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Ruby Pesayco Obituary

Ruby Pesayco Ruby Barcelo-Pesayco, 43, was born in Bugasong, Antique, Philippines, on October 9, 1961 and passed away April 13, 2005, in San Jose, California, where she and her family have lived for the last 10 years. She is survived by her husband of 12 years, Joe Marie Pesayco, her 10 year old son John Marie, and 8 year old daughter Jenine. Ruby was born to Eligio Barcelo (deceased) and Raquel Pacete and sister to Jocelyn, Lilibeth Uy, Joel and John Al Barcelo.

Ruby worked as a manager at Marriott Hotel in Santa Clara. Her co-workers remember her for her pleasant disposition and sincere friendliness. Family and friends will miss her goodness and loving care.

Services will be at OAK HILL FUNERAL HOME, 300 Curtner Ave., San Jose. Viewing & visitation on Thursday, April 21, 2005 from 10 am to 9 pm, & on Friday, April 22, 2005 from 9 am to 5 pm, with a Vigil & Rosary at 7 pm at Oak Hill's Chapel of the Oaks. Funeral Mass is Saturday, April 23rd at 10:30 a.m., with a visitation beginning at 10:00 am at Most Holy Trinity Church, 2040 Nassau Drive, corner of Cunningham. Burial rites follow at Oak Hill Memorial Park. Arrangements by Oak Hill Funeral Home.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Apr. 20, 2005.

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Cheryl Feci

May 1, 2025

So much has changed since you passed. Our life in the United States is uncertain. Please pray for us. Hopefully, your family is doing well. May God Bless,

Cheryl Feci

April 14, 2024

May God bless you and your family during the anniversary of your passing in 2024.

Cheryl Feci

April 15, 2023

Time goes by so quickly these days. As of this writing 18 years has gone by. It is a shame these children had to grow up without their mother.
Rest in Peace

Cheryl Feci

April 14, 2019

Memories of Ruby will endure forever, within the hearts of her family. Rest In Peace

Cheryl Feci

April 28, 2005

It is always sad to hear about the death of someone, especially when that someone seems too young to pass on. It is even harder when she leaves behind two young children. I do not know the family personally but I have heard about their loss from my son who is the teacher of one of these children. My heart aches with compassion. I pray God will be merciful and grant the Family of Ruby Pesayco the comfort and strength during this difficult time.

shellie walters

April 21, 2005

Peayco family. Im Shellie from Dr. Tillmanns office. Im so very sorry to hear about your loss. Your wife and mother we loved seeing in our office. WE were all so surprised and very saddened by this news. My prayers are with you.

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