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Moreau Catholic High School University of Oregon

Brian Menchen Obituary

Brian Daniel Menchen Born Sept. 28, 1984 in Philadelphia, PA; died Oct. 31, 2007 in Fremont, CA. Brian attended the Carey School in San Mateo, Central Junior High in Fremont, and graduated from Moreau Catholic High School in Hayward in 2002. He became a "Duck" at the University of Oregon in Eugene in 2002. He went on to get a bachelors degree in computer science graduating in 2006, and was working at Applied Biosystems in Foster City, CA, as a software engineer. He had a short but intense visit to this life, which he lived on his own terms. His gentle manner and sense of humor touched many hearts, and he will be sorely missed by all of his friends, co-workers, and relatives. He is survived by his parents, Karen Jacobson and Steve Menchen. Services will be held Saturday, November 10, 2007, 12pm at Faith Lutheran Church, 16548 Ferris Ave., Los Gatos, CA. He will be interned at Lifemark Center at Skylawn Memorial Park, Hwy. 92 and Skyline Blvd., San Mateo, CA.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Nov. 6, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Brian Menchen

10 Entries

anonymous

November 14, 2007

To Brian Family's: May you all find peace and comfort soon....

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Chris Bermudez

November 9, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Menchen, and the relatives and friends of Brian Menchen,

My thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with you all during this sad time.

I had Brian in my classes and just met him in the Moreau Catholic Class of 2002 reunion. Brian is a funny and smart guy that kept me entertained.

Again, my condolences to all of you. :(

Fred Christians

November 8, 2007

Dear Steve and Karen,
I was saddened to hear that you lost your son. He sounds like a wonderful young man, and you are to be congratulated for raising him so well. My thoughts and condolences are with you.

Monica Kumar

November 7, 2007

Dear Steve and Karen,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Sincerely,
Monica

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Sonya Clark

November 7, 2007

Steve and Karen -
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Parisa Hanachi

November 7, 2007

Dear Karen and Steve,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss! May you be granted the strenght needed to surpass this challenging time.

Sincerely,

Cheryl Vitali

November 6, 2007

Dear Karen and Steve,

There is not a minute of the day that our family is not thinking and praying for both of you.

Love always,
Cheryl, Tom, Mary, Ryan, & Carol

Dave Holden

November 6, 2007

Steve and Karen,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Sincerely,
Dave Holden

Patti Alejos

November 6, 2007

Karen & Steve,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, every moment of the day. We love you and will be here for you in any way needed.

Love Tish & Jaime

Joaquin Siu

November 6, 2007

Karen and Steve,

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your son. May you be granted the strenght needed to surpass this challenging time.

Sincerely,

Joaquin Siu and Family

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