Mindy Merdinger Blackstock

Mindy Merdinger Blackstock obituary, New York, NY

Mindy Merdinger Blackstock

Mindy Merdinger Blackstock Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 24, 2024.
Ms. Mindy Merdinger Blackstock, a cherished, loving, and compassionate soul, passed away on October 14, 2024, in New York, New York, at the age of 58. Mindy was known for her incredible kindness, empathy, and intellectual spirit. She was a graduate of Dwight Englewood School, Mount Holyoke College, and Benjamin Cardozo Law School, where she formed lifelong friendships and a deep sense of sisterhood.

Mindy had a profound love for knitting, music, literature, a love of Israel and involvement with Young Judaea. She cherished her time spent in Amherst, Massachusetts, with her maternal grandparents and held a special place in her heart for her daughter, Bayla. Her life was a testament to the beauty of genuine connections, devotion to her family and the joy of shared experiences.

Mindy is survived by her beloved daughter, Bertha Bayla Blackstock; her parents, Susan Greenfield (Norberto de la Rosa) and Edward Merdinger (Marsha); her brother, Matthew Merdinger (Maya Levy Merdinger), and their children, Ellie and Eytan; and her devoted life partner, Andrew Lambert, along with his son, Austin.

A graveside funeral took place on October 16 at the Independent Workmen's Circle Cemetery on Baker Street in West Roxbury, Massachusetts. A memorial service followed on October 20 at the Stephen Wise Free Synagogue in New York, New York, where over 300 family and friends gathered to honor her memory.

Donations in Mindy's memory can be made to the:

"Bertha Bayla Blackstock Supplemental Needs Trust October 17, 2017"
c/o Matthew Merdinger
PO Box 230124
178 Columbus Avenue
New York, NY 10023-9998

Mindy's legacy of love and compassion will continue to inspire all who knew her.

May her eternal memory be a blessing.

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December 3, 2024

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November 26, 2024

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D. Miriam Roskin Berger

December 3, 2024

I just learned of Mindy's death and I am terribly saddened. I had been in touch with her just before her surgery and it seemed as if the future was positive. I and my husband, the late Rabbi Meir Berger, knew Mindy from Fort Lee and I was so happy to meet her again at the Stephen Wise Synagogue when we moved to Manhattan in 2016.
Even though we only met a few times after that, I always looked forward to seeing her. She had a beautiful spirit that was expressed in all she did, and I shall miss her very, very much. May her memory be a blessing.

Min Golann

November 26, 2024

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