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Matthew Deffebach Obituary
SHASTA LAKE - Matthew was born on July 20, 1982 in Medford Oregon. He moved to Shasta County in 1989.
Matthew graduated from Central Valley High in 2000. He was involved in Little League Baseball, football, and soccer. Matthew's love was motorcycles, fishing, and backpacking.
We know now he is in our Lords loving arms joined with his Grandpa Tony watching over all of us.
He is survived by : mother Michele, father Michael, sisters Miranda Deffebach, Megan Deffebach and Marion. Nieces Savannah, Sierra and Makila, maternal grandmother Joyce Reginato, paternal grandparents Charles and Jewella Deffebach, many aunts and uncles and a large extended family.
Celebration of his life will be on November 3, 2007, 1 p.m. at the Shasta Dam, all friends and family are welcome.
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Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Deffebach
April
January 13, 2025
What a beautiful boy. That smile could light up the world. I'm so sorry you were in so much pain. Life is so unfair sometimes. RIP precious soul.
Mandi Aguilar
November 30, 2007
Matthew,
My thoughts are with your family and loved ones. It has been so long, I guess we all went on our own path after high school. But it doesn't mean hurts any less then when your gone. I can still remember the funny things you use to say and the big smile on your face. Your memory will always be in my heart. Rest in Peace.
Ruthell Faria
November 2, 2007
Jewella and Chuck
So sorry and sad to read of your lose. Your grandson was so young.
My heart goes out to your family.
If you can contact me my old friend
would love to hear from you.
Love to all the family
Ruthell Faria
Kari Shifflett
November 2, 2007
Matthew, safe from pain, safe from judgment, held in God's hands from now on. You have and will always be missed. Dearest nephew, you always will be in our hearts.
James and Sandra Lamberson
November 2, 2007
To Matthew's family: many prayers are going out to you and for Matthew's soul. We all must take comfort for those who believe on the Lord that if we ask, He will provide consolation for your grief and for any of your needs no matter what the situation. Take comfort in HIM. God Bless! (friends of Grandma Joyce R.)
Emily Lopez
November 2, 2007
To Matthew's mom and family--our hearts are broken for you and we pray for God to pour out His comfort into your hearts.
Kathy Haynes
November 1, 2007
To Matthew's parents and family--My heart goes out to you all. My son passed away one month ago and I know the heartache you are feeling. I will pray for you as you heal. One great hope we have as fellow Christians is that we will see our boys again. Praise God for that! My deepest sympathy to you.
Pat Elterman
November 1, 2007
Matthew this is tragic thing for your family. Your are in God's hands now and at peace.
Christina Candelaria
November 1, 2007
Matthew,
I will never forget the impact you have on my life. I haven't seen you in forever it seems. I moved back home a year ago and I've wanted to see you ever since. Knowing that time won't come for a long time breaks me but I hope you never forgot how much I've cared for you. I hope you know that I'll never forget the time you passed me a note from the seat behind me in fourth grade, or the time you rode your bike all the way to my house on valentines day to bring me flowers, or the time you carried me into our senior prom. You'd be so proud of me, I finally learned how to ride motorcycle. All those times on the back of yours prepared me. I know this world can make us restless, and my hope is that you are finally resting. God bless you, Matt. I miss you just as I have for five long years.
Sally Buxa-Rezentes
November 1, 2007
God speed Matthew and go with the angels. We will see one another again in our Father's house.
I love you,
Sally
Deanna Million
November 1, 2007
I miss your laugh so much. I love you precious boy. I am so blessed to have had you in my life and I can't wait to see you again someday. Naner Bug
joanne gimble-boardman
November 1, 2007
Matt, I hope you remember me. I remember that you really liked the indigo snake and the rattlesnakes on display. You did such a great job looking after them and always had a smile. I remember your smile the most. I haven't seen you in a long time, but think about you frequently.
PEACE AND LOVE, Joanne
Taryn Baumgardner
November 1, 2007
You are missed.
Garnet Van Buskirk
November 1, 2007
Rest well Matthew.
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