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Mark Cole Obituary

Cole, Mark A. - Loving Son, Father, Brother Age 36 Survived by mother Ruby Ridgway; sons Michael and Austin; sisters Linda, Cherie, Cynthia (James) Meyer & brother Greg. Funeral service 10:30AM Fri, Aug.29, 2003 at REDEEMING LOVE CHURCH, 2425 White Bear Ave. Visitation 4-8PM Thurs. Aug. 28 at JOHNSON-PETERSON FUNERAL HOME, 2130 2nd St., WBL and 1hr prior to service. Interment Elmhurst Cemetery. johnsonpeterson.com (651-429-7661).

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Published by Pioneer Press on Aug. 27, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
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Gary Cole

September 19, 2003

Mark Cole



Mark, I have known you all your life,

but never sat down with you and talked.



I do know that you are very loved

by your mother, sisters and greg,

they will never forget you.



God bless you and keep you .

Gary,Marge,Cherie and family

Linda (Cole)McGath

September 18, 2003

Its already September,Mark.I was just thinking of you again as i look at your picture on my wall.Love you forever brother. Linda.

Greg Watson

September 17, 2003

WHY WE DON'T DIE





In late September many voices

Tell you you will die.

That leaf says it. That coolness.

All of them are right.



Our many souls -- what

Can they do about it?

Nothing. They're already

Part of the invisible.



Our souls have been

Longing to go home

Anyway. "It's late," they say.

"Lock the door, let's go."



The body doesn't agree. It says,

"We buried a little iron

Ball under that tree.

Let's go get it."





-- Robert Bly

Greg Watson

September 17, 2003

FIRST RAIN AFTER DROUGHT





1.



There is peace among the reflections of trees, skimming the hoods of passing automobiles; as if

over water, as if in flight among the concave skies.



Peace also in the pebbles of rain tumbling off the roofs of sleek black cars, streaming downward in all directions at once. The rain is searching for its purpose on the ground, feeling its way among the hard edges of things.





2.



Were it possible for silence to have an echo, this night would come forth to speak, saying "the silence

does not repeat itself, it is continually new like the rain." Which is why I lie awake tonight and have no idea how to respond.





3.



Brother, should I question now the beauty of the rain, as it falls tonight for the first time on your grave? The undersides of the earth are chill-damp and silent, and the rain insinuates itself like breath, until every dark corridor expands in recognition. Forgive me for loving the rain. It is not breath, but it does what it can. My speech is filled with the rain. How can I abandon it now and still expect to reach you?

Linda McGath(Cole)

September 1, 2003

TO ALL OF YOU WHO LEFT A MESSAGE, THX VERY MUCH. I MISS AND LOVE MY BROTHER, MARK, IT WAS TOO SOON TO LET HIM GO. IT WILL BE A LONG ROAD AHEAD FOR ALL OF US.THE BOYS THANK ALL TOO. LINDA

Jan Hintz

August 31, 2003

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Mark and our prayers are with him in this terrible time. I can't imagine how the boys must feel but I do pray that they are in good hands.

If the Cole family finds my message, I would like an address so that I may send a card.

Debi Brown (Sparks)

August 27, 2003

Linda, Cherie and Family;

We are so sorry with the Untimely death of your brother. Our family family (Cole family) sends there LOVE & PRAYERS with you during this difficult time. I am certain Mark is with his Lord and Savior and looking down upon you and giving you strength to help you get through the upcoming days ahead.

My prayers are for the children may have have the grace of God to get though this horrible untimley death of there FATHER!

Linda I am here for you!!

Love you

Dan & Debi

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