breaking use of phacoemulsification in cataract surgery. Dr. Darr established The Darr Eye Clinic Foundation for Sight, a charitable organization devoted to research and public education for the prevention of blindness. As part of this outreach, he wrote "As I See It," a weekly newspaper column which was featured in The Desert Sun. Dr. Darr was a Diplomate of the American Board of Ophthalmology and a Fellow of the American Academy of Ophthalmology. He was a member of the Academy of Ophthalmology and Otolaryngology, the American Association of Ophthalmology, the Society of Military Ophthalmologists and the American Intraocular Implant Society. Dr. Darr retired in 1999 after 40 years of practice. He received a heart transplant at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in 1997 and, upon his passing, was one of the longest surviving heart transplant recipients on record. "Joe" was known for his sense of humor and for his dapper sense of style. Friends and family were forever entertained by his ability to recite jokes and limericks on a whim, and by his talent for belting out Irish folk songs with baritone gusto. He was a prolific writer, a keen political cartoonist and a talented painter. He was a master at chess and played a mean hand of gin rummy. His favorite pastimes were playing golf, collecting Native American art and artifacts, and spending the summer months in Hawaii. Dr. Darr is survived by his beloved wife, Lois, his three children (Debbie Darr Postel, Lisa Darr Oliphant and Joseph "Jay" Darr, Jr.), two son-in-laws (Dr. Joachim Postel and Mr. Wesley Oliphant) and four grandchildren (Mackenzie Postel, Elise Oliphant, Krista Darr and Jesse Darr). The family asks that any tribute donations be made to the Heart Transplant Program at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center c/o Jon Kobashigawa, MD at (323) 866-7734, or to the Jules Stein Eye Institute at UCLA Ronald Reagan Medical Center c/o Allan Kreiger, MD at (310) 825-5477.

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June 14, 2015

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December 20, 2014

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December 18, 2014

Richard Pell posted to the memorial.

June 14, 2015

I was a good friend of Joe's when I worked at JFK Memorial many years ago. I recently had a retinal detachment and now have a cataract and I thought I should contact the best eye doctor I knew and tonight I googled his name and nearly fell out of my chair when the first google article was re Joe's death. Talk about being a day late and a dollar short. I never knew much about his most interesting background, namely his military record as I too have experienced some of the same things Joe did. Somehow that never came up in any of the many conversations I had with him. Too you, Lois, Joe was a superb all around human being. He was one of a kind and will be missed.
Carl W Carlson, MD, JD Col. USAF ret.
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bill plumhof

December 20, 2014

doctor saved my eye sight.
god be with him

Richard Pell

December 18, 2014

My condolences to the Darr family on the passing of Dr. Darr. God bless.

Bonnie Tanner, RN

December 17, 2014

I was so sorry to hear of Dr.Darr's recent passing. I worked with Dr. Darr for many years at JFK hospital. He was always such a kind and caring physician, a true gentleman in every sense of the word. My sympathy to his family.

Joy Meredith

December 17, 2014

Dear Jay and Darr family, I am sorry to hear about your dad's passing. May memories of happy times bring you comfort. Blessings to you and your family.

Dr. Kenneth Phillips

December 15, 2014

I was deeply saddened to read of Dr. Darr's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to Lois, Jay, Debbie and Lisa. He was a dear friend to my own father and memories of the great times that were had socially with the Darr's are as vibrant and clear as if they just occurred. Brilliant, intense and with a magnificent sense of humor; he was commanding presence. God bless you Joe.

Brian O'Connor

December 15, 2014

Dr. Darr taught me life lessons that my father couldn't. Truly a great man.

Robert Graves

December 15, 2014

A Great Friend for many years. His passing leaves a void in life.

Carol Brockman Castro

December 14, 2014

I knew of Dr. Darr but did not know him. I was so blessed to read this amazing missive and be reminded of what a "great life" truly is. My deepest condolences to his family, friends and patients. I imagine he is belting out a good old Irish tune, directly to you. With baritone gusto, of course...! May God richly bless him, as he blessed those on earth.

Mackenzie Postel

December 14, 2014

Words cannot express how much I love and miss you Grandpa. I am so blessed to have had such a talented, smart, enterprising, passionate, witty, clever, and loving person as my grandfather. You have always been my role model -- I hope that I can make you as proud of me as I am of you.

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