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John W. Aber Jr.

John W. Aber Jr. obituary, Brookline, MA

John Aber Obituary

John William Aber, Jr., known to family, friends, colleagues and students as Jack, passed away peacefully at home on January 12, 2015 from complications associated with cancer at the age of seventy seven. Jack, the son of John William and Rose Lauda Aber, grew up in Washington, Pennsylvania and was the Valedictorian of his class at Washington High School. He attended Pennsylvania State University on an NROTC scholarship, graduating with a degree in Chemistry, and was commissioned an Ensign in the United States Navy. He served as the Engineering Officer aboard the USS John Hood, a Fletcher-class destroyer, and later as an instructor in the NROTC Program at Columbia University. Following five years of active duty in the Navy, Jack remained in the Naval Reserve for twenty years, retiring as Lieutenant Commander. Jack forged many friendships in the Navy and had the good fortune of meeting his wife and soulmate, Cynthia, while in Newport, Rhode Island, thus beginning a nearly 60 year partnership. Jack received his MBA at Columbia University and subsequently entered the doctoral program at Harvard Business School on a McKenzie Scholarship. Following graduation, he was appointed to the faculty at Georgia State University in Atlanta but returned to Boston in 1972 to join the faculty at the Boston University School of Management as an Assistant Professor of Finance. Jack has lived in Brookline, Massachusetts ever since. Jack had a wonderfully satisfying 40 year teaching career at BU, retiring in 2012 as Professor Emeritus. He served as Chairman of the Finance and Economics Department for more than twelve years and was the recipient of numerous awards in recognition of his teaching excellence, including multiple Professor of the Year awards. Jack taught primarily in the graduate and executive MBA programs and, for many years, taught the core banking law class in the BU School of Law. He was instrumental in the creation of many innovative programs and taught in several overseas programs for BU including in Japan and Korea. Jacks colleagues respected his scholarship, trusted his leadership and treasured his kinship. He was also deeply admired and celebrated by his students: his former student Doug Chamberlain established the Jack W. Aber Scholarship in his honor, and another former student, Rajen Kilachand, recalled Jacks special attention and care when he donated $25 million to BU (the largest in the schools history). Jack kept in close contact with many former students over the years and was immensely proud of all their success and achievements in the business world. In addition to his teaching, Jack enjoyed serving as an independent trustee on several mutual fund boards, including funds affiliated with AMG, Appleton Partners, Aston Asset Management and Third Avenue Management. Jack was an enthusiastic supporter and consumer of the Arts, including fine art, architecture, antiques, oriental rugs, theatre, music, books and movies. He was an avid collector of American Art Pottery through the years, and had an extensive collection of 45 RPM records dating from the 1950s that he cherished. Jack and Cindy shared a love of travel and frequently combined their passions, such as when they would return from trips to Italy and England with sets of Majolica earthenware and Limoges china. Jack enjoyed cooking and entertaining, getting immense pleasure from hosting family holiday gatherings and large dinner parties. Guests invariably commented on his specially-made, alphabetically-organized 75-jar spice rack hanging prominently in the kitchen, which wittily ended with a jar labeled Waiting for Godot. After meeting Cindy, Jack fell in love with the verdant landscape of her hometown, Tiverton, Rhode Island. He and Cindy found the perfect location to build a summer home on the Sakonnet river and, after building the unique contemporary-style home, Jack made annual improvements and additions of rooms and decks to accommodate his evolving and growing family. Family and home life was always paramount for Jack, and he was very proud of his three children and seven grandchildren, whom he cherished spending time with. Jack looked forward to the extended family gatherings nearly every Sunday, whether in Brookline or Tiverton. He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Cindy, his son and daughter-in-law John and Tracy Aber of Newton, Massachusetts, his daughter and son-in-law Valerie and Normand Vermette of Brookline, Massachusetts, his son and daughter-in-law Alex and Livia Aber of West Newton, Massachusetts, his sister Kay Stumpf of Boynton Beach, Florida, and his grandchildren: John, Jack, Nicholas, Jude, Nina, Natalie and Lucy. A memorial service celebrating Jacks life will be held in the Spring. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to Dr. Lecia V. Sequist of the Massachusetts General Hospital Cancer Center or to the Jack W. Aber Scholarship fund at the Boston University School of Management.

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Published by The Brookline Tab from Jan. 15 to Jan. 22, 2015.

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January 27, 2015

My condolences are for you and your family at this time of loss. May you find comfort in knowing that prayers being offered for you and yours.

irene rev.21:4

January 27, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

George

January 22, 2015

I'm so spey to hear if your loss. I pray you receive love and comfort from your friends and family. Please also find some comfort from God's word at 2 Cor. 1:4.

January 21, 2015

May God strengthen and comfort. the family during your time of sorrow.

A L

January 19, 2015

Moreover, may our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and gave everlasting comfort and good hope by means of undeserved kindness, comfort your hearts and make you firm in every good deed and word.

Donna Bernier

January 19, 2015

So sorry to hear of Jacks passing. He was a good man, husband, and father with a life well lived. He will be missed.

January 17, 2015

My prayers and deepest condolences in the loss of such an inspiring professor and true gentleman. May his love of learning, teaching and life continue to challenge us to a higher reach.

With sympathy,
Christine Napoli-Farmer
BU SMG '85 GSM '92

Tom Rezendes

January 16, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

January 16, 2015

Cindy and family,
My prayer and condolences to you and your familes. I am so glad we all got to reunite at the family reunion and may Jack finally rest in peace.

Claire and Stan Cheevers and Helen-Ann

John Shea

January 15, 2015

Though you may not have the the musical arranger you always professed you would have liked to have been, your arrangement and orchestration of the many lives you touched was far more important. With your "gentle" questioning and critiques of choices, your insistence on education and your ability to clear any and all obstacles that get in the way, you proved what friendship truly means. So no matter where you are, Jack, I hope Jo Stafford is singing and Billy May and Nelson Riddle are orchestrating the music you loved so much.

Michelle

January 15, 2015

My sympathies to the family in your loss. May God (Psalm83:18)help you to cope during this difficult time.

Jon Sampson

January 14, 2015

Dear Aber family - My condolences and prayers, he was a great man and although it's been a while, I have fond memories and was honored to know him. My family and I wish you the best during this difficult time.

Laurice Saggese

January 14, 2015

Dear Alex and Family,

I was very sad to hear about your father's passing. Hopefully there is some comfort in knowing that he is at rest now and no more suffering to come. Although I did not know your Dad personally (except through our talks over the years) it is clear that he was an extraordinary person, husband, father and grandfather. I'm sure he will be sorely missed. Hold on to your cherised memories they will help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God Bless You All!

Laurice Saggese

Elizabeth Dick

January 14, 2015

Jack was a wonderful professor and colleague, he will be greatly missed. My condolences to his family and friends.

January 14, 2015

Jack was a wonderful friend and colleague. We will miss him greatly and we offer our sincere condolences to Cindy and the entire family. Pat and Joan Kaufmann

January 14, 2015

My condolences . Mathew 5:5

John and Marion Daley

January 13, 2015

We recall with fondness our association with Jack, Cindy, and the entire Aber family at the Paulist Center in Boston.
John and Marion Daley
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